₦airaland Forum

uuzba:
So you are selling the girl?
What if the family has a son?
Will they sell him off too?
Or suddenly, between the 2 children, boy and girl, their parents will love the girl and hate the boy?
Explain your statement.

uuzba:
At this rate, let Nigerian guys forget Nigerian girls.
Nigerian girls are expensive and useless.
Do your runs, leave the country and marry outside.
Cameroon, Niger, Benin Republic, Ghana.

EeyanMayweather:
This is the reason why the guy is angry . The dude can probably afford it .
Dude has weighed his options and decided it’s not worth it . I would too if I were in his shoes

APOPTOSIS:
The Question should be
How do Bricklayers, Gravediggers and Palmwine Tappers in those communities get to marry 2 wives each?

TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

Stolen:
U HAVE OPTION TO MARRY FROM YOUR TRIBE AND SHE WILL FOOT THE BILL.


ABI NA SOCKS WEY U GO BUY YOUR FATHER INLAW DEY FEAR U?



WALKING STICK FOR YOUR MOTHER IN LAW IS A PROBLEM?



THOSE ARE TOO SMALL.


I DID NOT SEE RANGE ROVER THERE.


PEOPLE BUY CARS FOR THEIR INLAW.

TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.

Saladdin:
I'm telling you, many of them are just daft and lack reasoning. Don't be surprised that you're talking to an idle 200-level student.

Free2Fly:
You have been living a life of lies based on the false teachings of a paedophile, robber and murderer who lived 1400yrs ago in Mecca/Medina, yet you're accusing a normal person of being born with lies?
Nawa for this deceived jihadi guy oo.

I just watched a video of an Egyptian now who got himself extricated from this 1400yrs old lies your jihadists have been living, and i wish i could send it to you.

Expectedly, you jihadists will soon behead him for exposing your lies on account of blasphemy.

ExAngel007:
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In a story sparking intense online discussion, a man has reportedly withdrawn from a marriage proposal due to a highly demanding traditional bride price list provided by the woman's family.

The incident, shared by social media user
Princess Adeola, highlighted the emotional toll on the man and drew attention to cultural practices cthat some argue may discourage potential suitors.

The bride price list, meant to honor the family, included numerous items such as crates of drinks, livestock, clothing, and monetary gifts for various members of the bride’s extended family.

The total value was estimated at ₦3.5 million.

The prospective groom, reportedly eager to marry and even committed to taking the bride abroad and sponsoring her education, expressed heartbreak after realizing the bride herself supported her family's demands, citing the rising costs of living in Nigeria.

Adeola expressed sympathy for the man, describing him as a "good man" who was willing to go to great lengths for his partner. She criticized the bride's family for what she termed "greed" and urged women to advocate for reasonable expectations from their families.

Many online users joined the discussion, debating the relevance and practicality of traditional marriage customs in modern times.

While some defended the practice as a cultural heritage, others viewed it as a hindrance to relationships and an unnecessary financial burden.


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TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free? Were should be added to your name oh

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

dominique:
Look at what people are defending egbami🙆🏽
So there are no ways the family can use to determine if the groom is financially capable other than imposing this heavy billing on him? The family and culture are greedy, let's call a spade a spade

atilla:
Does the girls family live at Billings way, ikeja?

Rhassidy360:
yes no419

Sonnobax15:

How person go sell family land just to marry burden put for house

God abeg oh.

TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.

Villa12:
yes. It is done. Don't let poverty affect your brain. That amount isn't much considering inflation and he can even negotiate to 2m. The guy no serious abeg

Villa12:
no sir. Na poor men dey even maltreat their wives pass because he got her cheaply. I'm a yoruba guy and i know how yoruba men maltreat their wives and kids. Some cannot even feed one wife and kids they will still marry another cheap wife add

AntiChristian:
Is that how they are beheaded in your villages? No one is beheading anyone like John the baptist! Stop telling lies!

All what you typed are lies!

In the 36 states in Nigeria over 25 states and Abuja has millions of Muslims!

Give us the stats how many have been beheaded like John the baptist or crucified like Jesus?

TheBillyonaire:
I consider the fact that bride price is supposed to be up to 50 million naira. Marriage is worth more than the price of a tokunbo Prado.

But I know your family will give out your sister for 100K and a pack of indomie to show she is not for sale. You all are myopic for not seeing that the money is basically for consumables. The drinks and food is meant for guests and some cloths for parents.

Poverty should not have companion, cos its suicidal these days if one does not have cash in this era.

Free2Fly:
Millions of jihadists??! That's the kind of bad news no country would like to receive, because the higher the number of jihadists in a country, the more the chaos, divisions, intolerance, destructions, killings and underdevelopment.

Yea, as for the beheadings, you jihadists behead those who expose the lies in your religion, including those who abandon the religion or convert to another religion. You brand them ''kafir'' and their actions ''blasphemy'' and go after them.
That's well known all over the world where you exist.
I feel for that repented Egyptian, honestly

Taich:
The marriage list was there before he met the lady, if you marry a lady from my part of the world, you are married not only to her but to her family and kins. In the old days, they are certain privileges that are accorded to Inlaws even till today. The family didn’t manufacture that list, so if the young man feels he can’t do it, let him leave the young girl alone. The wahala in marriage is over bride price x100, so if bride price is a problem, certainly their future is bleak.

Villa12:
you're not ready for marriage truly. That amount is not much considering inflation in the country. People negotiate bride price list. My cousin a yoruba guy negotiated and he ended up paying 1.5m for the whole list. This happen last year.

Are you looking for free wife to marry?? So you don't know it's respectful you marry your wife properly?

Villa12:
na poverty dey do you nothing else.

udemzyudex:
This man is not serious.

Oga you can negotiate this, tell your people to negotiate the list.
The price will be reduced.

Movichabiodun:
Negotiating bride price
Does it sounds logical to you

Nazgul:
Chie. They even wrote God bless you amen at the end of the list.

The hussle is real.