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Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 7:31pm On Sep 06, 2024
Ladies, can you marry someone who lives in rooms like this? What are your thoughts on building a future together with a man in such a living space?

Men, will you pray to marry a lady in this kind of room or will you wait and hustle more before getting married?

Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by DaddyCoool(f): 7:38pm On Sep 06, 2024
Why not?? Couples live in a hotel room for months
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:43pm On Sep 06, 2024
whats wrong with the above place?! i dont understand... especially if A) you love the man and B) you dont have a better place of your own....

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 7:47pm On Sep 06, 2024
DaddyCoool:
Why not?? Couples live in a hotel room for months
Hmm 🤔
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 7:48pm On Sep 06, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
whats wrong with the above place?! i dont understand... especially if A) you love the man and B) you dont have a better place of your own....[/b]
Looks basic
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by dangoteinlaw: 7:49pm On Sep 06, 2024
Men defers though but i was in a room and parlor self contained and still refused to marry until i was able to afford 3bedroom. I value privacy as a man and i hate sharing bathrooms with women who has monthly flows. So as a man you gots level up forget those nonsense from broke nairalanders that it is better to beg my brother make money coz life is too sweet when u have money. You will give yourself so much privacy and your wife will worship u.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:51pm On Sep 06, 2024
BaddieFreak:
Looks basic
you may not want to have/raise children in such a place but its more than enough for 2 people with not a lot of money to spare.... if thats what they can afford then so be it.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by CgRay: 7:55pm On Sep 06, 2024
I don't see anything wrong here. We aren't going to be in the single room forever.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by illicit(m):
Hmmmmm well if she won't get pregnant and have a baby in there...

Too tight

It's really a single guy with a girlfriend's space, she comes and go
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by DaddyCoool(f): 8:06pm On Sep 06, 2024
BaddieFreak:
Hmm 🤔
CgRay:
I don't see anything wrong here. We aren't going to be in the single room forever.
Exactly. As long as it's not forever, absolutely nothing wrong with it for a married couple
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by advanceDNA: 8:28pm On Sep 06, 2024
I like as all women think they will marry billionaires .... grin grin
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Sammy101111(m): 8:33pm On Sep 06, 2024
If you love this kind life that means you don’t always pack friends , introvert person ..

I lived like this some years back but woman still use me insult me she tell me say she no fit even invite her friend come my house and my house no get privacy say my house too open 😂..
The thing touch me oh then
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Everyday247: 8:33pm On Sep 06, 2024
DaddyCoool:
Why not?? Couples live in a hotel room for months
MrBrownJay1:
whats wrong with the above place?! i dont understand... especially if A) you love the man and B) you dont have a better place of your own....

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/abwha1.gif
CgRay:
I don't see anything wrong here. We aren't going to be in the single room forever.
Yeah right 😏
That's what they all say at first until 5 years later when they are still in that same room, then sh1t gets real. tongue
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by PerfectStranger(m): 8:34pm On Sep 06, 2024
advanceDNA:
I like as all women think they will marry billionaires .... grin grin
And then reality hits

Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 8:39pm On Sep 06, 2024
dangoteinlaw:
Men defers though but i was in a room and parlor self contained and still refused to marry until i was able to afford 3bedroom. I value privacy as a man and i hate sharing bathrooms with women who has monthly flows. So as a man you gots level up forget those nonsense from broke nairalanders that it is better to beg my brother make money coz life is too sweet when u have money. You will give yourself so much privacy and your wife will worship u.
I second you. Money always makes life sweeter
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 8:42pm On Sep 06, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
you may not want to have/raise children in such a place but its more than enough for 2 people with not a lot of money to spare.... if thats what they can afford then so be it.
What about having visitors staying over,privacy, what about them having children and what if at the end of the day, they don’t have enough financial resources to move to a better place after many years etc, This is reality oo
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 8:44pm On Sep 06, 2024
CgRay:
I don't see anything wrong here. We aren't going to be in the single room forever.
Till you realize that you’ve spent couple of years living in the same place or even moved to a far less desirable apartment. This is reality
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 8:46pm On Sep 06, 2024
illicit:
Hmmmmm well if she won't get pregnant and have a baby in there..

Too tight

It's really a single persons with a girlfriend's space, she comes and go
Which one be if she won’t get pregnant. Will she get pregnant all by herself abi no be man go run am for her undecided
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Martinsmine(m): 8:46pm On Sep 06, 2024
U never go face me i slap u
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 8:47pm On Sep 06, 2024
advanceDNA:
I like as all women think they will marry billionaires .... grin grin
I like as all men think sey dem go become billionaires grin undecided
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 8:47pm On Sep 06, 2024
Everyday247:
Yeah right 😏
That's what they all say at first until 5 years later when they are still in that same room, then sh1t gets real. tongue
Absolutely right
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by illicit(m): 8:54pm On Sep 06, 2024
BaddieFreak:
Which one be if she won’t get pregnant. Will she get pregnant all by herself abi no be man go run am for her undecided
🥵
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by SenecaTheYonger: 9:27pm On Sep 06, 2024
if you see some kind rooms wey niggas dey use lash and camp women, you go know say this one be like heaven.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by 1Sharon(f): 9:39pm On Sep 06, 2024
It's a cute room, but not big enough for children
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by ChiefOkporghe: 9:46pm On Sep 06, 2024
Many Nigerian Soldiers living in barracks live in one room like this. A two bedroom flat is shared by two soldiers and their families. Shared toilet. Sitting room is usually for the most senior rank.

