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CaveAdullam:
Women's desire for "chaotic men" is an evolutionary instinct that helps them determine a man that can protect and provide for them and the children.

Women are the weaker sex, so they constantly need a man to be bounded around them. (If you notice carefully, since the advent of feminism and "what a man can do, a woman can do it better", the patriarchy pillar around them has collapsed and you can see that every generation produces sets of more damaged women than the previous). Because no virile figure to guard them.

That evolutionary instinct makes them gravitate towards bad boys and jerks at their youthful age. They play. They have sex. They have fun. They have party. Meanwhile, they ought to use that stage and age to lock down a man who has a capacity to provide and protect even though he lacks the physique and destructive character of Brock Lesnar.

Women who openly forment chaos in their relationship, brewing useless drama is one that either is either a h0e or lack a strong father figure that exposes her to the peurile way of the street.

Looking for drama, quarrel, and war rather than praying for the consistent peace of the union reeks of extreme foolishness which sits on a low IQ bench + damaged enough to even be considered as a mate.

That's why there's always an emphasis for men to get married to virgin women only + or women that have a strong father figure in their life.

Those other ones that have found glamour in the street are only fit for sexual recreational purposes because they are the ones that always seek for chaos + they are baggages of worst sexual and emotional experiences.

A woman is the resting nest for a man. That's why she's softer + tender + finer than the man. You don't expect a man to fight battles outside and still come back home to repeat same with a person lower than him and even at that, no ROI for engaging in such drama.

This is also why men must be assertive too. Because it helps to calibrate the hubris of women around them without being domineering, a talkative, or fighter. Being assertive and dominant will send signals to her that you are aware of her drama + won't participate in it + if care is not taken, she will be thrown outside.

Dramatic women = damaged women = h0es.

Thanks.

Zonefree:
Women look for characters to disqualify men while men look for characters to qualify women.

Women can't be satisfied. Just DO you, never change for any woman. Women see Change as weakness.


As a smoker, never quit smoking because of marriage.

*Digest this post with no emotion.

Zonefree:
Women look for characters to disqualify men while men look for characters to qualify women.

Women can't be satisfied. Just DO you, never change for any woman. Women see Change as weakness.


As a smoker, never quit smoking because of marriage.

*Digest this post with no emotion.

Rukevwe999:
"Peace of Mind" is a vague term. It means different things to different people. To some men it means being with a person with good character, to some it means being with a woman who is easy to control.
Before you seek peace of mind from a relationship you must be a person of peace. You must be at peace with yourself and others around you because beneath that quest for a person who will give you peace lies a covert form of cowardice.
Conflict resolution is a skill many people must learn because every relationship must encounter conflict

purples25:
If men cheat, it is a set up, if women cheat, it is out of their bad nature

No problem.

trytillmake:
It might sound funny but I've seen girls that left guys cause he was too cool and loving to her, this na guy working in shell and love the girl pieces but the babe just say the guy too quiet, he's too cool, he's too perfect, too clean , too that..
No be small matter

trytillmake:
It might sound funny but I've seen girls that left guys cause he was too cool and loving to her, this na guy working in shell and love the girl pieces but the babe just say the guy too quiet, he's too cool, he's too perfect, too clean , too that..
No be small matter

purples25:
Wow so women can set up and frustrate men into cheating, but if women cheat, y'all will say we have no excuse.

StillDtruth:
Bros, no go there oo.. All that is a plan to ensure that they can milk their children and to acquire perfect power and control over their children since they do not have that over their husband.

And if you watch, it is only the boys she tried to control while for the girls, they seem to have a secret arrangement and if the girl is not cooperative, Hot Hell shall follow her.

Guy, na almost fake love! The love no complete.

jorion:
So girl leave a SHELL worker....

That's new o...

Maybe she found a CHEVRON bad boy

DaddyCoool:
No be true AT ALL. It is rooted in primitive instinctive biology. No conscious thought goes into it whatsoever. If a woman's genes are to survive she needs to take very good care of the very limited children she can have. She also goes through a lot to produce each child. A man, on the other hand, can have unlimited number of children - and does so simply by enjoying (sex). All he has to do to ensure survival of his genes is to bed as many women as possible!

