Single ladies in the house will you marry a guy that already has a child? although has never been married??

Yes, I would marry single dad with a child if a mother of child is either in a death penalty prison, re-married living in a faraway state or dead.

But NO! NO! NO! while a mother of child still is alive---i cannot afford to be risked my life over EXTREMELY POSSESSIVE and STALKER.

No, never.

If he has a child without being married before, why doesnt he marry the mother of the child?

D-reloaded - was wrong in that

what he said at the initial stage was that he was not ready as at the time it happened, but now he is saying because the lady was double dating and all that i dont no is it right to go ahead and get married to such guy? could their be any danger in future? The guy in question will turn 40 next year while the lady will turn 30 but does dis really matter? i mean the age because what she is saying is that there is no age by her side again so maybe she shold just go ahead and marry the guy. This is a life contaract we are talking about here

uspry1:

Yes, I would marry single dad with a child if a mother of child is either in a death penalty prison, re-married living in a faraway state or dead.

But NO! NO! NO! while a mother of child still is alive---i cannot afford to be risked my life over EXTREMELY POSSESSIVE and STALKER.

i agree with you 101 %

am nt sure

There could be one of many reasons why the guy has a child and is not with the child's mother. These should at least be considered. However, I do understand that some women just will not do it, regardless of the circumstances.

Yes---Married or single!  At least we would have something in common.  They make more responsible men anyway in my opinion, since they have a mouth to feed. Don't care how the kid came about, as long as he did not kill it!!!!!

Why not but with loads of assurance from him that they are not together.
I will make sure that she isnt a drama queen and isnt someone that will make his life a misery.
And under no circumstance will i marry someone with multiple baby mothers - thats ALWAYS BAD.

But aside from that, then its all good.

Yes, no reason why I wouldn't, if I was a lady.

it depends on ur choice, you have to count the cost before you make that decision. After the wedding you automatically become a mother as well.

As a girl I can never get over or want to get into the Baby Mama drama so no. I feel that when someone has a baby the bond between the three should be patched instead of trying to get another person involved. That's just me and my beliefs.

No, am not ready to handle the A, B, C and D trouble that comes with it.

one man's meat is another man's poison.

my opinion

To ladies, I have to advise you to look before leaping.

If you live in Nigeria, and your step child is a male, know for certain that if hubby passes away, and does not update his will, and have a bad relationship with your step child, chances are tradition would side with him if he wants to kick you out of your matrimonial home. It happens, so dont walk into such relationships blindly.

Nope, dont think i could.