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cutecommend:
A man said "When the gift is open before its time, no excitement"... How many men get excited on wedding night when their wife is not a virgin?

If your husband marries you a virgin, he may likely get proud of you.

If you are not a virgin, you can still be the best wife; but ladies should stop broke-shaming men; else they should not get offended if there comes a great escalation of men needing virgins.

tanigororo:
You want me to argue that hymen symbolises purity, which is not the bone of contention.
We are not talking about artificial hymen, even with the artificial hymen it doesn't make you a virgin. A smart man will always know it's fake.
Their is nothing like male virginity, know that and know peace.

MasterJayJay:
A virgin man will disagree with you because it is stupidity to group community penis and brand-new penis in one group.

MasterJayJay:
A virgin man will disagree with you because it is stupidity to group community penis and brand-new penis in one group.


Bible acknowledged male virginity. Revelation, where in Revelation 7:1-8 God seals 144,000 males of all the tribes of the children of Israel, and in Revelation 14:1-5 where we are told that they were virgins....

So hush!

cutecommend:
If several women may enjoy broke-shaming men who do not have or do not have enough, should men raise a strong alarm for the need for virginity?
If men begin to insist on virginity, maybe these ladies that are after money may sit up.

Wainey:
Poor man don drop motivational quote.

MasterJayJay:
A virgin man will disagree with you because it is stupidity to group community penis and brand-new penis in one group.


Bible acknowledged male virginity. Revelation, where in Revelation 7:1-8 God seals 144,000 males of all the tribes of the children of Israel, and in Revelation 14:1-5 where we are told that they were virgins....

So hush!

Tightpussy2024:
They have recruited you to? To the vengeful cult?it's okay to be resentful,but don't dwell too much. Glycolysis ,capslocked etc and the rest that left redpill after starting,know that you should give yourself the opportunity to enjoy life . The girls that rejected you are not going to suffer,no punishment for them. Make peace with this

cutecommend:
What is the purpose of women sleeping around before marriage?

Tightpussy2024:
You will not blame them will you? Imagine a man having 3 baby mamas but you yourself girls ghost you after you hustle to arrange date. Imagine knowing that what you view in porn,you may never experience it.

I don blame them for their anger,is just that they should not dwell on it or start scheming how to
punish women. Or deceive yourself into thinking you become an alpha by living in revenge mode or reading books or blogs by hungry influencers . Alphas are born not made . Thomas Shelby,John wick, prince daemon are alphas.And I don't know any alpha on God green earth that talks about women

Shebi they say trauma makes men stronger,so what's up?

immortalcrown:
What is the purpose of men sleeping around before marriage?

Until you explain the purpose of virginity, you are a sentimental noisemaker.

Only a hypocrite like you will openly use virginity against women but will not be bold enough to state the purpose of virginity.

Tell us what you know as the purpose of virginity, let us see how virginity applies to only women.

cutecommend:
What makes some ladies sleep with their Exes few days or weeks etc to their wedding day? If they were virgins they may not try so. Virgins have more tendency to be faithful in marriage: not all though. Imagine a lady having the sexual experience of 15 men before marriage. She may find it difficult to be sexually glued to her hubby. She may be tempted to commit adultery later..
Virginity is for both male and female

immortalcrown:
Imagine a man sleeping with 15 women before getting married. Why do some men sleep with their ex a few days before or after their wedding?

What is the purpose of men sleeping around before marriage?

Until you explain the purpose of virginity, you are a sentimental noisemaker.

Only a hypocrite like you will openly use virginity against women but will not be bold enough to state the purpose of virginity.

Tell us what you know as the purpose of virginity, let us see how virginity applies to only women.

cutecommend:
How many ladies can boast of sleeping with 15 men? They may be ashamed.....
Keep your virginity for your husband ooh..

Wont you like "I married my wife a virgin"?

immortalcrown:
Imagine a man sleeping with 15 women before getting married. Why do some men sleep with their ex a few days before or after their wedding?

What is the purpose of men sleeping around before marriage?

Until you explain the purpose of virginity, you are a sentimental noisemaker.

Only a hypocrite like you will openly use virginity against women but will not be bold enough to state the purpose of virginity.

Tell us what you know as the purpose of virginity, let us see how virginity applies to only women.

cutecommend:
If several women may enjoy broke-shaming men who do not have or do not have enough, should men raise a strong alarm for the need for virginity?
If men begin to insist on virginity, maybe these ladies that are after money may sit up.

okoroemeka:
only a naive man can expect to marry a virgin in this era that 70-80% of 16 yr old are already knacking and sucking,real men value respect and loyalty not the mileage on your pussy

immortalcrown:
What is the purpose of men sleeping around before marriage?

Until you explain the purpose of virginity, you are a sentimental noisemaker.

Only a hypocrite like you will openly use virginity against women but will not be bold enough to state the purpose of virginity.

Tell us what you know as the purpose of virginity, let us see how virginity applies to only women.

immortalcrown:
Imagine a man sleeping with 15 women before getting married. Why do some men sleep with their ex a few days before or after their wedding?

What is the purpose of men sleeping around before marriage?

