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DaddyCoool:
It goes way beyond money. See below. And just because of that reputation any girl dealing with a Nigerian man thinks you're something special even if you're not. There's psychology to it

you know how many years naija guys have been bumrushing women all over the globe ? From like the 1950s there was a huge wave of Nigerians moving out chasing women all over the globe down to the 2000s but the women didn’t want anything african. You have to pretend to be African American or Jamaican before they even look at you. This was the case till these afrobeats guys put naija on the map now all of a sudden we are the hot commodity ? Bro these chicken heads are trend hopping trust me I am a world traveler speaking from experience. We had to pretend to be African American before any women would even speak to us . This was the 2000s early to mid . Burna boy put us on the map. African superstar

DaddyCoool:
I mean psychologists are not medical doctors

They are not supposed to be medical doctors.

In the field of mental health, the best known intervention model, is the biopsychosocial, the bio covers the Psychiatrists, mental health nurses, the psycho covers the Psychologists/Psychotherapist /Counsellors then the social, covers the social worker, patients' relatives, friends etc.

Every standard mental health facility in the world MUST have a Psychologist/Therapist on its payroll.

For example when the Psychiatrist prescribes medication for the psychiatric patient and the mental health nurse goes to give the patient the drugs, most times the patient refuse the drugs...the Psychiatrist will contact the Psychotherapist, to therapeutically engage the psychiatric patient with the aim of getting him or her to resume medication...It is division of labour.

A UK registered Psychotherapist charges £50 and above for a 50mins to one hour therapy session.

DaddyCoool:
She said weather, weather, weather, plus cost of living

There you go!

DaddyCoool:
Nut too many of them saying same thing. Must be something there

Must be something then

DaddyCoool:
🤣😅😂
Lwkmd

Na true naa!

DaddyCoool:
😅😂

DaddyCoool:
Why always UK? Any good answers?



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/better-quality-of-life-uk-based-nigerian-woman-on-relocating-to-nigeria/amp/

She's actually talking based on feelings. " I feel that "

Well. She has a UK passport already. She can always return back to the UK whenever she gets tired.

Kenn55:
Let me tell you, it is easier to love Nigeria and be patriotic when you have a citizenship of a first world country. The reason is simple. You begin to feel that the nonsense in Nigeria does not limit you and you are not stuck. That alone makes you feel better than someone in Nigeria who does not have any other country to call his own. When he queues and fight to buy fuel for his generator, he is more angry and bitter as there is no where else to run to and his is stuck, he becomes less patriotic and start hating the country out of frustration.

Since I became a dual citizen, I am happier to travel to Nigeria than before. So to take people like this serious, let them denounce their foreign citizenship and have Nigeria as their one and only country so that they cannot escape when their mind changes like my cousin did. Otherwise, all they are doing is to make you guys feel good that Nigeria is the best thing after slice bread and you guys are falling for it

The first bold is true as it gives one an array of options. Life is more interesting and enjoyable when options are available at the beck and call.
The second bold is apt, but they will never let go of it because they know the enormous advantage it offers them. They are largely hypocritical. Moreover, ALL Nigerian elites have a second citizenship and are proud of it. In this woman's case, it is because she is UK based. The tale will be different from those based in the US as there are more economic opportunities an a significant black population to tap into.

diamond68:
hehe take am easy on our women bro. I do have to admit many of them don’t look good in the uk but that’s only because in the uk people do not sweat because it is always cold and as a woman if your vajayjay is not sweating out and breathing it get putrid and very smelly so I have to admit black vajayjay smells very bad in the uk. Am speaking from experience. And our women don’t like drinking water. In a country where you do not sweat you have to drink excess water to flush out your stagnated system but our ladies hate water so the stagnation and putridity makes uk womens vajayjay very toxic. Also their skin does not shine like it does under naija sun. Black women don’t look good in the uk but they look great in naija. E get why God create you black and drop you for naija because he know that’s the correct temperature for your skin type buttttt no you think sayyyy you sabi pass God come go japa go cold country where you no fit sweat lailai your vajayjay come Dey smell like garbage can. God no Dey make mistake oooo. Black vajayjay must be in tropical weather 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

Does this apply to black ladies who were born and bred in the UK rather than recent immigrants? Also, do you think it applies as well to African American women? Nevertheless, I do agree that the black skin is best suited for a tropical environment. This is not surprising as black people originated from sub-Saharan Africa.

