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Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.

I totally agree. But life governed by cause and effect. Lets also hear the full story so that others will learn a lesson or two.

chidiokay:
Oga mechonu,why will a man marry a womam she sees no value in the 1st place, does it even make sense

what you know you wont eat dont bring it close to your nose.

Have we not seen men beat virtuous woman blue black, what about osinach gosprl musician that died as a result of domestic violence, why was she not respect ?? whats her fault ??
olosho is human, naa hustle she no kill person If you cant stand her why toast even up to marry her, there is no justification for domestic violence either way

Looking at the man in the picture shows that the woman knew what she was into before marking him. She even knew that the man has married many wives before her. She is the architect of her own misfortune. How can a responsible woman stay with an abusive man for 15 years. No be juju be that.

lucky you it was just an eye that you lost after 15years.....
i believe you are old enough to advice your self...
why on earth would you tolorate serious beating for 15 years....

When we say make your own money .

They think we are saying for the sake of us.
.. she's too dependent on the nigga hence after series of bashing , she couldn't leave whatever situationship nun they got themselves in ..


Well wetin concern me , e be like the beating they sweet am she had to wait for 15years before her head cane correct ..

Pesin wey dey suppose flog ontop ..

For 15years you wear someone punching bag .. .. she defo needs more of that m face smashing.
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As in were una dey meet this cl0wns to even dey upto 10years, dem de use juju abi na gbola or money mk u endure this much,no b say werey fine for face

I'm So sorry you av to go through this, No one deserves to be treated like dis, This is clearly inhuman... However, I have a Barrister that handles such cases, even if I help you contact him, He wud still require dat You (being d victim) shud contact him yourself.
His name is;

BARRISTER OLUMIDE OMOSEBI
Contact Him on: 09093214942
Note: All for FREE
Do well to save yourself from ur beast husband nd call the above number.

He anchors a programme on Relationship/Abuses/child abuse/ marriage counseling etc on 99.3 nigeria Info Every saturday 7-9am

When you are enjoying what kept you staying with the beast for the whole 15 years did you tell Nigerians or he tied you there?

verydarkgal:
Men treat your wives the way you want your daughter to be treated

And women treat their husbands the way they want their sons/brothers to be treated!

Why do y'all always make it seem like women are the ones who get treated badly in marriages? Men get the worst treatments in many cases and theirs is worse because nobody cares. They're meant to sulk up every rubbish and "man up"


Not supporting domestic violence in anyway though. I'll rather divorce and live in peace than put up with a woman who would provoke me to the point of beating her at all.

Newlymarried:
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Am I the one that told her to go and marry Mr. Eazi when she know that her papa no hold shi shi

How are men more vulnerable in domestic violence?

Lithiumite:
This is the only point I would support a divorce.....a woman should be able to endure any other thing but violence shouldn't be tolerated at all.....her family should go rescue her before they kill each other ....funny thing is men are even more vulnerable in domestic violence issues.

Mere looking at the guy's pix shows he's a tout. I can't imagine a sane being lifting his wretched hands and be hitting a woman you called your wife. No matter the offense she might have committed. His animalistic behaviour should not be overlooked. The poor lady deserves justice honestly.

highchiefpee:
How are men more vulnerable in domestic violence?

It's easier for a woman to kill a man than vice versa ....except you aren't sleeping with her or eating her food anymore.

Fear women!!

You knew about his past relationships, his abuse to his ex wives and testimonials from his friends about his animal behavior and still went ahead to marry and stay for 15 years?

Hmm.

Zico5:
Looking at the man in the picture shows that the woman knew what she was into before marking him. She even knew that the man has married many wives before her. She is the architect of her own misfortune. How can a responsible woman stay with an abusive man for 15 years. No be juju be that.

What are you even spewing, dem dey wrote am for head, in your own level of wisdom if you feel a man that wear suite and glasses cant beat a woman or do evil then you must be a day old
How can a man be beating a woman he called wife for 15yrs and never get tired .. no be madness be that

even parent and teachers e get were dey go beat child reach and they stop,
So many factors limit women from opting for divorce but its a much easier call for men .

Leave to live, they will not hear. Maybe she was enjoying the beating.
Who knows 🤔

Good morning everyone,
Do not conclude yet until you hear from her husband,a lot of factors could lead to Physical abuse.
She mentioned the husband ex-wife experienced same abuse, that alone is a red flag but most women often have the impression such can not happened to her.
Something is currently happening in my house I was so angry to hit my wife but I control my anger due to the promised I made with God never to hit my wife.....so a lot is happening based on infidelity and money issues in marriage.

Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.

