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Jman06:
Nonsense!
The child doesn't belong to the man alone but to the both of them. In fact, women enjoy the offspring more than the men because children tend to love their moms more than their dads in most cases.

And stop giving us the pregnancy crap because medical sciences has so much made child bearing and pregnancy easier for women.

We are talking of nature not man-made stuff.
A man can just walk away after sex - something that can keep a woman preoccupied for 2 years!
Nature didn't give us the option of walking away free and clear after sex, neither did it provide anything in men that counterbalances monthly menstrual pain and discomfort

Nonsense talk...

DaddyCoool:
Consider: even if a woman makes a ton of money, it's not the end (it is the end for a man - women will be available to him), she may still not get a man,

painting another pathetic, victim picture.....ur gender look for a man to parasitize once he becomes rich, and men allow it....e.g Ned Nwoko....
.a rich woman on can also do same..but hey! ur gender will say she wants a man on her level, be alone and claim Rich men are afraid of successful women...

DaddyCoool:
and she still has to personally bear menstrual pains, go through pains of pregnancy and birth

u go through pregnancy because u want a child or kids ...u need to stop making it look like u are doing someone a favour by birthing kids u also want
.....and by the way, ur period is an autopilot biological system that ensures ur body keep producing viable eggs so that you can get pregnant and have kids that u want...it's a two in one package.... madam u should be grateful for it instead of coming here to paint victim status of your biological nature...

DaddyCoool:
- she can't pay anybody do it for her.

You can if u want to pay..there are surrogate mothers charging small fee for the 9months journey...

DaddyCoool:
It's like nature wants a woman to personally suffer no matter what she has

U can choose not to have a child and avoid giving birth....and also take hormone blockers to terminate your autopilot egg producing and replenishing process... This ur victim game is becoming stale

illicit:
King no dey give shishi

They just collect
Will Ooni of ife have so many wives if he wasn't a king?

They collect anything, money, Salary, cars, women...

I'm from a royal family. Ordinary men give, how much more kings.

purples25:
I'm from a royal family. Ordinary men give, how much more kings.

Not like that...

They receive than they give

I know u understand princess

illicit:
Not like that...

They receive than they give

I know u understand princess

They receive, they don't DEMAND. Plus they are also as rich as what they receive.

DaddyCoool:
We are talking of nature not man-made stuff.
A man can just walk away after sex - something that can keep a woman preoccupied for 2 years!
Nature didn't give us the option of walking away free and clear after sex, neither did it provide anything in men that counterbalances monthly menstrual pain and discomfort

Except in the event of rape, men owe you nothing to warrant him 'paying' you with his money after consensual sex unless you're a pr0stitute who takes advantage of a man's horniness to make money off him.

Men are not supposed to pay for your monthly menstruation and the associated pains because we ain't the cause. If you want to be paid for that, ask mother nature! Besides, men also go through pains as well and we do not share in the medical advantages menstruation confer on women.

advanceDNA:
Women can't stand their own BS when dished back at them.... .....
..read through the thread...they missed the sarcasm by a million light years because women only see wrong doing when it's not them doing it

Accountability is not in their dictionary 😂, some of our genders are the reasons for their entitlement.

Sirhush:
Na true now. you requested for me to take you out, with my car, I will be the one to clear the bills too. So what your own contribution, or she forget nothing is free in this world

Pussy..is her contribution

I told one guy to call all the girls he has been taking out and ask em for 1k when he was broke and sick... He was mute cuz he knew none of them will respond

DaddyCoool:
What he said was nonsense NOT money

well he is just changing the narrative!

DaddyCoool:
You are so myopic. Do you know a woman goes through a painful week of bleeding EVERY MONTH, just so she'll be ready to have your baby. Do you know that after that sex a man can just walk away but a woman could be out of commission for 2 years (having and nursing a child). She has to go through pregnancy and the pains of childbirth, then nursing. A man doesn't have to worry about any of these, ONLY MONEY!

You just threw tantrums as expected of women.
You guys and double standards are inseparable.
The so called 'money' isn't easy to come by that's why whole lot of you guys don't mind being the 20th wife of an up and doing man.
Money isn't easy to come by that's why an up and doing man can charter a trailer load of women, using them as he wishes.
He fvcks this one today, and the next one tomorrow
The money you're trying to keep aside is the reason while your gender keep gunning for the most stable men to date or marry despite they themselves not having anything tangible.

Back to the issue of children, are you talking about the children that most often tilt towards their mothers? A man contributes more than 80% of the responsibilities and welfare of the children, what does he actually gain in return?
Money is difficult to come by, let's not keep it aside.
Money is scarce, that's why you won't marry a broke man because you are probably broke too.
If men evaluate their options and set standards like all these broke ladies do, there would be problems.
If a broke lady could set standards, why can't a rich man?

