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Stevenbright:
My question is if you and the other in-law are to pay for the mortuary expenses and the buying of the casket, what will all the man's uncountable children do!

It's d duty of d first son to buy d casket yo bury his father, that's his sole responsibility, he can't run away from it. That's tradition. No one will bury his father for him.

BlindAngel:
She hasn't seen her dad for more than 10 years and counting, he was In another state, the day of our traditional marriage (February) was when she and her biological sisters saw him last. He was seriously sick, since February until he gave up the ghost today. He was in town ever since they brought him to collect the bride price, seriously sick. Since February until date my wife and her sisters none went to see him, not even once, they claimed he abandoned them when they were young, that whenever they went to visit him he'd lock the protector and talk to them inside while they're standing outside. I repeat since February until date they haven't set their eyes on him despite the fact that he was seriously sick and in same town with them.

So you have been married to this woman for 10 years yet you keep reminding her that she forced you into the marriage? O ma se o. Women, when will we learn? There is no profit in forcing yourself on a man. My heart goes out to that woman for the verbal and emotional abuse she has gone through for 10 whole years

ryloy:
Na poverty mentality dey worry this yeye OP

Which poverty? So as an in-law I should carry more load than all the children of the deceased combined? Make una shift. Its high time everyone answer his father's name and not shift responsibility to others because they are failures.

I like the way you cast your wife in the presence of her siblings & mom.

They've been leveraging on the fact that they thought you met her a virgin.

Let them bear that shame in the mean time!

BlindAngel:
She hasn't seen her dad for more than 10 years and counting, he was In another state, the day of our traditional marriage (February) was when she and her biological sisters saw him last. He was seriously sick, since February until he gave up the ghost today. He was in town ever since they brought him to collect the bride price, seriously sick. Since February until date my wife and her sisters none went to see him, not even once, they claimed he abandoned them when they were young, that whenever they went to visit him he'd lock the protector and talk to them inside while they're standing outside. I repeat since February until date they haven't set their eyes on him despite the fact that he was seriously sick and in same town with them.

That aside whenever my wife is disturbing me and I reminded her that I'm a loner and loves being alone, she'd get furious and always tell me that I'd die a very slow, lonely and painful death. This words still ring a bell on my head, and thinking about how they totally abandoned and hates their dad because their mother hates him is another thing that'd make me take her threat seriously.

Hold solidly unto God, pray for his mercy and forsake any sin and watch how God will fight for you,non of her curse will come to pass in your life and please let them bury thier dead, if possible don't go for the burial. They can take their daughter after the burial if you didn't contribute nor attend.

You have already accepted and married her. The too much ranting should not be there again. If you still didn't find her attractive till now, the best you could have done is to walk away/ separate from her instead of debasing and embarrassing her Infront of everyone that way.

That said, this burial contribution thing is supposed to optional and willingly. Why try to cajole another man to cover your own responsibility instead of doing it as you can. You no too do bad for there sha na only shout wey you shout wey bad. Na you suppose tell them wetin you want do for them.

Just know that your stand and that of those baby daddies are no longer the same in that family. You na husband and in-law. Them na baby daddies and intending abi na aspiring in laws.

Finally, if I go ask, how people take dey sleep with person wey be saying if situation changes them no go manage am sef?

You no well. Nah today woman dey leave man abi man dey leave woman, which one be pussy and dick inside? Nah all f#ck must lead to marriage abi na all the girls wey you f#ck you marry? Hypocrite.

Person say them force am (looking at the history of so many of her sisters that are baba mamas, it’s already clear the game the girl played) and he has realized his mistake, instead of you to comfort him you dey talk bladder-dash. You better go work hard and take up your responsibility, if you think say na in-law go bury your papa for you, na lie you lie. Finished man. You go bury your papa, still bury in-law wey born pikin as na burial you come life come use your money do.

kevwemike:
Guy wat is wrong with U? Why are U talking like a child, U don't like the girl but Ur dick like her pussy to the extent U got her pregnant, and U are here saying that she force u into the marriage, u dey here urself? The truth is that wat the family counted for U is the right thing to do as in-law , just try and do the needful is Ur in-law.

THIS ONE WEY OP NO COMMENT AGAIN, ABI THE WIFE DON POISON HIM NII..

