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I don't buy into this ideology that the strong forgive and the weak avenge. That is some really dumb ass bullshit.
If you thought you can walk all over me and expect me to forgive you , you better wake up.

If you let people know they can be forgiven, they'll keep acting crazy. But if they knew you are the type to get even, they'll be careful around you.

Like, why should I be the mature person if your common sense wouldn't tell you to be a responsible adult?

Personally, I don't just get even with an adversary. I get over them. Pound for pound , quota for quota.

If anyone knew they would be avenged, they'll be careful the way they treat other human being. And that will make this world a better place.

You can't avenge because you are scared the other person will revenge.
You can't avenge because you are basically weak not because you are strong.

Do not forgive, do not forget. Forgiveness is a sin here.

1.
Forgiveness is different from forgetfulness. To forgive is wise and divine. To forget is stupid. The opposite of forgetfulness is remembrance, not vengeance. So, rememberance does not mean vengeance. Always remember, so that you don't give people the chance to repeat their bad attitudes towards you.

2.
It is necessary to forgive because two wrongs do not make a right. You can't use vengeance to prevent people from hurting you. Your vengeance can only intensify hate in people and motivate them to be more hurting than you can be.

immortalcrown:
1.
Forgiveness is different from forgetfulness. To forgive is wise and divine. To forget is stupid. The opposite of forgetfulness is remembrance, not vengeance. So, rememberance does not mean vengeance. Always remember, so that you don't give people the chance to repeat their bad attitudes towards you.

2.
It is necessary to forgive because two wrongs do not make a right. You can't use vengeance to prevent people from hurting you. Your vengeance can only intensify hate in people and motivate them to be more hurting than you can be.

Well, there is something you refuse to remember. Back in high school, the teachers always punished whenever we offended. Why did you think they did that?

They knew the best way to inculcate discipline is thru pain.

Lemme tell you something. When someone hurts you and you forgive them by not avenging your cause. That same person will go on to do exact same thing to another person, be grateful if not you.
But when someone hurts you and you deal with them a little bit extra than what they did to you.
They'll understand the pain , they themselves won't want to feel it again so they won't wanna hurt someone else.

I repeat, forgiveness is weakness. Simply scared of a war outbreak. Blood for blood, an ounce for an ounce.

See, in this life we live in. It is better to be feared than to be loved. Love is basically useless, people will love you and still walk all over you. But when they are scared of you, they won't tryna bullshit you.
When people know you are the type to get even, they'll fear you and watch their steps around you.

This is Dark Philosophy, Power of the world.

FRANCISTOWN:
Well, there is something you refuse to remember. Back in high school, the teachers always punished whenever we offended. Why did you think they did that?

They knew the best way to inculcate discipline is thru pain.

Lemme tell you something. When someone hurts you and you forgive them by not avenging your cause. That same person will go on to do exact same thing to another person, be grateful if not you.
But when someone hurts you and you deal with them a little bit extra than what they did to you.
They'll understand the pain , they themselves won't want to feel it again so they won't wanna hurt someone else.

I repeat, forgiveness is weakness. Simply scared of a war outbreak. Blood for blood, an ounce for an ounce.

See, in this life we live in. It is better to be feared than to be loved. Love is basically useless, people will love you and still walk all over you. But when they are scared of you, they won't tryna bullshit you.
When people know you are the type to get even, they'll fear you and watch their steps around you.

This is Dark Philosophy, Power of the world.

I have just two questions for you.

1.
When someone hurts you for the first time and you forgive the person, does your forgiveness to the person make it impossible for you to prevent the person from hurting you again?

2.
Does your revenge prevent people from hurting you again? Even the school scenario you gave proves you wrong because kids commit offence after being flogged by teachers.

I dont forgive. It's only weak people that forgive.

You have only one chance to cross me, I only give a second chance to family members like siblings.

immortalcrown:
I have just two questions for you.

1.
When someone hurts you for the first time and you forgive the person, does your forgiveness to the person make it impossible for you to prevent the person from hurting you again?

2.
Does your revenge prevent people from hurting you again? Even the school scenario you gave proves you wrong because kids commit offence after being flogged by teachers.

I don't get the first question, but to answer the second question. Yes.
Once I pay people back measure to measure, I'm being seen as an evil person, and trust me. No one wants to get into my bad record

Sp1ritHusband:
I dont forgive. It's only weak people that forgive.

You have only one chance to cross me, I only give a second chance to family members like siblings.

At least we both agreed here, unlike how we disagreed on the other thread

FRANCISTOWN:
At least we both agreed here, unlike how we disagreed on the other thread

We agree on a lot of things my friend. Religion teach forgiveness to make people docile, soft and easily manipulated.