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Somebody you just met saying i am fine o, talk o, okay o.
I just felt like am i alright, something I can get once I can pay, even the person will be more prettier and accommodating.

J2ff:
The ladies should talk as well. The title said what made you stop talking stage with someone. It was not gender specific

These ones wey you dey read from guys no dey interesting enough?? .if una never see F moniker weda na fake or real, una body nor dey calm down...
.the thread don dey flow steady with no insult ..... If them land now....they go start victim card dey cry bashing and misogyny against, mother and sister insult go start to dey fly upadan....

She saw her cousin and she asked her if this was her new boyfriend (in her dialect, which I understood very well as my mum is also from same place)

She said nope, she was bored and since I have money to spend, who's she to say no. That she has placed me on billing that once I pay she will fling me off

We got to my place and I agree to pay the billing only after chopping the kpekus. I even added additional 20k to her needs. She knew I was capable so she open the abuna. While I was seeing her off, I replayed everything she said to her cousin in same language to her and instruct her that the next time I see her, would be regrettable for her.

Emmaari:
you see that girl? She has never eaten in her life, sometimes I wonder how she survives.

And she will be like" have you eaten" if I said yes as a guy man the next thing that will come from her is " good for you me I have not eaten anything since morning infact am very hungry right now".

Tbh...some girls no get shame...

Even some boys won't stup this low...

Boys gets level pass girls I swear

But on a more serious note ...Naija girls Sabi beg for money like kilode.

Without shame self.

Forget the nick name they call it "Billing" or whatever...me , I see it as proper begging without shame.

These days , guys dey fear to even say hi... Coz after "hi" , next thing is ..."I'm hungry" or "I don't have data".... Tufia.

Mariangeles:
The truth is, she didn't want you.
She wanted you off her case.



Asides the fact that women are more likely to help a person in need than a man, what most men don't know is that it makes a woman feel good spending her money on a man she likes/loves.
Women are nurturers/carers by nature.
When you finally find the woman for you, you'd understand.

Some of your points are not true. I have had women act the exact same way as the poster described. I assumed what you said to be case and stopped talking to them, only for them to resurface several months later. Why would a woman connect again with someone She wants off her case?

pansophist:
They dont usually like the guy. Sexual tension is very hard to surpress, but easy if you dont find someone attractive. Most men for example can be in the same room with a fat naked woman and wont move at all, or be disgusted.

So when a lady is bringing the no sex before marriage vibe, she is probably seeing him as a retirement plan, to hold down, while she enjoy herself with other men who wont marry her.

If a girl has suggested that, even if she changed, just ignore henceforth. You will most likely starve sexually in marriage. Except in cases where she probably have repented, and disgusted about her past lifestyle, and hope you can understand.

Men dont mind waiting to have sex after marriage, but men dont like to hear that from a woman who has slept with other guys for nothing, but me that will marry you, you are giving me conditions.

Honestly, naa only morally upright virgin girl has the right to tell a guy no sex before marriage, not one old evening newspaper gold digger with more than 100 body count. Any guy that accepts that from her is a real SIMPson.

Sending and texting me messages about preaching and religion. Each time we talked, he was always bringing up preachings.

He was my childhood friend and I had to cut him off instantly.

NoSmoking:
She said ,"can I ask u a favour?'

PerfectStranger:
She peeped to check my balance after making transfer for the drinks I bought, red flag

PerfectStranger:
She peeped to check my balance after making transfer for the drinks I bought, red flag

You're mad,😬🤣😮

Lies...

She ain't straightforward.
And i don't condone such
So I deleted her number n stopped chatting with her on whatsapp.
I detest lies...

AngelicBeing:
Chai, sorry about that, what kind of ailment, ? :

Diabetes.

Mariangeles:
The truth is, she didn't want you.
She wanted you off her case.



Asides the fact that women are more likely to help a person in need than a man, what most men don't know is that it makes a woman feel good spending her money on a man she likes/loves.
Women are nurturers/carers by nature.
When you finally find the woman for you, you'd understand.

She indicated interest and talked about the future but I'm too smart to fall for selfish ladies, I loathe selfishness with passion. Was very happy I saw everything in just two days no time wasted....

Ebubu:
I had an ex that used to send me money, buy me nice polo and cool stuff but was very hypergamous, in fact she left because she met someone with higher degree and stuff.

Imagine that person if she was stingy and selfish? The troubles would escalate ....We can't tell everything about others but we can use some basics to weed out a lot sof problems.

Dis gal cum my house wearing white short skirt and at the same time claiming she's in her monthly flow Omo billing pass greeting i japa for my life i can't b stressing my life at early twenty 🏃

jojothaiv:
All this one no really concern me make Nwai... just drop one salvo and everywhere go bust.

DevilsEqual:
Are there really women say this to a man's face?

I struggle to believe this. I only see it on Social Media,not offline

I have lightly said this to different ladies at this very stage before and they were quick to say No


I find it hard to believe this when i read it online

I would have doubted until I met one, a Doctor for that matter .

Sapasenator:
Sending and texting me messages about preaching and religion. Each time we talked, he was always bringing up preachings.

He was my childhood friend and I had to cut him off instantly.

Do you like him then?

Carcholce:
Some of your points are not true. I have had women act the exact same way as the poster described. I assumed what you said to be case and stopped talking to them, only for them to resurface several months later. Why would a woman connect again with someone She wants off her case?

They saw you as an option.

Neduzoma123456:
Tbh...some girls no get shame...

Even some boys won't stup this low...

Boys gets level pass girls I swear

As a correct G level even if you no get food you go bear an within yourself.

Desusi:
Five years after my wife demise, l decided to Marry again. I started a very serious relationship with a woman, only to discover later that she is having the same ailment that killed my former wife,l have to quickly pick race, never to have a word with her again.

Sorry about the loss of your wife. What kind of illment is that?

Modified:

No need replaying me. Was reading comments and stumbled into the one you replied someone on what killed her. Sorry once again.

Desusi:
Diabetes.

May God continue to comfort and strengthen you in Jesus Name Amen

If you start billing in talking stage ..

.if talking stage is taking too long.

I fvcking disappear..

Mariangeles:
The truth is, she didn't want you.
She wanted you off her case.



Asides the fact that women are more likely to help a person in need than a man, what most men don't know is that it makes a woman feel good spending her money on a man she likes/loves.
Women are nurturers/carers by nature.
When you finally find the woman for you, you'd understand.

Crap!!


If I was that guy .. she'd be a fvck mate already...

LeeSmart:
She told me her other name and it was thesame name with my ex.

I can't allow affliction to raise again, so i ghosted.

Feel free to share yours

She told me to put her on monthly allowance...I cut her off immediately, relationship shouldn't be a poverty alleviation program

Lamasta:
Do you like him then?

Is that guy what I 🤔 he is

Mariangeles:
They saw you as an option.

Looks like your fat ass is an expert on that

😏😏😏

AngelicBeing:
May God continue to comfort and strengthen you in Jesus Name Amen

A resounding aaamen.Thanks for your empathy.

Neduzoma123456:
Cancer ?

No

Desusi:
No

Okay..if you say so