BlindAngel:
My wife has been the one holding me back, she's not ready to let go. I told her that she should at least get some dignity, someone doesn't want you but you're forcing yourself on him. That most women in her shoes would have walkes away without blinking an eye, due to the constant humiliation and disrespect, but still she isn't in anyway ready to let go.

She told me that she's ready for me to return the bride price but we'd still be together, which I plainly rejected.

Bro somtimes people dont value what they have they lose it.. for your mind you feel you are so prepared to lose her ... you will even rush to church do thanksgiving nd share food ... you might be in for a shocker

For a gurl you claim not to love, no physical attraction but you admitted getting her pregnant ! how naw ?? or did she force you to do
i know what you want to hear but the truth is what you need ... i notice you didnt complain about her character/attitude/nature so basically the problem is you nd your "feelings"
Bro you feel no love for that gurl cos you wont allow anything grow,
have you tried to focus on her good sides nd lets see if you won't starting catching feelings,
i take it you dont know how lucky you are to be in a r/ship the woman loves you more and she is bent on staying ... have you heard the one you love doesnt want you,

As for her family i get the picture, buh you dont have to get physical with them, you can just say your NO without blow, nobody fit force you do weytin you no wan do, how sef
if i was in your shoes i will tell them big No as well buh for my wife sake i can decide to contribute or tell them highest i can do for them. shikena

Iceking1:
Kudos to you boss, you're indeed a man. You did great 👍👍👍

he took a manly decision but applied it as a woman,he could just tell them his mind and walked away without the drama, excatly same thing happened to me when my father in-law died and they said the inlaws will contribute #100k each in 2008,I reminded them that my mother died in 2006 and they were not taxed or told to contribute anything,I walked away with my wife furious with me,I only went on the burial date with what is proper for an inlaw to come with,goat,drinks and cash in envelope,final full stop

Iceking1:
Kudos to you boss, you're indeed a man. You did great 👍👍👍

Continue to whine him. What kind of man behaves like that? A man that is asking his woman to set him free. Woman wey you don sleep with and take care of, how can she set you free?
He is a man that doesn't know what he wants, he is being led like a child.
A man doesn't burst into a display of anger so much to reveal secrets. A man would still hold secrets while expressing his displeasure. A man shouldn't stand infront of his in-laws telling them how their daughter forced him into marriage. She use jazz on you?
He is a man that can't be alone and yet has not found his "perfect match".

idahme:
Stil can't get this scenario, but when it comes to Sharing properties they won't invite the in-law to join them. Pathetic

It's funny

Stand your ground, don’t give anything. Let them share the expenses amongst all the children then you can support your wife to cover hers. After that, if you want, you can give them anything in cash if you like.

Your wife scammed you but you also messed up, it’s your fault. You ignored too many red flags and made a lot of errors but the good thing is that you have realized your mistake. If you need to leave, leave now right after the burial; if you want to stay, be ready. Now that you have exposed her secret, she’ll be very mad at you and you may not survive it.

Anything you have been seeing before, be ready for x100. Hell hath no fury than a scorned woman.

bekpo:
It's d duty of d first son to buy d casket yo bury his father, that's his sole responsibility, he can't run away from it. That's tradition. No one will bury his father for him.

And he is stylishly trying to blackmail the son-in-laws into doing it!

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

So in a short summary, you went into a charged polygamous family, with its high stake internal politics. The first son, who is probably a stiff competitor to the woman you married her daughter, tried to scam you into funding the burial, and your response as a man was to floor your wife, disgrace her, publish secrets about her sex life, and declare that you have been asking her for divorce for 10 years.

You are such a disgrace to have as an ally, whether as a husband or as a father or even brother. Cause your selfishness will not allow you know whose side you should be on. What you just did to your wife, you can easily do to you child, blood brother and sister. Only your mother maybe exempt from this selfishness.

BlindAngel:
My wife has been the one holding me back, she's not ready to let go. I told her that she should at least get some dignity, someone doesn't want you but you're forcing yourself on him. That most women in her shoes would have walkes away without blinking an eye, due to the constant humiliation and disrespect, but still she isn't in anyway ready to let go.

She told me that she's ready for me to return the bride price but we'd still be together, which I plainly rejected.

