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descarado:
And some of the husband are better than sperm donors?

Some of you empty-headed single mums who refer to the father of your kids as a sperm donor, don't actually know that you denigrate the same kids, and by such qualification, deny/belittle the importance or validity of your innocent kids & birth.

Are kids born or donated?

Inadequate people everywhere...shioor! 😒

descarado:
Moat educated men from Nigeria to abroad don't get their dream jobs hence they do menial jobs.
Nigerian men still think nirsing is a woman job. You can easily get employee with nursing degree.
They will study engineering and expect work from where.
I know a lady from rivers state who works 3 jobs in uk. Was in uk as a student. Sponsored by brother but is married. The husband, a depe dant can't do anything. He don't even know how to make garri.
Wife will work and school. She later gave birth. Child was still born with loads of problem and this man can't even look after his own child yet he is not working and don't want to work. Said all the jobs are beneath him.
Fast word to less than 2yrs, it was her family that filled divorce on her behalf when they visited without her knowledge. She want to keep her marriage at all cost but she was dying
That man will say all manner of things to badmouth the wife.

There are thousands of Nigerian husbands lije that man abroad. Real fact.

I'm not saying Nigerian women are perfect but believe me, most of these hostilities are caused by the men. We all know our men has self esteem issue. Once you conquer that, you will start seeing marriage and your wife differently and will enjoy your marriage.
He went back to naija.

This is always their undoing. They want big money without having to put the work in

They want big money right now! Such arrogance and delusion.

descarado:
Moat educated men from Nigeria to abroad don't get their dream jobs hence they do menial jobs.
Nigerian men still think nirsing is a woman job. You can easily get employee with nursing degree.
They will study engineering and expect work from where.
I know a lady from rivers state who works 3 jobs in uk. Was in uk as a student. Sponsored by brother but is married. The husband, a depe dant can't do anything. He don't even know how to make garri.
Wife will work and school. She later gave birth. Child was still born with loads of problem and this man can't even look after his own child yet he is not working and don't want to work. Said all the jobs are beneath him.
Fast word to less than 2yrs, it was her family that filled divorce on her behalf when they visited without her knowledge. She want to keep her marriage at all cost but she was dying
That man will say all manner of things to badmouth the wife.

There are thousands of Nigerian husbands lije that man abroad. Real fact.

I'm not saying Nigerian women are perfect but believe me, most of these hostilities are caused by the men. We all know our men has self esteem issue. Once you conquer that, you will start seeing marriage and your wife differently and will enjoy your marriage.
He went back to naija.

I am abroad and I not only disagree, but do so strongly.

Yes, there are some not-so educated men, yet Nigerian men are well respected sought after by other ethnicities.

They should learn to value themselves and leave the ingrates alone.

oluwaahmed:
Nigerian men don't know their worth in the USA and it's simply because they keep their circle small or mostly mingle with only nigerians. You mean after doing OT on graveyards, keeping your expenses small all that hardworking you will now go and marry a naija girl? Men those men are game less. The same naija girl while dating her will ask you for money, you buy her Samsung phone, send her dresses etc chai. Meanwhile men gallant with oyigbo girl dem meet for school married her with less than $100 spending(except of course the engagement ring). Some are even lucky enough to marry the one that her parents have gifted a house with mortgage already fully paid years ago all because of $10 flower & $10 chocolate on her bday and $15 dollar movie. Dey mumu urself with naija girl whose only love for you is a ticket out of poverty.

I agree with you.
But there are amazing Nigerian women too.
In Fact, I have encountered some good Nigerian women too
White Ladies and Latino cherish Nigerian men are lot but Nigerian men have this mentality of going back home. I believe one should prioritize Happiness first over any other thing on this planet.
Meanwhile, Texas is alarming because it has got one of the highest congregations of Nigerians in the United States, probably because it's cheaper to reside there.

Golan007:
I am abroad and I not only disagree, but do so strongly.

Yes, there are some not-so educated men, yet Nigerian men are well respected sought after by other ethnicities.

They should learn to value themselves and leave the ingrates alone.

