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A Nigerian lady living abroad issued a warning to her fellow countrywomen, shedding light on a cultural reality she has experienced. She highlighted how, unlike in Nigeria where admiration from strangers often comes unsolicited, life overseas is strikingly different.

"No matter how attractive you are or how you catwalk, no man will call you on the street here," she said, referring to the reserved social norms in her new environment. The lady expressed surprise at the lack of street interactions and shared that it's something many Nigerians may find unusual, especially if they're used to the warm, expressive nature of admiration back home.

Her comments sparked a lively discussion online, with Nigerians both at home and abroad chiming in with their own experiences and opinions. Some praised the reserved approach, seeing it as respectful, while others reminisced about the vibrant interactions and compliments they miss from back home.



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We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

Are you really a lady? It's difficult to see Nigerian lady sound like this. Kudos.

Not true

Bighead9:
Are you really a lady? It's difficult to see Nigerian lady sound like this. Kudos.

For too long we women have been bullied and supressed into accepting feminism but some of us can see through the hypocrisy and we're standing up for ourselves. How can a man be footing all my bills and I will still come online to abuse him?

I'm not a witch sir.

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

so you know the truth. Some of you sef with pot belly will still be forming

Bighead9:
Are you really a lady? It's difficult to see Nigerian lady sound like this. Kudos.

That's a man like you with saggy hairy balls.

You thought.

Pochettino:
I will forever love pussies

1Sharon:
That's a man like you with saggy hairy balls.

You thought.

his comment was unusual for a Nigerian lady

Bighead9:
his comment was unusual for a Nigerian lady

Because he's not a woman and is simply here to cause division.

Over 85% of the female population living abroad must be under one form of depression or the other if that's the case.. women love compliments a lot and studies have shown beyond doubts that all the female paparazzi, makeups, 300k - 1 million Brazilian hair and whatnot are to attract guys.

Someone is saying the truth there, some are arguing about the gender

Even here in this country, as she dey like this,I won’t call her

Maybe na because she no fine

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

Hahahahaha

Bighead9:
Are you really a lady? It's difficult to see Nigerian lady sound like this. Kudos.

A man with hairy balls is behind that moniker.

This is the reality!!!

Bighead9:
Are you really a lady? It's difficult to see Nigerian lady sound like this. Kudos.

Walahi...e shock me sef. I checked to be sure the moniker is not "pocahontas" and I was right!

flokii:
Over 85% of the female population living abroad must be under one form of depression or the other if that's the case.. women love compliments a lot and studies have shown beyond doubts that all the female paparazzi, makeups, 300k - 1 million Brazilian hair and whatnot are to attract guys.

No one as much as gives them a first look abroad.

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

Aunty please o
Me , I am attractive and desirable even more than the Caucasian and Asian women. Shuuuuu

No be all naija men get sense o
And no be all of them God go bless

It's on record that black women are on the lowest level in the hierarchy of sexual demands in the west. White men simply don't find most black women attractive unlike white women that desire black guys. This coupled with the fact that black guys abroad don't trust black ladies abroad to make good partners, thus leaving the black ladies lonely and with no relationship/marriage suitors.

This is why every Nigerian lady who wants marriage should endeavor to marry before moving abroad, otherwise she'll most likely end up unmarried for the rest of her life.

Her comments sparked a lively discussion online, with Nigerians both at home and abroad chiming in with their own experiences and opinions. Some praised the reserved approach, seeing it as respectful, while others reminisced about the vibrant interactions and compliments they miss from back home.

Na this part dey vex me pass for online interactions. Why don’t people ever come to a consensus? It is always one way or the other with them.

She looks like Aunty Dupe. Nobody will approach someone who refuses to look after herself. If she hits the gym, she’ll get a few admirers. There is a reason why many Nigerian females start visiting the gym in foreign nations.

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

Bros, take am easy.

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

Are u really saying dis as a woman?

Don't let feminist come 4 ur head oo.....
Dey take everything too personal

LordIsaac:
Walahi...e shock me sef. I checked to be sure the moniker is not "pocahontas" and I was right!

I even thought it was POCAHONTAS.... Dat hairy balls nigha behind d moniker na werey oooo...

And I av already quoted him, e pain me.

This babe was probably not getting called on the road too in Nigeria

flokii:
Over 85% of the female population living abroad must be under one form of depression or the other if that's the case.. women love compliments a lot and studies have shown beyond doubts that all the female paparazzi, makeups, 300k - 1 million Brazilian hair and whatnot are to attract guys.

the lady's comment isnt for all women...i think is specifically for black women.

Naija ladies Sha.

They think Abroad is Nigeria where A Guy will stop them, chyke them and after managing to give him number
You will start hearing
My Gas has finished, my sister's wedding Asoebi is out, my YANCH pad is missing and I need new one, etc.

NONSENSE and Tinibu!

Abroad na mind your business I mind my business

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

That's not true. She's bald and fat. These are not the standards of beauty in the US and especially not in Europe. Then the teeth. That creepy gap between the teeth.. absolutely unacceptable. Gesticulation with the head and hands is unacceptable, excessive, unnatural, irritating. The standards of beauty are.. let's say.. different. Yes I stay polite. Those who come to Africa and choose such women make up 0.00000000000000001% of the white male population. In other words. They make a statistical error in the population.

Pochettino:
We Nigerian women need to appreciate our men for always helping to boost our ego and help our mental health.

Despite the fact that we are not as attractive or desirable as caucasian and asian women, our Naija men still make sure to hype us and treat us like queens.

God bless our men dearly

Probably yes.

ruggedtimi:
the lady's comment isnt for all women...i think is specifically for black women.

It is for most women. Men approach, but they simply don't do it in the obnoxious way (like kerb crawling) as is done in Nigeria. Men and women typically meet online or at social events.