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ItisWell22:
You’re not alone.

That used to be my alternate name.
“Slow poison”.

You know yourself better.



A sort of confirmation?

But why do you think so? 🤔

elmagnifico411:
Your girlfriend na area girl. Make she go mushin go find boyfriend wey go dey throw tantrums.

As for your brother, you go gats dey very careful. Him no like you. Take my words, and do good with them.

real691:
It is dangerous to be too meek, you'll explode emotions when you act.
A guy crying because he did punch his opponent is truly wicked!

Lexzeey:
Whenever someone wrong me I don't make a fuss, I don't yell, I don't fight, I don't try to get even, I just smile and I won't say anything either, but for some reason they believe I don't move on, that those who act like that carry grudge and are more sinister when it comes to revenge, one time I joked about quiet people and how easy going they are, and my brother was like, slow poisons are the most wicked people to ever walk the earth, (I'm the slow poison in this instance) then he referenced one time I had a scuffle with one man and I cried, he claims crying wasn't because I fought with someone, it's because people didn't let me do what's on my mind and that's a sign of extreme wickedness, when the man was throwing punches I didn't retaliate immediately, instead I took a step back, and when I wanted to get even alot of onlookers held me and stopped me from getting even so I started crying, he claims people who act like that are more dangerous than people who yell and break stuff when things happen but in my opinion I'm so chill, far from wickedness he's talking about, my girlfriend is now saying the same thing, she said she prefers if I make a scene when she wrong me, that way she'd know I have blown off steam and moved on, that the way I just smile and say nothing makes me seem untrustworthy and she's feeling uncomfortable with that, I should at least throw a tantrum, isn't that toxicity? Are they right about me.

Zeezeal7:
Lol, I think we are similar in nature. I am also the quiet type. Too reserved to a fault and most times, I don't react too whether I am happy or sad, 90% of the time, I always keep my cool and only smile. When offended, I just smile and walk away but our difference is...I don't forgive ....NEVER. I believe in an eye for an eye, blood for blood so even when I walk away, believe me I am planning on how best to deal with you and I can take forever to pay you back. I always advise people around me not to put me in a position to forgive them because I wont and each time I also offend someone, I am always expecting them to revenge so I never let my guards down.
Tho some situations demand I deal with you immediately as e dey hot such as letting you know I am not a pushover.

I was born naturally reserved and that has been my aura so somehow, people don't Bleep with me because subtly and without saying anything, you'd know I am dangerous person. The pros is, I get alot of respect, when I finally decide to talk, people are eager to listen and most importantly, you can't predict what I will say or do next so I enjoy the mysteriousness
The cons are, people especially girls fear me, many people falsely assume I am proud because I don't let them into my life and I have very little friends but no regrets, I've been alone my whole life.

Zubeezanga:
Well you are amazing if you can let go even deep in your heart, I know quiet people I am too and I am not the confrontational type it is just that unlike you I hardly forgive and those bottled up emotions makes it worst because you might lash out at any moment and the lash out is always huge because most active anger that have been bottled up is unleashed and that makes it very bad, so just don't talk to them remain in your lane as for the girl she is looking for a means to exploit and manipulate your emotions, don't give a F and another thing hope you are not scared of being alone, am a loner and trust me it is bliss with this attitude and you get to see people for who they truly are.

Dexy4yah:
Try to give your babe a hot slap when next you guys have misunderstanding.

Maybe it will change her narrative.

When you yell...they say you're toxic
When you react with a smile...they say you're a slow poison.

Don't change from who you're because people will still judge you regardless.

I have stopped giving a fccck about what people think about me.

Starboytwo:
una don stereotype Mushin sotey, una think say na only agbero full dia...

Come Mushin, come Papa Ajao, come collect update.

