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SAMBARRY:
gbam

Simpleton will always support a simpleton......so because am rich, i should waste my money on a girl that was probably disvirgined with 2 indomie 2 egg knacked seriously upandan........i think you and the other simpleton head is not correct

Bride price is negotiable. If the man can only afford one million, they would have accepted it.
The man no serious about marriage b4

Stolen:
THAT IS WHAT U SAID ABOVE, NOW U ARE SAYING SOMETHING ELSE.

PICK A SIDE AND STICK TO IT.

I am saying clearly that you are very incoherent because tribal differences has very little to do with people's comments here.

Also, your attempt to sound or look wealthy is too juvenile. 😆

Rhassidy360:
yes no149

You re a mad man rhapsody of realities

Coming from Dangote himself

SAMBARRY:

Acekidc4:
Simpleton will always support a simpleton......so because am rich, i should waste my money on a girl that was probably disvirgined with 2 indomie 2 egg knacked seriously upandan........i think you and the other simpleton head is not correct

HOW I KNOW, U ARE NOT A REASONABLE PERSON, IS U WIILL BE SHOUTING VIRGIN AFTER EVERY TWO SENTENCE.


U WELL SO?

Tommydare:
Go and marry the woman nw. 3.5 meter for traditional wedding? Be like say you no know wetin to do with money again or maybe you are a woman.

Your papa will eventually give out your sister for 100k and a carton of indomie

TheBillyonaire:
Marriage is not for the hungry, go and fucck your chicken.

Will do that Mr Simpleton.......now swerve go one side abeg.

Acekidc4:
Another Mumu Simp on the Loose 🥱🥱

As long as your family will give out your sister for 100k and a pack of indomie.

Stolen:
THAT IS A DISRESPECT TO A CULTURE FROM WHERE YOU WENT TO MARRY.

AND U WILL PAY DEARLY FOR IT, ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.


MARRIAGE IS A FAIMILY NOT AN INDIVIDUAL.

there is culture and there is also greed. Village elders asking for goat and ogogoro. 😂

Stolen:
LEAVE OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE ALONE AND CONTINUE WITH THE FREE WOMEN IN YOUR OWN CULTURE.


IF MY FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, HIS FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, HI GRAND FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, HIS GREAT GRAND FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, I PAID BRIDE PRICES.




SHOULD WE CHANGE IT BECAUSE OF YOU A FOREIGNER DONT RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE?



U DEEM IT FIT TO HAVE IYALOJA AND BABALOJA EXTORTNG MONEY FROM TRADERS, WE KEEP QUIET OURT OF RESPECT FOR YORUBA CULTURE, NOW SOMEHOW U ARE ALLOWED TO CROSS TRIBAL LINE TO MARRY, U ARE SHOWING YOUOR DISDAIN AND DISRESPECT FOR A CULTURE PRACTICED ACROSS AFRICA.



MEHN GET LOST ALREADY

Did your grandfather, father and you spend 3.5m when y’all wanted to marry? Try and analyze reasonably and write in sentence case in the future

Stolen:
LEAVE OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE ALONE AND CONTINUE WITH THE FREE WOMEN IN YOUR OWN CULTURE.


IF MY FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, HIS FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, HI GRAND FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, HIS GREAT GRAND FATHER PAID BRIDE PRICE, I PAID BRIDE PRICES.




SHOULD WE CHANGE IT BECAUSE OF YOU A FOREIGNER DONT RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE CULTURE?



U DEEM IT FIT TO HAVE IYALOJA AND BABALOJA EXTORTNG MONEY FROM TRADERS, WE KEEP QUIET OURT OF RESPECT FOR YORUBA CULTURE, NOW SOMEHOW U ARE ALLOWED TO CROSS TRIBAL LINE TO MARRY, U ARE SHOWING YOUOR DISDAIN AND DISRESPECT FOR A CULTURE PRACTICED ACROSS AFRICA.



MEHN GET LOST ALREADY

This is the comment I am looking for. You really hit the nail on the head.

I wonder why Yorubas are the ones complaining about high bride price in other tribes while the men in those tribes who marry mostly from there don't complain.

My questions are why not concentrate on your tribe if you feel that the bride price of the other people are high ? Did anyone Force you to marry to marry from that tribe ?
Why do you think that a culture should be changed Bec of you ?
Why always trying to cast aspersions on other people's culture ?
You have cheap ladies from your tribe so why not marry them, why travel for miles to marry only to start crying when you are told what to do ? honestly this is becoming ridiculous and Yorubas should be called out over this treacherous behavior

I was expecting to see 4 packets of cigarettes, I can surely understand uncles, father,sisters, brother and the likes but which one is Stepfathers again

Stolen:
WHAT DO U MEAN SELLING?

YOU ARE GIVEN A LIST FOR THE OCCASSION, YOUR WEDDING.


IF YOUU WANT TO WED IS IT SUPPOSE TO BE FREE?

U NO GO BUY RICE, MEAT, BOOK VENUE, CAKE, BUY DRINKS?


DO U EVEN KNOW WHAT MARRIAGE IS?

Does that list makes sense to you Mr Simpleton?

alpharoyalty:
That's less than 2000 dollars.
Chicken change.
Poor man mentality.
Devil punish poverty

Oga pls borrow am money. Since na chicken change. So to marriage now na to go bankrupt. Nonsense.

Objectivist04:
This is the comment I am looking for. You really hit the nail on the head.

I wonder why Yorubas are the ones complaining about high bride price in other tribes while the men in those tribes who marry mostly from there don't complain.

