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MT:
Bolded is a silly thing to say.

Lot of folks are abroad regretting as well, and some relocate back and happy.

You are not in any position to determine her future fate.

No mind am. He forgets she's been comming all her life b4 finally choosing

Calitoscassius:
She is not in Naigeria yet is she? She is still in the UK yapping rubbish about relocating to Naigeria. We will take her serious when we see her in Naigeria. So chill!

But it's not only her

Natbrowny:
She hasn't moved.
When she moves. Let her inform us.

Bit many have and do everyday

Natbrowny:
Aswear. She still dey UK dey post updates
Make she land here first, put her kids in school here, get a car and life here. Make she update us.

But many have done just that abd have stayed right here

Mindlog:
A Briton do not need skilled worker visa to remain and work in the UK. It is for immigrants who are yet to achieve ILR and citizenship.

And who is squeezing in one room? Not everyone living in every country in this world is living comfortably, just like not every migrant living in the West are into menial jobs as some are even earning more than the indigenous people, doing top tier jobs.

I am a Clinical Child Psychologist, I don't do "menial jobs", so even if I move to Nigeria, I will earn 7 figures monthly.....so, what are we saying.

I don't think Nigeria plays psychologist or "Clinical Child Psychologist"

Litmus:
Why so angry? I'm sure most people congratulate and support your personal choice and plans to leave Nigeria for foreign lands, is it fare that you and so many others respond angrily to news of those that have made personal plans and choice to return to their nation of origin Nigeria?

Sorry, we just HATE to see people tell us abroad is not the heaven we dream it is

NinjaMetahuman:
the topic says she's relocating back to Nigeria.

Not that she's complaining about Nigeria or complaining about UK.

Actually she's complaining about UK. A lot. Too expensive, weather, weather, weather

Well to each his own sha...

But for me oh,
We don dig our roots here, no going back

DaddyCoool:
I don't think Nigeria plays psychologist or "Clinical Child Psychologist"

When Nigerian parents in Nigeria, have children with Autism, ADHD, Intellectual disability, conduct disorders etc....which professional is trained to provide clinical support for those children?

Bigkoko:
You dey mind her. She forgot to tell us say she go land so many gigs as remote worker, which hitherto were supposed to go to our niggas back home, and not only that, she will pay no single tax, as per Nig govt no send income tax things! And best of all, with her Youkay passport, she can just hop on a plane and travel to almost any country in thew world without need for an entry Visa!

Nigeria is so wonderful...make she renounce her Youkay citizenship Biko or tear her passport ni

Ah ah. She simply said Nigeria has a better quality of life FOR HER

ItisWell22:
You’re among the very few who got the memo.
She’s not coming back to be like every other Nigerian.

Jobs that pay in millions will find her.
If she’s unmarried, we know her expected calibre.

Like she’s coming back home to basically enjoy, while maintaining her privileges of dual citizenship.

Actually smart move on her part, I'd say

Shawarmagirl:
Some people are already rejoicing and happy for her. Allowing her to deceive y'all. After spending 30yrs, acquire Green Card, make more money like she said, visit Nigeria at will every year, is now complaining life is too hard in UK. Continue deceiving them. When she is back to Nigeria, she will be visiting London anytime she wants.

Me and my family, will return after spending 30yrs she spend and get out Green Card.

Green card? She was born there and hates the weather

DaddyCoool:
You bound to crash after a while. Body no be firewood

Honestly not easy but we keep pushing small small

Zackattack:
Mr industrious! Life don pass this level.
These 3rd world countries made it so that hard workers continue in an endless loop.
As this goes on, one becomes intellectually limited.
Working remotely from Nigeria makes more sense than in the UK.
Solar is a very good alternative for constant power in Naija.
With £3k, one can easily install and renew every 2years.
Everything nor be gra gra.

That's the dream. Work remotely so you can live anywhere you want when you want

DaddyCoool:
But it's not only her

How many of them are they?

DaddyCoool:
It is more than social media. People arecdoingbit every day

I don't think so, It is all about clout chasing, people come on social media to say it but no evidence that they did what they said or are doing what they say on social media. Give Me 2 examples.


If you gonna do something, just do it! Don't tell social media first.

Litmus:
The following is for those that keep responding to advice from Nigerians abroad with, 'why don't you return to Nigeria yourself?'

Well, many soon will return to Nigeria, because a wave of racism and Nationalism is sweeping through Europe that may lead to attacks on all dark skinned foreigners or just as bad, slow drawn, increases in casual and seemingly unrelated killings. You people arrogantly telling Nigerians to "come home now" will not be able to cope abroad or navigate as well as those Nigerians that have been abroad for a long time and, in some cases, belonged to the generation of blacks that fought against terrific racism and made Abroad the safer place you Jappanese are dying to travel to and for which you rain insult when advised by those same Nigerians that perhaps you're better off staying in Nigeria.