And why don't they like to drink water?

Gerrard59:
Does this apply to black ladies who were born and bred in the UK rather than recent immigrants? Also, do you think it applies as well to African American women? Nevertheless, I do agree that the black skin is best suited for a tropical environment. This is not surprising as black people originated from sub-Saharan Africa.

And why don't they like to drink water?

it applies to all black ladies but black ladies ( some not all ) born and bred in the uk grew up amongst white people with the culture of drinking 8 full cups of water a day so the ones who do are clean down there. Recent immigrants are just not used to drinking that much water , they find it boring and tedious and honestly it is boring and tedious . Same thing with african American women, am sure you have heard biggie smalls song about women whose vajayjay smell like garbage trucks lol. These are African American women. Black women are just not created for these cold climates and many don’t know how to adjust. I mean it’s so bad down there you nearly throw up. The whole system is stagnated and toxins can’t be sweated out. Back in the days when I used to fornicate in the uk I have encountered some that smell worse than a decomposing dead body. Beautiful women too.

Why don’t they like to drink water ? Try drinking 2 liters of water a day. Only white people can maintain it because they were raised like that . Black people ? Wetin be water. Na one coke with Eba and gbegiri 🤣🤣

diamond68:
it’s all hype bro. These chicken heads just follow trends. Naija afrobeats is trending. It’s as simple as that. I live in naija and all the men here are scrubs. There is absolutely nothing fascinating from what I can see. Just a bunch of loud drug addled noisy aggressive guys. No sophistication or decorum. Am not buying it. These chicken heads are just trend hopping. The trend is afrobeats. It’s as simple as that

Yiu haven't seen these girls talking about Nigerian men on YouTube. Especially women from other African countries. They'd be reflecting on some fond personal experience with a big smile on their face. And of course one girl tells the other and it snowballs. Nothing to do with Afribeat. Tell me how Burner Boy can build such a REPUTATION?

Let's just try to maintain it. If you deal with a foreign woman, leave her with a smile on her face and fond memory of Nigerian men!
If you can't, at least no fall hand too much

AngelicBeing:
You are not going anywhere, you must Fix Nigeria and make it i work,If l see you anywhere in the Western world, l will call FBI/ CIA/ SECRET SERVICE/ kgb of Russia and Israeli MOSSAD to arrest you, l have submitted your Passport details to all of them

I know say dem send you to me...

But you know what??

I'm unavailable.....

DaddyCoool:
Well, this woman (and so many others voting with feet) beg to differ. You only know one side. They know both sides, yet chose Naija

I have lived both sides myself
I think imma stay put in the UK

Smart people would ask her what does she do for a living. No one should think she’s coming back to Nigeria to hustle the same labor market with you for a job.

She’s probably a content creator with huge UK subscriber base or someone that works from home and that can work for her company anywhere in the world in as much as there’s internet. This would make her to be earning in foreign currency while living in Nigeria and be living a life of opulence.

OLOKOESHIN:
Poor man dey talk

When I see your feet, I shake my head...

Where is the video evidence

DaddyCoool:
Yiu haven't seen these girls talking about Nigerian men on YouTube. Especially women from other African countries. They'd be reflecting on some fond personal experience with a big smile on their face.Of course one girl tells the other and it snowballs. Nothing to do with Afribeat. Tell me how Burner Boy can build such a REPUTATION?

