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| You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by DuBLINGreenb(op): 12:31pm On Nov 02, 2024 |
I feel like people aren’t being entirely truthful, there is a bit of ‘Survivor bias’ when it comes to stories of all kinds in Nigeria. Stories of people wey make am always tend to trend more and get regurgitated like it’s the story of the majority. Whereas the stories of those who failed to make it never get out, most times they never even get told at all. Because the people themselves are ashamed to tell it and we as Nigerians our culture of “God forbid, Not my portion” “if you listen to that you may become it” over spirituality doesn’t help at all. And as a result I decided to start this thread. Also because I know 2 people who have confided in me and told me, “I regret coming back to Nigeria”. One was lured by “well wishers” who assured him he will be a big boy in Nigeria with his foreign degree, he will earn millions as a foreign trained doctor in the best private hospitals in Nigeria and especially due to the situation of things where he was at the time he obliged and returned he has been in Nigeria for 2 years now him and his foreign degree have been unable to find a job. A second guy has a similar story, he was working menial jobs abroad but was able to pay his bills and have little saved up he returned to Nigeria and has been struggling to make ends meet. People were quick to tell them “Come back, you dey there dey suffer when you suppose to they enjoy here”, Girls in Nigeria where throwing themselves at them based on the pictures and knowledge that they are abroad always asking “when are you coming back” “I miss you”, “I will like to see you” but immediately they returned that attraction faded away quickly. So if you have a similar story or even good story please share it. For us all to learn and be entertained. Thank you. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by overdrive(m): 12:52pm On Nov 02, 2024 |
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| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Emmanuel909090: 1:54pm On Nov 02, 2024 |
It's all about lack of proper planning. If you plan to return, you should also plan a sustainable business or project that will sustain you. Don't come back here hoping to get a job. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by ednut1(m): 1:56pm On Nov 02, 2024*. Modified: 10:27pm On Nov 02, 2024 |
Nigeria is hard business wise. Without government patronage , connect or contracts you will likely fail. During Yardua presidency many Nigerians came back from abroad. They have all mostly returned after 9ja shower them shege |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Pentagon007: 9:00pm On Nov 02, 2024 |
It will be a very costly mistake for anyone to come back to Nigeria from wherever you are. From those that i have come across, they mostly regret it. One of my close relation who came back from just Gabon after spending many years there and persistent callings from family to come back. 15 years later, he is still regretting making that move to come back to Nigeria. It will be a situation of loss and no gain whatsoever. Before you come back, ask yourself - what are you coming back to? Even from the daily news you get from Nigeria is enough intel to tell you whats up. My final advice: if you are based anywhere outside Nigeria, Never come back!!! At least not for now. Its a DEAD country and will remain so for a very long time to come. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Rexymania(m): 10:43pm On Nov 02, 2024 |
Here to read comments But anything wey make me comotfor 9ja, coming back will be difficult even in my old age. Cause I no too gbadu this country.... except someone better takes over. Not these greedy politicians |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by OkanlawonB(m): 8:05am On Nov 03, 2024 |
If you find yourself abroad, especially in one of the Western countries, one of your priorities should be to obtain the citizenship of your host country. With your dual natiionality at hand, relocating back to Nigeria should not Pose any challenge to you. For financial security at home invest only in low risk, low returns sector like landed properties. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by emperor4love(m): 9:16am On Nov 03, 2024 |
Ppl that left not coming back here |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by DuBLINGreenb(op): 6:37pm On Nov 03, 2024 |
Emmanuel909090:This is a very good point, I share the same views. Don’t return to Nigeria hoping to get a job but return with the intention of creating jobs. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by DuBLINGreenb(op): 6:47pm On Nov 03, 2024 |