My questions are why not concentrate on your tribe if you feel that the bride price of the other people are high ? Did anyone Force you to marry to marry from that tribe ?
Why do you think that a culture should be changed Bec of you ?
Why always trying to cast aspersions on other people's culture ?
You have cheap ladies from your tribe so why not marry them, why travel for miles to marry only to start crying when you are told what to do ? honestly this is becoming ridiculous and Yorubas should be called out over this treacherous behavior

IT IS A TREACHEROUS BEHAVIOUR TO PEOPLE THAT OPENED THEIR DOOR AND WELCOMED YOU WITH OPEN ARMS.



COMPLETE DISRESPECT!

Meanwhile someone go don knack this girl severally with just indomie and Fanta ....which is not up to 3k ...
So, To befriend and knack a lady is more cheaper than to marry .

TheBillyonaire:
As long as your family will give out your sister for 100k and a pack of indomie.

When my family is not hungry🙄 why will my family prepare a bride list as if it's a poverty alleviation scheme.........that's a no no...........na poverty dey cause that kind of greed

Codes151:
Your clown of a friend was not ready to marry.
If this was after negotiations I for talk.

3.5m then you negotiate. He can even negotiate 500k.

godbless u jor!
What most people don't know, is that lists like dat are just photocopies made by semi literate family clerks, they not serious documents. Bride price is discussed by the families.

Acekidc4:
Does that list makes sense to you Mr Simpleton?

IT IS A TRADITIONAL WEDDING LIST.

YOU FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTION AND CERTAIN ITEMS ARE NEGOTIATABLE.

U SIT WITH THEM OVER A DRINK TO GO THROUGH THE LIST.

TRY NOT TO SOUND LIKE A POVERTY STRICKEN MOFO.


THEY WILL TAKE SOME OUT CHEERFULLY AND INSIST ON OTHERS CHEERFULLY AND U COMPLY CHEERFULLY.

Stolen:
IT IS A TREACHEROUS BEHAVIOUR TO PEOPLE THAT OPENED THEIR DOOR AND WELCOMED YOU WITH OPEN ARMS.



COMPLETE DISRESPECT!

Am telling you, imagine how the family will feel after seeing this list trending on social media.

Stolen:
MARRIAGE ARE NOT FOR POOR MEN THAT ARE STRUGGLING TO FEED.



U WILL HAVE TO FEED YOUR WIFE AND KIDS, WE DONT WANT TO SEE THEM BEGGING ON THE STREET OR TRAFFIC HOLD UP.




GO AND HUSTLE, THAT MONEY NO REACH MONEY PEOPLE SPRAY ON OTHER PEOPLE AT WEDDING.




POOR MAN

Yet akwa ibomites are only second to northerners when it comes to people doing menial jobs across the country....from gatemen to security guards,na akwa ibom dey dominate.



Infact they are called 'fulanis of the south'

Stolen:
HOW I KNOW, U ARE NOT A REASONABLE PERSON, IS U WIILL BE SHOUTING VIRGIN AFTER EVERY TWO SENTENCE.


U WELL SO?

Ah no well ooooo Mr Simpleton.
3.5M for bride list and i will still sponsor the whole wedding from my pocket 🙄 Who no well btw me and you 🤔

Stolen:
THEY PREPARE FOR THEIR MARRIAGE.


THAT IS Y THEY TAKE IT VERY SERIOUSLY.


UNLIKE YORUBA WHERE YOU HAVE BABAY MAMA, ALL AROUND THE CORNER AND STILL BE ANSWERING MARRIED MAN.

WHAT SHOWS U ARE MARRIED? SHE AND HER FAMILY ORGANISE WEDDING, BUY EVEN THE CLOTH YOU WEAR TO COME AND SIT DOWN CHOP RICE, CARRY WOMAN GO KNACK.

HOW IS THAT SERIOUS?

You dey obsessed with yorubas

Werey boy 🤣

TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

I’m other words you’re encouraging the sales of the young woman? She go tay for her papa house cos it’s better to invest the money into cow business that will yield more profits

Acekidc4:
When my family is not hungry🙄 why will my family prepare a bride list as if it's a poverty alleviation scheme.........that's a no no...........na poverty dey cause that kind of greed

You are saying the entire races of humans with bride price culture are hungry.

Since you are rich enough to give out your sisters for free, you can as well just consider the suitor for 100k and a pack of indomie cos 3.5m is too much.

One simple question

If the girl was to marry from the same village Eg like one of those elders family leaving in the village will it still be 3.5m ? 😂 😂 😂

Some of their guys in the village are petty farmer who can't barely avoid daily meal.... But see them, they will be calling the man poor 😂

This is so sad.

Check the list, 90% is alcohol

They're not even asking for things with good value.

They have sabotaged the future of their daughter with alcohol.

such a weak man naso he go run from maternal hospital bill.
a winner stays and fight till the end

Major7:
I’m other words you’re encouraging the sales of the young woman? She go tay for her papa house cos it’s better to invest the money into cow business that will yield more profits

I consider the fact that bride price is supposed to be up to 50 million naira. Marriage is worth more than the price of a tokunbo Prado.

But I know your family will give out your sister for 100K and a pack of indomie to show she is not for sale. You all are myopic for not seeing that the money is basically for consumables. The drinks and food is meant for guests and some cloths for parents.

Poverty should not have companion, cos its suicidal these days if one does not have cash in this era.

armyofone:
Everyone must come get their share oh when they heard he is outside Nigeria.
He could have taken the list and strike or reduce everything/expenses that he feels were exaggerated.

If he truly canceled the marriage, then maybe he wasn't really in love in the first place.

Or maybe the small boys if nairaland have finally gotten to his head. Even N20k list sef, you fit reduce am if e get wetin you no believe in.

later them go say na imo bunch of fagg0ts

APOPTOSIS:
Akwa Ibom marriage list na Scroll naa
....na dem be the highest for Naija