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Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Arielle: 7:12pm On Sep 07, 2024
Looks cozy. As long as we are not sharing bathroom and kitchen.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by HellVictorinho8(m): 7:20pm On Sep 07, 2024
Mariangeles:
I neither send nor respond to mails.
Can u help me with any amount then

Pls
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Emdebby2: 7:26pm On Sep 07, 2024
There's absolutely nothing wrong with those rooms. No matter how big or small, keep it neat and tidy.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Thazard(m): 7:49pm On Sep 07, 2024
advanceDNA:
I like as all women think they will marry billionaires .... grin grin
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by chris51(f): 7:50pm On Sep 07, 2024
Decent rooms. What is wrong with it. A couple can start life in a place like this.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Afodot0022(m): 7:53pm On Sep 07, 2024
If you are in Lagos and you are asking this kind question, you gat to be joking. Some married people don't even see this kind nice room to leave. Any lady that is not ready to start life with you from a place like this doesn't deserve to grown with you to enjoy in the future
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by TheGift: 7:57pm On Sep 07, 2024
Sammy101111:
If you love this kind life that means you don’t always pack friends , introvert person ..

I lived like this some years back but woman still use me insult me she tell me say she no fit even invite her friend come my house and my house no get privacy say my house too open 😂..
The thing touch me oh then
But it's true. Why not just take it as a truth, which does not define you. ? And look on the positive side.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Love800(m): 8:19pm On Sep 07, 2024
Its the society standards or ethics for a man to cling to a woman for reproduction(family). Nothing like love there.
By the way, do you know dat you can just a woman you called a wife and also admire another that catch ur Fantasy outside the house!
Am just trying to say dat, lets stop all these assumptions of love, whenever the word "wife" is mentioned. Its a fallacy!
MrBrownJay1:
- isnt a man, who already got the above and paying all his bills and putting food on his small table, responsible?!
- what would make that man (who pays all his bills etc) decide to share the above small apt with a woman (if not love)?
- better yet, what would make a woman want to hang on to a man who has so little to offer (in terms of life comfort)?




exactly... she even said that the dude should "work smarter and harder. There is no joy in having small dreams." as if this man who can cater for his own responsibilities and fulfill his small dreams, is now wrong because others have bigger dreams than he does.

as i said early, a woman who has nothing to her name and/or nothing to offer a man, has no right to come and tell that same man that his dreams are small and that he needs to aim higher. worst thing a man can do in life is to take advices from people that never had/achieved the very same things they expect you to get.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by DaddyCoool(f): 8:55pm On Sep 07, 2024
BaddieFreak:
The possibility of Dangote becoming penniless is extremely not possible, we both know this.
Shows how much you know. All these billionaires are MASSIVELY in debt. If anything triggers Dangote's creditors to want their money NOW, you'd immediately be richer than Dangote!
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by NoLotty7(m):
hmm,the second pic was how i started life in Abuja in 2010.
l was young and l knew little about FINANACIAL LITERACY.
mine was with very nice room divider.
I had a small tiger generator which i bought 17k then.

IF YOU ARE YOUNG BELOW 30yrs
Try invest money sha.
E get why.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by 1Sharon(f): 9:05pm On Sep 07, 2024
MrLibrarian:
yeah exactly but as soon as children comes in then you'll have to relocate
You come nairaland, begin dey claim yeye redpill, dey shout say all women are useless
After bashing women, you sent me a PM, for what reason?
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:22pm On Sep 07, 2024
Love800:
Its the society standards or ethics for a man to cling to a woman for reproduction(family). Nothing like love there.
By the way, do you know dat you can just a woman you called a wife and also admire another that catch ur Fantasy outside the house!
Am just trying to say dat, lets stop all these assumptions of love, whenever the word "wife" is mentioned. Its a fallacy!
you are the one talking about wife, i dont. i am solely talking about love regardless of whether is towards a gf or wife.

my issue is, no man in his right mind would want to have a child in such a tiny home, but that man would gladly ask his woman to move in with him in that place (FOR LOVE).... only LOVE makes you do such silly stuff, because A) there is nothing appealing/fancy about such a place, and B) this is not how people view romance. again, why would a woman move in to her man's place if/when he has such a tiny place (if not because of love)?
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrDIY: 9:26pm On Sep 07, 2024
"Rooms like this these"
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by jessylaurel(f): 9:43pm On Sep 07, 2024
BaddieFreak:
Ladies, can you marry someone who lives in rooms like this? What are your thoughts on building a future together with a man in such a living space?