Sought after for what exactly if I may ask?

omooba969:
Some of you empty-headed single mums who refer to the father of their kids as a sperm donor, don't actually know that they denigrate the same kids, and by such qualification, deny and belittle the importance or validity of their innocent kids.

Are kids born or donated?


Inadequate people everywhere...shioor! 😒

I don't abuse online.
If you can't engage me in a civil manner, please disappear.

I'm too old for this nonsense online.

Arrant nonsense!

APOPTOSIS:
She nailed it.
Same story, Same people Always!
Of all the states, Avoid Texas if you want your marriage to work in the USA, even the Police will warn you to avoid Texas.
Texas Nigerian women will make your wife feel like you guys are not doing fine.
Meanwhile Texas is not a flamboyantly Rich state in America, yet we no go hear word.

Most marriage related deaths occur in Texas.
Atlanta is doing tutorials in the hands of Texas.
Even Pastors have barred some of these women from Holy communion. It's easier to sleep with women of every category in the United States as a Jobless man and get paid than sleep with same women in Nigeria as an employed man.

It's in the US, you will see a woman completely divorce her husband to end up a sidechic to another married man for years.

descarado:
Sought after for what exactly if I may ask?

For all the good reasons.

Nigerian men have a great reputation for being hardworking, full of rizz and amongst the most educated.

Hope this isn't news to you.

descarado:
I don't abuse online.
If you can't engage me in a civil manner, please disappear.

I'm too old for this nonsense online.

You got the message anyways. 😒

If y'all don't call men 'dead-beat', it is 'sperm donor'; it just has to be denigrating.

Mtcheew!

APOPTOSIS:
I agree with you.
But there are amazing Nigerian women too.
In Fact, I have encountered some good Nigerian women too
White Ladies and Latino cherish Nigerian men are lot but Nigerian men have this mentality of going back home. I believe one should prioritize Happiness first over any other thing on this planet.
Meanwhile, Texas is alarming because it has got one of the highest congregations of Nigerians in the United States, probably because it's cheaper to reside there.

The weather and opportunities in Texas are the main reasons for the congregation of Nigerians.

Texas is huge with big cities. Be specific. Texas is almost as big as Nigeria. Too much of what philosophers call fallacy of generalization (hasty generalization) in your posts. Some of the richest Americans live in Texas. Also, you may do well to read up on the history, people, economy, weather & demography of Texas. It may help you understand the attraction with Texas.

APOPTOSIS:
I agree with you.
But there are amazing Nigerian women too.
In Fact, I have encountered some good Nigerian women too
White Ladies and Latino cherish Nigerian men are lot but Nigerian men have this mentality of going back home. I believe one should prioritize Happiness first over any other thing on this planet.
Meanwhile, Texas is alarming because it has got one of the highest congregations of Nigerians in the United States, probably because it's cheaper to reside there.

It is cheaper to reside in your ancestral village in Nigeria, why are you not living there? Better opportunities, more options, immediate family considerations, etc?

APOPTOSIS:
I agree with you.
But there are amazing Nigerian women too.
In Fact, I have encountered some good Nigerian women too
White Ladies and Latino cherish Nigerian men are lot but Nigerian men have this mentality of going back home. I believe one should prioritize Happiness first over any other thing on this planet.
Meanwhile, Texas is alarming because it has got one of the highest congregations of Nigerians in the United States, probably because it's cheaper to reside there.

Hussein035:
You see women. They will have enough but to have their husband with them is a problem due to arrogance and the need to be the head since they are providing something

The only way out of this nonsense that has led to different social immorality such a LGBTQ and other nonsense. The only way is shariah, a woman should be under the guidance and care of man even if she is getting 1 billion dollars daily. If humanity continue this useless trend we will use our ego of hatred towards Islam to destroy human race to irreparable point

lol this una lust for sharia never taya una. Una obsessive love for controlling the lives of others never taya una.lol

Orisirisi

1Sharon:
Alot of these Nigerian men put their wives in nursing school and turn around years later when she qualifies to ask for her cheque later on.
Their real intention was to make her the cash cow of the family.

Why are these men not using that extra money they have to invest in themselves so they're better equipped to handle the finances of their home?

