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Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Mrbereteh(op): 5:27pm On Oct 30, 2024
I just received a phone call from a relative that lives close by to our family home that that my elder brother rent out his house out that he lives in and this is causing comotion in the street. The person who rented it came and was ready to pack in and found out that the supposed landlord my brother is still there with the same properties he saw last week. My brother is very mentally okay but you know those siblings that feels entitled to other's struggles and I knew he did this because he knows ones the matter comes up and they called me and my sisters we will always come to his rescue to find way to sort his problems. We've supported him several times and encourage him into several businesses ideas but once he tries something he suddenly stop till he exhaust all the funds.
But this time I refuse to do anything about it since I was called 2hrs ago. I feel bitter about this and have also informed the others..but I also feel my not doing anything is wrong.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Carndidlaydid(f): 5:43pm On Oct 30, 2024
angry
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Zaheertyler(m): 5:48pm On Oct 30, 2024
Mrbereteh:
I just received a phone call from a relative that lives close by to our family home that that my elder brother rent out his house out that he lives in and this is causing comotion in the street. The person who rented it came and was ready to pack in and found out that the supposed landlord my brother is still there with the same properties he saw last week. My brother is very mentally okay but you know those siblings that feels entitled to other's struggles and I knew he did this because he knows ones the matter comes up and they called me and my sisters we will always come to his rescue to find way to sort his problems. We've supported him several times and encourage him into several businesses ideas but once he tries something he suddenly stop till he exhaust all the funds.
But this time I refuse to do anything about it since I was called 2hrs ago. I feel bitter about this and have also informed the others..but I also feel my not doing anything is wrong.
😂😂😂your brother na dagbo
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Stevenbright(m): 6:02pm On Oct 30, 2024
It is family house, fine.

You didn't specify if it is a single room or a flat!

If it is a flat, he should share it with the new occupant. If it is a two bedroom flat, they can share it a room each while using the other facilities together. Also, if it a three bedroom flat, the new guy can take two rooms, one bathroom while the Share the other facilities together.

You guys should not bail him out because if you do, the next game will be either selling or collecting part payment for the selling of the house.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Lance008(m): 6:07pm On Oct 30, 2024
Stevenbright:
It is family house, fine.

You didn't specify if it is a single room or a flat!

If it is a flat, he should share it with the new occupant. If it is a two bedroom flat, they can share it a room each while using the other facilities together. Also, if it a three bedroom flat, the new guy can take two rooms, one bathroom while the Share the other facilities together.

You guys should not bail him out because if you do, the next game will be either selling or collecting part payment for the selling of the house.
You too funny
Why don't u share ur room with a stranger 😂😂😂😂
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Mindlog: 6:18pm On Oct 30, 2024
Doing nothing, is the best thing to do.

The new tenant getting him arrested by the police, will be a good way to truly "help" him as you and your sisters' previous interventions in cleaning up
his mess in the past, has enabled him to make stupid decisions because he knows you all would be emotionally blackmailed into cleaning after him.

Be assertive, ignore him and he would be forced to "grow up".
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Stevenbright(m): 6:58pm On Oct 30, 2024
Lance008:
You too funny
Why don't u share ur room with a stranger 😂😂😂😂
I didn't collect money to rent out a property that is not vacant.

Just try and collect money to rent out a property you are currently occupying! We the great people of Nigeria will make you share it with the person!!
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Kelklein(m): 9:41pm On Oct 30, 2024
Is your elder brother above 20 yrs... allow him to carry his cross

🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by RealEmilokan: 10:27pm On Oct 30, 2024
Omo! There's nothing one wee not read in this T-pain regime.

Let your brother dance to his music. Some people do not realize that actions have consequences. Let him take responsibility for his actions, he will get wiser.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:36am On Oct 31, 2024
Forget about your brother
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:39am On Oct 31, 2024
Do nothing man. He's an adult and as you said, mentally sound.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Jamesbiodun(m): 6:41am On Oct 31, 2024
As the situation be like this , I go just call para and tell him to carry his cross
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Talkisneeded(m): 10:00am On Oct 31, 2024
Leave your brother with his cross,at least na senior brother,you won't get too many bashing from people that knows you guys as family...

I sell herbs tho
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:28pm On Oct 31, 2024
Such black sheep is every families but may differ in character sometimes but Black Sheep is Black Sheep. Every families knows how they manage their own
Mrbereteh:
I just received a phone call from a relative that lives close by to our family home that that my elder brother rent out his house out that he lives in and this is causing comotion in the street. The person who rented it came and was ready to pack in and found out that the supposed landlord my brother is still there with the same properties he saw last week. My brother is very mentally okay but you know those siblings that feels entitled to other's struggles and I knew he did this because he knows ones the matter comes up and they called me and my sisters we will always come to his rescue to find way to sort his problems. We've supported him several times and encourage him into several businesses ideas but once he tries something he suddenly stop till he exhaust all the funds.
But this time I refuse to do anything about it since I was called 2hrs ago. I feel bitter about this and have also informed the others..but I also feel my not doing anything is wrong.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by hakeemhakeem(m): 1:55pm On Oct 31, 2024
Enjoy the liability you created if you can't ignore him but it better for you guys allow him to be trainined from outside
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Rexymania(m): 3:42pm On Oct 31, 2024
Nonsense topic. Wetin concern us?
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by BlackfireX: 4:21pm On Oct 31, 2024
Yahoo girls have used your brother's boxers.





grin
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Rent Out The House That He Lives In. by Mrbereteh(op): 7:09pm On Oct 31, 2024
Rexymania:
Nonsense topic. Wetin concern us?
How old are you?
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