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emmyN:
Yul courted Judy a long time. You really believed May found out through blogs?

She said she did.
Why should you be believed above her?

SAMBARRY:
ok you follow her live for house to know what pushed her to opt for divorce abi you see any woman who is treated with love wey go wan exit?

The woman carry her dignity go,its better than the one wey yul and him wife dey disgrace themselves online. Who public perception epp?

Public perception wey go say Jesus is lord today and tomorrow go say crucify him.shioorr

You have a point, Buh lets agree to disagree

Maybe for men public perception we dont care, Men are shameless but for women just very few outgrow public perception for real

A woman can cheat with the team A & B of Arsenal but she doesnt want anyone to judge her, she wants to be seen as an angel
Visit ashawo thread on Nl, you rarely see a female make pim there, but they are following . however Public perception matter to a female pride

emmyN:
Yul courted Judy a long time. You really believed May found out through blogs?

It is actually because of social media people are getting busted now. No be today. I had a friend when I was younger whose mum found out that the husband had a second wife.

A friend found out via social media that her husband had married a second wife.

Before social media (and online banking apps) the woman is often completely in the dark and blindsided one day.

pocohantas:
She said she did.
Why should you be believed above her?

Because her statement betrays facts. A lot of people in the industry were aware. Why not she? Or clearly, they've been living for so long as strangers.

emmyN:
Because her statement betrays facts. A lot of people in the industry were aware. Why not she? Or clearly, they've been living for so long as strangers.

Okay.

GloriousGbola:
It is actually because of social media people are getting busted now. No be today. I had a friend when I was younger whose mum found out that the husband had a second wife.

A friend found out via social media that her husband had married a second wife.

Before social media (and online banking apps) the woman is often completely in the dark and blindsided one day.

Your friend's husband/father did not have the kind of fame Yul has, so it's easier for them to be clandestine.

emmyN:
Because her statement betrays facts. A lot of people in the industry were aware. Why not she? Or clearly, they've been living for so long as strangers.

Today people spend a large part of their adult lives in the workplace. If your wife is not also employed, or not working in an adjacent industry, the husband can run game without madam being the wiser.

We all have colleagues with multiple girl friends, side chicks etc where the whole office is aware, but madam knows nothing. Go to some weddings and you will see the grooms work colleagues wondering if the bridle knows the man she married.

emmyN:
Your friend's husband/father did not have the kind of fame Yul has, so it's easier for them to be clandestine.

You are echoing what was said before. The wife said she leant through blogs,which are social media for celebrities.

No one is going to come and tell you to your face madam your husband is cheating.

GloriousGbola:
Today people spend a large part of their adult lives in the workplace. If your wife is not also employed, or not working in an adjacent industry, the husband can run game without madam being the wiser.

We all have colleagues with multiple girl friends, side chicks etc where the whole office is aware, but madam knows nothing. Go to some weddings and you will see the grooms work colleagues wondering if the bridle knows the man she married.

Maybe you are not listening. It works for an average Joe but not for people with fame. Why do you think celebrity marriages keep crashing every now and then over infidelity? They could keep up the love trist for a while, but not for very long before they get exposed. But these two went on a long time until a child got in the picture, and even marriage. It leaves more questions than answers.

GloriousGbola:
You are echoing what was said before. The wife said she leant through blogs,which are social media for celebrities.

No one is going to come and tell you to your face madam your husband is cheating.

Let's all pretend May wasn't a typical homely housewife until this drama blew her up. Yul himself came out to publicly apologise for betraying her. But our custodian of facts claims she knows. This is how they will codedly rewrite the incident in favour of Yul.

GloriousGbola:
You are echoing what was said before. The wife said she leant through blogs,which are social media for celebrities.

No one is going to come and tell you to your face madam your husband is cheating.

For a celebrity, a lot of people would to get in the good books of the other person. That explains all that public fraternizing around May when the issue was made public.

pocohantas:
Let's all pretend May wasn't a typical homely housewife until this drama blew her up. Yul himself came out to publicly apologise for betraying her. But our custodian of facts claims she knows. This is how they will codedly rewrite the incident in favour of Yul.

Like you rewriting history by alleging Yul married someone else's wife? Or the lie being peddled that he got dancing on IG as soon as his son died?

emmyN:
Like you rewriting history by alleging Yul married someone else's wife? Or the lie being peddled that he got dancing on IG as soon as his son died?

Okay...😂

CHoccolaTE:
There is nothing like feminism there, polygamy is very unfair and emotionally draining to wives and children, but men in their usual selfishness pretend they don't know this and continue to promote polygamy.

While monogamy is also emotionally draining to husbands. Husbands also deserve to be happy. If not that women started abusing monogamy by taking advantage of some exclusive privileges it confers on then, men wouldn't be thinking polygamy. But it is the ultimate cure for wives' stupidity.

pocohantas:
Yul left the wife of his youth to go live with another man's wife. May only found out via blogs. Yet it is this woman Nigerian men choose to blame. She doesn't want to be part of the show of shame and she is entitled to that. If she chose to stay, y'all would still have something to say. So let her be.

