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RoyalBlu:
OP!!!


*This thread just hold me local.
Normal me wey nor dey comment pass five times for one thread. Chai.

Kvarachi:
Thank you for your honest assertion

Collins4u1:
You want to cause commotion on her queue.
What do you think people reaction will be, Mr privileged man. Well done, she did amazingly well, that she's your girlfriend does not mean she will put her self, even her job in jeopardy.

Like what will she tell her boss that made her skip others and attended to you that just arrived, dem no dey do relationship inside person job oo.

Nonsense

Kvarachi:
Honestly I want to clarify one thing that most of you are not getting here.
Some filling stations I know gives card to their regular customers and mark them each time they buy fuel with the amount and quantity stated. At the end of the year or some particular time, they give gifts to the highest purchaser. And it also applies when there's scarcity of fuel, once you show that card you will be attended to before any other person. That will show you how they value you being their regular customer.
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Now let me put this question to you you and you.
You own a shop at a shopping plaza where they're others selling same goods as you're selling. Each has their own customers, and you have like 2 or 3 that patronizes you atleast twice every week.
All of a sudden, those goods became scarce and only you have them but few.
Then every dick and harry started trouping to your shop to get those goods and they even came before your regular customers.
And then one of your regular customers came that he needs those goods and another called from home that you should keep some substantial amount for him that he's coming to pick them.
Will you listen to your regular customers first or sell to the new ones bcuz they came first?

Ynix:
ignore her totally, get like 2 to 3 other ladies better than her as alternatives, and don't woo them with money, just tell them your intentions if they stay good if they don't good. Be in charge of your life, its normal for ladies to treat you bad if you appear to be too caring, go and work on your communication skills too

Zonefree:
That pump is her office, she should be able to enjoy little privilege in her office. To help her boyfriend that placed her on daily allowance is not bad.

If she cannot help him in her office, she's of no use to the young man.

Dear OP, stop crossing express for someone that cannot cross a gutter for you.

Kvarachi:
And what's the truer words you think he just spilled if not jargons.
Oh! It's bcus he said saving the 2k instead of giving it to her would have yielded millions of me right?
So in you guys mendulla oblongata, you really think I will be giving someone 2k everyday without saving for myself.
And with you guys logic, can we also go and tell those who drinks bottle of beer worth more than 5k everyday to be saving them also so that it can yield billions in a couple of years time.
And you guys ignore the part where I said this particular girl made me stop gambling that eat up to 10k everyday from me, and it's giving her 2k I should now be worried about.
Abeg make una talk another thing

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
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I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
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Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

Kvarachi:
Me I'm not talking about brother or lover levels here, what about attending to your regular customers first.
Ok for example, you own a business and you have one or two regular customers that patronizes you and making your business to stand. Then all of a sudden the commodities you're selling became scarce in other places and you're the only one that has them.
When your shop or business place is full with new faces that wants those goods and suddenly your regular customers came for those goods too, who will you attend to first

Kvarachi:
Yes of course, and how does it apply here

Kvarachi:
I love her and there's no job on the line for her. In fact we have discuss exactly what happened ystday some months ago and she jokingly said she will do as if she didn't see me on the line. So it was an opportunity to test her, thats why I didn't go to her boss

ugwumichael:
You can't be testing your babe with something that will make her lose her job and you expect her to fall. I guess she appreciates what you have been doing for her, but you should know you have not married her and you may easily dump her when she start demanding for money even to buy sachet water because she has lost her job and you start seeing her as a burden.

Kvarachi:
Thank you for the advise, but giving her 2k didn't start immediately. It started after like a month or there about after we have been into each other so much and I found out she was receiving 15k per month.
2ndly, the 2k is only on the days I go to work and it's nothing to me cuz I know how much I make daily once I work.
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And lastly bro, you didn't advise on what I should do. Should I pick her calls or keep ignoring her.

ugwumichael:
I would give preference to my regular customer first, while attending to the new faces as well. Let's say for every 2 regular customer I attend to, I will attend to a new customer as well, i.e if my old customers are much on the queue or do it a 1:1.

My question to you is, where does your babe fall in this your analogy?
She falls into it very well irrespective of weda she owns the place or not. I have seen fuel attendant do it very well.
Just like you said, I wasn't expecting her to attend to me immediately, after all she said I should wait. But after serving like 2 or 3 of them she should have look my side.

Is she the station manager or owner?

lionphil:
Pick her calls... Imagine you were one of the customers that had been waiting on the queue then the attendant just sold for someone that just came, how would you feel?

She did the right thing, you should have been patient with her

Kvarachi:
My friend everybody is different. First of, my mum and dad is late. My other siblings are more wealthier than me.
Lastly, she deserves more than 2k sef, this is somebody that made me stop sport betting aka "baby". Do you know how much I lost on that thing everyday before. So giving her 2k is a chicken change from over 10k I made daily

Kvarachi:
It wasn't a pre plan test, just all of a sudden thing.

id4sho:
You sef, why daily allowance . Use your head please .
Fu<king can continue but stop giving her money. Give her one week and change am for her

ugwumichael:
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All of a sudden test doesn't mean should fall for it either.

Duchexx:
I don’t know what y’all are saying but if it’s my man that came to buy fuel or anywhere I have the power (bank, fast food etc) I’d attend to him first!
All these people talking rubbish are saying so because they enjoy talking rubbish.
@poster, you are right to feel however you feel!

Collins4u1:
You want to cause commotion on her queue.
What do you think people reaction will be, Mr privileged man. Well done, she did amazingly well, that she's your girlfriend does not mean she will put her self, even her job in jeopardy.

Like what will she tell her boss that made her skip others and attended to you that just arrived, dem no dey do relationship inside person job oo.

Nonsense

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
.
Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

SuperOnyi:


Interesting!

I hope you and that boring dude zonefree won't complain if someone attends to customers at the back because they are cool with them?

Atk1nson:
You really believe the relationship will continue without the daily salary she has been collecting? Don't be a joker.

Atk1nson:
Not enough reason to place her on a 2k salary. Better save and invest, when you get married, enjoy your savinhs and investment as a couple.

Placing her on 2k "salary" will not stop her from walking away if she wants to. Also, you are creating a precendence that would be hard to stop, because the day you stop it, she will likely lose interest in you.

Emychina:
The only thing i got to tell you is that....you dey craze

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
.
Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

mrjojo:
You placed a Gf on Daily daily incomeAre you really serious ?? how are you danfo driver and write relatively well ?

Kvarachi:
You're saying balderdash, this things happens and will still continue happening and there's nothing you or anybody can do about it.
A little favor to your own person will not cause any harm to anybody