Lexzeey:
Whenever someone wrong me I don't make a fuss, I don't yell, I don't fight, I don't try to get even, I just smile and I won't say anything either, but for some reason they believe I don't move on, that those who act like that carry grudge and are more sinister when it comes to revenge, one time I joked about quiet people and how easy going they are, and my brother was like, slow poisons are the most wicked people to ever walk the earth, (I'm the slow poison in this instance) then he referenced one time I had a scuffle with one man and I cried, he claims crying wasn't because I fought with someone, it's because people didn't let me do what's on my mind and that's a sign of extreme wickedness, when the man was throwing punches I didn't retaliate immediately, instead I took a step back, and when I wanted to get even alot of onlookers held me and stopped me from getting even so I started crying, he claims people who act like that are more dangerous than people who yell and break stuff when things happen but in my opinion I'm so chill, far from wickedness he's talking about, my girlfriend is now saying the same thing, she said she prefers if I make a scene when she wrong me, that way she'd know I have blown off steam and moved on, that the way I just smile and say nothing makes me seem untrustworthy and she's feeling uncomfortable with that, I should at least throw a tantrum, isn't that toxicity? Are they right about me.

Lexzeey:
Whenever someone wrong me I don't make a fuss, I don't yell, I don't fight, I don't try to get even, I just smile and I won't say anything either, but for some reason they believe I don't move on, that those who act like that carry grudge and are more sinister when it comes to revenge, one time I joked about quiet people and how easy going they are, and my brother was like, slow poisons are the most wicked people to ever walk the earth, (I'm the slow poison in this instance) then he referenced one time I had a scuffle with one man and I cried, he claims crying wasn't because I fought with someone, it's because people didn't let me do what's on my mind and that's a sign of extreme wickedness, when the man was throwing punches I didn't retaliate immediately, instead I took a step back, and when I wanted to get even alot of onlookers held me and stopped me from getting even so I started crying, he claims people who act like that are more dangerous than people who yell and break stuff when things happen but in my opinion I'm so chill, far from wickedness he's talking about, my girlfriend is now saying the same thing, she said she prefers if I make a scene when she wrong me, that way she'd know I have blown off steam and moved on, that the way I just smile and say nothing makes me seem untrustworthy and she's feeling uncomfortable with that, I should at least throw a tantrum, isn't that toxicity? Are they right about me.

Zeezeal7:
Lol, I think we are similar in nature. I am also the quiet type. Too reserved to a fault and most times, I don't react too whether I am happy or sad, 90% of the time, I always keep my cool and only smile.When offended, I just smile and walk away but our difference is...I don't forgive ....NEVER. I believe in an eye for an eye, blood for blood so even when I walk away, believe me I am planning on how best to deal with you and I can take forever to pay you back. I always advise people around me not to put me in a position to forgive them because I wont and each time I also offend someone, I am always expecting them to revenge so I never let my guards down
Tho some situations demand I deal with you immediately as e dey hot such as letting you know I am not a pushover.

I was born naturally reserved and that has been my aura so somehow, people don't Bleep with me because subtly and without saying anything, you'd know I am dangerous person. The pros is, I get alot of respect, when I finally decide to talk, people are eager to listen and most importantly, you can't predict what I will say or do next so I enjoy the mysteriousness
The cons are, people especially girls fear me, many people falsely assume I am proud because I don't let them into my life and I have very little friends but no regrets, I've been alone my whole life.

Wainey:
U are just a fool, so wetin concern us @OP

Wainey:
U are just a fool, so wetin concern us @OP

Zeezeal7:
Lol, I think we are similar in nature. I am also the quiet type. Too reserved to a fault and most times, I don't react too whether I am happy or sad, 90% of the time, I always keep my cool and only smile. When offended, I just smile and walk away but our difference is...I don't forgive ....NEVER. I believe in an eye for an eye, blood for blood so even when I walk away, believe me I am planning on how best to deal with you and I can take forever to pay you back. I always advise people around me not to put me in a position to forgive them because I wont and each time I also offend someone, I am always expecting them to revenge so I never let my guards down.
Tho some situations demand I deal with you immediately as e dey hot such as letting you know I am not a pushover.

I was born naturally reserved and that has been my aura so somehow, people don't Bleep with me because subtly and without saying anything, you'd know I am dangerous person. The pros is, I get alot of respect, when I finally decide to talk, people are eager to listen and most importantly, you can't predict what I will say or do next so I enjoy the mysteriousness
The cons are, people especially girls fear me, many people falsely assume I am proud because I don't let them into my life and I have very little friends but no regrets, I've been alone my whole life.