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Tflex01:
God bless you.

Some persons are even angry on twitter that the man spoke Yoruba. Calling him a tribalist and all.

Nigerians!!😆

Amen and you too.

Seriously, i just don't understand why people consciously ascribe wrong meanings to issues just to suit their narrative and objectives. Nothing justifies domestic violence. And when they say domestic violence, both men and women can be and have been victims. Why do we have to demonize every man because we want the world to see us as antagonist of domestic violence.

Call what is violence violence
And what is not violence, don't ascribe it to violence. Simple.

femi4:
Its not a crime to wear police uniform and give you an advice. Police is part of our community

When a Police officer is on uniform, whatever he says is assumed the official position. If you feel like addressing such, go do that in your personal capacity without wearing the UK Police uniform.

Malroux:
What's wrong in what the police officer said? Or is it better for Nigerian women in the UK to continue treating their husbands as scraps?

It’s a huge liability that would put the police department to be sued endless times. The police don’t intervene in relationships between consenting adults or provide marriage counseling, their job is to protect and serve the citizens.

pocohantas:
Oga, have you not seen how many women your brothers have killed this week alone? When will you comment on the vast majority of Nigerian men? Abi no be same una dey travel abroad?

Encourage your brothers to marry foreigners. I want to see more of such marriages. I want to see more Nigerian men with their foreign wives celebrating 40yrs anniversary. There has to be a reason I hardly see this. The marriage must be so sweet that these women do not remain with you guys until retirement. It is only to hail una for buying Henessey in SA and Kenyan clubs.

If anyone kills, it’s obvious the killers are your brothers not mine. My brothers don’t kill, they only try to avoid toxic women who like to transfer aggression on every little issues.

Botragelad:
Have you actually read the post? The video is from years ago, and that individual was acting on their own initiative. No sensible police officer would suggest that a woman shouldn't report a matter to them.

If someone is being abusive, you have every right to contact the police, it's their job to sort out whether you're being abusive or not. This isn't Africa, where people seem to get away with everything. Learn to behave yourself and follow the law. You're not above the law.

You chaps need to lose the macho attitude you have back in Africa, where you think you can boss women about as you please and torment them. Well, let me tell you, that sort of rot isn't tolerated in the UK or any decent society.

This is exactly how you lot mistreat women and tell them to deal with the situation until they end up dead.

Powerful and truthful response here. Great job.

Laple0541:
If anyone kills, it’s obvious the killers are your brothers not mine. My brothers don’t kill, they only try to avoid toxic women who like to transfer aggression on every little issues.

Okay, when men kill, it is because women transfer aggression. But when they report una to police, una dey innocent? Penìs logic.

aestake:
Go to the UK and undo the advice.

Well the police department is doing that now. I don’t need to do anything

Goodnewsforlife:
over Sabi u don't even understand what the guy was saying

He's actually talking about home management,nobody is saying they shouldn't report abuse but there are some minor issues that could b managed within the home that are blown out of proportion because the women believe they have an upper hand

In pidgin, no b every case u go call police, some small issues dey wey u suppose manage for house na only issues wey Una no fit resolve for house u suppose call police for

Simple

What you call Home management is beyond the
pay grade and expertise of the Police. They don’t intervene, as they shouldn’t. It’s not their job and the women have the right to call the police for whatever they feel they need to.

cococandy:
He went to join the UK police with the Nigerian police mentality of telling women that domestic violence is family matter . Until they die then everyone will start screaming “wHy diDn’t She leAve?” 🙄

Maybe the Nigerian Police will offer him a job because his days as a UK policeman are over.

Goodnewsforlife:
don't mind that guy, I can bet he doesn't have a girlfriend

Don't stress yourself about all those kids

You self, you're slow a bit. That's not a guy you're arguing with...ah! 🤦🏽‍♂️

Anyway, don't waste your time with these guys.

cococandy:
So why were people hyping the video all over the internet in direct attack against women by saying “even the UK police has told Nigerian women to stop calling the police on their men”?

