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Kingzjayzee:
When married men were asked about their biggest regrets in marriage, their responses were truly eye-opening. Check out their surprising replies below. 😁

I no dey regret anything but e dey chop money and sometimes you wished you have plenty money. If you don't have money, you will suffer in marriage.

Don't get married. But if you must marry you must have good source of income e get why

Kingzjayzee:
Married men, what's your biggest regret about marriage? Share some advice for the single guys—anything you wish you'd known before getting married.

My advice is DON'T GET MARRIED.

GOFRONT:
........Yet people get married every Saturday

Na them dey post these things 10 years later after regret

I should have married my wife earlier.....
That girl no be ordinary woman
Na angel in human flesh

First Marriage in 2012. Got separated/Divorced in 2018, remarried in 2023 to a Single mother. I must say I am very lucky to get married to her cos Single mother's like her is very rare. Union is blissful and going smoothly. Communication is very strong between us and we are compatible. We both love each other and she's my friend. No regrets whatsoever. We would be one Year old this Month. It takes two to tango. Just get luck to marry a woman that would give u rest. No regrets I walked out of my stupid first marriage. Lastly, she's very hardworking and not a Gen Z. She contibutes immensely to the family.

[quote author=Zonefree post=132869199][/quote]Who send you to quote a Tinibu Agbad0rian

Almost of all are SENSELESS.

tuoyoojo:
Most times, bad news make "breaking news"

People like sensational bad news to feed their bais about a topic

There are many marriages out there working and working well. If marriage was as bad as they say, then why do people get married every Saturday like u rightly pointed out....

Marriage cannot favour everyone, if it favours the person fine, if not then move on.

You would not say because fire can burn one's house , one would refuse to cook his food or because accidents happen, you would trek for lagos to kano

Wisdom

No regrets.... Always work with reality on ground and your wife must see that reality.... If not you are on your own... Vision can be disrupted due to environmental conditions out of your control but it can never stopped....

Marriage is more deeper than all these. People of modern age are just getting married for the sake of being married. 80 Per cent ends up with another person's husband or wife. To locate your wife or husband demands a lot more than what people are giving today. Eve was brought out of Adam, so for you to locate your wife, you have got to dive within you to locate her and bring her fought.

People get married because of money, expensive gadget and the likes. Dive deep within and discover your wife. She is inside of you. The one you locate outside will be fake.

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1. Don't marry a person from a broken home
2. Don't develop a woman at the detriment of your own development all in the name of nonsense love.
3. Love your loved ones (parents and siblings) more than you love your wife and do not let her bring any problems between you and your loved ones.

So you think you knows more than him reason you didn't follow his advice ?

godswilld10:
My dad warned me NEVER marry the woman you love but marry the one who loves you even if you don't love her you will learn to. Now am here after disobeying him ,full of regrets



This is the reason for my downfall in marriage,I love my wife too much,she capitalize on that

Emma09:
First Marriage in 2012. Got separated/Divorced in 2018, remarried in 2023 to a Single mother. I must say I am very lucky to get married to her cos Single mother's like her is very rare. Union is blissful and going smoothly. Communication is very strong between us and we are compatible. We both love each other and she's my friend. No regrets whatsoever. We would be one Year old this Month. It takes two to tango. Just get luck to marry a woman that would give u rest. No regrets I walked out of my stupid first marriage. Lastly, she's very hardworking and not a Gen Z. She contibutes immensely to the family.

Hope she is still fertile?

No regret in marriage.




MOSTLY issues is money.

Fiscus105:
Marry a lady in which, two of you really love each other.

Make sure you marry lady that, she too, is bringing income to the family, thou, not that you will depend on her income.

Immediately your girl agrees to date you, make sure you are in control of ur relationship which will latter translate to marriage.

And above all. Treat your wife the way you want your son in law to treat your daughter.

Oga there are no rules in marriage, get in if you want and if you dont like it get out!

No Regret.

I married from a broken home, but the marriage is bliss. She adores me well, even when I am not there financially. Forget about all these herd mentality of Nigerians. Single her out and watch her closely. Ask people from her community about her character and promiscuous tendency.

Body count really matters when selecting a partner, otherwise you will find it difficult to get her to orgasm within few minutes. She must definitely compare sizes

Marry a kind and selfless woman, or else you won't see kobo from her even when she has billions.

Starz825:
This is not what the conversation is all about


Some of the ones getting married every Saturday will still regret their actions and decision in no distant time....

Every regretful marriage starts good....

exactly

No regrets but lessons I can give to my son when he is about to.

Wisdom is wasted on people who think women are scum or marriage is a scam. As you lay your bed so shall you enjoy it.

