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Tokskob2008:
I really don't care about the happenings at the filling station but that you place her on a weekly wages even when is working is very embarrassing and SIMPish if I might add.

Attendants at filling stations do make little gains daily yet you as a driver which is not an easy job decided to be adding to it just because she is your girlfriend
I won't even be suprised if you never placed any of your siblings or even parents on such wages scheme.

First of what she did for me, she deserves more than that 2k sef. Imagine someone that made me stop masturbating and bet9ja, two things that almost ruined my life.
When I was still a chronic bettor, I lost more than 5k and sometimes 10k daily.
As for my siblings, all are doing well more than me and doesn't even need my penny.
The only other person I'm taking care of who's my only daughter gets 3k everyday which I give to my aunt taking care of her

Anabosee:
(Don't bite the hands that feeds you).... normally she Bleep up sha.

But why place her on 60k monthly salary?
Guy una never wan get sense for woman or relationship matter.

I drive keke before and I nor place any body on daily salary or monthly wages haba mana.

U put your parents on daily salary? Tueh

Na him make the thing pain you so much na. U are investing in relationship.

U never see anything yet. Infact increase her daily wages she go still fall your hand.

My friend everybody is different. First of, my mum and dad is late. My other siblings are more wealthier than me.
Lastly, she deserves more than 2k sef, this is somebody that made me stop sport betting aka "baby". Do you know how much I lost on that thing everyday before. So giving her 2k is a chicken change from over 10k I made daily

idahme:
You can't approbate and reprobate at the same time

Anyone who thinks is a man's duty to take care of a girlfriend or a wife can't have a contrary opinion of not using corruption to fill up the boyfriend's can with PMS unless you think otherwise then your opinion is valid.

Where I will have a problem with your opinion is when you think you are entitled to a man's money and that it's a man's duty to feed your lazy ass because you are a woman and at the same time you are not entitled to fraudulently give the man PMS because he is not entitled to getting PMS expressly from your station even if he comes last.

What I see most times is that people cherry pick what suits their selfish interest and not for the greater good of all its only in your selfish interest when the man goes the extra miles to give you free money but not in your interest when you go the extra miles to give him speedy PMS. I support people who are consistent irrespective of whose ox is voted and not cherry pickers. I only dissected a better representation of the ladies comment you called rubbish hope same applies to me also?

Comprehension!!!

*The person I quoted up there said "people are talking rubbish" for stating their opinion.

Feeling entitled to a man's money is not part of the deal for me and other people...

But I'm sure what the OP does for this said girl is from the goodness of his heart and wasn't forced to do so.

Using that now as a blackmail in this case is petty 💯.

If he needed that fuel so bad, he should have preinformed her and I'm sure she'd have done the needful. Not trying to make a show out of it.

Anabosee:
Oga calm down this is Nigeria.
If your junior brother is working at a queued up fuel station, you will be happy with him that he didn't sell for you before the fuel finish?
Talk truth o today is Sunday

Lolz, help me ask am.

idahme:
You can't approbate and reprobate at the same time

Anyone who thinks is a man's duty to take care of a girlfriend or a wife can't have a contrary opinion of not using corruption to fill up the boyfriend's can with PMS unless you think otherwise then your opinion is valid.

Where I will have a problem with your opinion is when you think you are entitled to a man's money and that it's a man's duty to feed your lazy ass because you are a woman and at the same time you are not entitled to fraudulently give the man PMS because he is not entitled to getting PMS expressly from your station even if he comes last.

What I see most times is that people cherry pick what suits their selfish interest and not for the greater good of all its only in your selfish interest when the man goes the extra miles to give you free money but not in your interest when you go the extra miles to give him speedy PMS. I support people who are consistent irrespective of whose ox is voted and not cherry pickers. I only dissected a better representation of the ladies comment you called rubbish hope same applies to me also?

Mehn, you wan kill me with me grammar. You're spot on man.

Anabosee:
When I was in a relationship with a pump attendant whenever I come she sell fuel on my 4 liter gallon ignoring everyone including cars and bikes and tricycles.
That was pure love then. Love Sweet sha.

Gbam! That's how it's supposed to be

Kvarachi:
She ought to cuz she said the right thing

Okay o.

Make una enjoy.

If you didn't want people to say 'rubbish' about your issues you shouldn't have brought it up here.

Abi you were expecting everyone to pat your back

That'd would have been very lame.

RoyalBlu:
Okay o.

Make una enjoy.

If you didn't want people to say 'rubbish' about your issues you shouldn't have brought it up here.

Abi you were expecting everyone to pat your back

That'd would have been very lame.

Mehn, I respected everyone's opinion including urs. I only respected her opinion more than urs.

Why not just pick her calls and tell her your mind, she might adjust.

