₦airaland Forum

Neddstark:
Husband with ear ring. 🤣

I been think say na only me see am.

Maysdevices:
People have the right to post whatever they want because you’re rarely ever their intended audience, some don’t know you from Adam

Your curiosity is weird

oh my God !!! Do you have a personal beef with madam ??

Ishilove, over to you !!!

See as she is shining teeth. Tomorrow, our resident EPs will be deceiving younger girls we have here with 'men are scum' mantra. If not for man, this one would never have discovered true happiness and fulfillment.

immortalcrown:
Her own madness seems to have paid off.

Abi?


Like por-table abi na pot-table... Smh

Funny how others are getting what you've been praying for without gnashing their teeth to some imaginary god.

Mayflowa:
Easy peasy
1. Have sex whenever they feel like without having to stoop low to beg a random guy. Guys can do that. Women don’t dig it.

2. Night is lonely. Not everyone can sleep by themselves. They need to sleep and wake up to someone.

3. Hoping that husband will ease their economy situation. Will help with footing the bills or at least share the bill.

4. Find someone to send message. Wives send their husbands many messages and to do manly stuff like switching on generator at home or changing car tire.

5. Children. Women love children and believe they might past time of child bearing

6. Other women sample husbands as achievement and they need to show they are capable of same.

You really really made a lot of sense

Good job

bluefilm:
Till today, I still don't know why women need husbands

I will be so glad if someone will be kind enough to explain to me why getting a husband is so much a priority for most women

Imagine when you were kid,did you ever worry on how to get your next meal or your school fees? Most likely no because you believe your parents can take care of anything and I'm sure if you're adult you would have wish to go back to childhood at a point.

Taking care of oneself is not easy let alone a family. Hats off to family men. No wonder most of them resort to stealing their employers in order to meet up financially with the family needs.

To answer your question,women need marriage majorly because the husbamd now have to take care of all her responsibilities or at least part of it and still share in his fortune if he's a famous person.

So basically they need marriage because they have to own a man-slave that will cater to them and their offspring.

Rich ladies on the other hand marry their fellow rich as a form of alliance between two powerful people. So there you have it.

Is that not Timini 🤣🤣

Vlibray:
Nigerians and mumu
I don't understand how finding a husband becomes a miracle.

I know of many ladies in my place of work. . They get enough money to have japa by now. . But the only reason they are still hanging here in naija is that they want to marry. . Yet, all the quality guys keeps jumping off coz most of those ladies are already close to 40 years. .

Segzy19:
Marriage is a core KPI for women on earth...
An unmarried woman is always sad inside no matter that outward outlook or appearance...

True.

immortalcrown:
Her own madness seems to have paid off.

eruleroz come and see
do this in shiloh in december and it may work too

Fiscus105:
When would ur own insanity pay off?


Abi you want to wail in a faceless forum until you go back to ur creator?

Are you different?

franchasofficia:
She knew what she passed through to get this very husband and you want her to reveal his full picture so that other lady hawks steal him away from her, you no get joy oh

Hehe. Since when did covering their faces ever stop them from cheating if they decide to? The plain fact is no man can be 'stolen' because he is not a mindless accessory. He is a logical adult with the freedom to make choices and take actions as he deems fit. Hiding his face because you don't want him to be 'snatched' is an exercise in futility because if he meets someone who is determined to seduce him and he is foolish enough to allow himself be seduced (key word here is "allow", because he must consent to the seduction), if you like wear him the mask of Zorro or a Guy Fawkes mask, or a full village masquerade costume for that matter, he will still cheat. FACT.

Anytime I see photoshoots like this with faces hidden, I hiss and exit. Dark forces don't respect camera positions.

franchasofficia:
A husband give most women a lifetime financial security/guarantee/provision


No more bothering about shelter/rent.

No more bothering about being broke as the husband now takes care of that.


No more bothering about being unemployed and broke as husband now takes care of her needs and even that of her loved ones in most Nigerian marriages.

That's a nice fantasy world you live in

But in reality only 20% of Nigerian men can afford to all those you listed.

CaveAdullam:
Hope she won't complain later.

This one her husband is wearing earrings.. Congratulations madam. It's normal. It wasn't a hallelujah challenge that gave you a husband though. Winks.

She was (until the need for marriage I suppose) a budding feminist on TwitterNG. So, I am not surprised she married a man who wears earrings. She is no different from LotteraU a then-popular Nairaland feminist who married a man adorned with lots of tattoos. Lottera just like Matriarch are Igbo women where 100 out of 50 are notorious feminists and 40 out of 15 are bisexuals/lesbians.

1Sharon:
That's a nice fantasy world you live in

But in reality only 20% of Nigerian men can afford to all those you listed.

Which means the women are way much poorer than the men. What is the difference between six and half-a-dozen?

