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One thing I like about some Oyinbo or westerners, they do just date and if it does not work out. Then they break up and move to the next boyfriend or girlfriend. They do not marry because they know they are not the marrying type. And they even say it proudly
If you know you want to get side chick or assistance boyfriend or saying when i marry. I will have side chick or side boyfriend. Do not get marry- just date What is the point of saying I do and till death till us apart and spending a huge money on wedding cake ,owanbe. Then get side dessert

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One thing I like about some Oyinbo or westerners, they do just date and if it does not work out. Then they break up and move to the next boyfriend or girlfriend. They do not marry because they know they are not the marrying type. And they even say it proudly
If you know you want to get side chick or assistance boyfriend or saying when i marry. I will have side chick or side boyfriend. Do not get marry- just date What is the point of saying I do and till death till us apart and spending a huge money on wedding cake ,owanbe. Then get side dessert

Hello

This is a very serious issue .

I'm typing this message with another person's phone

That's because my phone's battery and charger were stolen again.

I also lost my footwear/slippers.

It's not the first time I would lose my property and it's due to accommodation problems.

I can't access my Gmail account for now.

Please,I need your financial assistance to replace the lost items and possibly relocate because I don't think I can survive where I am.

I am so devastated and confused right now.





I have been thinking of where to do house help work this December because I am not expecting any salary at the end of this month.


Please,help me right now, I never deserved or expected these problems and my restlessness is not helping matters.

Please,help me.


Please, if you want to come and see me face to face, then you can try my mum's number which is 08033791034

Please,help me , the situation is depressing and affecting my mental health terribly because it's also affecting the digital marketing which I have started learning.

I seriously need your financial assistance please.


This is so unfortunate, I'm seemingly hopeless as we speak.

I'm losing it.


Please,help me.

The problem is that the African society is not ready to accept such people... Tell them you don't want to get married and have children and see them start treating you like an outcast.

My uncle was like this until his age mates and relatives started discriminating against him based on his marriage status... Whenever he'd go to family events, the married men would not want to associate with him, as a result of this, he'd not stay long... He'd just exchange pleasantries with other people and then leave afterwards.

He was eventually pressured to get married in 2022, you could see that he wasn't happy on his wedding day and his friends would force him to be taking those wedding pictures... The wife knew from the beginning that my uncle is a player and the family even asked her if she'd be able to handle him and his concubines, she said she'd rather die than leave him... I guess she thought she could change him.

I've lost count of a number of times she called my family crying because of my uncle's side chicks... ... One time she even attacked my uncle's eldest daughter from a previous relationship when she came visiting her father because she thought she was one of his side chicks...

Each time I'd tell my family how my uncle is not a marriage material, they'd scold me.