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Popular pastor and evangelist Ebuka Obi believes it’s wrong for a man to buy a car for his wife if he hasn’t bought one for his mother. He shared this opinion during a ministration session with his congregation. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
It's wrong to buy car for your wif if you haven't bought one for your mother – Pastor Ebuka Obi
Evangelist Ebuka Obi.

According to him, a man who buys a car for his wife before his mother is nothing short of a fool at 40.

He noted that before he can remove money to buy his wife a car, his conscience would remind him that there was someone who raised him before he met his wife.

Evangelist Ebuka Obi noted how mothers are always willing to sacrifice themselves for their children’s sake, more than a wife would for her husband.
Netizens’ reactions…

oluchukwu___ said: “This is very true pls .. no woman can replace your mum .. do everything for her first”

mucluxury said: “This is wrong .. your wife is your new, family .. wife no be girlfriend ohhh”

mosesdee1 wrote: “To think many men will still take this, type of advice in 2024 is really a pity! If you want to compare the love between a wife and a mother, why not go ahead and marry your mother? Something dey really worry many of una for head!”

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/10/30/buy-for-car-for-your-mom-first-not-wife-pastor-ebuka-obi-advises/

Not much sense in this

There is what they called needs and priority

Ebuka has a point. Your wife might not always be your wife, and if something happens to you, that car you bought her will end up with another man. But your mother will always be your mother.

So if oga get mama wey don old and can not drive anymore he should deny his wife the benefit of having a car abi. Mushroom and end time pastors everywhere

Ebuka, the man who made a lot of people zombie

Ebuka is not a pastor ooo biko

Hmmmmm, my wife first, kids second, parents 3rd, if you no like am, enter lagoon.

Some people already against his statement.

But, i don't see anything wrong on what he said.

Nigerians sha

Must you guys tackle or go against everything

Nawa o

silibaba:
Ebuka is not a pastor ooo biko

Am not his fan

But what made him not a pastor?

Your mom stand for you till death and will never deceive you but wife can divorce you or even cheat on you if you marry a bad one.

Don't just abuse people. Think first before you yarn

Bendeco2020:
Am not his fan

But what made him not a pastor?

Your mom stand for you till death and will never deceive you but wife can divorce you or even cheat on you if you marry a bad one.

Don't just abuse people. Think first before you yarn

You could have advised the Ebuka guy to think properly before saying this

Car is not close to the priority or needs of most Nigerian parents

helinues:
You could have advised the Ebuka guy to think properly before saying this

Cars is not close to the priority or needs of most Nigerian parents

You should have known that his point is if both your Mom and Wife need it.

If your mum don't need it or decline, that's a different case

Bendeco2020:
You should have known that his point is if both your Mom and Wife need it.

If your mom decline. That's another case

Is your mom carrying your kids?

So the wife should be entering danfo with the kids? Or are you saying the husband will be available all the time to take them to wherever they want to go?

The wife is irrelevant about the car, your kids are the reason you are getting the car for her. Your mom's own can come later

helinues:
Is your mom carrying your kids?

So the wife should be entering danfo with the kids? Or are you saying the husband will be available all the time to take them to wherever they want to go?

Your mom is not carrying your kids

But you can manage your car with your wife

Must you buy a seperate one for her ni?

I can trek and leave the car for my wife

Bendeco2020:
Your mom is not carrying your kids

But you can manage your car with your wife

Must you buy a seperate one for her ni?

Bro No. A man ambitious won't have time for that.

OlujobaSamuel:
Hmmmmm, my wife first, kids second, parents 3rd, if you no like am, enter lagoon.

Nice one . Your mother na person wife jare . It does not mean you do not love her , your wife and kids first .

helinues:
Bro No. A man ambitious won't have time for that.

Public transport is still available or i use bolt

Bendeco2020:


Public transport is still available or i use bolt

So the mom who is old should be enjoying a car while the kids hump from one bike to danfo

You try

helinues:
So the mom who is old should be enjoying a car while the kids hump from one bike to danfo

You try

Yeah she's old and the energy is no longer there.

I grew up without my father having a car and it didn't affect me rather made me stronger

Bendeco2020:
Yeah she's old and the energy is no longer their.

I grew up without my father having a car and i didn't affect me rather made me stronger

If the energy is no longer there, where would she be going to with the car?

helinues:
If the energy is no longer there, where would she be going to with the car?

This guy sef

So a 50-60 year old woman don't go out again?

Go to offices and see 60 plus old women still working

Bendeco2020:
This guy sef

So a 50-60 year old woman don't go out again?

Go to offices and see 60 plus old women still working

Go out to where compared to your wife?

Would she be driving herself or you will employ a driver for her?

helinues:
Go out to where compared to your wife?

Would she be driving herself or you will employ a driver for her?

Yeah, women in their 60's still drive

I can employ a driver if she cant drive anymore

Bendeco2020:
Yeah, women in their 60's still drive

I can employ a driver if she cant drive anymore

All the best

Hmnn...the real issue is, a man is supposed to buy a car for his mother before getting married. JobAndVacancies, take note of this and quit roaming around Nairaland like a lunatic.

Bendeco2020:
Am not his fan

But what made him not a pastor?

Your mom stand for you till death and will never deceive you but wife can divorce you or even cheat on you if you marry a bad one.

Don't just abuse people. Think first before you yarn

i only said that he is not a pastor. I dont know how that statement provoked you my son?

SoftSport:
Ebuka has a point. Your wife might not always be your wife, and if something happens to you, that car you bought her will end up with another man. But your mother will always be your mother.

See family. thief, thief.

Husband's property belongs to the wife that is why he married her and she lived, worked and served him and most especially as you peopleare do not let daughters partake in the inheritance of her father.

So she would not get from her father's house and she still will not get from her husband's house again?

You people are too too wicked o and you expect not to go to hellfire!

If you want to give your mother, give her, but your things belong to your wife.

OlujobaSamuel:
Hmmmmm, my wife first, kids second, parents 3rd, if you no like am, enter lagoon.

Na so e dey even be. No mind devil

Bendeco2020:
Your mom is not carrying your kids

But you can manage your car with your wife

Must you buy a seperate one for her ni?

I can trek and leave the car for my wife

Think well man. No man is working to suffer. So why would I work at buy a car for myself and then transfer the car to my wife and resort to walking around after buying a second car which I gave to mumsi?

If your neighbor did that even you called him mad.

Bendeco2020:
Yeah she's old and the energy is no longer there.

I grew up without my father having a car and it didn't affect me rather made me stronger

So you are paying mummy because your father could not do it?

That is what is called overcompensation.

And after doing this you expect your wife to love you?

See how people have already planted the dynamite that blows up one of the pillars that upholds a marriage

You guys clearly are not qualified to be married