Don't give up on that woman

Since she doesn't want to let go

Child/ children have come into your union

You did the right thing by marrying her

Open your heart and respond to the Love she's giving you


A time you may need that woman

Though you may feel you don't need her

U b mumu for allowing a woman make u marry her. Go do burial jare. U no look family first u go marry enter, ina apu ala there

regenerateman:
It seems that you are immature. Just accept the bill from your in-laws.

Someone who accepts bills is mature? What a thinking.

If you like make una no dey responsible for una families then expect an outsider to shoulder the majority of the bills that has nothing to do with them directly. This is a wrong practice

Interestingly when it comes to Sharing properties why are inlaws not invited?

BigBrother54321:
You no well. Nah today woman dey leave man abi man dey leave woman, which one be pussy and dick inside? Nah all f#ck must lead to marriage abi na all the girls wey you f#ck you marry? Hypocrite.

Person say them force am (looking at the history of so many of her sisters that are baba mamas, it’s already clear the game the girl played) and he has realized his mistake, instead of you to comfort him you dey talk bladder-dash. You better go work hard and take up your responsibility, if you think say na in-law go bury your papa for you, na lie you lie. Finished man. You go bury your papa, still bury in-law wey born pikin as na burial you come life come use your money do.

They force him to do everything except for the sex part, how many gurl wey you no find sexually attractive you don date or nack

i want to believe you are an Adult, can anyone force you to do what you dont wana do

An adage says person wey we teach evil and he do am that tendency don dey inside am.

the inlaw case naa banana stalk, make he just tell them what he can afford, at all at na im bad

kevwemike:
Guy wat is wrong with U? Why are U talking like a child, U don't like the girl but Ur dick like her pussy to the extent U got her pregnant, and U are here saying that she force u into the marriage, u dey here urself? The truth is that wat the family counted for U is the right thing to do as in-law , just try and do the needful is Ur in-law.

you gotta be kidding.

chidiokay:
Bro somtimes people dont value what they have they lose it.. for your mind you feel you are so prepared to lose her ... you will even rush to church do thanksgiving nd share food ... you might be in for a shocker

For a gurl you claim not to love, no physical attraction but you admitted getting her pregnant ! how naw ?? or did she force you to do
i know what you want to hear but the truth is what you need ... i notice you didnt complain about her character/attitude/nature so basically the problem is you nd your "feelings"
Bro you feel no love for that gurl cos you wont allow anything grow,
have you tried to focus on her good sides nd lets see if you won't starting catching feelings,
i take it you dont know how lucky you are to be in a r/ship the woman loves you more and she is bent on staying ... have you heard the one you love doesnt want you,

As for her family i get the picture, buh you dont have to get physical with them, you can just say your NO without blow, nobody fit force you do weytin you no wan do, how sef
if i was in your shoes i will tell them big No as well buh for my wife sake i can decide to contribute or tell them highest i can do for them. shikena

The guy doesn't know that a woman he's chasing away and she doesn't want to leave him loves him.


He might end up regretting this

We humans must learn how to open our heart to people that genuinely care for us


He impregnated her

And yet married her to cover her shame

It shows he actually cares for the woman

He should learn to open his heart and start treating that woman Right

He might feel he is young now
But a time will come he will see the importance of doing the right thing


Hard heart and lack of genuine Love is the biggest problem bedeviling us as humans

I personally don't tolerate nonsense/foolishness from women

But when I see a woman that makes conscious effort for her Man

I personally appreciate that because I know the kind of snakes and scorpions we have today among them

BlindAngel:
I will do better next time, I expected her mom to caution their elder brother when he was billing me, but she did nothing and was completely silent, this allowed my emotions and anger to get the better part of me, nevertheless I will try to do better next time. Tank's

What u experience is done by most culture (billing of in-laws) especially the urhobos in Delta State. What u ought to have done was to meet the mum after d meeting with the elder brother and explain to her u can't possibly afford all of the items mentioned. A sensible mother would pick it up from there.
My advise to u is to try n control Ur anger next time. Ur action was quite in excess.
To the young men who are yet to be married, marriage is between two families and not just the couples. Endeavour to do Ur findings about certain unforeseen circumstances such as this before saying yes I do. Find out Ur spouse culture and not just about if the spouse is well mannered, can cook and good at d other room.

okezuoemmanue:
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All these looks childish to me. Don't u know that as inlaw u have responsibility to play? One day, u will be in their shoes. U should have asked them to bring down the list so u can afford it going by ur pocket size not embarrassing ur wife and urself. Haven't u seen inlaw wey bury their father in-laws Well, u weren't really ready psychologically, emotionally and other allys

You think he is not an in-law to others who came to marry his sisters? What responsibility are you talking? When it's time to share property they won't call him then liabilities they put all expenses on him una never serious. Make no family try this with me I go ghost all of them, I have in-laws and it's not their responsibility to take care of my parents but ours and we are doing that just well.

