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Dating A South African Lady. by Singletonn(op): 9:02pm On Aug 29, 2024
Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.

Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.

Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?

I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?

I will appreciate any help I can get.

Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.

Re: Dating A South African Lady. by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:07pm On Aug 29, 2024
Singletonn:
Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.
Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.
Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?
I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?
I will appreciate any help I can get.
Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.
you dont have to apologize for having a preference... and people who are offended by it shouldnt matter to you. there is nothing wrong with a Nigerian preferring SA ladies. some women prefer dating tall dudes or rich men, its all down to your preference.
sadly, Nigerians dont have a great reputation in SA (due to the few Nigerian drug dealers and criminals over there) but also dont forget that South Africans have a love/hate relationship with Nigeria/Nigerians.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by 1Sharon(f): 9:14pm On Aug 29, 2024
Lionessza6 grin

Wannahowzit

JaceBlaze
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Singletonn(op): 9:24pm On Aug 29, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
you dont have to apologize for having a preference... and people who are offended by it shouldnt matter to you. there is nothing wrong with a Nigerian preferring SA ladies. some women prefer dating tall dudes or rich men, its all down to your preference.
sadly, Nigerians dont have a great reputation in SA (due to the few Nigerian drug dealers and criminals over there) but also dont forget that South Africans have a love/hate relationship with Nigeria/Nigerians.
Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by 1Sharon(f): 9:26pm On Aug 29, 2024
Singletonn:
Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.
Alaye, you're just full of lust.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Singletonn(op): 9:29pm On Aug 29, 2024
1Sharon:
Alaye, you're just full of lust.
You can't be real.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by God1000(m): 9:31pm On Aug 29, 2024
Be very careful man, the girl may like you but south Africans in general are hateful, they hate nigerians with passion, don't say we didn't warn you

I have a lot of female south African friends but we're just friends, I will never think of marrying any them, think about your future children and how they will be treated

You can go for girls in other african countries
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:33pm On Aug 29, 2024
Singletonn:
Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.
btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by 1Sharon(f): 9:37pm On Aug 29, 2024
Singletonn:
You can't be real.
Asides the physical, what else do you know about them?
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Singletonn(op): 9:37pm On Aug 29, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women
Now, these are plausible options.
Thanks.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Singletonn(op): 9:43pm On Aug 29, 2024
1Sharon:
Asides the physical, what else do you know about them?
I am a very honest person and yes the "physical" attributes are as important to me.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:52pm On Aug 29, 2024
1Sharon:
Asides the physical, what else do you know about them?
but the physical attribute should be the initial/unique reason why you would/should decide to approach someone. thats the only thing that a person notices before he/she decides to approach someone. we've never heard someone saying:" oh that person is foul and ugly but let me approach her because maybe she has good character". physical attraction is everything when meeting a stranger.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by WannaHowzit(m): 12:14am On Aug 30, 2024
1Sharon:
Lionessza6 grin

Wannahowzit

JaceBlaze
Dating a Nigerian man is taboo in SA unless he's feeding you drugs. That's the only logical explanation a South African would date corrupt Nigerian guys.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Gadafii: 5:12am On Aug 30, 2024
You are not even in South Africa yethuh


This one no serious
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Gadafii: 5:12am On Aug 30, 2024
WannaHowzit:
Dating a Nigerian man is taboo in SA unless he's feeding you drugs. That's the only logical explanation a South African would date corrupt Nigerian guys.
why dont your women desire you guys, the same way they desire and rush naija men?

Could it be because South African men are lazy, rape their women and beat them?
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Graysons: 6:19am On Aug 30, 2024
Singletonn:
Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.

Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.

Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?

I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?

I will appreciate any help I can get.

Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.
You sound like a southern African who is promoting South Africa women. grin grin these are the South Africa women I keep seeing on Facebook

