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She is married with 2 kids and the husband knows me well cos I visit now and then but not often.

I must confess, this lady has helped me a lot and I owe her in my mind greatly to repay the kindness to her children in one way or the other in future when the going gets going.

So, today I visited her because yesterday I did 0-0-0. Today, Thursday, I was already on another 0-0-... then decided to touch her side to at least make it 0-0-1. This was around 3:20pm.

Whenever I visit for no particular purpose, she knows I am broke, so she serves me food and sometimes, when I am leaving, she gets raw food for me to take home because I live alone on my own.

We gisted a lot in the sitting room. Suddenly, she began preparing food (My joy was immeasurable within) so I amplified the gist mode.

Food was done at last. By this time, her husband returned from his shop (He usually leave before his 'shop boy' who is his village relative staying with him).

My female friend then dished the swallow on a single plate and brought it on the table where I was sitting with her husband. All this while, the man was busy pressing his phone since arriving.

She meant we (me and the husband) should share the food based on the quantity as it was much. To God, this man as if he was provoked.

Oga didn't invite me and he didn't eat either. The wife came on three ocassions to remind him, inaan. She was even dumbfounded. It got to a stage the lady was embarrassed and didn't even know what to do.

My embarrassment was even greater. I was in a dillema, to stay; which the shame I felt will be more obvious or to leave, which I wondered how I'll comport myself with what I'll say and how I'll walk out of the sitting room.

Finally, I summoned courage and told them I needed to leave. The man said OK. The lady acted up and asked, "Will you not eat?" Knowing fully well I was hungry. I said no problem, that I need to catch up with time for something.

That's how I left and now I am close to another 0-0-0. Right now, I am headed to a free borehole water where I'll refill my tank to temporary stop the rumbling therein, rest in one primary school where boys are playing football, get a little strength and off to my room to think about my life.

Your story is a very touching one. I wish you a speedy recovery from the hardship and the humiliation.

1.
The mistake is from the lady. She shouldn't have served you and her husband food in the same plate without the husband directing her to do so.

2.
The man should have played cool to invite you to eat with him or encourage you to eat the food, and caution her after you have left the house. But I'm not saying this is your entitlement.

3.
Don't go there again to eat. The man is boiling in anger with either you, his wife or both you and the wife. If she wants to help you, she should either find a means to send you the food or you should go and get the food and leave the house immediately. I would have told you to stop accepting her offers but ego cannot fill your stomach in this Agbado period.

OndoRaph:
She is married with 2 kids and the husband knows me well cos I visit now and then but not often.

I must confess, this lady has helped me a lot and I owe her in my mind greatly to repay the kindness to her children in one way or the other in future when the going gets going.

So, today I visited her because yesterday I did 0-0-0. Today, Thursday, I was already on another 0-0-... then decided to touch her side to at least make it 0-0-1. This was around 3:20pm.

Whenever I visit for no particular purpose, she knows I am broke, so she serves me food and sometimes, when I am leaving, she gets raw food for me to take home because I live alone on my own.

We gisted a lot in the sitting room. Suddenly, she began preparing food (My joy was immeasurable within) so I amplified the gist mode.

Food was done at last. By this time, her husband returned from his shop (He usually leave before his 'shop boy' who is his village relative staying with him).

My female friend then dished the swallow on a single plate and brought it on the table where I was sitting with her husband. All this while, the man was busy pressing his phone since arriving.

She meant we (me and the husband) should share the food based on the quantity as it was much. To God, this man as if he was provoked.

Oga didn't invite me and he didn't eat either. The wife came on three ocassions to remind him, inaan. She was even dumbfounded. It got to a stage the lady was embarrassed and didn't even know what to do.

My embarrassment was even greater. I was in a dillema, to stay; which the shame I felt will be more obvious or to leave, which I wondered how I'll comport myself with what I'll say and how I'll walk out of the sitting room.

Finally, I summoned courage and told them I needed to leave. The man said OK. The lady acted up and asked, "Will you not eat?" Knowing fully well I was hungry. I said no problem, that I need to catch up with time for something.

That's how I left and now I am close to another 0-0-0. Right now, I am headed to a free borehole water where I'll refill my tank to temporary stop the rumbling therein, rest in one primary school where boys are playing football, get a little strength and off to my room to think about my life.

If you're on lagos island, You can have free breakfast daily for one week starting from tomorrow.
Sorry about your experience... May God change your story

dawnomike:
If you're on lagos island, You can have free breakfast daily for one week starting from tomorrow.
Sorry about your experience... May God change your story

I am about 900Km away from Lagos.