Anyone who stress me I don ghost am

BlindAngel:
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.

That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.

You and her brought a child to this world and all you do is to blame the woman...
Why you are running away is because you don't have money... If you had, #100k is not too much to bury your in-law with, apart from the casket which should come from the son(s) or church. And you are so immature that you couldn't face the half brother and reason with him or yell at him when he told you that... but chose the weaker person whom you always bully. I wish that woman will give some respect to herself and dust her butt from this sham she called marriage.... The emotional trouble you are giving her is way more than her benefit as a married woman.

Stevenbright:
My question is if you and the other in-law are to pay for the mortuary expenses and the buying of the casket, what will all the man's uncountable children do!

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I wonder o. No serious first son will allow in-laws to pay for his father's casket. Or the last abode in this world (the morgue). There are certain responsibilities a man should at least be able to bear for his departing father. No matter how irresponsible the father was.
OP, you sef waka o. You just chook your head in anyhow and chaotic family setting.

When you were straffing the lady, she was attractive enough then and govt/NAFDAC banned condom, abi?

There no need shouting. At respect their solemnity despite the son saying rubbish.

Since you didn't want the marriage, your chance to move on has come. They can't force you to do burial.

But because of your child, do what you can. The late man is the child's grandfather after all. Forever.

Stevenbright:
My question is if you and the other in-law are to pay for the mortuary expenses and the buying of the casket, what will all the man's uncountable children do!

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I wonder o. No serious first son will allow in-laws to pay for his father's casket. Or the last abode in this world (the morgue). There are certain responsibilities a man should at least be able to bear for his departing father. No matter how irresponsible the father was.


@ OP / Blindangel, you sef waka o. You just chook your head in anyhow and chaotic family setting.

When you were straffing the lady, she was attractive enough then and govt/NAFDAC banned condom, abi?

There was no need shouting. At respect their solemnity despite the son saying rubbish.

Since you didn't want the marriage, your chance to move on has come. They can't force you to do burial.

But because of your child, do what you can. The late man is the child's grandfather after all. Forever.

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

you were not wrong. Dont allow them pressure you. Just support your wife with her share.

is true sha

idahme:
All the men sleeping with prostitutes do they love them? Some of the sex results into pregnancies. You don't need to love a woman to impregnate her but certainly he will love his child.

Try dey understand person, no dey think everything finish with your sense. You don’t know it all, neither have you experienced it all.

You can like so one so much but once you come to the realization that you’ve been taken for a fool all along, all that like/love will turn to negative energy.

As a adult no body fit force you but manipulation is real and evil.

chidiokay:
They force him to do everything except for the sex part, how many gurl wey you no find sexually attractive you don date or nack

i want to believe you are an Adult, can anyone force you to do what you dont wana do

An adage says person wey we teach evil and he do am that tendency don dey inside am.

the inlaw case naa banana stalk, make he just tell them what he can afford, at all at na im bad

bro, why will you spend 4M to marry a lady you don't really love in this T-pain economy.
you already gave them the signal that you are baba olowo, that's why they are billing you

No worry, after the burial they will send 1 or 2 of her younger half-siblings to come live with you guys
na you go still send them go school

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

I salute your courage for speaking your mind and be true to yourself. You don’t have to apologize for being strong and straightforward...

Mehn, this is beyond local man ability


Bros, you do well, that family is a foolish family, how you even take allow her to manipulate you to marry her still baffles me, how you go buy casket and goat and other stuff for wetin no concern you... I like the way you change am for her mama, you put them wear them belong, that her son is a useless goat, nah em Papa put the money for your account? You suppose slap all of them I swear...nah family way no fit progress be that...


I hail you... Your action sweet me.. And believe me no regret am, say you shout for them... You do well... E show say d family no go fit bully you..