2 bottles of harp for my guy

speaking english does not make you more intelligent than me too

purples25:
You are the one who misinterpreted my post, you can see my response to others who asked about gifts from queens. You are simply quick to call others stupid. Speaking pidgin doesn't make you wiser than me.

A queen giving is not a core expectation of the king. I think I already explained how to others. Go figure it out.

maybe i did not see when you explained to others but i only quoted you because of this{Ever seen a king collect or expect gifts from his concubines or queen?}

it then now seem to me that you mean queens are not supposed to gift kings

nasbiafra:
speaking english does not make you more intelligent than me toomaybe i did not see when you explained to others but i only quoted you because of this{Ever seen a king collect or expect gifts from his concubines or queen?}

it then now seem to me that you mean queens are not supposed to gift kings

The queens can gift, but it does not really hold any value to the king except sentimental value. He can cherish their gifts and receive them, but he doesn't need them. He doesn't even ask for those gifts. The queens will rather rush to give because of the benefit of creating a relationship with him. He is forever bigger than their gifts.

So this social media king wey dey para sake of say him no collect one fund or the other, him no follow for kings at all. Fake king.

King? King no go ever notice woman and her money. He will spend and grace you with what you never imagined in your life. The lady will rush to bring out her small something as a token of appreciation and he will laugh in appreciation and choose whether to even like and accept the gift or not.

but you should not bash the guy he was just being sarcastic

purples25:
The queens can gift, but it does not really hold any value to the king except sentimental value. He can cherish their gifts and receive them, but he doesn't need them. He doesn't even ask for those gifts. The queens will rather rush to give because of the benefit of creating a relationship with him. He is forever bigger than their gifts.

So this social media king wey dey para sake of say him no collect one fund or the other, him no follow for kings at all. Fake king.

King? King no go ever notice woman and her money. He will spend and grace you with what you never imagined in your life. The lady will rush to bring out her small something as a token of appreciation and he will laugh in appreciation and choose whether to even like and accept the gift or not.

that post he made was an opposite of what lady posted,the lady posted she ghosted a date because the date could not afford her nails

nasbiafra:
but you should not bash the guy he was just being sarcasticthat post he made was an opposite of what lady posted,the lady posted she ghosted a date because the date could not afford her nails

I know. I'm just giving my opinion. Doesn't affect the guy. He doesn't know me.

damn

purples25:
I know. I'm just giving my opinion. Doesn't affect the guy. He doesn't know me.

its all good

purples25:
They receive, they don't DEMAND. Plus they are also as rich as what they receive.

U talk like princess true true

so where was the meeting,your lounge or her eatery

Okortor:
Only if most men can man up like this nigga , most bannies would learn the hard way...

Naso one undergraduate requested we meet, so I invited her over to my area which is on the island at lekki but she insisted i come to her side at ikeja but I declined being that she's the person wanting us to meet, so she should be coming over not the other way round. Eventually she came down, I told her we meeting at a lounge or bar but she insisted eatery so clearly told her she would be footing her bills since that's her preference of which she did, Naso banny begin provoke. Lol. I kukuma block her after the meeting. No time for nonsense!

advanceDNA:
painting another pathetic, victim picture.....ur gender look for a man to parasitize once he becomes rich, and men allow it....e.g Ned Nwoko....
.a rich woman on can also do same..but hey! ur gender will say she wants a man on her level, be alone and claim Rich men are afraid of successful women...

u go through pregnancy because u want a child or kids ...u need to stop making it look like u are doing someone a favour by birthing kids u also want
.....and by the way, ur period is an autopilot biological system that ensures ur body keep producing viable eggs so that you can get pregnant and have kids that u want...it's a two in one package.... madam u should be grateful for it instead of coming here to paint victim status of your biological nature...

You can if u want to pay..there are surrogate mothers charging small fee for the 9months journey...

U can choose not to have a child and avoid giving birth....and also take hormone blockers to terminate your autopilot egg producing and replenishing process... This ur victim game is becoming stale

Jman06:
Except in the event of rape, men owe you nothing to warrant him 'paying' you with his money after consensual sex unless you're a pr0stitute who takes advantage of a man's horniness to make money off him.

Men are not supposed to pay for your monthly menstruation and the associated pains because we ain't the cause. If you want to be paid for that, ask mother nature! Besides, men also go through pains as well and we do not share in the medical advantages menstruation confer on women.