Alot of them think nursing roles are feminine jobs that are beneath them. That's why they rather their wife train as a nurse and become the family's money-maker.

When the man's ask for her salary that's when the war starts.

that is not true, schooling is expensive and there are lots of bills to pay. Those men work minimum wage Jobs hence to sponsor their spouses, pay rent and other bills,they need to do at least two jobs. The women cannot work at this rate.

This issue of divorce can't be over emphases, 9ja men no they hear Word. one of our family friends stays here in 9ja while his wife is in Uk working, not that his jobless oo but his not earning that much but his doing well and everything is moving fine. if am to say, it is better either the man or wife travels and one of them stays back to take care of the home while the other hustle and bring the money back home than divorce or problem happening. e they hard woman to respect man when na she dey bring money come house every time when the man they close to am. average women of 80% they like this

CommonSense1967:
Texas is not rich? That's news to me.
A lot of the divorce are due to Nigerian men bringing these ladies to the US as financial security.
You will see a guy with very poor paying job go to Nigeria, bring a lady and push her into the nursing field. Later the lady will realize that she's worth a lot more than the guy driving cab ot Uber.
Women don't respect men that are of less worth than they are. Few ones don't mind but most women don't simply by nature.
Any little disagreement can lead to divorce.
Some women don't care. My sister has been the family main source of income in her household for decades and they are happily married. Most of the young ones now are the opposite.

See the mentality you carry?
Every man wants his wife to be great.
If he had brought her abroad and introduced her to doing sales girl, you guys will also complain, saying why can't he sponsor her in school to be a better person. Because he knows one of the best paying jobs since he has been there for long, introducing and training his wife not to suffer, is now bad.

Most of this useless women are from very poor backgrounds so once they see money it's like heaven to them.

Most of these men endanger their health's and work themselves out to train these daughters of eve.

I will advise every man to save that money and sponsor himself instead.

Secondly, avoid girls from poor family it's a unique trend with them, guys who married ladies from rich homes enjoy peace plus.

I'm sorry to say, you are the total opposite of your sister. Evil spits.

SSpeter:
that is not true, schooling is expensive and there are lots of bills to pay. Those men work minimum wage Jobs hence to sponsor their spouses, pay rent and other bills,they need to do at least two jobs. The women cannot work at this rate.

It is indeed true. It is expensive but why are they not using that extra money they have to invest in themselves?

They're helping their wives work hard, so she can work even harder in the future. That's taking advantage under the guise of empowerment.


I understand that Nigerian women have their issues too But it's hard to respect a man that does this.

Gerrard59:
You have to be specific here. What part of Asian women don't work? Certainly not the Chinese and Koreans.

They mind family or Asian owned businesses. Unlike Africans...

1Sharon:
It is indeed true. It is expensive but why are they not using that extra money they have to invest in themselves?

They're helping their wives work hard, so she can work even harder in the future. That's taking advantage under the guise of empowerment.


I understand that Nigerian women have their issues too But it's hard to respect a man that does this.

if they invest the money in themselves, will you pay for their rent, feed and clothe them and pay for their bills? Of course those who have the means invest in themselves, however for some they just can't because of the responsibilities. Mind you nursing is not where the money is, nursing just like teaching is just slightly better than minimum wage Jobs the only advantage nursing has, is the ability to do extra shifts and do overtime. It is just another shitty job. If you are a nurse and you don't do over time and agency shift, a garbage carrier can earn as much as you.

Emmanuel909090:
See the mentality you carry?
Every man wants his wife to be great.
If he had brought her abroad and introduced her to doing sales girl, you guys will also complain, saying why can't he sponsor her in school to be a better person. Because he knows one of the best paying jobs since he has been there for long, introducing and training his wife not to suffer, is now bad.

Most of this useless women are from very poor backgrounds so once they see money it's like heaven to them.

Most of these men endanger their health's and work themselves out to train these daughters of eve.

I will advise every man to save that money and sponsor himself instead.

Secondly, avoid girls from poor family it's a unique trend with them, guys who married ladies from rich homes enjoy peace plus.

I'm sorry to say, you are the total opposite of your sister. Evil spits.

Lol, abeg don't mind that commonsense1967, tiny sense no dey him comments.

