₦airaland Forum

Inosky:
Sponsor yourself outside, that's if you didn't marry your wife a virgin or plan the whole family relocation. Or You can setup a business for her, with some part of your savings, then bring her after you settle.
The possibility of her cheating on you over there is high like 90%, she may still bring you along after studies to complement your goodwill but your marriage may never be the same, which would lead to divorce/separation.

castins:
#smiles#
Let me ask you, if I sponsor myself outside with the little savings I have presently, how is my wife and son going to survive while am away?

Am the one doing a better job for now. So resigning and traveling will cause financial hardship for me and them too. Because no one will be sending money to support me while I study.

YoungBTCxchange:
wtf are you saying the guy has been doing some underground savings, do you know how many years he has been saving up money.
Have you sent someone abroad before, don't let all this nairalander who have not been to embassy be calling anyhow amount for you

BItt:
What if he is able to access some sort of loan and pays back gradually? Let's assume If the wife gets over there and she's able to get a good job, she can be sending few dollars home so that they can offset the debt or loan faster.

1.5millon can do much that way

jjbest123:
Are you done with your noise making?

castins:
#smiles#
Let me ask you, if I sponsor myself outside with the little savings I have presently, how is my wife and son going to survive while am away?

Am the one doing a better job for now. So resigning and traveling will cause financial hardship for me and them too. Because no one will be sending money to support me while I study.

Inosky:
Good question. That's why I said. You can cope as a man abroad than your woman. You can pick up some side jobs while studying, jubs like driving or other construction jobs. Something your woman can't do.

But first of all, you can use some tangible amount of money to set up one or two businesses for your wife, something like pharmacy shop or groceries (grain wholesale) business. Your close family (female) relatives or some you trusted can keep her company or you pay a sales girl to support her in management of the business.

Then, when you settle down over there, you submit an application for her and your kid to come along. The business can still be going on in Nigeria under monitoring by a trusted friend or a family relative, while she comes to join you and pick up a job to support you over there. As you're finishing your own studies she can start hers; and by that time you guys may have given birth to a other child, giving you an alternative route and potential chance to citizenship.

G0Oodharddick:
Use that money, save More and send yourself abroad Dude. What's Wrong with you Nigerian men? U haven't sent urself out it's your wife you're planning to send?

When she gets there and meet another man and tell you she's no longer interested in you or starts acting funny, you'll Rush and come and create thread looking for advice

Myrrhis:
And you brought it to nairaland?
I don't think you love your wife.

Atk1nson:
Do you have a reading problem? or is this a learning disability?

Inosky:
That line has been closed, I saw a news about that fews days ago

justwise:
Yes he has 14M saved already so my question to you is… is 14M enough to study in any developed country? How much is 14M converted to £ , $ or € ?

pepigeorge:
Are u sure dem never fry ur brain.. U go work send ur wife abroad for dis generation.. Men will never learn.. Ur leg dey forbid d abroad.. Don't come and complain here wen she marries another man after studies o

castins:
I currently work with a multinational company here in Nigeria, I have a son and my wife to take care of.

My wife is a registered nurse.

I want her to travel abroad for further studies, I have some savings already. And I eat. #1.5 m+ monthly.

Please can you suggest best countries she can go for studies and also with prospects of getting permanent residency soonest.

uchman:
Does it mean that everyone of you guys that sent their wives abroad lost their wives?
You guys stories are scary meeen!

YoungBTCxchange:
a friend of my migrated to Canada to study earlier this year I think march or so, he spent 8m on process the visa, then with the help of one bank manager here he was able to generate POF in his account. Then when he was leaving he was holding $3k cash because you know that is a must, you be holding physical cash .
The school the agent applied was the one that you will need to get admission before paying anything, you should understand what im saying

justwise:
The moment I saw your post on this I knew immediately that you don’t know what you are talking about.

So your friend got a visa through fraudulent means and you are proud to say it here and even have the gut to argue with people?

Regex:
There is a chance that "friend" is him

justwise:
The moment I saw your post on this I knew immediately that you don’t know what you are talking about.

So your friend got a visa through fraudulent means and you are proud to say it here and even have the gut to argue with people? So

Originalsly:
Your wife is an RN ... and you want to send her abroad to study. You should say how many hundreds of millions or how many billions you have saved so we can give you better guidance. This I can tell you ... if you want to keep your family ... move together as a family. If you can't... don't. Your wife is 99% likely to hook up with somebody abroad ... most likely her school mate or work mate if she gets a job. If she doesn't get a job ... can't afford schooling ... she will have to make hard choices ... go into survival mode which has a way of suppressing one's moral code. You have a Plan A .... do you have a Plan B ...and C as backups? Those who succeed are those who research and plan very well.

Usefulsense:
Why are we so much fixated on women leaving their husbands when they come abroad?

Are there no examples of women who kept themselves for their husbands abroad when the later is in Nigeria?

Usefulsense:
Why are we so much fixated on women leaving their husbands when they come abroad?

Are there no examples of women who kept themselves for their husbands abroad when the later is in Nigeria?

Originalsly:
If a husband wants to take his salary to the betting parlour... would you advise him to and give examples of people who did and hit it big? If not ...why not?

jaksmillioniar:
am married wit a daughter I wish my babygrow up dere and become a citizen
Can 5 millions take ur dere.

castins:
#smiles#
Let me ask you, if I sponsor myself outside with the little savings I have presently, how is my wife and son going to survive while am away?

Am the one doing a better job for now. So resigning and traveling will cause financial hardship for me and them too. Because no one will be sending money to support me while I study.

Nicepoker:
UK. But Buy lots and lots of winter coats because she will surely throw you out of the house

Usefulsense:
Your analogy is unrelated. We are talking about humans and not gambling.

There are many women that stood beside their husband irrespective of the circumstance.

If you are afraid of losing your wife abroad, that means trust is dead in your marriage.

A women that will leave you after coming abroad, will continue to cheat on you in Nigeria.

I rather that my wife leaves me when she goes abroad than pretend to love and cheat on me while in Nigeria.

There are still good women out there. My queen is a living example.