Thank you very much for your concern. I am grateful.

Respect the man's home and marriage. Please stop visiting in his absence.


Respect marriage, you are disgusting. To think you have the nerve to post this nonsense here. You disgust me

Charlie, na the man dey hustle and the wife dey use food do giveaway. The man has right to change it for you cos life ain't easy but I would like to ask you;
1. How many times have you gone to the man's shop to help out?
2. How many times have you helped out in their house as well?

If you help them with their problems too then good for you, but if you only turn up when you are hungry then sorry for you.

the man was busy...go home and find other ways to eat tonight. its not everyday you should make plans on the goodness of people. tomorrow is another day. BE GRATEFUL that these people sometimes help you with chop chop...

abba190:
i know the story will end up with begging

as much as we all fully well know the above, aint you NL #1 beggar? you hypocrite, a pot calling kettle black!

OndoRaph:
She is married with 2 kids and the husband knows me well cos I visit now and then but not often.

I must confess, this lady has helped me a lot and I owe her in my mind greatly to repay the kindness to her children in one way or the other in future when the going gets going.

So, today I visited her because yesterday I did 0-0-0. Today, Thursday, I was already on another 0-0-... then decided to touch her side to at least make it 0-0-1. This was around 3:20pm.

Whenever I visit for no particular purpose, she knows I am broke, so she serves me food and sometimes, when I am leaving, she gets raw food for me to take home because I live alone on my own.

We gisted a lot in the sitting room. Suddenly, she began preparing food (My joy was immeasurable within) so I amplified the gist mode.

Food was done at last. By this time, her husband returned from his shop (He usually leave before his 'shop boy' who is his village relative staying with him).

My female friend then dished the swallow on a single plate and brought it on the table where I was sitting with her husband. All this while, the man was busy pressing his phone since arriving.

She meant we (me and the husband) should share the food based on the quantity as it was much. To God, this man as if he was provoked.

Oga didn't invite me and he didn't eat either. The wife came on three ocassions to remind him, inaan. She was even dumbfounded. It got to a stage the lady was embarrassed and didn't even know what to do.

My embarrassment was even greater. I was in a dillema, to stay; which the shame I felt will be more obvious or to leave, which I wondered how I'll comport myself with what I'll say and how I'll walk out of the sitting room.

Finally, I summoned courage and told them I needed to leave. The man said OK. The lady acted up and asked, "Will you not eat?" Knowing fully well I was hungry. I said no problem, that I need to catch up with time for something.

That's how I left and now I am close to another 0-0-0. Right now, I am headed to a free borehole water where I'll refill my tank to temporary stop the rumbling therein, rest in one primary school where boys are playing football, get a little strength and off to my room to think about my life.

i know the story will end up with begging

ActiveFarms:
Respect the man's home and marriage. Please stop visiting in his absence.


Respect marriage, you are disgusting. To think you have the nerve to post this nonsense here. You disgust me

the guy used style nd beg dont you get it?

MrBrownJay1:
the man was busy...go home and find other ways to eat tonight. its not everyday you should make plans on the goodness of people. tomorrow is another day. BE GRATEFUL that these people sometimes help you with chop chop...



as much as we all fully well know the above, aint you NL #1 beggar? see this pot calling kettle black!

this m@dman again. i beg whenever im broke nd optionless u cant stop me

abba190:
this m@dman again. i beg whenever im broke nd optionless u cant stop me

A) but now you want to come and look down on someone who does exactly what you do on NL?
B) so begging for handouts on NL to go waste the money on online betting is a necessity to you?! no wonder you are always broke and/or begging on NL under various profiles.

yomi007k:
Charlie, na the man dey hustle and the wife dey use food do giveaway. The man has right to change it for you cos life ain't easy but I would like to ask you;
1. How many times have you gone to the man's shop to help out?
2. How many times have you helped out in their house as well?

If you help them with their problems too then good for you, but if you only turn up when you are hungry then sorry for you.

1. The man knows my story well. The wife told him about me a lot. Because before she married, I helped her a lot too because she is from a poor background. To even feed was her problem and she was not the after any guy. We were close because we were course mates and I and only I first understood her situation and took charge; mind you, not to take advantage.

2. She has her own shop too but a sales girl was there because she is still nursing the second child, as such doesn't stay much in the shop. Of course the shop is next block to her home.

3. I don't go there often as I mentioned. When I do, it is for a purpose. But if I go, and it's for NO STATED reason, she understands, which I hardly even do. That's when worse comes to worse.