1Sharon:
It is indeed true. It is expensive but why are they not using that extra money they have to invest in themselves?

They're helping their wives work hard, so she can work even harder in the future. That's taking advantage under the guise of empowerment.


I understand that Nigerian women have their issues too But it's hard to respect a man that does this.

this one no get job.
Always on this forum day and night discussing nonsense

CommonSense1967:
Texas is not rich? That's news to me.
A lot of the divorce are due to Nigerian men bringing these ladies to the US as financial security.
You will see a guy with very poor paying job go to Nigeria, bring a lady and push her into the nursing field. Later the lady will realize that she's worth a lot more than the guy driving cab ot Uber.
Women don't respect men that are of less worth than they are. Few ones don't mind but most women don't simply by nature.
Any little disagreement can lead to divorce.
Some women don't care. My sister has been the family main source of income in her household for decades and they are happily married. Most of the young ones now are the opposite.

Texas has the 2nd highest economy after California. So saying Texas is not rich is crazy. Things are bigger in Texas.

SSpeter:
if they invest the money in themselves, will you pay for their rent, feed and clothe them and pay for their bills? Of course those who have the means invest in themselves, however for some they just can't because of the responsibilities. Mind you nursing is not where the money is, nursing just like teaching is just slightly better than minimum wage Jobs the only advantage nursing has, is the ability to do extra shifts and do overtime. It is just another shitty job. If you are a nurse and you don't do over time and agency shift, a garbage carrier can earn as much as you.

Are you talking about Nigeria or the US? Clarify, because you're making no sense.

omooba969:
Lol, abeg don't mind that commonsense1967, tiny sense no dey him comments.

Some of you people just hate to hear facts, you like to be lied to as long as it's fits your own narrative.
I have seen this reality happen over 3 decades. I have friends and family with real life experiences but you want me to post something else. I tell just like it is, if you don't like it, that's on you.
Cheers

bluerose1414:
I don't mean to be rude, I'm honestly asking but how is Texas not a rich state? It has the second largest economy after California and is one of the biggest producing states in the country. It is even larger than New York. Texas' GDP is $2.66 trillion and Africa's GDP is $3.1 trillion. One state in America out of 50 could almost overtake the entire continent with 54 nations.

Take whatever people say on this forum with a grain of salt

Emmanuel909090:
You are a stupid person.
This nurses work less than 8 hours.
They don't do stressful jobs.
It's just that it's a valuable profession.

Most of these men go through a lot, if you have not travelled you won't understand, some work morning and night just to provide for this ungrateful evil women, so they can be comfortable while schooling.

When she is talking about Uber, some na bicycle under cold for day and security under cold at night.

And after suffering for 6 years to train this bastards you say it's good.

I wish your brothers and son same fate if you have any idiot.

any nurse working 8 hrs a day, 39 hrs a week will not earn almost same thing with a trash carrier. Nursing is tough, the nurses work longer hours to make extra money. The job can be back breaking and some night shifts are crazy. My sister has been fired twice for sleeping on shifts . Nothing easy for this life, it just another shitty job

CommonSense1967:
Some of you people just hate to hear facts, you like to be lied to as long as it's fits your own narrative.
I have seen this reality happen over 3 decades. I have friends and family with real life experiences but you want me to post something else. I tell just like it is, if you don't like it, that's on you.
Cheers

If you have seen the reality for over 3 decades, does it make it right?

Abeg shift jare!

Cococandy you're welcome.

Gerrard59:
But how does a man who is an Uber driver in the day and security guard at night afford to sponsor someone throughout an academic program? I doubt her tale. Two, why did he not improve himself academically?
.

Because it’s a lie

Hussein035:
You see women. They will have enough but to have their husband with them is a problem due to arrogance and the need to be the head since they are providing something

The only way out of this nonsense that has led to different social immorality such a LGBTQ and other nonsense. The only way is shariah, a woman should be under the guidance and care of man even if she is getting 1 billion dollars daily. If humanity continue this useless trend we will use our ego of hatred towards Islam to destroy human race to irreparable point

Incidentally, Kano has one of the highest rates of divorce in this nation. Is Shariah not in place there?