StillDtruth:
Na lie na one Ecobank banker she follow go.

You are obviously an evil woman.

jorion:
No girl go leave SHELL worker for ECOBANK banker.

Except the SHELL worker na contract staff.

Worst case scenario, she go dey enjoy the money dey kpansh outside.

ItisWell22:
This is not about career women, but mad people looking for trouble where there is none.

I think every sane career woman begs God for a peaceful husband, who wouldn’t add to the stress of working up the ladder of her field

pocohantas:
Lol. Make them dey play. After dealing with psychotic women with daddy issues, they will come online to tell us how women hate peace of mind. All the guys I see making this comment are somehow never married to the calm virgin KPMG staff from a respected home. A girl like that wouldn't even bring you a chimney home to her parents. There is a reason people stick within their class for marriage and allow dregs convince themselves that chaos is fun.

jorion:
The only men who think women don't crave chaos are the ones who women are not comfortable being around

The moment a woman is comfortable with a guy and has sized him, THE WAHALA STARTS

jorion:
This is will be line that I will be using to break up with girls "I DON'T DESERVE YOU, YOU ARE TOO INNOCENT".

StillDtruth:
Its like you are a mummy's boy and so you can not accept to hear that all the love mummy gave you is based on calculation and manipulation.

NEUDUDE:
You leave topic begin rant. oya you married one olosho, now we know, jeje crawl back into that infectious hole you crawled from. let us proud pachelors hear word biko

Zackattack:
Advice like yours drives people away from getting married. You make it sound like a huddle.
Anything that makes one stop being oneself, will never be worthwhile, eventually.
I’ll take the other guy’s advice all day long.

pocohantas:
Speak for your family, dear and please keep this cycle of generational chaos within your family.

🙏🙏🙏

pocohantas:
Lol. Make them dey play. After dealing with psychotic women with daddy issues, they will come online to tell us how women hate peace of mind. All the guys I see making this comment are somehow never married to the calm virgin KPMG staff from a respected home. A girl like that wouldn't even bring you a chimney home to her parents. There is a reason people stick within their class for marriage and allow dregs convince themselves that chaos is fun.

jorion:
Na so.

Deny all you want but you see that drama and chaos, you can never do without it

That's why Nigerian women love Nollywood movies a lot

No plot, no great script, just DRAMA and CHAOS

pocohantas:
When you marry this calm career minded submissive woman from a good home that loves chaos, please quote me with evidence. I will give you N500,000. I take it that you are chaotic and old enough to marry. So this offer is valid for 5 years. Let's leave long talk for VeryDarkMan. 🤝

jorion:
You no get 10K, not to talk of 500K.

Secondly, why the F would I want to marry a NIGERIAN WOMAN??

Of what use is a Nigerian woman to me??

DaddyCoool:
My friend this has nothing to do with me at all.
Many things humans do are based entirely on instinct and the instinct stays even after the reason for the instinct have been removed - because it is based on thousands of years of biology. Example, why men are polygamous by nature - because that's what maximizes survival of their genes. Even though it is no longer necessary the instinct stays. Same reason men are more sexually attracted to women of child-bearing age.
A mother is willing to die for her children. Where's the calculation??

StillDtruth:
So when people say women are mannipulative and scheming, like these people,

https://www.nairaland.com/7526367/why-mothers-feel-hurt-whenever#120064876

https://www.nairaland.com/7506713/how-handle-control-freak-mother#119641484

you think these are mere words describing an instinct, like scratching an itch?

Well i see you want to bury your head in the sand.

APOPTOSIS:
Number one for a man na Peace of Mind.
Every other thing na secondary.
IF you get peace of mind and hardworking woman na bumper package be that.
A man will never prioritize madness and nagging over his sanity just because the woman is wealthy especially when the man is very hardworking.

It's easier for a male medical doctor to marry a receptionist, than a female doctor marrying a male receptionist. Not because the male doctor is afraid but he wants mental sanity and not nuclear wars.
And not because the receptionist won't give issues, but the receptionist would always look up to her husband in admiration and respect.
Men crave for respect & peace.

iLegendd:
Men, is this true or false? Women, if it's false, explain and also explain why you hate peaceful men.

pocohantas:
Okay. As expected. 😂😂😂