MrBrownJay1:
A) but now you want to come and look down on someone who does exactly what you do on NL?
B) so begging for handouts on NL to go waste the money on online betting is a necessity to you?! no wonder you are always broke and/or begging on NL under various profiles.

u are just wasting ur time. when last did u see me beg on nairaland? things are working for me lately, i dont have time for begging and speaking of betting that part too u r wasting your time i dont bet

OndoRaph:
1. The man knows my story well. The wife told him about me a lot. Because before she married, I helped her a lot too because she is from a poor background. To even feed was her problem and she was not the after any guy. We were close because we were course mates and I and only I first understood her situation and took charge; mind you, not to take advantage.

2. She has her own shop too but a sales girl was there because she is still nursing the second child, as such doesn't stay much in the shop. Of course the shop is next block to her home.

stop all these bulaba mr man. stop going to that woman house if you dont wanna crash her marriage. men are jealous

abba190:
u are just wasting ur time. when last did u see me beg on nairaland? things are working for me lately, i dont have time for begging and speaking of betting that part too u r wasting your time i dont bet

olodo!!!! just because you now beg under different profiles and dont put your flagged phone number on your scams, doesnt mean you dont beg no more on NL... we all know you, you are probably the OP as he uses the same yeye sob begging stories as you often do with countless profiles.... and the fact that he wastes all the money he receives on betting (like you do) makes me believe you and him are the same....
here is when i busted him and his countless betting profiles:

https://www.nairaland.com/8026221/couldnt-worship-today-because#128874169

MrBrownJay1:
olodo!!!! just because you now beg under different profiles and dont put your flagged phone number on your scams, doesnt mean you dont beg no more on NL... we all know you, you are probably the OP as he uses the same yeye sob begging stories as you often do with countless profiles.

Ondoraph, What skill do you have?

OndoRaph:
1. The man knows my story well. The wife told him about me a lot. Because before she married, I helped her a lot too because she is from a poor background. To even feed was her problem and she was not the after any guy. We were close because we were course mates and I and only I first understood her situation and took charge; mind you, not to take advantage.

2. She has her own shop too but a sales girl was there because she is still nursing the second child, as such doesn't stay much in the shop. Of course the shop is next block to her home.

3. I don't go there often as I mentioned. When I do, it is for a purpose. But if I go, and it's for NO STATED reason, she understands, which I hardly even do. That's when worse comes to worse.

why don't u suggest being an apprentice to d husband so they can see u ain't lazy?

Elegantspiker:
Ondoraph, What skill do you have?

I can blog. I type very fast too, 80wpm. I can design a Wordpress website.

OndoRaph:
I can blog. I type very fast too, 80wpm. I can design a Wordpress website.

Send me a mail.

OndoRaph:
I can blog. I type very fast too, 80wpm. I can design a Wordpress website.

one thing I know is no grown up man enjoy begging, the street ain't easy, it may look easy to some people because of their luck but believe me is not easy.
Sometimes people will look for ordinary sales boy work for 6ix months and you will not get, the one you manage to see they will tell you I will call you back "
Then you go to building site, the people there hustling for the same labourer work are many, you manage to secure one for yourself" at the end of the day the engineer mighty not pay.
Guys please encourage people is not really easy out there, people are going through a lot even before tinubu

So nice of you to share your story. Nice one.

You should win the most shameless man in the universe award. Your ancestors are cringing in their graves.

OndoRaph:
She is married with 2 kids and the husband knows me well cos I visit now and then but not often.

I must confess, this lady has helped me a lot and I owe her in my mind greatly to repay the kindness to her children in one way or the other in future when the going gets going.

So, today I visited her because yesterday I did 0-0-0. Today, Thursday, I was already on another 0-0-... then decided to touch her side to at least make it 0-0-1. This was around 3:20pm.

Whenever I visit for no particular purpose, she knows I am broke, so she serves me food and sometimes, when I am leaving, she gets raw food for me to take home because I live alone on my own.

We gisted a lot in the sitting room. Suddenly, she began preparing food (My joy was immeasurable within) so I amplified the gist mode.

Food was done at last. By this time, her husband returned from his shop (He usually leave before his 'shop boy' who is his village relative staying with him).

My female friend then dished the swallow on a single plate and brought it on the table where I was sitting with her husband. All this while, the man was busy pressing his phone since arriving.

She meant we (me and the husband) should share the food based on the quantity as it was much. To God, this man as if he was provoked.

