₦airaland Forum

Caleycash:
Damaged goods!

Kpogara...

We4all:
Kpogara...

Ewure!... Failure

Caleycash:
Ewure!... Failure

Nwoke na-abaghị uru...

Maeve7:
Please tell your fellow men not to get married because marriage doesn’t benefit men. Instead you are here telling women to pray for husbands. You don’t make sense.

Am not making sense because you're not getting the point. The person I replied too is the one who brought up this talk of marriage not benefiting men and I replied her by telling her if she know the reason why we have more widows than widowers in our society she will know that marriage benefit women more than the men.


Secondly, men that doesn't benefit from marriage are those who got married to demon-like, selfish and heartless kind of women that's why they end up not enjoying their sacrifices in their family over the years. But that will not be my portion , i will seek the face of God so he can direct me to my beautiful, God-fearing, loving and caring woman that will be my wife. And that's what every sensible men should do to reap the fruit of their labour, not this creation of a movement that seek to destroy the other gender or cause confusion. Marriage is sure and good for anyone if they get the right person not a Jezebel.


Hope you dig?

achimendy:
Marriage is not by force my dear, it takes two matured, understanding and God-fearing couples to get married and do the needful for the betterment of their family. So if you think being single will give you peace of mind then go ahead and remain single. But stop discouraging women that are ready to build a home with their husband and children.

As for me, I'll never get angry if a woman say no to me, it's normal, every woman can not like me. But if one says no 20 more is out there ready to tell me yes.

It's just life.

We can finally agree on something.

I am tired of seeing the men complaining and bashing wome. like little children on nairaland. That's all!

Ibechris2:
Marriage is great and the work in it is not for everyone.

But I cringe when I see men who do not help their spouse.

That is simply evil.

Simps and yen yen yen talks!
A man who provides all the financial needs in the house is already helping!
Where will he get the time to still help with domestic chores that both the wives and maids can do
Nonsense talks to earn yeye likes from the female folks.

We4all:
Nwoke na-abaghị uru...

OLD CARGO, you're useful naim u never marry at your age??, onye eriri eri 🤣🤡

Caleycash:
OLD CARGO, you're useful naim u never marry at your age??, onye eriri eri 🤣🤡

I wiil keep tormenting you until you commit suicide.

We4all:
I wiil keep tormenting you until you commit suicide.

Says a woman that's 40 and lonely🤣🤡, see you see suicide!... OLD CARGO!

achimendy:
Am not making sense because you're not getting the point. The person I replied too is the one who brought up this talk of marriage not benefiting men and I replied her by telling her if she know the reason why we have more widows than widowers in our society she will know that marriage benefit women more than the men.


Secondly, men that doesn't benefit from marriage are those who got married to demon-like, selfish and heartless kind of women that's why they end up not enjoying their sacrifices in their family over the years. But that will not be my portion , i will seek the face of God so he can direct me to my beautiful, God-fearing, loving and caring woman that will be my wife. And that's what every sensible men should do to reap the fruit of their labour, not this creation of a movement that seek to destroy the other gender or cause confusion. Marriage is sure and good for anyone if they get the right person not a Jezebel.


Hope you dig?

Amen to your prayers.

Let me ask you. If a women dies before her husband, doesn’t it mean that he was a bad husband?

Caleycash:
Says a woman that's 40 and lonely🤣🤡, see you see suicide!... OLD CARGO!

Ha..ha...ha... You need to be packaged and put in a museum because you are useless to humanity. I will send sniper to you in a moment.

We4all:
Ha..ha...ha... You need to be packaged and put in a museum because you are useless to humanity. I will send sniper to you in a moment.

Depression kill you there!... OLD CARGO 🤣🤡

We4all:
Ha..ha...ha... You need to be packaged and put in a museum because you are useless to humanity. I will send sniper to you in a moment.

Depression kii you there!... OLD CARGO 🤣🤡

Caleycash:
Depression kii you there!... OLD CARGO 🤣🤡

The musuem manager has given me the go ahead to bring you in a box. I hope you will behave like a good kid when you get there.

We4all:
The musuem manager has given me the go ahead to bring you in a box. I hope you will behave like a good kid when you get there.

OLD CARGO🤣🤡

Caleycash:
OLD CARGO🤣🤡

Stale. Try to be creative, kid.

We4all:
Stale. Try to be creative, kid.

NO!!!... OLD CARGO 🤣🤡🤣🤣

Zooposki:
This is why the birth/fertility rate is down the drain in Asian countries. It is now in western countries, soon to get to Africa.

4B movement
4B is a radical feminist movement which is purported to have originated in South Korea in 2019. Its proponents refuse to date men, get married, have sex with men, or have children.

In most Asian and Western countries, the death rate exceeds the birth rate.

And you think this outcome came about exclusively from the decision of the women alone ?

I'm sure MGTOW (which btw is even an older movement) sounds familiar to you
.When MGTOW jam 4B

you have declining birth rates, which is a good thing

Caleycash:
NO!!!... OLD CARGO 🤣🤡🤣🤣

Old and rich. Send your account details asap before I change my mind.

Maeve7:
Amen to your prayers.

Let me ask you. If a women dies before her husband, doesn’t it mean that he was a bad husband?