Hopefully Yul doesn't wake years later to play the victim like Fred Amata. Same Yul that was dancing on IG after the death of his first son. We are here watching and we hope his supporters wouldn't twist history when it starts.

You are judging Yul because he published his own 'werey' for all eyes to see. Do you know what May has been doing with herself before and after their son's death?

cococandy:
You’re the custodian of your sperm. If you don’t want to have babies with a woman who’s not your wife, you’ll keep your penis in your underwear. It’s not hard at all

Yes you may need to come to my school to learn how to share a wife. Women have been sharing husbands since time immemorial when you people lied to them that God created you to cheat on them and abuse them. Heaven hasn’t fallen. It won’t fall if you learn to share your wives too.

You can wait your turn for marital sex the way women in polygamy have to wait.
You can provide your quota to the upkeep of the home just as those women do.
You should know your place and don’t question your wife.
You should be willing to accept the kids from the marriage as yours too because you’re one big happy family. Thankfully DNA is alive and well. You can easily differentiate which kids are yours (IF YOU MUST).

Hope they will also take up provision for the entire family and not just the little privilege enjoyed by the provider.

JovialJune:
Yes we choose cheating to reciprocate on, we don't want your oil rig and other physical intensive jobs that is meant for men, we choose to "evolve" when it comes to cheating because it affects mental health and the family unit as a whole, since most of you men have refused to see women as humans and not objects to manhandle and misbehave anyhow especially emotionally, we choose to give it right back to you same fold,

So keep crying, cos it's obvious from the many complaints and constant tears and threats of DNA bla bla bla that the repercussion of what you started first hits home, yet you all still indirectly try to gaslight, manipulate, and coerce women to accept polygamy and see cheating as a norm, keep it up, we will continue to leave useless men that can't stick to their wives alone and continue to reject polygamy till thy kingdom come or cheat right back, there is nothing anyone of you can do about it.

Wives can cheat for as much as they like but they should try and own up their mess, like men do, when the bubble finally bursts. This is because I have noticed that even the most promiscuous woman wants to be seen as very modest and decent. So benchmark men in infidelity, but prepare to take the comebacks with your full chest.

Amumaigwe:
Hope they will also take up provision for the entire family and not just the little privilege enjoyed by the provider.

If you’re ready to share. no problem

LuQuLuQu:
This mgbeke should leave us alone abeg...

Our problem is Mr T-pain not her

Wetin make her mgbeke kwa n

emmyN:
Yul courted Judy a long time. You really believed May found out through blogs?

Can you listen to yourself? How do you court while being married to someone else?

chidiokay:
You have a point, Buh lets agree to disagree

Maybe for men public perception we dont care, Men are shameless but for women just very few outgrow public perception for real

A woman can cheat with the team A & B of Arsenal but she doesnt want anyone to judge her, she wants to be seen as an angel
Visit ashawo thread on Nl, you rarely see a female make pim there, but they are following . however Public perception matter to a female pride

What exactly do you want women to say in the ashawo thread?

Do you think seeing how men act as sex pests is appealing to women?

dinachi:
As usual, most men here displaying their lack of ability to reason deeply missed the most important point.

Who hosted the podcast? AY the Comedian!

Who did Yul warn to leave his then wife May alone? AY the Comedian.

Who is the 'God' behind all these packaging of May, sponsoring trips and using his vast media platforms to promote May? AY the Comedian.


When you connect all the dots, then you can now understand why it seems May is a superstar. The unseen hand behind the scenes is AY the Comedian. He has been the one fucking this woman mercilessly and promoting her. I pity the idiots who praise her as something special.

May Aligwe is a woman who wanted the divorce as fast as possible so that she can keep fucking both men and women.

But her adultery partner AY the Comedian has to put her up to say she loves marriage because a lot of men eyes are finally opening.

They now understand the message May is passing. She is literarily a motivation for other women to leave their husbands. So, if you are married and you are busy promoting May as a man, your wife is just looking you with one eye. One day she will have the courage to do it because if May can do it so can she!

There's nothing special about May but their is something sinister and evil about a man, sponsoring, encouraging and undermining his fellow man to Bleep his wife. AY whether in this life or the next, you will get your Karma from God and it won't be pretty! Peace!

But Ay is trying to reconcile with his wife na .

1Sharon:
What exactly do you want women to say in the ashawo thread?

Do you think seeing how men act as sex pests is appealing to women?

what do they do in ashewo thread, is "sex topic" not suppose to be unisex discourse or those guyz are sleeping with themselves

if its not b appealing women should be distancing not only public forum

Men are sex pest But what do we say about our "suppliers" that out number "demand"
are ladies helping matters there is virtually no where men hang out you wont see ladies roaming about ... even to go gym now men gat wear double jean boxers

pocohantas:
Yul left the wife of his youth to go live with another man's wife. May only found out via blogs. Yet it is this woman Nigerian men choose to blame. She doesn't want to be part of the show of shame and she is entitled to that. If she chose to stay, y'all would still have something to say. So let her be.

