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Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by searchlight: 5:38pm On Oct 21, 2024
You don't have sense and the girls knows it. She can't say that to everybody he just met. She just noticed that you are a fool.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by AkhereOkaka(m): 5:51pm On Oct 21, 2024
TreasureJunky:
Mumu,, play girl is using your head and you've already fell for it.
So under one week you're already loving a girl that you can't live without her.
See you see heartbreak
How do you place a girl friend on monthly Allowance? I didn't do that while single but that doesn't stop you from giving her something when you have. I only place my wife and mum on monthly Allowance.

We rise by lifting others
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by MrSly(m): 5:51pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
If you can keep your GF because you out do other guys in terms of doings then you aren't the owner of the girl. How much do you have to out do men them?

But seriously this forum has many little boys. A man cannot be this needy and petty with a girl.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Austineva(m): 5:54pm On Oct 21, 2024
You be bloody simp and you will learn in a very harder way🤣🤣🤣
Anumpama 🤣🤣🤣
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by dauntless15(m): 5:56pm On Oct 21, 2024
Tell her monthly allowance comes on the 31 of each month, fvck her from 1st of the month till 29th then break up on 30th, dating na job? Wey she dey find allowance, the spongebrain even ask you am I working? Is she handicapped that she can't work? I no blame her, she saw you're a simp so she's utilizing your simpness.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by invectives(m): 5:59pm On Oct 21, 2024
opera1:
[b["He should always give me money" [/b]
Anytime you don't have, she will jump to another guy that has money
no be when u don't have sef...put her on 100k monthly any guy that gives her 110k she will open wide for him!!!...Baba wise up
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by invectives(m): 6:01pm On Oct 21, 2024
dauntless15:
Tell her monthly allowance comes on the 31 of each month, fvck her from 1st of the month till 29th then break up on 30th, dating na job? Wey she dey find allowance, the spongebrain even ask you am I working? Is she handicapped that she can't work? I no blame her, she saw you're a simp so she's utilizing your simpness.
SHARP.....OP do this!!!let's see if she will shinji KAGAWA!!!
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by osazsky(m): 6:02pm On Oct 21, 2024
If u can be giving her like 4m every month u will make us proud..if u don't do this guy u will loose the love of ur life
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by dauntless15(m): 6:03pm On Oct 21, 2024
invectives:
SHARP.....OP do this!!!let's see if she will shinji KAGAWA!!!
grin
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by tuzle(m): 6:05pm On Oct 21, 2024
It is that always put her first that is even annoying. So if my mom ask me for something and u that I just started dating, then I should give u first abi, mugu.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by bigsyke: 6:14pm On Oct 21, 2024
Don't train her with something you can't sustain.

What if you go out of business tomorrow?
What if you become unemployed tomorrow?

It's best you start saving as if this month end will be your last day at work or your business is going this month.

After you have saved an amount. If she's a good lady as you said, she would stay and let her be your employee. Open a business that she can sustain and which capital can't be much of a burden to you which could be as little as a shop where she sells fried stuffs like Bunz, PoffPofff, if she sew clothes let her create space for it there.

This can be 3 month accumulation of what you would have given her if you follow your simp instinct.

Let her squander it or leave you afterward because she's now independent, it's her choice.

I have come to realise recently that there is hunger in the land and most girls do what they have to do to survive but you have to be stoic about what you want.

Ask her if the relationship is exclusive (Not seeing anyone else) or casual.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by iykololo(m): 6:15pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
What is she bringing into the relationship. Nothing?

De give yourself headache.

This one na ghost worker wet go de on employers' different payrolls.

If you know you know.


Simple put- "I am for everybody, I am for nobody"
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by SKINDOGGY: 6:15pm On Oct 21, 2024
Mistakenly? You deserve every pain any woman melted on you. Some men dicks need to be cut off so we know they're sissies. You're already giving excuses for her. Mistakenly hehehe
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by iykololo(m): 6:15pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
What is she bringing into the relationship. Nothing?

De give yourself headache.

This one na ghost worker wey go de on different employers' payrolls.

If you know you know.


Simply put- cry"I am for everybody, I am for nobody"
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by oglalasioux(m): 6:15pm On Oct 21, 2024
What you actually need is a brain resetting knock on your empty head.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Boc007(m): 6:18pm On Oct 21, 2024
Fake chat.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by G0Oodharddick: 6:20pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
To slap you just dey hungry me.

Dump that girl before she sends you to your grave.

