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Anabosee:
(Don't bite the hands that feeds you).... normally she Bleep up sha.

But why place her on 60k monthly salary?
Guy una never wan get sense for woman or relationship matter

I drive keke before and I nor place any body on daily salary or monthly wages haba mana.

U put your parents on daily salary? Tueh

Na him make the thing pain you so much na. U are investing in relationship.

U never see anything yet. Infact increase her daily wages she go still fall your hand.

@Emboldened
Hehehe
There ain't no saving these Nigerian niggas mehn...
When the lady did what she did and ran over to speak to him,all he was supposed to do was quietly listen,speak calmly and re-strategize his role in the relationship (if he really considered her action as a slight against him) but like the emotional biitch that he is,he got upset and zoomed off.

It shows this relationship cannot lead to a happy home therefore stop investing in it. She is not in love with you.

mablie:
@Emboldened
Hehehe
There ain't no saving these Nigerian niggas mehn...
When the lady did what she did and ran over to speak to him,all he was supposed to do was quietly listen,speak calmly and re-strategize his role in the relationship (if he really considered her action as a slight against him) but like the emotional biitch that he is,he got upset and zoomed off.

Hahaha, I laugh in swahili

Kvarachi:
Hahaha, I laugh in swahili

Concentrate drive motor o, this online banter never ends and is mostly misleading. You know the right thing to do, talk to your girl and tell her how you felt, I’m sure you’ll both learn from this experience and be better for it

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
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I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
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To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
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When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
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Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
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Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

Get a big save and be putting that 2k you use to give your girlfriend.... Break the save after a year and use the money to invest in a side business or something else that will be fetching you more money⚠️

Stop taking care of a liability in the name of relationship!!!!

Any girl that's not willing to build with you shouldn't be in your life, if you fail to build yourself.... You will drive that bus forever i tell you.

sanya4good:
It shows this relationship cannot lead to a happy home therefore stop investing in it. She is not in love with you.

Huuh, really?

tochez24:
Get a big save and be putting that 2k you use to give your girlfriend.... Break the save after a year and use the money to invest in a side business or something else that will be fetching you more money⚠️

Stop taking care of a liability in the name of relationship!!!!

Any girl that's not willing to build with you shouldn't be in your life, if you fail to build yourself.... You will drive that bus forever i tell you.

Why is everybody all about the 2k I'm giving her. So I will be giving somebody 2k and I won't have a savings of my own.
Some people spend more than 2k everyday on frivolities, do we advice those ones too to be saving the money.
People spends more than 2k on beer, smoking and what not everyday, should they have been saving that too.
Ok most people that hasn't been giving babes, or drinking or other frivolities. How much have they save?
Enough of all this 2k should have done this or that for me

iLoveYouToo:
Concentrate drive motor o, this online banter never ends and are mostly misleading. You know the right thing to do, talk to your girl and tell her how you felt, I’m sure you’ll both learn from this experience and be better for it

Lolz, thank you. How do you know I'm driving and trying to reply?

Laird:
I once worked with a simple in appearance Boss who had so many staff and many customers. But when his wife comes for medical attention,she joins the waiting queue to see the doctor of her choice

Trying to beat fuel queue when people have been waitng to buy fuel could be dangerous to You who wants to skip people who have been waiting and your girl who sells the fuel

You dont know who is who. Someone on the line could reject the chancing, start a fight or a fire or even assault either or both of You and the person could have superior fighting skills, government or military connections to walk away scot free because both of You are wrong


People are frustrated and angry and are looking for who to pour their anger on.

Besides You are dating or marrying her does not mean she should
openly show favouritism at work

So if You are working as a cashier in a bank, would your girlfriend or wife just come and see a line of people waiting for you to attend to them and just jump ahead of people waiting so You can take her withhdrawal slip and give her money.

If You go for an xray and you and other people are waiting till it reaches your turn, and suddenly someone comes and is allowed to enter for xray that is not emergency because the person is the xray womans husband or sister, would you agree

There should be professionalism and not open bias at work

Good talk, but this is Nigeria sometimes you bend the rules for your own.

Kvarachi:
Why is everybody all about the 2k I'm giving her. So I will be giving somebody 2k and I won't have a savings of my own.
Some people spend more than 2k everyday on frivolities, do we advice those ones too to be saving the money.
People spends more than 2k on beer, smoking and what not everyday, should they have been saving that too.
Ok most people that hasn't been giving babes, or drinking or other frivolities. How much have they save?
Enough of all this 2k should have done this or that for me

Are you seriously asking why everyone is about the 2k?

OP you wanted the show. Now you've got it.
Some info should be private. But you threw in everything hoping for your girl to be bashed. Shey you're now satisfied.