Kvarachi:
Mehn, I respected everyone's opinion including urs. I only respected her opinion more than urs.

Her opinion is very valid too right.

But calling other people's opinions 'rubbish' is what irked me.

RoyalBlu:
Comprehension!!!

*The person I quoted up there said "people are talking rubbish" for stating their opinion.

Feeling entitled to a man's money is not part of the deal for me and other people...

But I'm sure what the OP does for this said girl is from the goodness of his heart and wasn't forced to do so.

Using that now as a blackmail in this case is petty 💯.

If he needed that fuel so bad, he should have preinformed her and I'm sure she'd have done the needful. Not trying to make a show out of it.

Typical women attitude, you are bringing up blackmail because accountability is the biggest thing for most women. What the OP does is for the goodness of his heart madam cherry picker

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
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I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
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To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
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When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
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Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
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Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

See, lemme tell you the truth. Favouritism is everywhere, even in the US. Even the ones who are accusing you of being entitled have in one way or the other enjoyed favouritism.

There should be a point of someone. If your babe couldn't pull that thru for you then what's the point of her in that place?

idahme:
Typical women attitude, you are bringing up blackmail because accountability is the biggest thing for most women. What the OP does is for the goodness of his heart madam cherry picker

It's now 'typical women attitude' Na so.
Accountability C'mon.

And we're all clamouring for a better country o.

Whatever happens to first come, first serve

OP and his girlfriend go dey alright.

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
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Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

You sef, why daily allowance . Use your head please .
Fu<king can continue but stop giving her money. Give her one week and change am for her

Hope you dy send your mama and sisters 2k daily also……
2k * 7=14k

14k*4=56k

56k monthly to a girlfriend plus some other expenses 😎😎

You are a joker bro,them suppose hit you 2 by 2 plank for head to correct am….

I want to say thank you to everyone that air their opinion, including insulting ones. I respect your opinions. But I'm also saying a special thank you to those that think in my direction. So thank you to ZONEFREE, DUCHEEZ and ANABOSEE.
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Now let me use this one stone to kill those many birds that didn't agree with me and said so many insulting words.
First of: for the person that said I'm feeling entitled and wants to be giving privilege. That filling station is an isolated filling station that's along the back end of Badagry expressway Lagos state. You'll hardly see more than two vehicles at a time buying fuel there, sometime last year my fuel finished right in front of this filling station which prompt me to go get fuel there. That was when I saw my present girl there, I liked her and bcus of her I started frequenting the station while also trying to get her to be mine, which she eventually agreed February this year.
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The management and almost all her colleagues now knows we are an item, except for the newly employed ones. Bcus of how I frequent the station, the management gave me a gift during easter and sometimes I buy fuel there on credit.
So ystday's fault was solely on my girl, cuz if I should raise alarm the management will answer me immediately, it's bcuz of fuel scarcity that made even some people that doesn't know the filling station exist come there ystday.
So why won't I feel privilege to get fuel anytime I want especially during this scarcity, and more especially my own girl is the one serving.
It's her office and she's supposed to bend the rules somehow for her man irrespective of what any other customer will say.
I want to put it to you all who said she did the right thing. If your closed friend, brother, relations e.t.c is in that kind of position and ignores you, how will you feel?.
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Now to those who thinks I'm simp for placing her on 2k daily allowance. First of that 2k is only on the days I go to work.
And then, honestly she deserves more than that 2k sef. Before I met her I used to be a chronic masturbator and bettor. She made me stop those two bad habit. And you all know in betting which is bet9ja, it's very dangerous.
I lost up to 10k daily playing that one called "baby", the least I lose is 5k daily, so why will giving her 2k out of more than 10k I made daily be a worried to me.
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Presently my both parents are dead and all my siblings are times 2 or even 3 well to do more than me. I have an only daughter which is been taking care of by my aunt and I give her 3k everyday.
So in all this, I still want to hear where all your grouses are coming from.
Call me a SIMP I don't care, I'm use to loving any girl like that. I don't double date.
But if you f$ck up, na ur lost.
Happy Sunday everyone!

viceddy95:
Hope you dy send your mama and sisters 2k daily also……
2k * 7=14k

14k*4=56k

56k monthly to a girlfriend plus some other expenses 😎😎

You are a joker bro,them suppose hit you 2 by 2 plank for head to correct am….

Go down and read my general answer to this your assertion, thank you

If they say bus drivers don't have brains now. You guys will start shouting. But I know it's not all bus drivers that are like this. This one just chose to be foolish.

FRANCISTOWN:
See, lemme tell you the truth. Favouritism is everywhere, even in the US. Even the ones who are accusing you of being entitled have in one way or the other enjoyed favouritism.

There should be a point of someone. If your babe couldn't pull that thru for you then what's the point of her in that place?