As if to insinuate that they are making up stories about nonexistent abuse and lying to the police?
That’s the impression it gave

These people refuse to understand that there are responsibilities that go along with professions. He represents the Metropolitan police and by making that statement, he misrepresented them. He’s not a marriage or relationship counselor, he can’t give advice. He isn’t in Nigeria, he can’t tell women what isn’t important enough to call the police for.

Immediately I read some of their comments in that other thread, I knew there would be no peace in their coven and I've been proven right. The witches have now come up with a counter thread crying all over the place. This gender we are dealing with are direct descendants of 😈. Odi egwu

Let them continue to call police for minor issues that can be resolved amicably.
They always regret their stupid actions at the end.
Once it's not physical abuse, they should resolve their differences.

Marriage is a loosing proposition for a man in ANY Western country, only a foolish man will marry a woman in ANY Western country or import one from the third world. She can wake up one morning and decided she is fed up with the marriage and divorce your black ass while taking you to the cleaners. The institution of marriage in Western countries are totally rigged against men that I can say 97% of men in marriages in Western societies are fvcking miserable, you are better of getting a dog if you are lonely than shacking up with a modern Western female, at least the dog will be unconditionally loyal to you and love you unlike a modern feminist woman.

I didn't even bother to watch the original video as once I saw it was a black man speaking, I knew it would be a Nigerian about to get himself into trouble.

benikad:
I have to go back to watch the video the guy speak so responsibly and didn't mention anything like that, he even said you can stop any of the police and report to us..

I'm wondering too. Except if the video is incomplete.

I think he only wants a situation where parents try to cooperate to bring up the children. Many young Nigerians have become wayward due to the freedom over there. I remember the case of the guy who killed his mum.

The fact is that kids need fathers or father figures in their lives for balanced development. Of course, abusers need to be dealt with.

Goodnewsforlife:
over Sabi u don't even understand what the guy was saying

He's actually talking about home management,nobody is saying they shouldn't report abuse but there are some minor issues that could b managed within the home that are blown out of proportion because the women believe they have an upper hand

In pidgin, no b every case u go call police, some small issues dey wey u suppose manage for house na only issues wey Una no fit resolve for house u suppose call police for

Simple

You know say no be everybody gets brain. Just leave am

Flame333:
Somebody is about to go down

As in
UK police will balance and finish him career

cococandy:
Well the police department is doing that now. I don’t need to do anything

atiku4President:
UK authority must respond to that garbage that man was selling to innocent women. He directly and indirectly encouraged them to die in silence. He thinks UK is Nigeria where citizens are forced to take rubbish from fellow citizens and even from government.

Nigeria women, continue calling the police on your husbands. Bunch of cursed daughters of eve .

Show me one good thing UK government had ever done for the progress of Nigeria . Just one thing

Botragelad:
Have you actually read the post? The video is from years ago, and that individual was acting on their own initiative. No sensible police officer would suggest that a woman shouldn't report a matter to them.

If someone is being abusive, you have every right to contact the police, it's their job to sort out whether you're being abusive or not. This isn't Africa, where people seem to get away with everything. Learn to behave yourself and follow the law. You're not above the law.

You chaps need to lose the macho attitude you have back in Africa, where you think you can boss women about as you please and torment them. Well, let me tell you, that sort of rot isn't tolerated in the UK or any decent society.

This is exactly how you lot mistreat women and tell them to deal with the situation until they end up dead.

how many times had your mother called the police on your father? You know how to talk rubbish in good English language

Goodnewsforlife:
over Sabi u don't even understand what the guy was saying

He's actually talking about home management,nobody is saying they shouldn't report abuse but there are some minor issues that could b managed within the home that are blown out of proportion because the women believe they have an upper hand

In pidgin, no b every case u go call police, some small issues dey wey u suppose manage for house na only issues wey Una no fit resolve for house u suppose call police for

Simple

don't mind the mugu you replied. Why wouldn't a woman who wouldn't coexist and respect a man stay unmarried?