There's excuse
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As Nigerians (Africans), all our traditions put women in the house and the man roams about unchallenged.
Even most especially all them Sharia states up north.
Western people came with English and Education, which makes women TALK.
And quite frankly, Nigeria/African men are not sitting very well with this "Talking" of women.
It doesn't follow anybody's tradition, for women to talk about anything.
Before the man married the woman, by tradition, he had to pay a price, kill cow, recieve some beatings or some
other heavy burdens placed on him by the inlaws,
So who the f*** is the woman to "Talk" in the house after the wedding?
Western people don't do these things.

As people continue to hold on to African traditional values,
then you continue to get this sporadic acts of violence on the women from men
that can't bear the "talking". (Talk/challenge...)
It's either you 100% let go of your tradition
or you 100% let go of Western Education.
The two cannot work together.

GOFRONT:
Madam, yours is even better.....ThanksGod that you are even alive, you only lost one eye.
The other man on the other thread Killed his Wife, killed his Kids and then killed himself

never minimize abuse, no matter how small. It is a toxic behavior!

Say no to violent!!! However, women tend to run thier mouth too much these days..even the teenage girls are not left out here. I don't believe when a woman says she loves me, because men are the ones that love unconditionally and women should just be loyal. My recent experience was I caught this girl that claims she always love me talking to another man on phone because she lives with us. I am a single father with two kids by the way. I tried to confront her but she told me i don't know the person and she did not bother to explain. By the way, she's also a single mother with two kids. Ojoro cancel. I was furious because I have already made my family to understand that I might settle with her and everyone, including my colleagues at work knows her. I would have beaten her and throw her out that night, but I kept my cool. Women can frustrate and naija girls are mental these days..In conclusion, say no to women battering and avoid women with multiple body counts to avoid stories that touch the heart. Ire o!

DarkJeddi:
Yeah
Bet she was a Saint..
What was she doing in an abusive relationship for 15 years?

Low self esteem inna the play.

Newlymarried:
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Marriage dey scare me sir, I'm scared

No one, I repeat no one should ever be treated this way no matter the circumstance. We as a society should reject this in all its entirety. People should stop seeing brutality, domestic violence as an acceptable way of life regardless of what someone has done.
Marriage is not a do or die affair, if you can’t take the heat, do yourself and your family a favor by walking away. In a civilized world, that foolish man’s life is officially over, he can kiss his existence goodbye.
How dare you treat someone this way?!
Hmm…if this were my daughter or sister, that clown would have had his a** laid down!

Newlymarried:
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What help? Only God can help you. How people put up to a violent partner still puzzles me. No person owns you. Na marry you marry, if your partner is violent, it shouldn’t happen more than once. Report it, let them get punished and get your divorce.

So u knw he did it to his wife,and u knew he has a wife already befor u got maried to him,?
My dear sister,i dnt how soon this wil b getting to u,marriage is never a do or die affair,15yra is a fucking long year to stay in tjis kind abusive relationship till u re now loosing ur eye,u re to b blame for allowing this to happen to me...kiwon ma ka fun mi,ki won ma bu mi...u re dying gradually...u will definitely get justice but pls advice urself and everyone u know passing through such NOT TO STAY A WEEK MORE OR DAY MORE IF EXPERIENCING SUCH

The eyes will come back it's not permantly damaged

BLAMING THE MAN LIKE ALWAYS, WE DID NOT EVEN CARE TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED. MEN DON SUFFER SHA. I AM NOT A WOMAN BEATER OR A SUPPORTER OF THAT. BUT LETS ALL BE FAIR IN OUR JUDGEMENT.

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aviationguy:
Good morning everyone,
Do not conclude yet until you hear from her husband,a lot of factors could lead to Physical abuse.
She mentioned the husband ex-wife experienced same abuse, that alone is a red flag but most women often have the impression such can not happened to her.
Something is currently happening in my house I was so angry to hit my wife but I control my anger due to the promised I made with God never to hit my wife.....so a lot is happening based on infidelity and money issues in marriage.

Why did you hit your wife, you must be arrested

You knew that he was a beast from onset, and he has also done it to his ex-wife before, but you decided to enter the stupid relationship...

Where are those bastards asking her to stay because of her kids

MightySparrow:
Really? I don't support violence in the home but the kind of verbal assault some women will give you can make you lose your sense.

I bet you this woman can never be innocent.

Definitely.

Nwaokunkpara:
Why is it usually so hard for women to leave an abusive relationship but can easily let go off a good and loyal guy 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Misplaced understanding of hat love and acceptance is - some ladies believe that violence is a show of love; he beats me because he cares for me and I should not offend him - Stockholm syndrome.. if he does not beat me, that means he no longer cares for me... Wrong exposures..

Renewal of mind, and build up of esteem is the answer.

Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.

You shouldn't have shown any pity towards her, she knows from the onset that she is dealing with a beast and she endure 15years, it is sickening and mad