Emma09:
First Marriage in 2012. Got separated/Divorced in 2018, remarried in 2023 to a Single mother. I must say I am very lucky to get married to her cos Single mother's like her is very rare. Union is blissful and going smoothly. Communication is very strong between us and we are compatible. We both love each other and she's my friend. No regrets whatsoever. We would be one Year old this Month. It takes two to tango. Just get luck to marry a woman that would give u rest. No regrets I walked out of my stupid first marriage. Lastly, she's very hardworking and not a Gen Z. She contibutes immensely to the family.

What about the baby papa?

Know yourself.

Don't be afraid to lose that spouse. No fear death or divorce.

Nonexisting:
I can imagine the mugu that sits in his car for 10minutes before going into his house all because of a bad wife, dancing on his wedding day, shinning his brown teeth and asking his unmarried friends the most foolish question in this current earth today "what are you waiting for?". One fool who asked him that question when I attended his wedding, I had to return home with the envelope I came with and never gave him shishi.

Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣.... I danced on my wedding day and we going 10 years now... I hate people that ask others about when they getting married.... Me I never did that

Bizmind95:
Marriage has totally lost it's purpose to me these days l swear It's real bondage especially when you have kids already and your wife keeps misbehaving and wrecking your sanity...So my sincere advice to young men is this...Don't get married!!!..but if you must marry...then never marry for love or out of pity and never breed like Rabbits so you will be free of unnecessary commitments to quit the marriage when the time comes!

Hard-core 💯

TrackerSK:
What about the baby papa?

They are cool. Very irrespective Man according to her before we got married. He wasn't there since day one when she got pregnant for him. His Mom vowed that over her dead body She would never get married to his son. Mom is now late, he's yet to get married. He calls her once in 6months with different numbers. It's not my concern sha. Step son is living with us. I have accepted him as my Son but I allow him have access to his Dad whenever he calls.

StraightGaay:
Hope she is still fertile?

Very well. Lolzzzzz. We are even having a baby Soon.

IamHonourable1:
1. Don't marry a person from a broken home
2. Don't develop a woman at the detriment of your own development all in the name of nonsense love.
3. Love your loved ones (parents and siblings) more than you love your wife and do not let her bring any problems between you and your loved ones.

So you will rather marry from unbroken home with someone that has ugly past. Don't forget that so many unbroken homes pretend to be happy and remain so because of what people will say. Most women from broken homes fight not to repeat the mistakes of their parents. My wife is the reason while my marriage is still intact because I have anger issues. She apologies any time we have misunderstanding even when I know I'm wrong. However, I hope to change for good soon. Single her out and live with her before marriage. But don't expect to get 100% perfection from her. You are not perfect either. She must respect your judgement and give suggestion if need be.

Wished I married earlier.... 😔
Enjoyment unlimited 😁

Emma09:
Very well. Lolzzzzz. We are even having a baby Soon.

Ok,
But her royalty will be shared, you will do well to remember that.

Kingzjayzee:
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Diran: Live with your partner for at least 3 years before considering marriage. During this time, start adulting, learn to live with each other. Then get married.

Lagoslandlord: Get married early, face the troubles involved with your youthful strength and enjoy your later age when your kids are grown. Trust me by age 40 your worries are less


@trevorrandy: My dad warned me NEVER marry the woman you love but marry the one who loves you even if you don't love her you will learn to. Now am here after disobeying him ,full of regrets

it always sounds illogical to guyz when you tell dem to marry the woman that love them

franchasofficia:
Marrying for love, marrying for beauty, don't ever marry for any of these reasons if you are a single guy reading this, if not you will regret it.


Marry for:
1.) financial freedom
2.) economic growth
3 ) political expansion
4.) business growth and expansion

It is better to marry an ugly or average looking lady with a great career or business prospect that will help you solidify your finances and guarantee a great financial future for your kids than to marry a broke, jobless, visionless, lazy hot looking beautiful lady. I give you two years after you marry that your hot looking supermodel girlfriend, she will be naked in your front and you wont have an erectiøn


Romantic love and physical beauty are not enough reasons to marry any lady, be warned, romantic love is a fallacy

those that says don’t marry for beauty, abeg wetin dey fit make pr**k charge? What attracts a man to a woman if it’s not beauty?. Mind you, beauty comprises of many things in a woman e.g voice, smile, curves, boobs, hips, complexion, height etc. na different thing dey make man eye turn for woman. As men concerned, Simply look out for a beautiful woman that possessed other qualities that will favour you. No ugly women, but every man has their taste! Don’t go after a woman in a drunken state… I come in peace!