Which one is you don't want to lose her? Are you ok? Dude you're the prize to be won. She should be the one doing everything possible not to lose you and not the reverse.

Dump that b2b midfielder immediately. She's a parasite.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by iykololo(m): 6:20pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
@seun, time don reach for nairaland to get en own Children's Section. You know as mfm take get children church? As we all de Waka enter forum, make children de branch enter children church to avoid distraction and noise for Adult church. Children section go give them orientation prepare them on how to behave or compose when attending adult section.

Abi how you see am?
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Akuruoulo(m): 6:25pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
Are u sure ur brain is still working?
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by ecomalchemistt(m): 6:28pm On Oct 21, 2024
Congratulations
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by InvertedHammer: 6:28pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
/

In other words, you just climbed over 3rd Mainland bridge and you are asking if you should jump. Jump!

Experience is the best teacher. If this relationship eventually dies inevitably, you will become a philosopher.

/
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by NamelessOGBENI(m): 6:30pm On Oct 21, 2024
None of my business, here in Magodo phase 35 aka Makoko, we don't talk about love and nobody dare ask us about it.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by lbrichman2: 6:31pm On Oct 21, 2024
Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.
Better break up with this person
You are dating a prostitute and your low self esteem is loud
She has seen that you're weak and will manipulate you endlessly
End the relationship and move on
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Crestaria: 6:32pm On Oct 21, 2024
How can I unread this rubbish angry
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Oyerinde16(m): 6:36pm On Oct 21, 2024
Let me analyse this...
1... He should be caring - fair enough

2. Telling a girl your plans is the dumbest thing to do... She puts you on a scale, compare you with others, if you are doing well, better that all, she pretends and stay, not that she loves you, one things take a turn, she compares again, once a fraudstar trucks her, she moves...

3. He should always put me first... What of your immediate family like father, mother, brothers genuinely looking out for you... One old kpekus will say put me first...

4.He should always give heroney, even without asking, or monthly salary... I no wan say anything about this one...

5. He MUST respect me, u see that MUST, Na command... It's like He must always do my biddings or it's disrespect...

6. I will do the same back, then she immediately reneged on it, by why will I give him,

See bro, na only you de in love o... The babe de on business contract...
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by drsibz66(m):
WantsandMore:
With this confused mindset you’ve lost the war. Anyways can you afford it? Asides from just loving her already is she worth the trouble ? What if you pay the monthly’s and another guy bids higher would that hurt your feelings ? Paying monthly’s doesn’t guarantee her staying, what would you do or how would you feel if things eventually don’t work out as planned? Your money your rules but do a swot analysis on her. She has just become a business venture with her request and two things happen to businesses, they either succeed or fail. Next
Make una nor advise am. Even the inevitable heartbreak , cheating and finally dumping won't still teach these kind of guys a lesson.
From the look of things the girl has more intelligence and know how than the op. She is already emotionally manipulating him. It will surely end in tears.
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by salem1996: 6:55pm On Oct 21, 2024
TreasureJunky:
Mumu,, play girl is using your head and you've already fell for it.
So under one week you're already loving a girl that you can't live without her.
See you see heartbreak
Under normal circumstances, that guy suppose know that the girl is a leech who will eventually drop him off the road if she finds someone who will give her better monthly allowance.... But as the saying goes, "is easier to convince a goat 🐐 that red-oiled leather will kill it than it is to advice someone in a relationship with the wrong person"
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Moneyheart0147: 7:03pm On Oct 21, 2024
The suppose use oraimo cord wire you for neck make that love commot your eyes
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by greypencils: 7:04pm On Oct 21, 2024
Thunder fire that your new girlfriend
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Wande22(m): 7:13pm On Oct 21, 2024
TreasureJunky:
Mumu,, play girl is using your head and you've already fell for it.
So under one week you're already loving a girl that you can't live without her.
See you see heartbreak
Hmmm Mek I no tok

Girls especially the 96/97-2005 breeds, fear them 1st before you fear God
Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Wande22(m): 7:14pm On Oct 21, 2024
Moneyheart0147:
The suppose use oraimo cord wire you for neck make that love commot your eyes
Manage am for me

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Wande22(m): 7:17pm On Oct 21, 2024
iykololo:
@seun, time don reach for nairaland to get en own Children's Section. You know as mfm take get children church? As we all de Waka enter forum, make children de branch enter children church to avoid distraction and noise for Adult church. Children section go give them orientation prepare them on how to behave or compose when attending adult section.

Abi how you see am?
grin grin cheesy
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