After your shakara finish, goan fix what wasn't broken in the first place.

Kvarachi:
Good talk, but this is Nigeria sometimes you bend the rules for your own.

So if You as a bus driver have been waiting on the bus parkline for your turn to load your bus with passengers and suddenly a bus just comes and is put ahead of every bus in the line because the bus owner is one of the bus park loaders girlfriend. You will agree

She did the right thing. Work professionalism is different from emotional sentiments and tantrums


Stop encouraging improper behaviour.

A lot of I.Q's and orientations in Nigeria need recalibration

RoyalBlu:
Are you seriously asking why everyone is about the 2k?

OP you wanted the show. Now you've got it.
Some info should be private. But you threw in everything hoping for your girl to be bashed. Shey you're now satisfied.

After your shakara finish, goan fix what wasn't broken in the first place.

And lastly, there's nothing to fix cuz there wasn't anything broken in the first place. Both of us are good as I'm talking to you now, thanks anyways for your concerns
Lolz, in the first place I wasn't showing off anything by mentioning of the 2k. I only did that to emphasis that somebody I'm doing such for should have giving me some priority before others

You should have given her the Jerrycan with money to go and get fuel for you.

Laird:
So if You as a bus driver have been waiting on the bus parkline for your turn to load your bus with passengers and suddenly a bus just comes and is put ahead of every bus in the line because the bus owner is one of the bus park loaders girlfriend. You will agree

A lot of I.Q's and orientations in Nigeria need recalibration

Stop acting as if you're not in Nigeria, same park that we will queue chairman's bus will just come and load.
Same park that we will queue another driver who might have used his bus to do one thing for one of the executives and they will give him free loading.
Same filling station that we will queue and uniform man will just come from nowhere and entered the front and buy.
Same filling station that we will queue and the owner will bring someone and tells the attendant sell for this person now and nobody will cough.
See my friend all these things happen every now and then and nothing anybody on that queue can do about it. They can only talk ad grumble

VillagePipu:
You should have given her the Jerrycan with money to go and get fuel for you.

Honestly I wasn't expecting the queue in the first place cuz their filling station is in an isolated place and I'm among the few that patronizes them. If not I would have called her before I got there

Kvarachi:
And lastly, there's nothing to fix cuz there wasn't anything broken in the first place. Both of us are good as I'm talking to you now, thanks anyways for your concerns
Lolz, in the first place I wasn't showing off anything by mentioning of the 2k. I only did that to emphasis that somebody I'm doing such for should have giving me some priority before others

You've learned, she's learned. Everywhere good.

You'd have just sorted your feelings out with her in private.

Nairaland tho.

Kvarachi:
Honestly I wasn't expecting the queue in the first place cuz their filling station is in an isolated place and I'm among the few that patronizes them. If not I would have called her before I got there

Next time, drop off the jerrycan with her, give her money to fill it and let her send you a WhatsApp message when it's done.

Then, bounce away.

RoyalBlu:
You've learned, she's learned. Everywhere good.

You'd have just sorted your feelings out with her in private.

Nairaland tho.

Sorting of feelings has been done already, just wanted to sample the opinion of people

VillagePipu:
Next time, drop off the jerrycan with her, give her money to fill it and let her send you a WhatsApp message when it's done.

Then, bounce away.

Thanks man, I appreciate

Maybe, it's just me but I see nothing wrong with what she did.

You never know if her boss/manager is lurking around hence why she decided not to jump the queue.

She better stop looking for boyfriend and build herself to the point where she has enough money to take care of herself. 2k daily relationships is like a temporary bandage on a big wound. What happens when she gets married to you and has to contribute? Or she thinks she will continue to live in and eat 2k with her kids. Even if you pay it all, you will one day insult her for being of no use to you financially.

If you truly like her, break up with her and advice her to build herself to the point where on any day, she has a job or business that can give her 50k at least per month. So that she will be useful to herself and to you, if you decide to get back together.

She couldn't have left the line to face you. That favoritism you expect from her is a complication and a consequence of dating you as a customer. That is partly what the relationship has been for.

Anabosee:
Oga calm down this is Nigeria.
If your junior brother is working at a queued up fuel station, you will be happy with him that he didn't sell for you before the fuel finish?
Talk truth o today is Sunday

Your brother is just an attendant not the owner.

If you love your brother you wouldn't allow him to be taking that kind of risk that can put his job on jeopardy. A lot of big men come to the fuel station you know and it will only take one or two complain from the big men that know the boss very well to get him sack.

Will you provide another job for your brother if he lose it because of you, it's not all boss that tolerate nonsense you know

Anabosee:
When I was in a relationship with a pump attendant whenever I come she sell fuel on my 4 liter gallon ignoring everyone including cars and bikes and tricycles.
That was pure love then. Love Sweet sha.

