₦airaland Forum

boxypane:
This mentality really need stop. Especially those jobless orphans who see relationship as a means of being adopted.

😂😂😂

So you are capping their marriageability by just 300$? What can 300 acttually do for you?

Lovelydaisies:
How much does the OP's sisters have? If he does. And if he doesn't, so ,ladies should not marry because they don't have much to contribute? Let's keep deceiving ourselves. Smart people don't understand simple things.

Tomorrow now, na the same men go ask woman why she never marry, when na the same men talk say if she no get half a mill, make she no marry.

What is sauce for the goose should also be sauce for the gander. No double standard.

Ask them .. you will hear that they want 10million naira wedding

₦500k is it for eba or what?

Or you mean nothing less than ₦500k? Cos last time I checked, even the caterers charge above that.

redcliff:
So you are capping their marriageability by just 300$? What can 300 acttually do for you?

That is the Nigerian standard based on the terrible economy.

They Don't Have 25k ,You Are Talking of 500k, it's Only Classic Hookup Girls or Celebrity- Nollywood Corporate Prostitutes That Can Have Up to 500 or More

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

God bless you.
Let me see any useless broke Poverty Stricken bastard that will diaagr with this insightful post

Ayjay44:
What is 500k or u mean 500k monthly earnings?

we all know you're a violent criminal and you can easily gather such amount under one night

Cassandraloius:
You're very correct! I agree 💯

I raise the OP opinion with three carton of beer 🍺 🍻

kings59:
Okay, let's assume she had 500k, she then got married the next day. ( your criteria were met)

The next day, she spent 200k, and now the money had shortened.

Can you now see your notion is bullshit Op?

Some people sef will not allow u to read comments in peace. If she no get d 500k who for give am? No be u? And 300k still remain for her hand o. Try not to dey comment to every post e go help u.

havenz:
The way I jumped into this just sweet my belle, aswear this bleeding gender of this time are just too lazy to work but keep waiting for who they will make uncomfortable, bunch of modafu*kas.
Like seriously if any girl is not working let her stay away from marriage, this is not a child's play.

them go open their dirty mouth talk rubbish say they can't marry a broke man as if their papa get any thing

I came across this thread before replying to another post but let me put it hete

papyjaypaul:
There is nothing like that. The problem is that we do not appreciate our culture and history. Do you know that markets are connected to the Oba? The Iyaloja is a member of the King's cabinet and the King gets to know the feelings of the people through what the market women say? Our mothers worked and earned without problem until the British colonialists came to destroy our system of government. It won't happen in Igbo markets because historically Igbo don't have the same system but the story of Funmilayo and Aba women's rights should have taught Nigerians some lessons about who they are. Alas!

Our society has been destroyed by Western ideas and some people who call themselves feminists without knowing who they are will say their fathers are misogynistic and all that nonsense. They don't know how powerful their mothers were before oyinbo came to destroy what they had. Now the oyinbo are contaminating their minds the way they did in the west to make them compete with men instead of us working together as a society. Everyone had their roles, both men and women. The same British called our fathers idiots for giving their women so much freedom such as Iyaloja!!! They did not allow women participate in their own democracies, today women are looking for crumbs to eat in that thing they call percentage whatever. They are begging the Presidents to give them space. How foolish can Africans be!

Do your own research on why we had the Aba Women Riot and the Abeokuta riot, all led by women. Even in Black America, women were tired of being lied to because they saw white massa sleeping with them and giving them false hopes. Women are protectors of the society. Today I saw one boy on Nairaland who said a woman without 500k should not get married. Women in Nigeria have been raped off their power and deceived with feminine rights by oyinbo who make them hate their ancestors and love fake oyinbo rights. The women did not take a careful study of how these oyinbo gave their own women rights and when.

Before you reply me, if you choose to reply me, listen to Prof first and reflect on who we historically are. If you don't know your history, you will repeat the mistakes of the past



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4hZ2DmS0bk

Sososo:
Seconded

But there are women that marry men of lower financial standing to them.

Veekee James

stop watching Nollywood movies bro.
Doesn't happen in this contemporary age.

500k 300 had?
Ah poverty don do us something.

CyrusVI:
Thats correct
But dont u think 500k is too small as most couples tend to fix dates ahead and that affords the lady enough time to save more


Thing is,Most working class ladies have more than that in their account sef. And i dont know why you would wanna marry a lady that isnt working or have a proper job

Fernandezisback aka wagwanbrethren aka Zxbctnr.
Thunder fire you there.
How much you get for your account?

Sososo:
But I just gave you an example.

Do you even know that so many women are the bread winners of their homes?

Many families are being run by both the man and the woman.

The SIT@HOME/TROPHY WIVES era is over.