It Depends on the cause of her death.


Most men die of high blood pressure which is caused by many things, but the most of it is thinking which mostly affects men more than women because of the family burden they carry over the years which most time leads to their death. But sometimes some lucky men that got married to supportive and caring wife hardly experience this because their wife is always there for them. Am saying this so you'll know why we have more widows than widowers.

We4all:
Old and rich. Send your account details asap before I change my mind.

OLD CARGO💩🤡🤣

Caleycash:
OLD CARGO💩🤡🤣

Ha...ha...ha...They are still waiting for you at the museum.

Rexymania:
I do help my wife to do the dishes sometimes

Marriage is not easy for both parties

Now I earn more but spend little on my self. I earn close to 100k monthly but e no dey show for my body

:DHow less than 100k go show for your body in this economy

We4all:
Ha...ha...ha...They are still waiting for you at the museum.

OLD CARGO💩🤡🤣

Caleycash:
OLD CARGO💩🤡🤣

Say something new, kiddo.

We4all:
Say something new, kiddo.

NO!!!... OLD CARGO💩🤡🤣

Acidosis:
If you look closely, you'll find that some of the women who complain about their husbands barely helping with household chores have sons they rarely allow to do the same. I once asked a married woman why her two boys, aged 10 and 7, couldn't make a simple meal like noodles. Her response: 'They are boys.' This same woman complains every other day about her 'lazy' husband.

Women who expect more from their husbands should start by raising sons who actively contribute at home. Be the change you want to see.

Also, men who complain about Nigerian girls should strive to be the change they want to see. Be a role model to your daughters, raise the standard, give maximum financial support to your daughters, and the complaints will reduce.

@bold:

God BLESS you!

Some of these women have pre-teens and still whinning about chores.

Don't get me wrong, their husbands sound thoughtless, however some of these women like them like that.

They just want an opportunity to whine and play victims.

They are bringing up their sons like that.

cococandy:
If I could have a super power, I would want it to be the power to open Nigerian women’s eyes.
Be to men how they are to you. Do to them EXACTLY as they do unto you and half of these stories will die in 6 months. Men understand consequences more than anything else.
No low effort man gets a girlfriend, wife or family.
No disrespectful man gets a baby.

There is nothing opening an average 'Nigerian' woman's eyes.

She likes her man like that so she has something to whine about.

She is training her sons same way and screaming when her brother is humane and loving towards his wife. Such a wife has 'jazzed' her brother.

iamtoofan:
je ka gborun jare !! Do mothers not manipulate the children against the man, does anyone need to paint the devil bad or does the devil need a reason to be bad

How can fathers bond with the kids when he spends more time hustling and working his butt off to provide,

How can the kids bond with man, there mother use as disciplinarian or threat, i will report you to your dad as if the dads are sadist.

How many mothers tell there children the sacrifices there father made, most children growup thinking if not for their mother protest, their father wont have done anything


Men bypass your wife if you must
.. let your kids see what you do. shikena

Men spend more time hustling?

queenfav:
How do i frame this? People forget having kids is a huge responsibility financially, emotionally and otherwise.It eludes me why People who are clearly financially struggling have so many kids.

Like, you haven't even fed well and you have 4 kids in this economy.Even an oil worker will struggle a bit with the kind of inflation we are dealing with in Nigeria.Have you seen the prices of basic household items, school fees even ordinary food?
I don't even know how low income earners are surviving.

I always advice women to secure the bag.This world isn't fair to women,you have to protect yourself.If you are not making your own money no matter how small you have no business having kids.It's too risky to rely on your husband for money.What if he dies?How will you feed those kids?Bringing a child to endure hunger and hardship isn't the best at all.

More women should learn how to be very strategic about their life's choices because when the suffering will start,na only you go see the shege.

On point!

descarado:
Thank you Acid.
We are the architect of our problems.

I have boys.
Oga cook while his boys watch. Fast forward, they own the kitchen now. Just that I spent triple on spices and herbs and whatever. Its a complete nightmare but i really care less. Nobody tells me they have finished until I want to use them.
I can't remember when last I loaded the washing machine, vacuumed or mop. If you fail to do any, you are grounded. We will start taking off your privileges. Passworded all tv, no phone, laptops are for homeworks only. Will simply tell you to go and be creative with your time. Sult for all I care. If you disturb me more, I will tell you to write I am sorry 500 times

This way, you teach your male child to be proactive at home. We spoil them and still cry woof.
I don't even have a female around me. Growing up was that way too. All men around me do exactly what women do and more. I just don't understand the things I read online

derdon2024:
We are leaving in the end time,women now want to be like men.Talk like men,take responsibility like men, dress like men.Do evrything a man does.Possibly maybe God should not have created that gender , they are a whole lot of confused gender.In the first place, what i see now is that there is confusion evrywhere.The feminist movement are working hard to make women see they can be equal to men,they must have equal right in everything.In reality, live cannot be balanced.Women dont want to be married again because they see marriage as a slavery.Also men see marriage as a slavery where the man work out his ass to provide.I see lesbian women working hard to be men and foolish gay men working hard to be women.Definitely, confusion every where and i fear for the new ideas modern men and women have , this is a crazy age

You read the OP and deduced that women want to be like men?