Hopefully Yul doesn't wake years later to play the victim like Fred Amata. Same Yul that was dancing on IG after the death of his first son. We are here watching and we hope his supporters wouldn't twist history when it starts.

Well said

chidiokay:
what do they do in ashewo thread, is "sex topic" not suppose to be unisex discourse or those guyz are sleeping with themselves

if its not b appealing women should be distancing not only public forum

Men are sex pest But what do we say about our "suppliers" that out number "demand"
are ladies helping matters there is virtually no where men hang out you wont see ladies roaming about ... even to go gym now men gat wear double jean boxers

What is unisex about posting and reviewing the latest ashewo joints? What is in it for a woman?

HeadNigga:
Ned is a Muslim, His first wife knew he was going to have a polygamous home at some point. He sure consulted her before taking another wife.

I wasn't sure of it his religion when I wanted to post that. But Yul is not the only Christian in Nigeria to embrace polygamy, right?

the basic difference is that Yul married to legitimise an unwanted pregnancy, after cheating...Ned on the other hand married Regina before sleeping with her and getting her pregnant

First, he didn't have to if didn't love the woman. Marrying her means that love was involved before the pregnancy. Many single men refused to marry ladies who got pregnant for them because they insisted that they didn't love those ladies. Unwanted pregnancy can't make you marry a woman you don't want to be with in this age

pocohantas:
Yul left the wife of his youth to go live with another man's wife. May only found out via blogs. Yet it is this woman Nigerian men choose to blame. She doesn't want to be part of the show of shame and she is entitled to that. If she chose to stay, y'all would still have something to say. So let her be.

One. He didn't leave his wife, his first wife left him.
Two. Another man's wife is a wrong description. Has any man come out to say that Yul married his wife?

Hopefully Yul doesn't wake years later to play the victim like Fred Amata. Same Yul that was dancing on IG after the death of his first son. We are here watching and we hope his supporters wouldn't twist history when it starts.

When what starts? I hope you are not secretly wishing him evil, bad belle

maasoap:
I wasn't sure of it his religion when I wanted to post that. But Yul is not the only Christian in Nigeria to embrace polygamy, right?


First, he didn't have to if didn't love the woman. Marrying her means that love was involved before the pregnancy. Many single men refused to marry ladies who got pregnant for them because they insisted that they didn't love those ladies. Unwanted pregnancy can't make you marry a woman you don't want to be with in this age

In other words, all the women that Ned married all knew what the deal was. They all knew he was a polygamist.

You don't marry one woman like Yul did and suprise her years down the line with another woman. That's deceptive.

smartec:
Someone filed for divorce, and still claims she is not advocating for divorce. So what the hack is she doing

May woke up one fine morning and decided to divorce Yul?

chidiokay:
is Life its sef fair ?? even inside monogamy have we not heard stories that resonate " unfair and emotionally "

Men creat polygamy but women decides the atmosphere ..
I have a friend her dad is chief imam, he has 3 wives , 16 children whenever i visited back then the family bond is so strong you can even seperate the children, about 10 of the children don pull themselves into Uk

I agree we men can be selfish But polygamy is not exit sentence ... are the women ready to live in harmony ??

Men can be selfish, May decided to want no part of it.

Why is it a problem?

dinachi:
As usual, most men here displaying their lack of ability to reason deeply missed the most important point.

Who hosted the podcast? AY the Comedian!

Who did Yul warn to leave his then wife May alone? AY the Comedian.

Who is the 'God' behind all these packaging of May, sponsoring trips and using his vast media platforms to promote May? AY the Comedian.


When you connect all the dots, then you can now understand why it seems May is a superstar. The unseen hand behind the scenes is AY the Comedian. He has been the one fucking this woman mercilessly and promoting her. I pity the idiots who praise her as something special.

May Aligwe is a woman who wanted the divorce as fast as possible so that she can keep fucking both men and women.

But her adultery partner AY the Comedian has to put her up to say she loves marriage because a lot of men eyes are finally opening.

They now understand the message May is passing. She is literarily a motivation for other women to leave their husbands. So, if you are married and you are busy promoting May as a man, your wife is just looking you with one eye. One day she will have the courage to do it because if May can do it so can she!

There's nothing special about May but their is something sinister and evil about a man, sponsoring, encouraging and undermining his fellow man to Bleep his wife. AY whether in this life or the next, you will get your Karma from God and it won't be pretty! Peace!

Wait o!

AY will get Karma from God?

For doing what exactly?

You mean God would leave Yul who humiliated his wife, taking actions resulting to the death of their son and dish Karma to AY who worse case made her 'happy' in the whole mess?

Not surprised. I guess it is the same 'god' that throws non-tithers in hell while patting the back of Nigerian politians.

malaria:
But Ay is trying to reconcile with his wife na .

Interesting.

Is Mabel ready to have him back?