Botragelad:
Who do you think you are that I owe you an answer to such question? The Queen of England? 😂

For the love of all things, don't even think about playing the 'age card' or you'll end up embarrassing yourself. If you're old enough to be married, you should be grown-up enough to know that reporting abuse/issues is a no-brainer, no matter how small it seems.

Guy just shut up. You're not wise.

hello everyone Totally agree with the author below. I want to say that violence has no place in the modern world. Once I bought sports drugs on the website https://bigbiceps.pro and heard screams from the window, the police came, there was some kind of fight, but it's good that everything passed

If you know that the effects of the chaotic environment you were born into in your family, wouldn't let you live happily in a man's house, remain unmarried with your inherited curse in your father 's miserable family .

Why must it always be Nigerian women

So Nigerian men are now the worst in the UK or what ?

1stGenAmerican:
The UK Metropolitan Police have made it clear that they had no part in telling Nigerian women not to call the police on their husbands. The police officer speaking in Yoruba in this video is being investigated—I’m sure he’ll lose his job and possibly receive criminal charges which is good!

Here’s the story:



https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/met-cop-telling-nigerian-women-33655942


Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8211011/uk-police-officer-advises-nigerian

Very stupid dude

Our women too dey overdo for Europe and America.

ivolt:
What if I find funny is that some of the readers who consider the cop a hero in the first thread
have now made a u-turn to claim he never discouraged women from reporting domestic issues.

If he really didn't say anything contrary to the UK's value, then why was he considered a hero
in the first place?

Given that about 99% of Nigerians, if I am not exaggerating, share similar view with him,
the man could become a YouTube sensation if he starts a marital advice channel.
So, your advice is spot on.

Why didn't your watch the video yourself? Does it make sense to comment on a video you don't understand? You are the one displaying airheadedness for commenting on a video you don't understand or didn't watch.

MerchantMNT:
Why didn't your watch the video yourself? Does it make sense to comment on a video you don't understand? You are the one displaying airheadedness for commenting on a video you don't understand or didn't watch.

Don't be silly.
You either didn't watch the video or couldn't understand it even though no cryptic language
was used in there.

cococandy:
So why were people hyping the video all over the internet in direct attack against women by saying “even the UK police has told Nigerian women to stop calling the police on their men”?

As if to insinuate that they are making up stories about nonexistent abuse and lying to the police?
That’s the impression it gave

So for this dumbo it was the impression the video gave, and not the actual video of a policeman speaking for family cohesion in a generally dysfunctional society like the UK?

Good

1stGenAmerican
atiku4President
Botragelad
1Sharon
cococandy
pocohantas


From what I can tell cos I am Yoruba, this whole programme was about the youths crimes.

Of course, UK youths could be very violent, especially with knife crimes. And it is rather a common occurrence for it to lead to death.

The man was advocating d importance of having both parents in the lives of their children. He acknowledged the fact that women has an upper hand, n said even if you feel the man is not doing anything in the home, manage it, cos d man u feel is not doing anything might be the one who will prevent that same child from getting stabbed. Children raised by their only their mothers have a much higher chance of incarceration, drugs n teenage pregnancy. The research is everywhere, this is not a female bashing thing n d cop sees it everyday at work.

He didn't say manage an abusive husband.

But I understand we have brought our archaic definition of manage to mean to endure. Manage can also mean to keep a company or in this case, a family going within the resources available to you.

There was no place in that recording that he said women should endure or not report violence to police.

It's not my problem what anybody choose to do with their lives. I have met girls who don't want to marry or have a kid n I have no issue with it. In fact, I find them a lot better n I actively gravitate towards them cos they are usually clear headed, can take care of themselves, n importantly, they hold themselves accountable instead of blaming everybody else for their failures. Very little mental stress cos they don't start sulking at your every word.

And if this male-female madness should continue, we should advocate that male n female should just continue to fornicate non-stop, no wedding, no kids, no problems.

This is just wrong n misguided anger towards the man.