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👉 She had and still has a crush on you.
When someone has a crush on you, ur physical appearance, marital n financial status dont count. They just want you.

👉 She still finds u attractive coz she needs once a while financial assistance. She'll use you, lead u on deliberately and when u get led on, she'll use her marital status to shove u off. And she wont stop asking for favours


My advice - stay TF away from her. She's married, allow her do her thing with some1 else but not you.

Men and women cannot be friends. There will always be a crack that will be manipulated by one or both parties if opportunity of lashing comes..

As a man. U can have a woman as business partner
As a man, u can have a woman as neighbor, colleague
As a man, u can't have a woman as a friend, if u don't have any agenda towards her, she will have one over you.

She's hungry and she wants free money to take care of her children because she probably feel her husband is unable to settle all her bills.

Be wise

Remove your aged eyes from the body of a married woman if you want to enjoy your old age and single lifestyle

Leave that bastard woman

why dont you ask her directly?

Meobizy with another tale from Uganda.🥱

finallybusy:
The last time we saw was in our early twenties. She did the usual shakara but we dated for a few months. I tried my best to seal the deal but it didn’t happen. Frustration made me find a willing partner so I jumped ship without looking back.

Almost three decades later and we crossed paths. She took her children for a supermarket trip while I was doing my monthly bachelor shopping. We locked eyes and immediately remembered old nights out. She’s supposedly happily married. We exchanged contacts and I called it a day.

Nairaland, why is this married old woman on my matter now? Almost one month in a row, calls every day. I have aged, she has aged. She has children and a husband. I chose to stay single. All my once luscious beards are now a grey wasteland. My former flat belly is now a lump. What does this woman want me for? I don’t chase women who look like my aunts.

This is not a Joke or take Story?
30 years later?? For real??

finallybusy:
The last time we saw was in our early twenties. She did the usual shakara but we dated for a few months. I tried my best to seal the deal but it didn’t happen. Frustration made me find a willing partner so I jumped ship without looking back.

Almost three decades later and we crossed paths. She took her children for a supermarket trip while I was doing my monthly bachelor shopping. We locked eyes and immediately remembered old nights out. She’s supposedly happily married. We exchanged contacts and I called it a day.

Nairaland, why is this married old woman on my matter now? Almost one month in a row, calls every day. I have aged, she has aged. She has children and a husband. I chose to stay single. All my once luscious beards are now a grey wasteland. My former flat belly is now a lump. What does this woman want me for? I don’t chase women who look like my aunts.

Ask her.

finallybusy:
The last time we saw was in our early twenties. She did the usual shakara but we dated for a few months. I tried my best to seal the deal but it didn’t happen. Frustration made me find a willing partner so I jumped ship without looking back.

Almost three decades later and we crossed paths. She took her children for a supermarket trip while I was doing my monthly bachelor shopping. We locked eyes and immediately remembered old nights out. She’s supposedly happily married. We exchanged contacts and I called it a day.

Nairaland, why is this married old woman on my matter now? Almost one month in a row, calls every day. I have aged, she has aged. She has children and a husband. I chose to stay single. All my once luscious beards are now a grey wasteland. My former flat belly is now a lump. What does this woman want me for? I don’t chase women who look like my aunts.

Uncle please grow up!

If I get you correctly, you should be in your 50s now. Big bros, you are too old to be creating this kind of thread. You should already know the answers to your questions and also know how to handle issues like that.

Tell her you are finally busy like your moniker says so that she will leave you alone

Fear some people. You're probably welcoming her, friendly inviting attitude, yet you will tell others that she is disturbing you.

Please reach out directly and tell her all these nasty words, don't sugarcoat them, so she will know her position.

3 decades later Which kind lie be this

finallybusy:
Almost three decades later and we crossed paths.

seems your brain didn't grow up with your body. stupid questions.

U guys met in your twenties and 30 years later when she,s in her 50s,she's still taking her 'children' for super market shopping? Children of what ages? 7? 10? 13? And she's in her 50s and looking like your aunty?
Oga,goan hug Tinubu with dis your lamba.

Did you guys fvcck back in the days, and how was it?

Because Okafors law of congo dynamics can never be untrue

It could be the way you made love to her that, that part of her still desire you, and she's ready to damn the consequences to sleep with you again, women are all the same after all.

You shouldn't have anything to do with her sexually now, not because she looks like your aunt, but because she's got a family now.

Stand on that and let her know, if she persist, block her to save her from destruction, even tho she may get herself destroyed somewhere, but avoid being part of that destruction.

Op just wants people to talk to! What do you get from making up stories to post on here? Is it the back and forth? Do you need company? Go outside and touch grass 🫶

Double0h7:
Op just wants people to talk to! What do you get from making up stories to post on here? Is it the back and forth? Do you need company? Go outside and touch grass 🫶

after him touch the grass, na to chop am remain na or use am cook soup

Kwakwakwakwakwaaa

They look like your aunts. You look like their uncles.
Dude, maybe she just wants to be friends








Psyqe!
Some women sef... they sha cannot respect themselves.

Since you fućked her before when you guys were much younger I don't see anything wrong in you fućking her again