ednut1:I know bro, I told someone I wanted to buy a rental property for 10m some small apartments but the rent yearly I will receive was 180,000 to 200,000 per year Which will mean it will take me 50 years to get back my 10,000,000 naira I put into the house Not only that the 200,000 naira will not be enough to do anything significant in my life, in the international market that 200,000naira is $121 today not enough to pay my one months rent abroad. Not enough for anything I have thought of so many investments in Nigeria but all of them are loss making ventures. Another problem is the devaluation of the naira, if you invest $10,000 in Nigeria let’s assume you get 100,000 naira weekly or monthly from the business assuming that 100,000 naira is $100 today by next tomorrow it will be $98 four days from today it will be $80 3 weeks from today it would be $50 So the money you make in Nigeria just keeps losing value due to no fault of yours. And we haven’t even touched on people ripping you off if you aren’t present in the country to watch/oversee your business yourself I think the best approach would be move to Nigeria yourself and invest or find someone you can absolutely trust to carry on the business otherwise don’t invest |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by DuBLINGreenb(op): 6:57pm On Nov 03, 2024 |
ednut1:People came back to Naija during Ya’adua time? I wasn’t aware oh |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by DuBLINGreenb(op): 7:42pm On Nov 03, 2024 |
Pentagon007:Wow 15 years later 😮 See hooge mistake wey person dey regret for 15 years No be small thing oh It reminds me of that one tv show in Nigeria were one of the characters who is a mechanic usually says “I miss abroad” whenever Nigeria happens to him or someone else, he will immediately have flashback of his time abroad and shake his head in pity and say “I miss abroad”. Kate henshaw was in the show as a restaurant owner. Back to the matter you know what makes what you just typed even more pitiful? Nigeria has only gotten worse in those 15 years oh. So if the guy was hoping “e go better” in year 1, year 2, year 3 till 10 then 15 omo I can’t imagine how he is feeling now. Another thing is people who could have afforded to japa with ease just 2 years ago, will need to struggle to japa today and people who would japa with ease 15 years ago in 2009 when 1 U.S dollar was only 154 Naira will not be able to japa at all today that 1 dollar is 1,641 naira Everything you typed is on point. All the news about Nigeria are Negative even today the Children held in police cell for 90 days and told to bring 10million naira each for bail with 2 sureties of grade level 15 in civil service with employment letter and last promotion letter and a family member. To the black out in the North for weeks abi months because allegedly terr*rists blew the transmission lines and are stopping the Nepa officials from going to fix it, to fuel price hike and even though Dangote has fuel Ipman and govmt are refusing to buy from him , Naira devaluation, police accidentally crushing 35 year old woman to de.ath etc. etc. All bad news the sad part and the reason for this thread is some times people forget why they left in the first place, they forget what their life’s were on day to day basis they get used to the 24/7 electricity, getting paid salary on time every week or every 2 weeks, they get used to good roads, good security, clean environment, job availability abroad and mistakenly think “well life will be the same in Naija as it is abroad but with family & friends & good weather. When they start thinking of Nigeria they have nostalgia they only remember “good times” parties, clubbing, family, friends, food, entertainment they forget every other thing I listed earlier, the power failure, insecurity, the police check points and bribery, the fact that it takes years to get a job. The sachet water wrappers, plastic bags and dirt everywhere, people throwing refuse in the drainage and the sides and center of the roads, the traffic, the heat, election violence etc. Add to the fact that some in Nigeria will say leave that dish washing job, that cleaning old people yansh that pays you 11pounds an hour for 20 or 40 hours a week = £440 (938,000 naira a week) (with all the infrastructure safety and amenities the UK or similar countries have) come and be a manager of a bank for 300,000 a month you will not do anything just sit in the office and people will worship you. Some Nigerians abroad when they face one or two challenges (weather, lack of social life or man and woman) will start to fall for it. Will you rather have social life & “good weather” and be able to save between 0 - 50,000naira every month from your 300,000 monthly salary if you even see work that will pay you 300,000 per month or sacrifice that social life small, endure the cold weather and have the opportunity to be able to save one week salary or half of one week salary of £200-£440 (420,000naira to 940,000naira) every month out of your monthly salary for those who work full time.