A BIG FAT LIE!

tropaz:

Kindly note; A WOMAN WHO CAN GROW LEGALLY MADE 500K IS BETTER THAN A WOMAN WHO HAS 500K. (If you don't understand, then you are a diploma drop out)

Money is not really the most important basis in choosing a LIFE PARTNER... It's called life partner for a reason. Hence, ask YOURSELF;
Is she ready to grow with you?
Is she optimistic or a victimized soul? Kindly not; Victim mentality is mostly a genetic or environmental trait. So, take time to look your partner mama well well, That's whom your wife will become in future. Then, observe her company as well before tying the knot.

Lastly, Never marry a woman who can't pray until something happens (PUSH)... I know you will ignore that and follow yansh. Don't worry, your pastor that wasn't responsible for your choices will waste anointing oil on you when the trouble starts in future.

PS; look at your partner very well and ask yourself; can this person help with the kid's assignments when I'm busy handling contracts?

Let me off the mic 🎙️ here.... ✌️ 🕊️

FOR YOUR OWN MENTAL HEALTH, PROSPERITY AND SAFETY, NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST, THEY ARE ALWAYS EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE.... I TAKE GOD BEG YOU....


free advice from young a married man.... I married at 26, we will be 10 years together very soon....

no present day Nigerian lady will marry you nor even reason you despite having potentials of growing or amassing millions.
Baba if you no get ready made money no lady go look your side.
So enough with such mentality unless na village girl you go marry

Ennyjude:
If them never kill one motivational speaker,others no go learn

u b yeye girl

But on a serious note every adult needs to think like an adult for a relationship to work, I can't be the one to take your responsibility when you are an adult it doesn't make sense to me. This is why a liability is a no no for me.

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

you are spot on sir.

I discovered that my wife had over 3million in her account when we wedded. This was a girl who would never flash you or hurry on the phone whenever she called.
Sometimes whenever I sent money to her account, she would ask me what it was for. She would still spend the money on the family and add more. I have never been under financial pressure till date. She works for her money to support me. As God is doing for me, the parents are over financially okay. As we wouldn't accept their financial assistance which they kept pushing on us, they see my children as an avenue to spend the money which we wouldn't accept, on their birthdays and others. I am just blessed

AutoChick4U:
Go for a lady with millions na. I'm sure ur grandfather didn't look out for how many farmlands ur grandmom got before marrying her. Boys of this age sef

NwaEnyiAwkaEtiti please shut up.
Stop being hypocritic

Lovelydaisies:
How much does the OP's sisters have? If he does. And if he doesn't, so ,ladies should not marry because they don't have much to contribute? Let's keep deceiving ourselves. Smart people don't understand simple things.

Tomorrow now, na the same men go ask woman why she never marry, when na the same men talk say if she no get half a mill, make she no marry.

How much your PovertyStricken papa get wey you no fit marry broke man?

Ayjay44:
What is 500k or u mean 500k monthly earnings?

At least

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

Supported 100%. Sebi naija women think say dem get sense abi? E don dey cast. Things are changing. Dem wan dey build castle on top a man's success. Look pussy don dey everywhere available so no women should come dey believe sat she bring on kind thing for table.

Ipobfraud:
Why must a guy spend on his girlfriend? Who do our lady this thing? We’ve made them to be so entitled and useles than to spread their k leg. Women should work and be semi-dependent, not totally a parasite on a man, na person same blood they run for both genders vein.

that's what it is in Africa, most of girls are parasite,

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

I share in this school of thought. 500k is too small an amount to make a reasonable impact, however. As a matter of fact, I am more keen in the woman having a source of income than just savings.

Oracleee:
Are all this logical or just a fiction of your imaginations or what you're told by religious leaders?


As religion is just implanted to make one a moralist. FYI, I don't spend more on gf. It's transactional. Scratch my back I scratch yours kinda thing.

just dey speak English, life is a mystery, na small boy dey do you.

TrustNone:
NwaEnyiAwkaEtiti please shut up.
Stop being hypocritic

hypocritical how na Biko? Lemme understand

Rapmoney:
I'm sure you were still running around with pant and bathing outside when I was rounding off my university education. If you don't know, don't talk.

Ok sir ooooo but ur submission ain't feasible sha

Saao:
that's what it is in Africa, most of girls are parasite,

You all are unexposed. Shey those oyibos divorcing and taking all d man got are Africans abi? Even d rich celebs sef. Stay there oo

AutoChick4U:
You all are unexposed. Shey those oyibos divorcing and taking all d man got are Africans abi? Even d rich celebs sef. Stay there oo

don't take it personal Sister, that's what it is. Our own girls own too much, thank God our guys are taking cover

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

you are spot on sir.

I discovered that my wife had over 3million in her account when we wedded. This is was girl who would never flash you or hurry on the phone whenever she called.
Sometimes whenever I sent money to her account, she would ask me what it was for. She would still spend the money on the family and add more. I have never been under financial pressure till date. She works for her money to support me