Kingosytex:
You just threw tantrums as expected of women.
You guys and double standards are inseparable.
The so called 'money' isn't easy to come by that's why whole lot of you guys don't mind being the 20th wife of an up and doing man.
Money isn't easy to come by that's why an up and doing man can charter a trailer load of women, using them as he wishes.
He fvcks this one today, and the next one tomorrow
The money you're trying to keep aside is the reason while your gender keep gunning for the most stable men to date or marry despite they themselves not having anything tangible.

Back to the issue of children, are you talking about the children that most often tilt towards their mothers? A man contributes more than 80% of the responsibilities and welfare of the children, what does he actually gain in return?
Money is difficult to come by, let's not keep it aside.
Money is scarce, that's why you won't marry a broke man because you are probably broke too.
If men evaluate their options and set standards like all these broke ladies do, there would be problems.
If a broke lady could set standards, why can't a rich man?

You men miss the point, which is, NATURE (not man-made stuff) has been unfair to us women. I don’t see how that is debatable.
There is NO WAY a woman can NATURALLY avoid pregnancy and still enjoy sex. A man can simply walk away. We don’t have that option.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman goes through a week of every month.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman has to go through for 9 months of pregnancy (no matter how rich she is; she can't have someone else do it for her NATURALLY).
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the extreme pain of childbirth (once again, no matter how rich...)
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the loss of body shape and elasticity that results from pregnancy.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the duties of nursing that a mother MUST go through.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pains of menopause. Nature could have made it such that periods simply stop, but no, there is a prolonged period of pain and stress.
Another, nature fixed it such that old women are virtually invisible to the opposite sex. Not so with men.
Another, while men are polygamous by nature, women are hypergamous BY NATURE!! (we did not make ourselves that way!) resulting in possibility of a rich woman ending up without a man, and not by choice.
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?
Be honest, does the above scenario seem fair to you??!

* BTW a man can be born with money or easily come by money by luck. A woman can't be lucky with her own.

DaddyCoool:
You men miss the point, which is, NATURE (not man-made stuff) has been unfair to us women. I don’t see how that is debatable.
There is NO WAY a woman can NATURALLY avoid pregnancy and still enjoy sex. A man can simply walk away. We don’t have that option.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman goes through a week of every month.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman has to go through for 9 months of pregnancy (no matter how rich she is; she can't have someone else do it for her NATURALLY).
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the extreme pain of childbirth (once again, no matter how rich...)
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the loss of body shape and elasticity that results from pregnancy.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the duties of nursing a mother MUST go through.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pains of menopause. Nature could have made it such that periods simply stop, but no, there is a prolonged period of pain and stress.
Another, nature fixed it such that old women are virtually invisible to the opposite sex. Not so with men.
Another, while men are polygamous by nature, women are hypergamous BY NATURE!! (we did not make ourselves that way!) resulting in possibility of a rich woman ending up without a man, and not by choice.
Be honest, does the above scenario seem fair to you??!

* BTW a man can be born with money or easily come by money by luck. A woman can't be lucky with her own.

I didn't even bother to read further as soon as I saw 'nature is unfair to women'
Clearly, women and cognitive dissonance are like bread and butter.
The way you guys deny reality is something else.
How exactly is nature unfair to women?
The said pains of pregnancy are temporal, they reap the rewards a million folds. The thing here is that women want to have everything on a platter

Kingosytex:
I didn't even bother to read further as soon as I saw 'nature is unfair to women'
Clearly, women and cognitive dissonance are like bread and butter.
The way you guys deny reality is something else.
How exactly is nature unfair to women?
The said pains of pregnancy are temporal, they reap the rewards a million folds. The thing here is that women want to have everything on a platter

Nature could have given men some burdens to bear too. But no, they can just disappear and go impregnate another woman same day, or move to Tahiti, or whatever they wish. You have to admit, the whole scenario is totally unfair.
By the way I added these:
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?

DaddyCoool:
You men miss the point, which is, NATURE (not man-made stuff).. have been unfair to us women. I don’t see how that is debatable.

I ddnt miss any point... u are just delusional to think that ur point is not debatable....clearly u just want your points accepted without considering a counter opinion....that's the problem with u women, u want pple to indulge all u say without seeing the flaw in your school of thought...

DaddyCoool:
There is NO WAY a woman can NATURALLY avoid pregnancy and still enjoy sex.

As in ....are we in year 1925 for you to be making this statement.? See u are just desperate to drive ur narrative......
First there are tons of natural ways to have sex and achieve earth moving orgasm without penis penetration...
Second...a man can use a condom and u spread ur legs enjoy the sex....everyone walks way...u dont use contraceptive, u dont need abortion, u dont do prevent anything and still enjoy the sex....so what else??

DaddyCoool:
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman goes through a week of every month.