Until you explain the purpose of virginity, you are a sentimental noisemaker.

Only a hypocrite like you will openly use virginity against women but will not be bold enough to state the purpose of virginity.

Tell us what you know as the purpose of virginity, let us see how virginity applies to only women.

tundebasic:
I've highlighted some importance of virginity, especially for women. Can you state the importance or merits of sleeping around?

immortalcrown:
Can you point out where I stated that sleeping around has any merit?

tundebasic:
I don't like discussing about this, but, the importance of virginity for women comes from cultural, religious, and health perspectives.

In terms of health:
1. You are marrying a woman with intact uterus and fallopian tube. Ones not damaged by endless abortions.
2. Hormonal imbalance is most common in women who are nonvirgins.
3. The risk of STI/STD is very low in virgins.
4. Virgins are not incurable viral disease carriers. The risk of HIV, herpes, is reduced, (even arguably, hepatitis).

Culturally:
1. The risk of children outside wedlock is reduced (Yorubas call these children bastards).
2. There is no culture that I know in Nigeria that celebrates whoreism. But in the past, our culture celebrates virgins as a sign of home training, determination, dependability, integrity, and self-respect.
3. Keeping your virginity shows that you uphold cultural values.
4. There are some African monarchs who only marry virgins even till today as a cultural tradition.
5. Children inside wedlock reduce the likelihood of occurrence of social vices, rebellion, and tuggery.
6. The risk of fathering other people's children reduces.
7. The risk of poisoning you to bury secrets reduces.
8. The risk of you hanging yourself, having a HBP or stroke after fathering other people's children reduces.
10. There will be no dick measuring contest, since your woman will be satisfied, having not tasted all the men in your community before settling with you.
11. Etc.

Religious view:
1a. This is my own perspective, but I think virginity should be the number one criteria for determining religious hypocrites.
1b. If you can keep your virginity, it'll not be too difficult to keep other commandments.
2. Women who uphold the sexual purity values are good enough to born a Messiah. Think about it.
3. For Christians, God demands virginity for both gender. It is a demand, an instruction, even a command.
4. Sexual perversion is a sin against self. The same "self" that is the temple of God.

tundebasic:
So, what was the basis of your argument?

immortalcrown:
Helath:
Sleeping around can damage a man's health through contraction of STDs.

Culturally:
You spoke about cultural celebration of virgin women. Is there a culture that condemn male virginity?

If men are culturally expected to sleep around before marriage, which women should the men sleep with? Will those men bed the single women that are expected to remain virgins until marriage? Or, will those men sleep with married women? Answer this question. Your answer will address every other thing you wrote here.

tundebasic:
While I don't have time for baseless arguments, you asked what was the importance of female virginity, I pointed them out to you. That's all, enjoy.

cutecommend:
A man said "When the gift is open before its time, no excitement"... How many men get excited on wedding night when their wife is not a virgin?

If your husband marries you a virgin, he may likely get proud of you.

If you are not a virgin, you can still be the best wife; but ladies should stop broke-shaming men; else they should not get offended if there comes a great escalation of men needing virgins.

immortalcrown:
You joined the argument without understanding its origin.

First, I never asked for the importance of female virginity. What I asked for is the importance of virginity. My question here is not gender-based. There is a reason I didn't specify any gender in the question.
I stated earlier that I don't have time for baseless arguments. Let me tell you why female virginity is most stressed.

Second, go and read the comments I exchanged with my main opponent in the argument. Then, you will understand why I asked the opponent to state the importance of virginity. You will also understand why the opponent has been dodging the question.

In fact, you don't need to re
ad the previous comments I exchanged with the main opponent. This is because I clearly explained, in my comment that you quoted, that the opponent's answer to the very question will show whether virginity applies to only women.

Third, you didn't consider the argument baseless until I confronted you with facts you can't deny. Instead of you to admit that you were biased in your cultural, health and religious analysis of female virginity, you have quickly considered the argument baseless.

tundebasic:
I read the thread from the first page, and I see you asking the importance of virginity. I wrote why it is important for both genders, so, I wonder why you are still asking the importance for females.

But, female virginity needs to be stressed because of these reasons:

1. Women mostly bear the consequences that comes from premarital sex.
2. Men do not have uterus or fallopian tube, do they?
3. If all the women in the world are virgins, automatically, the men too will be (not adressing homo or bestiality).
4. Men can stress virginity in a lady because it is a cultural and religious requirement.

Financial responsibility is a demand for both gender, but if one of the genders can stress financial stability before marriage, then no one should blame the other gender for asking for one who still has her feminity intact.

immortalcrown:
Did you not see what warrants the question from me? Also, did you not see where I said that his answer will show whether virginity applies to only women?

Helath:
Sleeping around can damage a man's health through contraction of STDs.

Culturally:
You spoke about cultural celebration of virgin women. Is there a culture that condemn male virginity?

If men are culturally expected to sleep around before marriage, which women should the men sleep with? Will those men bed the single women that are expected to remain virgins until marriage? Or, will those men sleep with married women? Answer this question. Your answer will address every other thing you wrote here.