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| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by DuBLINGreenb(op): 7:45pm On Nov 03, 2024 |
OkanlawonB:True |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Pentagon007: 10:19pm On Nov 03, 2024 |
DuBLINGreenb:You are spot on my brother! I wish i can like your comment a hundred times. See, i have been following developments in Nigeria ever since i knew how to read. When i was still in Jss1 many years ago, while going to school, I used to stop at newspaper stands to read the head lines. I make sure that i look up all the major newspapers' story headlines before i continue on my way to school. As young as i was then, i usually leave that stand with sadness because there was NEVER a day you will see ONE good news on the the papers. Never! All through my schooling years till i graduated, i came to ONE realization. Nigeria will NEVER function or get better. Go and look at the complains since the 70s, 80s and 90s. They are still the EXACT same thing Nigeria is battling till today 3 day of August 2024. All the things you mentioned have been in the same state since. No single improvement in any area. Mehnn when i finished my university education, i decided already, even before that time, that i will never go for NYSC. Instead i started early to look for a way of survival for myself. The drive and Passion in me to escape that HELLFIRE called a country Nigeria, made me to work hard and find my way outside the borders of Nigeria, though still in Africa. But you know what, this is the beat decision i took for my life. In this small country that i am there is 247 electricity, there is sanity everywhere i look around. Have never seen anybody fighting in the street. You can move around at any time of the night even sleep on the road side and wake up with your phones and money intact. I have never heard the sound of sirens here. Only emergency ambulances uses sirens. Have never heard any gunshot. My brother you need to see the quality of roads and how they build it carefully and neatly despite not being a rich country. High tension wires are armored cables so there is no news of high tension wire falling on anybody. There is pipe borne water 247 with meters. It is here i saw a functional water reservoir supplying portable water to houses. In Nigeria it is always on election posters you will see them write "Supply portable water" as their agenda but they never make it work or function. Even the little work i do here pays me better than those cashiers working in a bank in Nigeria. Meanwhile my mates in Nigeria still fo not have work to do after many years of graduation. Mehnnn... Nigeria is a dead country! Only a m*d person will return to that place to live. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Pentagon007: 10:43pm On Nov 03, 2024*. Modified: 11:23pm On Nov 03, 2024 |
DuBLINGreenb:Any investment in Nigeria is a guaranteed loss for the person. Regardless of whether the person is in ground or not. Being on ground will not stabilize the naira, will not provide constant electricity, will not provide the required security. What of accidents and robbery? Dont even talk about healthcare. 50% of drugs in Nigeria now are all fakes. Going to the hospital now is far more risky than the sickness the sickness the person wants to treat. Why? Experienced doctors have jakpa. Remaining student doctors and nurses. I read about a lady that went to check up cos she was having delayed period,,,omo one thing lead to another, they took the lady to theatre, cut one place and blood was gushing. Omo like play like play, the lady died o. And she was preparing to go to UK for studies. I will look for the news and attach it here https://www.nairaland.com/8010778/rebecca-sekidika-rivers-first-class |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by pansophist(m): 2:01pm On Nov 04, 2024 |
I wont tell you not to come back, but if you do, make sure you have secured two things. 1. The ability to leave if things doesnt work out for you. 2. Your earnings should be in hard currency. Only with the two above conditions you wont regret coming back, and Nigeria wont be a weapon fashioned against you. But also bear in mind the structural problems that Nigeria gives everyone regardless of who you are, such as a healthcare system that is worse than the disease itself, the realities of everyday living outside your mansion (eg traffic, bad roads, good public school for kids etc). |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Kobojunkie: 3:16pm On Nov 04, 2024 |
OkanlawonB:Tell that story to those who invested in land in Abuja that are now battling to keep Wike from taking over their lands. So many other Nigerians, both at home and abroad, have had their lands literally stolen right from under them. Yet you continue to insist that investing in land is the safest? Why do you people do these things to your fellow men? ![]() |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Kobojunkie: 3:19pm On Nov 04, 2024 |
Emmanuel909090:What sustainable business or project? Even undertakers are experiencing hard times with customers not having money to pay for the burial of their loved ones. You have a country where companies that have been there for many decades are packing and leaving after exhausting all of the plans they had. ![]() What proper planning? Why are many of you always quick to sell to others ideas that have not panned out for your own selves? Everyone in Nigeria is struggling from the devasting effects of corruption and incompetence that the government of Nigeria. ![]() |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Kobojunkie: 3:26pm On Nov 04, 2024 |