Let's just try to maintain it. If you deal with a foreign woman, leave her with a smile on her face and fond memory of Nigerian men!

bro it’s all hype joor you know how many naija guys have been killed by white women or African American women alone this year ? Or how many naija guys have been kicked out of their house by women in the uk ? No Dey believe rubbish . For every one girl who sing the praise of a naija guy am sure there are 10 who want to kill naija guys

DaddyCoool:
Meaning?

kidnerpers are watching with kin interest

NinjaMetahuman:
you guys are really annoying.

If she complains about UK as a Nigerian, you will tell to come back to Nigeria.

Now that's she's coming to Nigeria because she's tired of UK, you still have one r3tarded excuse just to remain perpetually stupid.

Na me and the useless ones wey birth you go the school of "perpetual stupidity" together...

diamond68:
it applies to all black ladies but black ladies ( some not all ) born and bred in the uk grew up amongst white people with the culture of drinking 8 full cups of water a day so the ones who do are clean down there. Recent immigrants are just not used to drinking that much water , they find it boring and tedious and honestly it is boring and tedious . Same thing with african American women, am sure you have heard biggie smalls song about women whose vajayjay smell like garbage trucks lol. These are African American women. Black women are just not created for these cold climates and many don’t know how to adjust. I mean it’s so bad down there you nearly throw up. The whole system is stagnated and toxins can’t be sweated out. Back in the days when I used to fornicate in the uk I have encountered some that smell worse than a decomposing dead body. Beautiful women too.

Thanks for your reply. It must have been a terrible experience. I can only imagine.

Why don’t they like to drink water ? Try drinking 2 liters of water a day. Only white people can maintain it because they were raised like that . Black people ? Wetin be water. Na one coke with Eba and gbegiri 🤣🤣

Considering we are based in the tropics and sweat a lot, should it not be a reason to drink lots of water? At least to replace the fluids and freshen the body.

Gerrard59:
Thanks for your reply. It must have been a terrible experience. I can only imagine.


Considering we are based in the tropics and sweat a lot, should it not be a reason to drink lots of water? At least to replace the fluids and freshen the body.

oh am not saying don’t drink water in naija oooo, it’s just that you can get away with drinking less water without your body being stagnated because the heat increases circulation and keeps everything flowing nicely in your body hence why the skin looks better and fresher and glows in the sun

Pleasure is all mine my kind Sir

RodgersAkpafu:
I have lived both sides myself
I think imma stay put in the UK

Well, good fa ya! Many others, after due consideration, chose Naija!

DaddyCoool:
Well, good fa ya! Many others, after due consideration, chose Naija!

honestly I'm not really against it sha

but I can't imagine myself doing such a thing....

diamond68:
bro it’s all hype joor you know how many naija guys have been killed by white women or African American women alone this year ? Or how many naija guys have been kicked out of their house by women in the uk ? No Dey believe rubbish . For every one girl who sing the praise of a naija guy am sure there are 10 who want to kill naija guys

😅
Not true. Whenever they randomly ask girls in any AFRICAN country who they prefer, Ghanaian, Nigerian, or their own guys. Consistently almost all the girls choose Nigerian men.
Things built up to that and it's not Afrobeat. It didn't just happen

DaddyCoool:
😅
Not true. Whenever they randomly ask girls in any AFRICAN country who they prefer, Ghanaian, Nigerian, or their own guys. Consistently almost all the girls choose Nigerian men.
Things built up to that and it's not Afrobeat. It didn't just happen

why don’t you go and try your luck now lol you will soon find out how hated naija guys are globally . If they don’t lynch you na small go remain. Na their ugly or fat girls dey like naija guys cuz naija guys no too get standards 😄

DaddyCoool:
But gives u food for thought. Despite having citizenship and knowing both countries well, she chose Nigeria. Don't you wonder there must be something chasing her?
Guy below summarizes it well:

She needs husband...that's what is chasing her. It can be lonely for single parents out there especially women