It is all love but don't allow your partner to be taking that kind of risk for you at her working place unless you are ready to shoulder more burden if your partner lose her Job.

That girl is lucky the station is not that strict but somewhere else she can lose her job for just that if customers complain to the boss so unless you can provide another job for her and don't mind getting more billings till she get another job, think twice about it.

Kvarachi:
Good talk, but this is Nigeria sometimes you bend the rules for your own.

It is that believe that will make corruption to continue to thrive in Nigeria for years to come.


That girl know her boss wouldn't tolerate it if he find out and she's not ready to lose her job

Raalsalghul:
Maybe, it's just me but I see nothing wrong with what she did.

You never know if her boss/manager is lurking around hence why she decided not to jump the queue.

Same thing I told OP
Eyes might be on her
He should apologize to her ….

FRANCISTOWN:
See, lemme tell you the truth. Favouritism is everywhere, even in the US. Even the ones who are accusing you of being entitled have in one way or the other enjoyed favouritism.

There should be a point of someone. If your babe couldn't pull that thru for you then what's the point of her in that place?

Sometimes you just open your mind and look at the bigger picture.

That girl is very familiar with the boss in the station and know how strict he is, she may lose her job if he find out and Nigerians on the queue are not stupid, she may not be able to pull it off without people on the queue making a fuss out of it and that can alert the boss. Some that are even thugs and street guys can cause a scene and won't tolerate it ?

How is she going to explain to the boss ? if the boss demanded explanation?

Unless the guy is just ready to take on more billings and help her to find another job if she lose her Job, he shouldn't be angry unless he's no longer getting the regular sex and attention from her the guy is just overreacting.

Trust me I hate simping but let’s analyze this properly because I find nothing wrong in assisting your girlfriend 2k daily since you are certain you will end up spending it on alcohol , carrying whores or other frivolities…

Let’s be honest she earning 15k monthly is very poor and she needs the least support from her lover don’t forget she helped her boyfriend conquer the addiction of gambling and masturbation… it’s worth giving it to her to assist her since she’s not even feeling entitled to the money…

Some girls this days will introduce more addictions to you plus billings that can cripple you ..

OP clearly mentioned that money part for people to bash the innocent girl … Honestly she deserves a better man ..

PureFace1:
It is that believe that will make corruption to continue to thrive in Nigeria for years to come.


That girl know her boss wouldn't tolerate it if he find out and she's not ready to lose her job

I even made a mistake not telling her boss, he would have mandated them to sell for me asap. I'm one of their regular customer and they gave me a special gift during Easter.
A station that sells credit to me sometimes

Zonefree:
That pump is her office, she should be able to enjoy little privilege in her office. To help her boyfriend that placed her on daily allowance is not bad.

If she cannot help him in her office, she's of no use to the young man.

Dear OP, stop crossing express for someone that cannot cross a gutter for you.

. Bro,why you even be like this self?

Kvarachi:
I even made a mistake not telling her boss, he would have mandated them to sell for me asap. I'm one of their regular customer and they gave me a special gift during Easter.
A station that sells credit to me sometimes

You are not the only regular customer they are serving or are you the one using all the petrol in their station? so you think you are the only regular customer on the queue ? what if all of them also demand for special attention ?

You are a man but your entitlement mentality is sickening and even more pathetic than women, you are not the only customer patronizing them, in fact the petrol you are buying from them is just a drop in the ocean.

Remmedy:
Trust me I hate simping but let’s analyze this properly because I find nothing wrong in assisting your girlfriend 2k daily since you are certain you will end up spending it on alcohol , carrying whores or other frivolities…

Let’s be honest she earning 15k monthly is very poor and she needs the least support from her lover don’t forget she helped her boyfriend conquer the addiction of gambling and masturbation… it’s worth giving it to her to assist her since she’s not even feeling entitled to the money…

Some girls this days will introduce more addictions to you plus billings that can cripple you ..

OP clearly mentioned that money part for people to bash the innocent girl … Honestly she deserves a better man ..

Mehn, I applaud you for your well thought out comment. But you spoilt everything with your last statement of she deserves a better man.
First of all, I didn't mentioned that money for anybody to bash her rather I put it there for people to know the sacrifice I'm making that deserves equal sacrifice from her too.
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And talking about deserving another man, what other man does she deserves than me? Both of us are from the trenches, and in the trenches you see a man giving you 2k everyday with other pecks, how many guys from the trenches can do that?

Men sha, na toto we come serve for this world. As you dey deliver for the owner toto day collect N2k daily çhai. Hope you dey remember una mama sha.