Thank you bro for your assertion

RoyalBlu:
Her opinion is very valid too right.

But calling other people's opinions 'rubbish' is what irked me.

Sorry, I don't condole the rubbish part

Mr man,I wouldn't blame the girl for what she did,she is a law abiding citizen before anyone and that is the kind of persons we need in this frustrating country.
1.she is your woman and u are entitled for free fuel even 4 litres everyday.
2.with all the long queue which some people wait for 3 hrs to get fuel.
3you expect her to attend to you immediately because you are bashing her.you should have thought of the fuel you need the next day and give her the gallon to buy for you down before you show up.
4 it has be ban for pump attendant to sell fuel in gallon except u come with a car and it's limited
5.what you could have done without anyone wiser was to drop the gallon and tell her the amount you want and come back and pick it up in five minutes time since you are privileged boyfriend but you did not think of it.
6.your girlfriend is sweet To me but u are feeling entitled because she is dating you and what happens when she get sack,if someone powerful see her attending to you immediately carry the matter for head or video what corrupt country we are in while attending to you.

Wait your turn man, cause you're giving her 2k doesn't mean she should get fired from the station and lose her daily bread.

She eff up, watin come be the perks of being your babe? If you like the pekus continue dey nak but no take her serious cos she go no go ever dey there for you in future too

Don’t lose a good girl because of foolishness
Pick her calls and apologize for being childish
Then take her out to an eatery today
The fact she smiled at you and told you to wait
There must be a reason…
Someone who saved you from chronic gambling and masturbation .. you want to drop her because she didn’t sell you fuel early … it would have been a different scenario if she’s the owner of the station but common man she’s just an attendant and eyes might be on her ….
Your village people are really controlling you

Kvarachi:
My friend everybody is different. First of, my mum and dad is late. My other siblings are more wealthier than me.
Lastly, she deserves more than 2k sef, this is somebody that made me stop sport betting aka "baby". Do you know how much I lost on that thing everyday before. So giving her 2k is a chicken change from over 10k I made daily

Before you do that kin thing for woman. She must be your wife, apart from that, that is simping weda you like it or not, women don't value men like that. Try to upgrade urself with that money you are giving her. Follow other pump attendant buy fuel, ghost her baba, she deserves to be taught a BITTER LESSON.

Op dey do 2k Ajo everyday, Dey Play .. U gonna learn in a hard way . Na my advice be this.

liveyourlife007:
If they say bus drivers don't have brains now. You guys will start shouting. But I know it's not all bus drivers that are like this. This one just chose to be foolish.

Seriously, ok you that your brain is full and smoking. Kindly share for us thank you

Where your monthly 2k bribe come lead you now? Mu Mu men gonna luarn

Hustlerlomo:
Op dey do 2k Ajo everyday, Dey Play .. U gonna learn in a hard way . Na my advice be this.

Sometimes this your suggestion irks me. Do they tell you I don't have savings. My conductor drinks beer everyday that's worth 3k, what will you say about that.
What of people that smokes 3 packet and other things everyday, should they save that too

Remmedy:
Don’t lose a good girl because of foolishness
Pick her calls and apologize for being childish
Then take her out to an eatery today
The fact she smiled at you and told you to wait
There must be a reason…
Someone who saved you from chronic gambling and masturbation .. you want to drop her because she didn’t sell you fuel early … it would have been a different scenario if she’s the owner of the station but common man she’s just an attendant and eyes might be on her ….
Your village people are really controlling you

Hahaha, thank you for your advice. I'm not leaving her. Just wanna do small shakara

Kvarachi:
Sometimes this your suggestion irks me. Do they tell you I don't have savings. My conductor drinks beer everyday that's worth 3k, what will you say about that.
What of people that smokes 3 packet and other things everyday, should they save that too

I once worked with a simple in appearance Boss who had so many staff and many customers. But when his wife comes for medical attention,she joins the waiting queue to see the doctor of her choice

Trying to beat fuel queue when people have been waitng to buy fuel could be dangerous to You who wants to skip people who have been waiting and your girl who sells the fuel

You dont know who is who. Someone on the line could reject the chancing, start a fight or a fire or even assault either or both of You and the person could have superior fighting skills, government or military connections to walk away scot free because both of You are wrong

People are frustrated and angry and are looking for who to pour their anger on.

Besides You are dating or marrying her does not mean she should
openly show favouritism at work

So if You are working as a cashier in a bank, would your girlfriend or wife just come and see a line of people waiting for you to attend to them and just jump ahead of people waiting so You can take her withhdrawal slip and give her money.

If You go for an xray and you and other people are waiting till it reaches your turn, and suddenly someone comes and is allowed to enter for xray that is not emergency because the person is the xray womans husband or sister, would you agree

There should be professionalism and not open bias at work