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Was My Reaction Wrong? by Undaunted11(op):
There's this lady working with me for some months now. I have been doing everything in my power to support her training and also in some other areas.

I am a Christian, and to win her over to God's side, l have endured many of her not too good characters. She goes out, leaving her job for hours. No permission before going out and she won't even acknowledge your presence when she returns.

I have sent her away on several occasions, but people came around to plead on her behalf.

One of the worst of her character traits is that she doesn't know how to apologise for her wrongs.

I was totally fed up today when she left for four hours without telling me, so l asked her to take her belongings and leave, never to return.

I noticed her bad influence has started to rob off on others.
Did l do any wrong asking her to leave?
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by dawnomike(m): 10:21pm On Oct 17, 2024
Undaunted11:
There's this ady working with me for some months now. I have been doing everything in my power to support her training and also in some other areas.

I am a Christian, and to win her over to God's side, l have endured many of her not too good characters. She goes out, leaving her job for hours. No permission before going out and she won't even acknowledge your presence when she returns.

I have sent her away on several occasions, but people came around to plead on her behalf.

One of the worst of her character traits is that she doesn't know how to apologise for her wrongs.

I was totally fed up today when she left for four hours without telling me, so l asked her to take her belongings and leave, never to return.

I noticed her bad influence has started to rob off on others.
Did l do any wrong asking her to leave?
There's no emotion in business... Learn to separate your right sensible business decisions from your faith in as much as you doing the fair and just thing.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by ojun50(m): 10:27pm On Oct 17, 2024
Undaunted11:
There's this ady working with me for some months now. I have been doing everything in my power to support her training and also in some other areas.

I am a Christian, and to win her over to God's side, l have endured many of her not too good characters. She goes out, leaving her job for hours. No permission before going out and she won't even acknowledge your presence when she returns.

I have sent her away on several occasions, but people came around to plead on her behalf.

One of the worst of her character traits is that she doesn't know how to apologise for her wrongs.

I was totally fed up today when she left for four hours without telling me, so l asked her to take her belongings and leave, never to return.

I noticed her bad influence has started to rob off on others.
Did l do any wrong asking her to leave?
You did the right thing. If others start misbehaving fire them. This period one most not use his or her business to play.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:44pm On Oct 17, 2024
lipsrsealed
You did the right thing bro .......

So long there has been no romance between the both you, there's no need to tolerate the nonsense character of hers....

Make she get out abeg
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Undaunted11(op): 10:59pm On Oct 17, 2024
dawnomike:
There's no emotion in business... Learn to separate your right sensible business decisions from your faith in as much as you doing the fair and just thing.
True. Thank you.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Undaunted11(op): 11:01pm On Oct 17, 2024
ojun50:
You did the right thing. If others start misbehaving fire them. This period one most not use his or her business to play.
I couldn't just tolerate her insolence anymore.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Undaunted11(op): 11:02pm On Oct 17, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
You did the right thing bro .......

So long there has been no romance between the both you, there's no need to tolerate the nonsense character of hers....

Make she get out abeg
Romance ke? I was just trying my best to help her but she wasn't appreciative.

I am a lady btw.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Sonnobax15(m): 11:13pm On Oct 17, 2024
Undaunted11:
Romance ke? I was just trying my best to help her but she wasn't appreciative.

I am a lady btw.
okay
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Christ4ever: 11:45pm On Oct 17, 2024
She has no regards for you and her job.

Condoning indiscipline will ultimately lead to business collapse if you don't stem the tide. She is already a bad influence on the others which is bad enough.

