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Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by 12345baba(m): 5:27am On Oct 22, 2024

Op u idiot. Ur ancestors done call u, and u have answered half way

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Inobeyourmate: 5:36am On Oct 22, 2024

Both you and that your girlfriend, koni daa fun yin lagbara Oloun, imagine the kind question grown up man dey ask? Nah pun a dey between your legs? Where them dey see all this weak men sef? O ni jere aiye

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Coolgent(m): 6:32am On Oct 22, 2024

Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.

RED FLAG!
Ask yourself what exactly are you giving her monthly allowance for?
Well be careful she isn't a marriage material

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Sammy101111(m): 8:14am On Oct 22, 2024

You what to do bro
Just add S to the he

So it will be she should be caring
And send it back to her if she can give you allowance you will give her allowance too 😂

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by purples25(f): 8:26am On Oct 22, 2024

The problem is that women do not build themselves up before getting to this stage that they ask a man for money.

When you have your own job, and the man knows that without him, you can survive, there's less room for insults. More respect. He will be humble when giving you or when you ask because he knows that whether he gives you or he refuses, you have the same amount and can fund yourself.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Badmashiii: 8:35am On Oct 22, 2024

purples25:
The problem is that women do not build themselves up before getting to this stage that they ask a man for money.

When you have your own job, and the man knows that without him, you can survive, there's less room for insults. More respect. He will be humble when giving you or when you ask because he knows that whether he gives you or he refuses, you have the same amount and can fund yourself.

If you're well off financially,why would you need a man's money? But i get your point though. Nowadays gold-diggers operate the same way. They usually have a job or small businesses that take care of most expenses. It's makes you apppear not desperate and classy.

I'll like my sisters to be gold diggers though. It's way better than being a poverty-digger.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by diogo23: 8:54am On Oct 22, 2024

Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.

You're a fool, A fool for ever

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Usmanovic95(m): 9:07am On Oct 22, 2024

Inobeyourmate:
Both you and that your girlfriend, koni daa fun yin lagbara Oloun, imagine the kind question grown up man dey ask? Nah pun a dey between your legs? Where them dey see all this weak men sef? O ni jere aiye

Lol brotherman, ko le to gbogbo eleyi🤣🤣

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by purples25(f): 10:07am On Oct 22, 2024

Badmashiii:
If you're well off financially,why would you need a man's money? But i get your point though. Nowadays gold-diggers operate the same way. They usually have a job or small businesses that take care of most expenses. It's makes you apppear not desperate and classy.

I'll like my sisters to be gold diggers though. It's way better than being a poverty-digger.

If you are well off financially, you can take care of yourself on your own. However, if you decide to be with a partner as a woman, financial support is one of the things you'd expect from your partner. What's the point of being with someone, especially as a woman who will supposedly have to devote herself to the home and kids, if you still have to bear the financial burden alone? Then it's the same as being alone.

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by blazepascal(m): 10:35am On Oct 22, 2024

You want to play a game dat will end in tears

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by eniteden(m): 11:04am On Oct 22, 2024

Run for ur liiiiiiiiiiiiffffffffffffffffeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee grin

na them o, them no fit do without man, they can fork anybody because of money, they cant fend for themselves without forking every one. They are kind that call men to come fork as soon as them broke, they are the lazy set of girls that have this feeling of entitlement.

This girl will add nothing to your life, she is the conduit in which your money will continue flowing out without adding.

I know the only thing she do or can do for u is open her cheap Pussycat that has wornout but cuz she knows the drill use it like that very well on u and your brain will turn dust and if she fine too she will use it to keep deceiving u, shake that ass and sample breast then u die one million times for public part thinking is private part.

Na ur next neigbour go run am when u no dey look grin

Guy?? use your teeth count your tongue grin

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Badmashiii: 11:15am On Oct 22, 2024

purples25:
If you are well off financially, you can take care of yourself on your own. However, if you decide to be with a partner as a woman, financial support is one of the things you'd expect from your partner. What's the point of being with someone, especially as a woman who will supposedly have to devote herself to the home and kids, if you still have to bear the financial burden alone? Then it's the same as being alone.

So you're indirectly saying LOVE IS A SCAM? I thought people marry for love. grin

That's why I'm always educating my fellow men,relationship is a means to use or be used. And one aspect of usefulness is your financial power. If you're poor,you are more or less usless in ladies eyes and they're not far from the truth.

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by millionboi2: 12:46pm On Oct 22, 2024

Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.

u are in love with the wrong person.

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by badblackgod: 2:14pm On Oct 22, 2024

dustmalik:
And you are coming here to tell us? I don't blame you, I blame the mod that pushed this nonsense to FP.

Some of you will never learn anything, no matter what. upon all the problems Nigeria has today, it's your useless girlfriend issue you're bringing here.

You, what have you done about the problems Nigeria is facing? You rather choose to ignore the problems and insult someone seeking for advice.. so now what makes you different from him? Foolish Man

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by badblackgod: 2:20pm On Oct 22, 2024

Achor1111:
The attitude of NL mods is becoming worrisome.

You can choose to ignore.. a post being on the front page or back page doesn't take or add anything to your life.. what's actually worrisome is dimwits like you criticizing people's post here

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Achor1111(m): 2:22pm On Oct 22, 2024

badblackgod:
You can choose to ignore.. a post being on the front page or back page doesn't take or add anything to your life.. what's actually worrisome is dimwits like you criticizing people's post here

Quick recovery disgruntled fellow!

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by badblackgod: 2:32pm On Oct 22, 2024

Achor1111:
Quick recovery disgruntled fellow!

Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by AllBlack: 6:00pm On Oct 23, 2024

Keepamsafe:
she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.

You are a GRAND fool.

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Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking For Monthly Allowance. What Should I Do? by Inobeyourmate: 7:12am On Oct 24, 2024

Usmanovic95:
Lol brotherman, ko le to gbogbo eleyi🤣🤣

The thing pain me nah, imagine 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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