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Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

What makes you think they are living well over there?

Sometimes,make we stop dey put unnecessary pressure on our siblings wey dey overseas because e no still easy for Dem....

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

*The tendency of being betrayed

*Ungrateful with respect to pass helps

*Entitlement mentality

All I see in this post is bitterness.

Let me say this,I have a cousin whose elder brother bought him 5siennas here in Nigeria. This guy neglectfully destroyed this investment with his lifestyle of gambling. He never drove any of these cars himself despites being a very good driver.

The most painful part is that,school he refused to go,even when he attempted, he impregnated one girl there and came back empty handed.


Now,back to ur question,if na u,would u help this one to come join u abroad?

Nice2023:
Now,back to ur question,if na u,would u help this one to come join u abroad?

Just one real life instance from you and you think thats enough to justify/answer OP's question?


OP, its because its actually a cold world(-240degrees). If you can find a way around life, try do and forget about them

I have this mindset that anyone can/will help me and i dont even have to know you that much before you do. I have once travelled to Jigawa(did same on my first visit to Anambra) randomly entered a house, ask them to host me for a while and they agreed to, even without knowing me from anywhere

It works really fine for me. Although, me craze small and na that audacity dey make them favor me

Life is designed in a way that almost all the 7billion people on earth are your helpers, so u have alot of options to pick from...Look beyond your family please

CyrusVI:
Just one real life instance from you and you think thats enough to justify/answer OP's question?


OP, its because its actually a cold world(-240degrees). If you can find a way around life, try do and forget about them

I have this mindset that anyone can/will help me and i dont even have to know you that much before you do. I have once travelled to Jigawa(did same on my first visit to Anambra) randomly entered a house, ask them to host me for a while and they agreed to, even without knowing me from anywhere

It works really fine for me. Although, me craze small and na that audacity dey make them favor me

Life is designed in a way that almost all the 7billion people on earth are your helpers, so u have alot of options to pick from...Look beyond your family please

E be like say u know understand the question?

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

How can they help you relocate? Do you think just because they live in a certain country, they can bring anyone with them?

How do you know they divulge information?

Nice2023:
Let me say this,I have a cousin whose elder brother bought him 5siennas here in Nigeria. This guy neglectfully destroyed this investment with his lifestyle of gambling. He never drove any of these cars himself despites being a very good driver.

The most painful part is that,school he refused to go,even when he attempted, he impregnated one girl there and came back empty handed.


Now,back to ur question,if na u,would u help this one to come join u abroad?

so are u saying that's how all guys in Nigeria are?

Goodnewsforlife:
so are u saying that's how all guys in Nigeria are?

This is one of many reasons.

Nice2023:
This is one of many reasons.

u are far from reality

IF YOU SAY SO, THATS YOUR OPINION SHA

immortalcrown:
All I see in this post is bitterness.

YOU SPOKE VERY WELL. GOD BLESS YOU

CyrusVI:
Just one real life instance from you and you think thats enough to justify/answer OP's question?


OP, its because its actually a cold world(-240degrees). If you can find a way around life, try do and forget about them

I have this mindset that anyone can/will help me and i dont even have to know you that much before you do. I have once travelled to Jigawa(did same on my first visit to Anambra) randomly entered a house, ask them to host me for a while and they agreed to, even without knowing me from anywhere

It works really fine for me. Although, me craze small and na that audacity dey make them favor me

Life is designed in a way that almost all the 7billion people on earth are your helpers, so u have alot of options to pick from...Look beyond your family please

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

Don't take it personal with your siblings. They could be going through hell where they are.

Forget all the beautiful pictures with nice backgrounds

Just hustle up and pray hard. God go do your own too.

Sonnobax15:

What makes you think they are living well over there?

Sometimes,make we stop dey put unnecessary pressure on our siblings wey dey overseas because e no still easy for Dem....

God bless u my brother .

They believe everybody in overseas is a millionaire 😧

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

Is because u believe they are fine and wealthy ..

Haven't u seen an American citizens begging in a mall or plaza or rather ShopRite and sleeping in the cold 🤔

Similarly an immigrant too is not left out .

Everything is not really rosy for them too the wy u see it .

We have seen people hiding the real fact about what they are passing through including Canada UK etc but they won't tell u.

So don't conclude that they don't want to help.

Go and hustle and leave them alone

Type of household is key too. If it is a house where they will call you and sit you down with one strange idiotic spiritualist, them tell you the project they have been using your life to do is money ritual, expect anyone who japa from such household to have done that through your loss and they are bound to do the least they can for you to absolve themselves of any wrongdoing.
Imagine the person who, through demonic power, used your life, also mocking you with your predicted death. 40.

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

I no understand. Dem be immigration?

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

Do you think it's a walk in the park to help someone relocate abroad?

If e easy, run am.

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

How many people have you helped here? Or you think you must travel overseas before you help ur siblings?

Tayorshd87:
Is because u believe they are fine and wealthy ..

Haven't u seen an American citizens begging in a mall or plaza or rather ShopRite and sleeping in the cold 🤔

Similarly an immigrant too is not left out .

Everything is not really rosy for them too the wy u see it .

We have seen people hiding the real fact about what they are passing through including Canada UK etc but they won't tell u.

So don't conclude that they don't want to help.

Go and hustle and leave them alone

So people that just crossed over thr, which they still have millions of Naira debt to repay, some back home would be disturbing him/her to send money almost every time.


I know a person that just relocated, back home,they incurred several millions of Naira before she could make it and she traveled for study.

I imagine if her friends asking her for money in next 2 years.

I get almost 300k a month,plus my side hustle totaling 450k. I'm planning to Japa and make it big.cant wait to earn 20k a month

This one was coursed from womb 😜

Nice2023:
Let me say this,I have a cousin whose elder brother bought him 5siennas here in Nigeria. This guy neglectfully destroyed this investment with his lifestyle of gambling. He never drove any of these cars himself despites being a very good driver.

The most painful part is that,school he refused to go,even when he attempted, he impregnated one girl there and came back empty handed.


Now,back to ur question,if na u,would u help this one to come join u abroad?

phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

Some people are not living well enough in the country they are in, or they are not working hard enough to earn money that can help support their family.

Goodnewsforlife:
so are u saying that's how all guys in Nigeria are?

an average Nigerians are greedy and have entitlement mentality
Once they have siblings or friends abroad they automatically assume the person is doing fine and he/she should help them

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phemmylink:
Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?

Some do some illegal shît they are too ashamed to share.

I know a woman who married a man and dumped him for her Naija man as soon as she got her papers.

Doubt she'd be telling anyone how she got her papers.