Ishilove:
Hehe. Since when did covering their faces ever stop them from cheating if they decide to? The plain fact is no man can be 'stolen' because he is not a mindless accessory. He is a logical adult with the freedom to make choices and take actions as he deems fit. Hiding his face because you ee photoshoots like this with faces hidden, I hiss and exit. Dark forces don't respect camera positions.

The lady in question is highly protective of her man, so no surprises. She once lamented how hookup babes seduced themselves in front of her man when they went to one of the beaches in Lagos. Her ex-feminist comrades pounced on her for that tweet.

Badmashiii:
Imagine when you were kid,did you ever worry on how to get your next meal or your school fees? Most likely no because you believe your parents can take care of anything and I'm sure if you're adult you would have wish to go back to childhood at a point. Taking care of oneself is not easy let alone a family. Hats off to family men. No wonder most of them resort to stealing their employers in order to meet up financially with the family needs. To answer your question,women need marriage majorly because the husbamd now have to take care of all her responsibilities or at least part of it and still share in his fortune if he's a famous person. So basically they need marriage because they have to own a man-slave that will cater to them and their offspring. Rich ladies on the other hand marry their fellow rich as a form of alliance between two powerful people. So there you have it.

Thanks for the explanation. So, in such a scenario, what does the man benefit aside from having children within a two-parent household? That is, a man who can provide for himself and all the amenities needed to make life comfortable for humans.

P.S. A man who steals from his employer for whatever reason is a thief! It is not the employer's fault that he got married or amassed lots of responsibilities.

Segzy19:
Marriage is a core KPI for women on earth...
An unmarried woman is always sad inside no matter that outward outlook or appearance...

Not entirely true, sir. Things are changing. There are many unmarried women, especially in the abroad. Would you say all are sad?

franchasofficia:
10 years later she will start singing:

"all men are scum", "I am an independent woman", "strong woman" "I can be happy without any man"
"marriage is a scam"
"marriage does not worth it"
Just because bros mistakenly knack one bootylicious babe

The lady in question was a notorious feminist on Twitter before she dated the man. That is the cognitive dishonesty and hypocrisy by so-called modern women.

Gerrard59:
Which means the women are way much poorer than the men. What is the difference between six and half-a-dozen?

Yeah sure. Yet if their women don't contribute her share, alot of them won't cope. Some Nigerian women are breadwinners, but because Nigerian women can cover for nonsense, they don't admit in order to keep up appearances.

Badmashiii:
Imagine when you were kid,did you ever worry on how to get your next meal or your school fees? Most likely no because you believe your parents can take care of anything and I'm sure if you're adult you would have wish to go back to childhood at a point.

Taking care of oneself is not easy let alone a family. Hats off to family men. No wonder most of them resort to stealing their employers in order to meet up financially with the family needs.

To answer your question,women need marriage majorly because the husbamd now have to take care of all her responsibilities or at least part of it and still share in his fortune if he's a famous person.

So basically they need marriage because they have to own a man-slave that will cater to them and their offspring.

Rich ladies on the other hand marry their fellow rich as a form of alliance between two powerful people. So there you have it.

In other words, marriage only favours women, right?

immortalcrown:
Her own madness seems to have paid off.

Her own FAITH

femi4:
How is that a miracle....Marriage is a decision making institution not a miracle

When you get to that point, you'll realise it's a miracle irrespective of your gender.

Luizkid:
When you get to that point, you'll realise it's a miracle irrespective of your gender.

What nonsense point. You all think everyone is a baby on this platform

Forget when women pretend and tell you marriage is not their biggest dream/ achievement; deep down it truly is. Congratulations to her 👏

For the love of Bloccos.

Getting married is the easy part

Gerrard59:
The lady in question is highly protective of her man, so no surprises. She once lamented how hookup babes seduced themselves in front of her man when they went to one of the beaches in Lagos. Her ex-feminist comrades pounced on her for that tweet.

Maybe because I'm female so I cannot seem to comprehend why two females seducing themselves will be a threat to her man's well being.

Oh well, they say men are creatures of sight.

Gerrard59:
The lady in question is highly protective of her man, so no surprises. She once lamented how hookup babes seduced themselves in front of her man when they went to one of the beaches in Lagos. Her ex-feminist comrades pounced on her for that tweet.

The way you keep up with feminists, past and present members, is...something to behold. 🤣


You'll always have something to share about feminists as if you were scammed of a million dollars by one.

Magnoliaa:
The way you keep up with feminists, past and present members, is...something to behold. 🤣


You'll always have something to share about feminists as if you were scammed of a million dollars by one.

why do feminist want to get married
Is marriage not a patriarchy construct
Feminist should marry women and leave men alone

Society has made marriage a hustle for women.