Oga didn't invite me and he didn't eat either. The wife came on three ocassions to remind him, inaan. She was even dumbfounded. It got to a stage the lady was embarrassed and didn't even know what to do.

My embarrassment was even greater. I was in a dillema, to stay; which the shame I felt will be more obvious or to leave, which I wondered how I'll comport myself with what I'll say and how I'll walk out of the sitting room.

Finally, I summoned courage and told them I needed to leave. The man said OK. The lady acted up and asked, "Will you not eat?" Knowing fully well I was hungry. I said no problem, that I need to catch up with time for something.

That's how I left and now I am close to another 0-0-0. Right now, I am headed to a free borehole water where I'll refill my tank to temporary stop the rumbling therein, rest in one primary school where boys are playing football, get a little strength and off to my room to think about my life.

May God ease your affairs 🙏💯

How can you visit a married lady without the man’s consent! This is embarrassing, imagine if she is your wife.

Eyah

No let the man break your head one day. Stop to dey go there go eat. Chikena!

OndoRaph:
She is married with 2 kids and the husband knows me well cos I visit now and then but not often.

I must confess, this lady has helped me a lot and I owe her in my mind greatly to repay the kindness to her children in one way or the other in future when the going gets going.

So, today I visited her because yesterday I did 0-0-0. Today, Thursday, I was already on another 0-0-... then decided to touch her side to at least make it 0-0-1. This was around 3:20pm.

Whenever I visit for no particular purpose, she knows I am broke, so she serves me food and sometimes, when I am leaving, she gets raw food for me to take home because I live alone on my own.

We gisted a lot in the sitting room. Suddenly, she began preparing food (My joy was immeasurable within) so I amplified the gist mode.

Food was done at last. By this time, her husband returned from his shop (He usually leave before his 'shop boy' who is his village relative staying with him).

My female friend then dished the swallow on a single plate and brought it on the table where I was sitting with her husband. All this while, the man was busy pressing his phone since arriving.

She meant we (me and the husband) should share the food based on the quantity as it was much. To God, this man as if he was provoked.

Oga didn't invite me and he didn't eat either. The wife came on three ocassions to remind him, inaan. She was even dumbfounded. It got to a stage the lady was embarrassed and didn't even know what to do.

My embarrassment was even greater. I was in a dillema, to stay; which the shame I felt will be more obvious or to leave, which I wondered how I'll comport myself with what I'll say and how I'll walk out of the sitting room.

Finally, I summoned courage and told them I needed to leave. The man said OK. The lady acted up and asked, "Will you not eat?" Knowing fully well I was hungry. I said no problem, that I need to catch up with time for something.

That's how I left and now I am close to another 0-0-0. Right now, I am headed to a free borehole water where I'll refill my tank to temporary stop the rumbling therein, rest in one primary school where boys are playing football, get a little strength and off to my room to think about my life.

You are heading to 0:0:0 journey,yet u still have money to buy data to come online.

You are on 000 mission, you still have energy to write long epistle.

When you done with your imagination, maybe ,they would help you push ur figment to front page, at least the joy of your story comming to front page is enough to fill ur stomach and quench the imaginary hunger

God no matter how the matter be abeg no just give me olodo wife please 🙏
What am I even saying she won't even last a week as a girlfriend. Once I notice the empty skull na to turn am booty call. U serve Ur husband and another strange man because he even allows him access to his home. That woman didn't grow up in a proper home

Why married woman go dish her husbands food together with her male friend, if I wasn't angry tht i met a grown man in my hoise alone with my wife, i will be boiling when the food my food is dished with his

What sort of disrespect is that, i like as the man take teach una two lessons


As if her giving you free food isn't enough, she decided to insult her husband by serving his food in the same plate as yours, when she could have dished yours separately?

That's the height of disrespect and things like this usually bring troubles to the family unit.

I am wondering what was going thru the mans mind upon realizing his food is dished together with yours.

That woman no try, she should be very careful


And as for you, instead of being jobless and be gisting with a married woman while her husband is hustling , look for something to do, or at worse, let her call you to come get the food in a cooler and leave at once, because if you continue like this, the husband my ban you from entering his house

Why didn’t you go to look for daily paying job?
Like labor…

Serial beggar don drop another lamba

Why not package all these sob stories into a novel and sell it or is it forbidden in your generation to get a job? In this long holiday, I'm seeing some school children hustle odd jobs to assist their parents with small change. You a full grown adult can't go out to find anything to do other than spin sob stories to get money. Shame on you