Men, will you pray to marry a lady in this kind of room or will you wait and hustle more before getting married?
What can he bring to the table with this type of apartment?
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrLibrarian(m): 9:44pm On Sep 07, 2024
1Sharon:

You come nairaland, begin dey claim yeye redpill, dey shout say all women are useless
After bashing women,
you sent me a PM, for what reason?
any evidence @bolded?
Maybe you're mistaking me for someone
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrLibrarian(m): 9:52pm On Sep 07, 2024
Mariangeles:
I neither send nor respond to mails.
just in case you've changed your mind and intend private chatting that troll.
Here are the screenshots to show you the grave danger you'll be in when chatting that scammer whose real name is Victor Omerigwe, he's the one using those numerous accounts like Ebenezertriumph with real names Ebenezer Nworie and other accounts like Eggsoup, Trustnone, Grandfinale2021 etc. he uses to troll you.
Be careful

Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by BaddieFreak(op): 10:16pm On Sep 07, 2024
MrLibrarian:
just in case you've changed your mind and intend private chatting that troll.
Here are the screenshots to show you the grave danger you'll be in when chatting that scammer whose real name is Victor Omerigwe, he's the one using those numerous accounts like Ebenezertriumph with real names Ebenezer Nworie and other accounts like Eggsoup, Trustnone, Grandfinale2021 etc. he uses to troll you.
Be careful
If that’s true, then shame on him. There was this one time that still makes me shake my head. I don't usually chat with people on Nairaland, but there was this guy. Can't even remember his name, something like Soul Stalker. We hit it off at first, messaging each other every day, and things seemed cool. Then, out of nowhere, I started getting this strange vibe from him. I couldn't quite put my finger on it, but I knew something was off. So, I stopped replying to his messages altogether.

Instead of backing off, he'd come to Nairaland, quoting my posts, practically begging me to respond. But I completely ignored him. Not long after, someone posted on Nairaland that he was a scammer, targeting women for their money. I am sure old Nairaland members will remember him especially those who were active on the romance section. As soon as that came out, he disappeared. deactivated his account, didn't even try to clear his name, not here or in our chats.
That was why I knew I needed to fear men more!
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by 1Sharon(f): 10:17pm On Sep 07, 2024
MrLibrarian:
any evidence @bolded?
Maybe you're mistaking me for someone
F off abeg. No dey ask me dumb questions
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrLibrarian(m): 10:20pm On Sep 07, 2024
1Sharon:
F off abeg. No dey ask me dumb questions
bipolar spotted
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by 1Sharon(f): 10:25pm On Sep 07, 2024
MrLibrarian:
bipolar spotted
You no know before? Were.

Pseudo-red pillar
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrLibrarian(m): 10:26pm On Sep 07, 2024
1Sharon:
You no know before? Were.

Pseudo-red pillar
show proofs of my red pill posts and you went dumb
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by 1Sharon(f): 10:27pm On Sep 07, 2024
MrLibrarian:
show proofs of my red pill posts and you went dumb
You're not worth it. Just FO. No dey PM women if you think they're beneath you. PM your bros.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by MrLibrarian(m): 10:34pm On Sep 07, 2024
1Sharon:
You're not worth it. Just FO. No dey PM women if you think they're beneath you. PM your bros.
reply the PM first and listen to wetin I wan yarn you
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Shegzdave: 11:04pm On Sep 07, 2024
Tallesty1:
SMH.

They go born kids tire sha.


Ma'am go bend down to plug her phone and Oga go think say na signal and shift pant.
No lies grin grin
If them decide to play and run, na easy catch the woman go be inside that room meaning another child on the way
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by illicit(m): 11:18pm On Sep 07, 2024
Mariangeles:
You mean as long as you don't impregnate her there? cheesy
😝
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by damzy88: 11:31pm On Sep 07, 2024
grin
advanceDNA:
I like as all women think they will marry billionaires .... grin grin
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Konquest:
BaddieFreak:
Ladies, can you marry someone who lives in rooms like this? What are your thoughts on building a future together with a man in such a living space?

Men, will you pray to marry a lady in this kind of room or will you wait and hustle more before getting married?
That place looks like a 1-bedroom apartment. Some have gotten married with that kind of setup and upgraded after giving birth to the FIRST child. Some new couples settled for that kind of room and ended up settling into a "financial rut" while living in the same room or place for years. There MUST be NO stagnation in setting a "higher bar" of achievement for yourself in different aspects of your life before and after getting married as long as what you are aiming for is legit. Period.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Chassy03: 12:50am On Sep 08, 2024
Most people commenting are presently living in that same room right now...Oga no let anybody whine you ooo grin
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Konquest: 1:04am On Sep 08, 2024
1Sharon:
You're not worth it. Just FO. No dey PM women if you think they're beneath you. PM your bros.
@1Sharon, the bolded cracked me up here... cheesy grin That's a weekend smack down right there.
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Love800(m): 2:13am On Sep 08, 2024
Nice.
I appreciate your response.
MrBrownJay1:
you are the one talking about wife, i dont. i am solely talking about love regardless of whether is towards a gf or wife.

my issue is, no man in his right mind would want to have a child in such a tiny home, but that man would gladly ask his woman to move in with him in that place (FOR LOVE).... only LOVE makes you do such silly stuff, because A) there is nothing appealing/fancy about such a place, and B) this is not how people view romance. again, why would a woman move in to her man's place if/when he has such a tiny place (if not because of love)?
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by ojinuocheibi(m): 4:07am On Sep 08, 2024
BaddieFreak:
Hmm 🤔
all this poor girls, poor economically poor mentally, like say you papa house big reach this one.mtchwwwww
Re: Can You Marry Someone Who Lives In Rooms Like This? by Tallesty1(m): 6:08am On Sep 08, 2024
Shegzdave:
No lies grin grin
If them decide to play and run, na easy catch the woman go be inside that room meaning another child on the way
Exactly, no stress at all 😂
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