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15years of Domestic Violence and Abuse.?

Daaaaamn

Frigga13:
Go date Yoruba demon… he unleashed his demons

Na why e dey hard then marry their women… panel beating day and night


Them go soon flood my mention with their abuses and curse

Truth too pain those people

God bless Nigerians

This one is mentally unstable

Lets hear first from the man.

Woman can be soo annoying at times.

RichBoy247:
This one is mentally unstable

Like you… we dey mad together

Newlymarried:
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The woman has a beautiful face sha but who knows what comes out of her mouth?

You knew he was a beast and you still decided to stay with him for 15 years, you are even lucky that it didn't cost you your life.

This is barbaric

I'm always warry of wild women who call their men "beasts". From my experience, they might be the real beast here. Most of these ladies raised by single mothers see relationship as competitions between them and the male. She is always angling for a confrontation and when she finally gets what she has been asking for, you become 'The Beast". Restless generation

E pain me say the guy no damage the two eyes o, a whole 15 years... And u still dey inside ... Rubbish...

The moment you sense any form of abusive behaviour from your partner, you don't need to think twice before leaving...

There's nothing like e go change or e go better... Who don bad don bad

The first time he hit you that's when you supposed to run for your life,they don't stop,now you've lost your eye.

People don't take about the remote cause of an action but quick to talk about the immediate cause. I think it is high time we learn how to investigate before we started criticizing.

Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.

You self no dey decent.

The eye isn’t gone. It just closed. It can’t be as bad as Halle Berry who lost hearing in one ear after Wesley Snipes slapped her.

One side storyline

The man be like community land grabber.

Beech came for the money but she got a blacked eye instead!

*hisses & angrily left thread*

Please ladies, do not condone an abusive man and do not force him into a situation to abuse you. An abusive man is a coward and lowlife. There's no single reason to abuse a woman no matter the provocation.
As a man, train your daughter to understand her self worth such that no man takes her for granted.
I hope the authorities get this man and make him pay severely for this dastardly act.

Abusive men are simps. Zero control. Tufia!

Ladies love bad boys than the gentleman.
What is she looking for in her marriage to him because I don't know why a woman will involve in relationship with someone who had ex-wives and have also been victims

He did same to his ex-wives(not one o) and you married him. Okay, let's assume you didn't know he was possessed with small size Mike Tyson spirit, when you found out, you still remained giving excuses for his stooopid behavior and giving excuses for not leaving "I don't have anybody" but you just mentioned your family?

I just hope you get the justice you need and he's locked away.

See the man you married na! ....50 cent Chain at 50 years.... please make we ear word, you and your "50 cent" wannabe husband are one and same!

Nawa o

Newlymarried:
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First off, sorry to hear this, madam.

Secondly, in MOST cases, there are two sides of a story. So before we jump into conclusions, we need to know the full story.

Madam, after the first beating, you should have left or at least known that the beast you are with needs managing. Managing in the sense that if he is starting to get angry, you either calm down yourself knowing his anteceedents or move swiftly away. You don't start raging and shouting with him as there will only be one unfortunate outcome. One that wouldn't be good for either of you.

As a real life example of why people should be mindful of one sided stories, a client of mine gave his wife a birthday present. His wife was angry about the value and lamblasted him.

He calmly albeit angrily walked away without saying a word. Less than 15 minutes later, she shouted out to him from the bathroom that she was going out sonewhere, he ignored her as he was still angry.

He had cause to take something from the bathroom she was in and as soon as he walked in, the woman started clapping, dancing and singing (in order to provoke him).

Client confidentiality forbids me from saying the outcome of the incident so I will not go further. In this case, no reasonable person can absolve the woman of the consequences of her actions.

Men, do not put hands on women, absolutely. Women, know when to step back before things get out of hand, a lot of these incidents have exit points before the flames engulf you, take one of them.

Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.

There's no excuse why someone can stay in an alleged abusive relationship for 15 years..

This woman has been going through domestic abuse for 15 years and she did nothing about it!!

She knew this man had ex wives who went through violence and physical abuse but she stayed.

There’s something wrong here. She also claimed that she’s in hiding and even the man’s family are threatening her despite the evidence on her face and body.

Why didn’t she leave the man ages ago? There’s something she’s not telling us.

I feel bad for her but also angry that she waited till horrible things happened to her before she reacted.

You could be right, chances are he started abusing her even before they got married, but didn't listen when people advised her against getting married to him.

Shaneroberts:
Though this is sad but I refuse to pity her.
I just can't afford to pity people that choose to stay in abusive unions.
To whom it may concern,keep staying in abusive marriages because of what people will say. You hear?

The only time a man is supposed to pound a woman and when doing, pound her mercilessly so that her brain resets is when pounding her toto

promami:
Please ladies, do not condone an abusive man and do not force him into a situation to abuse you. An abusive man is a coward and lowlife. There's no single reason to abuse a woman no matter the provocation.
As a man, train your daughter to understand her self worth such that no man takes her for granted.
I hope the authorities get this man and make him pay severely for this dastardly act.

Abusive men are simps. Zero control. Tufia!

Yeah
Bet she was a Saint..
What was she doing in an abusive relationship for 15 years?

Say no to domestic violence.
If the relationship or marriage don tire you please walk away in peace. Divorce is an option.

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seems she is based in otta

don't know why she did not name the husband

Una go see red flag at the onset of the relationship, una go still deep head. Una go see coolheaded guys, nah rough guys una go dey pursue.

No matter what, you don't use that kinda force on a woman.