DuBLINGreenb:Intentions of creating jobs? Or going in with some sort of savior complex— thinking you can make all of the problems disappear if you only gave some people work? ![]() I watched a video some days ago where Isaac Fayose told of how he invested Naira 50 million of his money into a business of his. He created jobs as you suggested but guess what? That business was run down in just a matter of months. Great business plan, and an excellent location as well, but unfortunately, he had Nigerians working for him, and they, according to him, ate up the business before it could even take off, and it is not for him not trying his best to make certain it worked. 🤔 |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by DuBLINGreenb(op): 3:31am On Nov 05, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:That’s true I also saw part of that video and it’s true, I have many similar experiences of family members with similar stories an uncle of mine who is late now he used to have a fairly large poultry the guys managing it always told him the birds aren’t laying When he retired he started living in the farmhouse and suddenly the chickens were laying more eggs than ever before 🤣 but still he caught several workers stealing the eggs but they no longer had freedom to steal as much as they used to steal before. my mom had a small farm she paid had someone looking after it the same issue the guy would harvest the plantains and claim this year was bad year for plantains or someone jumped the fence and stole it when he was not around meanwhile he has cooked them. A friend of mine who owned a small shop his worker used to steal the fuel he bought and did not use to remit all the money it was when he put his mom in charge she caught the boy. I’ve also seen videos of a madam and her sales girl online where they went to the girls house and saw she had stolen shoes, bags, slippers, clothes etc from the shop and some where with her some she “dashed” her sister. The madam told her to demonstrate how she used to steal from the shop. It is your comment that refreshed my mind to all these things, bro you are very right there are many more I don’t have time and space to type her Uber and bus, the guy claimed he wasn’t working for 3 days now because he was sick or something only for him to have accident and that was how madam owner of bus found out he had been working all these while and he wasn’t sick he then lied that he needed the money for his pregnant wife and mothers burial only for the madam who is a police officer to call police in the area who confirmed after holding the bus drivers brother that the mother had died loooooong ago and was already buried and the wife wasn’t pregnant. By the way the madam had to repair the bus because the driver had no money at all allegedly, he was willing to sleep in cell rather than pay money for repairs or remit the money for the 3 days he was working and claiming to be too sick to drive. And imagine all these stories are of people who are in the same country and state as the business yet they are reaping them imagine aid they were abroad 🤣 the workers will eat everything run it down 💯 |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Kobojunkie: 3:47am On Nov 05, 2024 |
DuBLINGreenb:So, you know how very common these issues are in Nigeria? ![]() 2. Why then would you turn around and tell someone that success in Nigeria is all about planning and going in with intentions to create jobs? Common sense is turned on its head in Nigeria and it takes more than just these simple things to make life work for anyone in Nigeria. ![]() |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by maternal: 7:00am On Nov 05, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:Mother passed away, and a cousin stole her house. This is a person we took care off from birth, as his mother, my Auntie, died from child birth. My mother bought that house and let him live there rent free for decades. He was literally waiting for her to die. I decided not to prosecute him because it's cheaper to cut him off financially. The house wasn't worth that much. He's now crying as the money is finished. Begging for forgiveness. I have blocked and disowned every family member in that zoo of a country. Every single asset is being sold off as i'm completing my divorce from that country and its people. My good friend who's based in the UK, and her brothers are based in Canada & US, decided to hire domestic help, as their momsy is still based in naija. All make good money in pounds and dollars. They hired a driver. Paid him 150k naira per month. Paid his daughters school fees. They'd give him food to go home with every night. Enough food for his wife and daughter. This man decided to defraud them of 300k naira. 2 months worth of salary. They sacked him and he cameback crying as he's now jobless and looking hungary. He's been banned from the estate by the security. He even attempted to fight the new driver. You see, the typical Nigerian in Nigeria is a thief and bafoon. Anybody without serious Dangote like connections who decides to invest within that jungle called Nigeria is a fool. Point blank. If your employees don't steal from you, your family members will. The people are no different from the politicians. Incompetent thiefs. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Emmanuel909090: 10:29am On Nov 05, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:Because big companies are packing up, you think everyone is suffering? Anyways when you have a chicken mind you will always think like one. This same economy is favourable to some people. Secondly, you think I have not planned out one for myself? Even if the economy returns to Johnathans regime, and you fail to make proper plan and run back to Nigeria, my brother you would have still suffered. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by Usefulsense: 10:42am On Nov 05, 2024 |
I am afraid of going back to Nigeria after reading this. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by maternal: 12:28pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
Emmanuel909090:Which people is this economy Favorable too ? |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by maternal: 12:36pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
Usefulsense:Return to do what ? You've escaped a burning building, now you want to Return into that same burning building ? For what ? Aren't you based in Canada ? Don't disrespect God's blessings my friend. He got you out of that S-hole for a reason. |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by AngelicBeing: 12:56pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
maternal:Absolutely spot on, l agree 💯 with your post ![]() |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by ednut1(m): 12:57pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
maternal:people selling inverters, people importing drugs, people with political connections, just a few people o |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by AngelicBeing: 12:58pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
Usefulsense: ![]() |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by AngelicBeing: 12:59pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
ednut1: ![]() |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by AngelicBeing: 1:00pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
ednut1:Selling inverters ke |
| Re: You Relocated Back To Nigeria And You Regret It Please Share Your Story by ednut1(m): 1:33pm On Nov 05, 2024 |
AngelicBeing:electricity and fuel don cost na |
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