Well, we just HATE to be told anything negative about abroad. It's like someone busting your dream

jaxxy:
UK is a lonely place especially if ur friends don't relocate and stay around u.

However coming back to Nigeria is only advisable if u have made ur wise investments here so u are just coming back to enjoy urself and live a good life not struggling again.

Now she has a kid? How about her husband? or is it a babydaddy situation?

Husband ke. You think it's Nigeria? They don't play husband over there

Yankee101:
A pension plan is an employee benefits plan established or maintained by an employer or by an employee organization (such as a union), or both


That is the definition of a pension benefit. I don’t know what is fraudulent here. We call pension a benefit.


I didn’t say welfare. Maybe that’s what’s on your mind. Not everyone has a fraudulent mind. Good people think good thoughts and give only good advice. Bad people twist even good things to make it look bad.

You can live anywhere in the world and enjoy your money. You worked for it

Well.. if you put it like this, then you are right, i agree

MT:
Without being condescending to your career, Clinical child psychologist is not an highly paid job in the UK.

After you qualify to practice, you will be averaging between 35k to 45k GBP per annum. That is way too average in the UK.

Don't you think someone earning more than a million naira in naija will ball better?

Just asking, not advising you.

Ouch!

DaddyCoool:
Well, we just HATE to be told anything negative about abroad. It's like someone busting your dream

Correct.

DaddyCoool:
But gives u food for thought. Despite having citizenship and knowing both countries well, she chose Nigeria. Don't you wonder there must be something chasing her?
Guy below summarizes it well:

There's nothing chasing her, na man she dey come find. What are the prospects for a single black woman in Nigeria and abroad especially when you have a foreign passport

YoshihideSuga:
I can understand her for the child costs. It's morbidly expensive in the UK.

I thought the govt gives them money

Mindlog:
When Nigerian parents in Nigeria, have children with Autism, ADHD, Intellectual disability, conduct disorders etc....which professional is trained to provide clinical support for those children?

Pastors and native doctors. You most likely won’t make much In Nigeria. Not even working with foreign schools and businesses In Nigeria.

Sonfethopia:
True but relocating from the UK to Nigeria for better quality of life is lazyness. You and I know.

If I ask you to choose which would you choose. If your answer is the UK then we r saying same thing.

How can you know better than her?? She has decided Naja affords her an overall better quality of life

diamond68:
hehe take am easy on our women bro. I do have to admit many of them don’t look good in the uk but that’s only because in the uk people do not sweat because it is always cold and as a woman if your vajayjay is not sweating out and breathing it get putrid and very smelly so I have to admit black vajayjay smells very bad in the uk. Am speaking from experience. And our women don’t like drinking water. In a country where you do not sweat you have to drink excess water to flush out your stagnated system but our ladies hate water so the stagnation and putridity makes uk womens vajayjay very toxic. Also their skin does not shine like it does under naija sun. Black women don’t look good in the uk but they look great in naija. E get why God create you black and drop you for naija because he know that’s the correct temperature for your skin type buttttt no you think sayyyy you sabi pass God come go japa go cold country where you no fit sweat lailai your vajayjay come Dey smell like garbage can. God no Dey make mistake oooo. Black vajayjay must be in tropical weather 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

see finishing! But na truest true you talk. I gree totally.


See you wey dey tell me to take am easy.

Shikena:
Respect her choice.

This actually happens a lot though many of them quietly relocate back after a couple of years. Real life stories.

True

Mindlog:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

For the sake of those who may be interested in that pathway, let me be more detailed.

I have my first degree in Counselling Psychology and have gone ahead to get my registration with the UKCP (United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy) and now a registered Psychotherapist.....Google the average cost of an hour of psychotherapy session in London.

I did my postgraduate specialty in Clinical Child Psychology here in the UK and now working as a Neurodevelopmental Assessment Practitioner in the public sector (not NHS)

So someone earning above a million naira (£500) a month will "ball" more more than me?

Psychiatrists are medical doctors and that's where the jobs abd money are. Psychiatrists are not medical doctors

YoshihideSuga:
Cultural similarity is another reason many people will opt for for living in Nigeria. Remember she has been visiting Nigeria since she was young and she mentioned seeing a lot of "black ones millionaires in Lagos". How many black millionaires dey UK?

My own issue na insecurity and where to see petrol with octane value of >90 to drive certain car models.

The whole thing is personal. With money you can build a better life in Nigeria

DaddyCoool:
Psychiatrists are medical doctors and that's where the jobs abd money are. Psychiatrists are not medical doctors