Re: Dating A South African Lady. by DeeScan: 6:32am On Aug 30, 2024
1Sharon:
Alaye, you're just full of lust.
no .. he wants something genuine, he doesn't want lies and deception reason why he's not trying to be down wirh your ilks..
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by DeeScan: 6:33am On Aug 30, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women
.. I think he meant the TYLA esque looking kind of south Africa
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by KingCold: 7:16am On Aug 30, 2024
Singletonn:
Thank you for this.
Oh yes, I am aware of Nigerians reputation over there, but I like to think there are well educated south africans who wouldn't judge others based on their past experiences with some bad eggs. Again, thank you.
Its really not about education boss..
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by KingCold:
MrBrownJay1:
btw IMHO there are no difference between how SA women look and Botswana/Namibia or Zim women
Um...no there are differences... In south Africa we can instantly identify a Zimbabwean.. South Africans look a lot like Batswana not Zimbabweans or Namibians
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by KingCold: 7:19am On Aug 30, 2024
Graysons:
You sound like a southern African who is promoting South Africa women. grin grin these are the South Africa women I keep seeing on Facebook
You on the other hand sounds jealous.. not suprising though..you're a certified Nairaland troll with nothing to add but negativity
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by KingCold: 7:21am On Aug 30, 2024
God1000:
Be very careful man, the girl may like you but south Africans in general are hateful, they hate nigerians with passion, don't say we didn't warn you

I have a lot of female south African friends but we're just friends, I will never think of marrying any them, think about your future children and how they will be treated

You can go for girls in other african countries
Nonsense..we aren't hateful, we hate those that take us and our country for granted. Yes, in SA Nigerians are hated with passion...and that hate didn't fall from the sky
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by KingCold: 7:22am On Aug 30, 2024
Gadafii:
why dont your women desire you guys, the same way they desire and rush naija men?

Could it be because South African men are lazy, rape their women and beat them?
Lol... South African men don't run away with boats to settle in a Europe built by rhe blood and sweat of European men .. this "lazy'trope has no basis in reality none whatsoever. No country becomes like South Africa with a majority lazy populous..it cannot happen. Who do you think builds infrastructure, sweeps the streets and mines our minerals? The same "lazy" SA men, y'all just jealous

99.9 % of SA women prefer and date their own men..don't know where you get your nonsense you're spewing.. focus on kiling your women for their organs and leave us alone
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by KingCold: 7:27am On Aug 30, 2024
Singletonn:
Hi,
I'm a young Nigerian guy in his mid 20s.
So the only type of ladies that I am genuinely interested in are the light brown skin south africans. They're beautiful and I learnt that they're lovely and kind.

Matter of fact, I've never dated any Nigerian lady. Partly, because I hate lies and deceptions. But majorly because they're not my type of ladies.

Has anyone here(a Nigerian) dated or maybe married a South African? Is there any downsides to this?

I'm planning on traveling to Pretoria in the future, but in the meantime do you by chance know where or how to connect with these south africans ladies, online?

I will appreciate any help I can get.

Ps: Apologies to anyone who might be offended by my position.
Don't blame you though..we have argubly the most beautiful women on the continent

https://www.nairaland.com/2384265/beautiful-south-african-girls/403
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Sparrk007(m): 7:57am On Aug 30, 2024
HIV dey hungry this one 😂😂
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by 1Sharon(f): 10:29am On Aug 30, 2024
DeeScan:
no .. he wants something genuine, he doesn't want lies and deception reason why he's not trying to be down wirh your ilks..
I think it's rich that the worldwide casted men
are talking about lies and deception
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:28pm On Aug 30, 2024
KingCold:
Um...no there are differences... In south Africa we can instantly a Zimbabwean.. South Africans look a lot like Batswana not Zimbabweans or Namibians
yeah to you guys it might be easy to spot but to outsiders, you all look the same in that region of Africa.... same with putting Ethiopians/Eritreans and Somalians together in the east
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by KingCold: 1:29pm On Aug 30, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
yeah to you guys it might be easy to spot but to outsiders, you all look the same in that region of Africa.... same with putting Ethiopians/Eritreans and Somalians together in the east
You're easily differentiable to the Senegalese and y'all West Africans. but hey.
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:33pm On Aug 30, 2024
KingCold:
You're easily differentiable to the Senegalese and y'all West Africans. but hey.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/rdlol.gif
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Proserpina: 1:55pm On Aug 30, 2024
I'm definitely following this thread grin grin
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by CyrusVI(m): 2:49pm On Aug 30, 2024
Singletonn:
You can't be real.
If those ladies whose pix u uploaded are your spec, its better you go for Nigerian women(Benue women in particular).

Whats the point going after a Southy lady without some gigantic laps and mountainous butt? Thats a waste of desire


If you dont mind doing a Zimbabwean woman in South Africa, then I can link you but if na original South African, me sef dey struggle to find
Re: Dating A South African Lady. by Nobody: 3:19pm On Aug 30, 2024
Disregard those SA guys trying to discourage U op. They (SA men) are the ones who dislike foreigners with passion especially Nigerian men so pay them no mind.
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