You did right. Don't feel bad about it.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 1:04am On Oct 18, 2024
Undaunted11:
■ There's this ady working with me for some months now. I have been doing everything in my power to support her training and also in some other areas.
I am a Christian, and to win her over to God's side, l have endured many of her not too good characters. She goes out, leaving her job for hours. No permission before going out and she won't even acknowledge your presence when she returns. I have sent her away on several occasions, but people came around to plead on her behalf.
One of the worst of her character traits is that she doesn't know how to apologise for her wrongs.
I was totally fed up today when she left for four hours without telling me, so l asked her to take her belongings and leave, never to return. I noticed her bad influence has started to rob off on others. Did l do any wrong asking her to leave?
Dude, first of all, your ego — your ego which you hide behind the mention of God— is the sole reason why you didn't kick her out from the very start. How can you live your life so much like a pushover and expect anything meaningful to come out of this? undecided

Whatever deity you believe in, you better learn to leave it in your pocket when it comes to your relationship with those you work with or you will continue to have more people use and deceive you as this one did. undecided
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by descarado: 1:12am On Oct 18, 2024
You worship the God of isreal, right?
Presently isreal is on killing spree of those she think is a threat to her sovereignty despite their God saying love your nebor as yourself?

Is isreals' action justifiable?
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Undaunted11(op): 8:23am On Oct 18, 2024
Christ4ever:
She has no regards for you and her job.

Condoning indiscipline will ultimately lead to business collapse if you don't stem the tide. She is already a bad influence on the others which is bad enough.

You did right. Don't feel bad about it.
Thank you so much. I noticed her influence has started robbing off, that's the more reason l sent packing.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Free2Fly:
descarado:
You worship the God of isreal, right?
Presently isreal is on killing spree of those she think is a threat to her sovereignty despite their God saying love your nebor as yourself?

Is isreals' action justifiable?
Bloody jihadists trying to use every opportunity to gaslight, blackmail and manipulate others into joining in their useless jihad and religious wars against the Jews and others.
Your intolerant and hateful religious brethren first massacred the Israelis despite what their own Arabian god preached about murder, and so, the Israelis are justified to fight back(irrespective of what the "God of Israel teaches" )

You and your murderous jihadists all over the world don't have the monopoly of killing.
That you massacre people in Nigeria via Boko Haram and other hate-filled jihadists and go scot-free(because your fellow jihadists are in power) doesn't mean you'll do the same in Israel and still walk free.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by descarado: 7:45pm On Oct 19, 2024
Free2Fly:
Bloody jihadists trying to use every opportunity to gaslight, blackmail and manipulate others into joining in their useless jihad and religious wars against the Jews and others.
Your intolerant and hateful religious brethren first massacred the Israelis despite what their own Arabian god preached about murder, and so, the Israelis are justified to fight back(irrespective of what the "God of Israel teaches" )

You and your murderous jihadists all over the world don't have the monopoly of killing.
That you massacre people in Nigeria via Boko Haram and other hate-filled jihadists and go scot-free(becauseř your fellow jihadists are in power) doesn't mean you'll do the same in Israel and still walk free.
Intelligent quotient is -2.
Isreal, Iran, Lebanon, USA, name them, don't know you exist. Your God, alla, mohammed, jesus, also don't know you exist. You are only programmed by philosophers and psychologists to be controlled and used. Look at him fuming and humping over what happens in another man's land.
Low self esteemed nigga

Jihadists ki jihadist ni.
Who cares.
Re: Was My Reaction Wrong? by Free2Fly: 2:45am On Oct 20, 2024
descarado:
Intelligent quotient is -2.
Isreal, Iran, Lebanon, USA, name them, don't know you exist. Your God, alla, mohammed, jesus, also don't know you exist. You are only programmed by philosophers and psychologists to be controlled and used. Look at him fuming and humping over what happens in another man's land.
Low self esteemed nigga

Jihadists ki jihadist ni.
Who cares.
This mumu doesn't even know that the jihadists & Islam hate pagans/atheists far more than they hate the Jews and Christians(people of the Book).

Mumu, the religious intolerance, hate, discrimination, jihad and terrorism that are happening in Israel/Gaza are also happeneding in Nigeria, and everywhere else where Islam exists.

The Boko Haram that has massacred millions of innocent Nigerians, destroyed property and set the country backwards financially because of its obnoxious religious ideologies is in the same category as Hamas, Hezbollah and Houthis terrorists.

Only an ignorant and uninformed fellow doesn't know how these things connect.
Victory for one group of terrorist is victory for all terror groups.

If you help them win the Jews because of your ignorance and stupidity, you'll become their next target, as a pagan or atheist.
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