Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye - Christianity Etc (3) - Nairaland
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| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Basicend: 9:43am On Nov 24, 2024*. Modified: 10:35am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Jesus and Paul in particular mentioned few words on marriage. You will see that they both permitted marriage but advised that it is better to stay single if God grants the grace. Marriage is not easy. It takes only the mercy and grace of carry it and carry the burden of God same time. As a man of God, your wife is only and always looking for an opportunity for you to loose guard, so that she can enjoy her marriage and have full liberty to do anything she likes. Women cannot be cagged for a long time on mountain of faith and holiness like men. . It is their wirring by default (check Eve's turning). If your journey in faith or battle in the assignment is getting tough, you will see your wife bringing alternatives later. When God asked Abraham to bring up Isaac for sacrifice, he had to sneak him out and hide it from Sarah, coz of course the faith of the woman will not carry it. People call Ayo Babalola man of power. Do you know the hell that man saw with marriage before he left the scene. Even I believe Idahosa would have spent more time if not for this thing. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by iramure(m): 9:47am On Nov 24, 2024 |
They also damage their members mentality with false teachings. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by advanceDNA: 9:48am On Nov 24, 2024*. Modified: 2:01am On Nov 25, 2024 |
FuckYeyeMods:Women are smarter than y'all..... Na una dey marry for love while most women marry for business, weda you are Ned Nwoko or just a regular guy making 350k or 70k per month, it's just business, love is by the way.... ......which makes them see clearly and act ruthlessly while y'all are being patient, quiet, being frustrated, being walked over.. ![]() Men need to start marrying with two eyes open...all these love or lust or wateva y'all call it is what makes men suffer in their marriage |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by ObalendeCMS: 9:49am On Nov 24, 2024 |
kingthreat:I'm air sign. Reason why I left my water sign ex; she wan suffocate my life. Damn! |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Sleekfingers: 9:50am On Nov 24, 2024 |
MrJames007:It means you haven't been paying attention to their movies. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by aswani(m): 9:51am On Nov 24, 2024 |
YoungLionken:You have totally nailed the realities of a typical Nigerian Pentecostal Pastors married life, totally. If those Pastors open up to you ẹhn, you will fear women. Whenever you see the wife of a Pastor being called a "Pastor Mrs" or even Deaconess, know full well that the man is going through hell, and I mean hell, at home. You cannot be ordained because your husband is, it is not passed on by penetration or insemination. Because your husband knows the Bible doesn't mean you do. Having said that, all Nigerian Pastors are fake anyway, every single one of them. They and politicians are completely useless. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Originalsly: 9:51am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Aren't there other men in the church who can't control their wives? So why single out the pastors? If the pastor is really a man of God then he should be following the teachings of the Bible.... and what does the Bible say a pastor or elder should do if he cannot control his wife/family? Is it he didn't read that part?...or he is disregarding it?
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| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by gohf: 9:56am On Nov 24, 2024 |
While many sons of God are happy in their marriages because of the daughters of God they married ✌🏿 P.S I am married as well e no mean say she no get her own wahala her, but when you have a mother and sisters you will understand say God can give you wisdom to manage women and avoid some unmanageable ones 😊 |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by dominique(mod): 9:57am On Nov 24, 2024 |
How many pastor's wives are enjoying their marriages? If they want to open up about the physical/verbal/financial abuse they suffer in the hands of their narcissistic husbands, our ears go full. The reason most pastors always advise wives to endure abuse and hardly ever admonish abusive husbands is because they are abusers themselves. When are they ever going to address that? It's always wives should do this, women should do that. Narcissistic pastors, STOP gaslighting women into submission! |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by MrJames007: 10:03am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Sleekfingers:Noo... Though I don't watch nollywood movies anymore, each time I saw their mount Zion movie on local TV channel back then, it used to catch my attention. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by BRATISLAVA: 10:05am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Yet there are loads of pastors beating divorcing their wives. This lopsided gospel is the reason marriages don't work. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by ufotunang: 10:14am On Nov 24, 2024 |
lonelydora:.. some pastors that are men also cheat on their wives and play away match secretly |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Osgilliat(m): 10:23am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Majority of these pastors don’t do courtship, no relationships before marriage. They said God will choose their wife for them so they go into the spiritual realm, they pray, fast for many days and then they will have a dream, in this dream they will see an angel in a woman form fetching water for them then the next thing is marriage with this angelic woman, who they don’t know each other behaviors. After marriage, no comparability, no respect, no love, no sincerity. Just Bible study, revival hour, Sunday service is what they do together. They can only pretend for a while but not for years. Have seen so many Christians life destroyed because they failed to do courtship all because they see a woman in their dreams. Been a Christian doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be able to have relationships, know the woman or man you want to marry and then pray that he/she is not just pretending because human can be very tricky and dubious. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Basicend: 10:26am On Nov 24, 2024 |
YoungLionken:You are very very wise. Truth. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by FireUpNow(m): 10:28am On Nov 24, 2024 |
All married men are not enjoying their marriages because of their wives. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Josbreed: 10:33am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Mike Bamiloye is one of the very few men of God I can vouch for anytime, anyday. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by ObiaboAdoka(m): 10:41am On Nov 24, 2024 |
lonelydora:Are u sure........... ? |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by maslow: 10:59am On Nov 24, 2024 |
nolzautoz: |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by godofuck231: 11:02am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Our ancestors were wise , if shes a problem or she misbehaves marry another wife |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by chidiokay: 11:10am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Juoflife1:If you say experience, not far fetched men like that are in position that affords them to see and hear things that are secretly shared |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by AntiisIam(m): 11:12am On Nov 24, 2024 |
AntiChristian:Do Muhammad has time for Aishat? |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 24, 2024 |
AntiChristian:Marital enjoyment and frustration is in all culture. So stfû! |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Free2Fly: 11:26am On Nov 24, 2024 |
nolzautoz:Exactly! I've always said this, but some yeye woman-wrapper men like one @Ibechris will never understand. To them, via their default brain, men are to blame for all marital issues in Nigeria. They don't know how terrible an average Nigerian woman is. To see the true picture of a Nigerian woman, just look at how she treats the people under her, like the housemaid, gateman, etc |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by femi4: 11:29am On Nov 24, 2024 |
ExAngel007:It's both ways, the men are culprit too |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Free2Fly: 11:33am On Nov 24, 2024 |
dominique:Just shut up, no man wakes up and start abusing any woman It's usually your unreasonable gender that starts the abuse and then begins to masquerade as the victim |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Honestey: 11:37am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Is there any pastor alive who is not enjoying his marriage? Pastors are the ones who help others find loves (matchmaking, join 2 together in conjugal bliss, see vision as to why A Paul should not marry a Rachael but Rebecca , mend breaking marriages through prayers and fasting etc. Obviously this means Pastorpreneurership defies an adage that says; "You can't give what you don't have?". |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by DigitB: 11:41am On Nov 24, 2024*. Modified: 6:55pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Many pastors are simps. Even though they have unfettered access to many puzzies, they're simps. That's why their wives "flog" them |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by kingthreat(m): 12:05pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
ObalendeCMS:I totally reckon ![]() |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Lumig: 12:07pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
This is an open secret. |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by correctguy101(m): 12:10pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Is that not "ayamatanga" I'm seeing? Old movie.. it all feels funny that this ancestor once found such a movie enjoyable... Life and Time sef... Smh |
| Re: Many Pastors Not Enjoying Their Marriages Due To Wives' Behaviours - Bamiloye by Starzo: 12:18pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
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