So, many soldiers (NCOs please) live in places like this.. If you're a junior, your room becomes your everything except kitchen and toilet. And many of them get married and give birth to children there.

Navy and Air Force personnel usually have it much more better though than their army counterparts.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:52pm On Sep 06, 2024
Everyday247:
Yeah right 😏
That's what they all say at first until 5 years later when they are still in that same room, then sh1t gets real. tongue
if this is the best that you and your woman can afford, then where is the problem? i dont get it... or do you believe that everyone in Nigeria will have a fantastic life living in a mansion on Banana island? some people out there will live in the above place (or even smaller/shittier) for the rest of their natural lives, and there is nothing wrong with it, if thats the best they can afford.

BaddieFreak:
What about having visitors staying over,privacy, what about them having children and what if at the end of the day, they don’t have enough financial resources to move to a better place after many years etc, This is reality oo
thats when MATURITY/COMMON SENSE comes into the picture...
A) when you get visitors, they sit on the sofa while you and wifey sit on the bed and manage... or just tell people not to come over because your love nest is too small to accommodate visitors
B) having children is a lifelong decision taken by two adults and not some yeye accident...so until they have a better place, these people should NOT remotely look to have children. why would anyone have children when they dont have the necessary space to raise children properly?!
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Everyday247: 10:00pm On Sep 06, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
if this is the best that you and your woman can afford, then where is the problem? i dont get it...



thats when MATURITY/COMMON SENSE comes into the picture...
A) when you get visitors, they sit on the sofa while you and wifey sit on the bed and manage... or just tell people not to come over because your love nest is too small to accommodate visitors
B) having children is a lifelong decision taken by two adults and not some yeye accident...so until they have a better place, these people should NOT remotely look to have children. why would anyone have children when they dont have the necessary space to raise children properly?!
All am saying is that people enter relationship with "Love first, nothing else matters" mentality then after a few years they discover that life is more than just "Love".
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 10:01pm On Sep 06, 2024
MrBrownJay1:
thats when MATURITY/COMMON SENSE comes into the picture...
A) when you get visitors, they sit on the sofa while you and wifey sit on the bed and manage... or just tell people not to come over because your love nest is too small to accommodate visitors
B) having children is a lifelong decision taken by two adults and not some yeye accident...so until they have a better place, these people should NOT remotely look to have children. why would anyone have children when they dont have the necessary space to raise children properly?!
I don’t fancy such lifestyle
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrBrownJay1(m):
Everyday247:
All am saying is that people enter relationship with "Love first, nothing else matters" mentality then after a few years they discover that life is more than just "Love".
the reality is that, if you have a woman that loves you unconditionally and vice versa, then you will be comfortable together in such a place, and will make it work regardless of how uncomfortable you guys are. life is not about dreaming of yeye nonsense, but about being grateful for what you got/deserve... what else can these two people do but accept the cards they have been dealt in life? should they go steal/kidnap to make more money? should she go wh0re herself to get more money? this is who they are and what their life is... accept it and be done with the misery, rather than daydream about yeye nonsense.

so many people out there waste so much of their lives seeking for BS while their blessings are right in front of their own eyes. you have a loving partner, you are in good health, you have a small love nest and you can pay your bills and put food on your small table etc...then call that a fukcing blessing.

BaddieFreak:
I don’t fancy such lifestyle
... and you dont have to, but if thats the best that you and your man can afford then what else can you guys do? steal/kidnap or wh0re yourselves or what?!
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Blitzking: 10:18pm On Sep 06, 2024
BaddieFreak:
Ladies, can you marry someone who lives in rooms like this? What are your thoughts on building a future together with a man in such a living space?

Men, will you pray to marry a lady in this kind of room or will you wait and hustle more before getting married?
Better marry those ppl wey dey japa go UK na their kind house be this. You go hear 800pounds or 1200pounds per month.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Crucialgem(m): 10:33pm On Sep 06, 2024
Mehn if you don't have multiple choices you would learn to be happy with what you have and live life as it is. My own self con is not even as Porsche as this but it is decent enough for me to live as I have provide the basic thing I need to survive
And I am happy with what I have and still hoping for the best
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op):
MrBrownJay1:
... and you dont have to, but if thats the best that you and your woman can afford then what else can you guys do? steal/kidnap or wh0re yourselves or what?!
Woman? Do I look like a lesbian?

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