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Mike Bamiloye reveals how the attitude of several pastors' wives are causing their husbands not to enjoy their marriages

Mike Bamiloye has said that many pastors are not enjoying their marriages due to their wives' behaviours.

The Christian film maker said many pastors' wives use their husbands' pastor profession to blackmail them.

He said that the wives believe their husbands can't beat or divorce them like other men so they act as they like.

Obviously. I know of one pastor who has been married for over ten years but without a child. His wife is always frustrating him and they bring their grievances to the church. Whenever any issue or conflict arises at home, their body languages tend to say everything when they come to church. The pastor's wife seems to be too aggressive for the young husband, she's always ready to quarrel and susceptible to fight
Because of the duo, I am now scared of marriage.
NB: Happy Sunday brethren, someone should pls assist me. I dunno how to describe this hunger. Anything pls🙏🙏🙏

Of course there's bound to be ups and downs in marriage, but the root cause of marriage becoming a bondage, even to those who were true servants of God, is when they make the grave error of choosing the wrong marriage partner.

That's why it's crucial not to rush into marriage, because once in, it's until death, hence why one ought to get it right before getting in.

God bless.

I know he is talking out of experience

Alhamdulillah, marriage is not till death do us part for me! Divorce is not a sin!

Marriage is not a lifetime bondage!

Do the pastors have time for their wife?

I mean real quality time!

This is very true. Many pastors wives misbehave at home and believe their husbands can't do anything because he's a pastor.

I even know some pastors wives knacking secretly outside. Some are into lesbianism sef.

But, one day... monkey go enter market e no go return.

Is that why some pastors do knack their church girls? Including other peoples wife?

but they're living in denial simply bcuz deceiving the masses is the goal 😆😆

Capillary88:
Obviously. I know of one pastor who has been married for over ten years but without a child. His wife is always frustrating him and they bring their grievances to the church. Whenever any issue or conflict arises at home, their body languages tend to say everything when they come to church. The pastor's wife seems to be too aggressive for the young husband, she's always ready to quarrel and susceptible to fight

At a point in a young man’s life, when you mistakenly cross path a quarrelsome woman if you have brain you go give am space: milessss

True talk

Make Mama let papa frolick

That is correct as many of them are wolves in sheep clothing.
Some even use it as devils machination to dominate their husbands.

I will bolt without thinking twice

Many pastors are really going through alot, no cap.....

after preaching sermons every Sunday "one man one wife" "marriage is a life time commitment', till death do you part"

How can they now come and divorced their own wife, despite their wife devilish attitudes

Women are the major reasons for marriage failures. Women should be left alone and allowed to struggle. Men have seen enough. But unfortunately SIMP men are around looking for TOTO up and down

Point of correction: Christian wives dey misbehave Wella 💯

Men, open your eyes. Serve divorce/polygamy at the appropriate time. You need to see how ladies get disturbed anytime I talk about polygamy 😂🤣😅. They can't take what they give

U are right sir.

Those gender are Liability..: unnecessarily expenses, thats what they are.

I laugh when I see people carrying their matrimonial issues to their religious leaders, if those leaders open up, una go pity them..

Most women try to capitalize on the weaknesses of their men and women, just like terrorists, become bigger than what you feed them. Feed them with pampering, you get the result of her thinking you can't do without her. Feed her discipline and watch her shape into the woman you want. In other words, a woman married to a pastor would tend to misbehave (because she knows how forgiving her husband is and he won't want any matter to escalate, going outside due to his reputation as a pastor) than a woman married to a ruthless man...

Ok

Nigerian women are not very submissive, and marrying them can be difficult. Some people think they are better as baby mamas than wives. They often listen to their friends and family more than their husbands, which can lead to arguments and fights over small things. Nigerian men may want to consider marrying women from other countries because local women are seen as too problematic.

Lol always the woman's fault

Should have been many men but Bamiloye wants to protect pastors and make them look special.

Pastors are Men too

So dis woman na him wife. Used to see her in their mount Zion movie.

True talk Sir. Many pastors are dying in silence. Among stupid spouses are Christian devotees who take their spouses for granted.

Fake pastors wife's, not all.
Statement sounds personal. Are you speaking from experience sir?

Very true.

Many pastor’s wife’s don’t feel the same spiritual responsibility as their husbands hence their misdemeanor.

I know a pastor whose wife ran away with another man simply because of fasting and prayers

It's their affliction... God is a just God

I say In 2024 if you go and marry for love, you are in for a roller coaster... Marry for personal gain so that when your partner begin to misbehave you will be able to endure because of what you are gaining...

Guys no shame in it anymore ... Marry rich man pikin only ! They still have sense ... But you see these ekuke running around the streets! Let me stop there .... Now bow your head in prayer as we observe a minute of silence for SIMPS.

In everything,pray for good partner. It helps a lot.
Marriage no be beans.

Thundafireseun:
I know he is talking out of experience

😂 Could this be true?

We are going to know very soon