..these things are on auto pilot...u are making it sound like u have to solve rocket science, brainstorm ideas, borrow money in the bank to have a monthly period...like wtf..a 10 year old does monthly period..
....but somehow this is the point u present why u should live bills free in life....it's pathetic

DaddyCoool:
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman has to go through for 9 months of pregnancy (no matter how rich she is; she can't have someone else do it for her)

Then don't have children like men dont...then u don't have pain..but u want children...pay for it...

DaddyCoool:
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the extreme pain of childbirth (once again, no matter how rich...)

then don't have children like men...no pain....

DaddyCoool:
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the loss of body shape and elasticity that results from pregnancy.

weda pregnancy and no pregnancy, ..everyone will lose shape, ...it's free radical action as a result of aging process its another auto pilot mechanism nature gave everyone ....please take some biology class..

DaddyCoool:
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the duties of nursing a mother MUST go through.

duties?? Duties that plenty women abandon?? Nigga pleaseeeeeee..!!!!.....u don't have to even nurse ur kids like men don't....

DaddyCoool:
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pains of menopause.

now u are just desperate for point...
U are crying u have period....still when menopause comes to stop the period...u are still crying ?? .....

DaddyCoool:
Nature could have made it such that periods simply stop, but no, there is a prolonged period of pain and stress.

nature ddnt cause all these things...some are specific to pple based on how they live their lives, e.g diet, etc... ...lots of women don't even have period pains like y'all try to exaggerate

DaddyCoool:
Another, nature fixed it such that old women are virtually invisible to the opposite sex. Not so with men.

nature made u invisible to the opposite sex.....u just like to play victim.....both gender reduce in attractiveness as they get old ...how it's a woman exclusive thing in ur head is starting to make me feel there's no point conversing with you...

DaddyCoool:
Another, while men are polygamous by nature,

everyone likes to fvck...both men and women enjoy having multiple partners because sex is sweet and lots of it is sweeter......data shows it...existing realites confirm it as we see how both men and women fvck around.....both men and women that do not have discipline are polygamous in nature ...it's not a male thing...

DaddyCoool:
women are hypergamous BY NATURE!! (we did not make ourselves that way!)

lol....hypergamy is social construct more than a nature's construct...so, nature did not make u that way......some of u women are just entitled, greedy, exploitative, pound, have unrealistic standards making you always want a bills free at the expense of another person...so u look for who's richer than you...it's just greedy modified in the word hypergamy
.furthermore...some of u look down on men at ur level because of pride..its not hypergamy..data has shown how women settle down faster by dating in the pool of men of their own social class or a little lower....because at the end of the day all these thing we call class are just social designs not a real representation of people.. so when pple step of out these social classification they easily meet amazing human beings.. ..

DaddyCoool:
resulting in possibility of a rich woman ending up without a man, and not by choice.

i dnt know if u are denial or u are just have limited information in ur head needed for this point or u are just desperate...
.. there are lots of poor young women without husband ..it's the same pride and unrealistic expectations I mentioned earlier....
.its pride that makes a rich woman not find a man because the truth is the rich men she wants are low in number...so when u become rich as a woman and decide u want only men richer than you ..the odds are already stacked up against you

[quote author=DaddyCoool post=133046250]Be honest, does the above scenario seem fair to you??!
It is fair...u just like playing victim....
Look at this...A man weda rich or poor can marry any type of woman ...weda she poor, ugly, a maid, or peeper seller, etc...Ned nwoko could have married any other high class woman....but he married a woman thats nothing .........a rich woman won't do that because of pride, what will pple say....etc...its ur loss..u can keep blaming nature though...

Eatery so She paid for the holandia yogurt with chicken she ordered, lol while I ordered bottle water and paid for mine too cos I knew she's a golddigger hence the reason I played her in such manner.

Hotspurs:
so where was the meeting,your lounge or her eatery

advanceDNA:
I ddnt miss any point... u are just delusional to think that ur point is not debatable....clearly u just want

Be honest to YOURSELF sir.
Nature could have given men some burdens to bear too. But no, they can just disappear and go impregnate another woman same day, or move to Tahiti, or whatever they wish. You have to admit, the whole scenario is unfair.
By the way I added these:
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?

advanceDNA:
.its pride that makes a rich woman not find a man because the truth is the rich men she wants are low in number...so when u become rich as a woman and decide u want only men richer than you ..the odds are already stacked up against you

This is like saying a man is not attracted to ugly women because of pride. Does she determine who she is attracted to??
I don't think you read this part of my post:
Another, while men are polygamous by nature, women are hypergamous BY NATURE!! (we did not make ourselves that way!) resulting in possibility of a rich woman ending up without a man, and not by choice.

advanceDNA:
weda pregnancy and no pregnancy, ..everyone will lose shape, ...it's free radical action as a result of aging process its another auto pilot mechanism nature gave everyone ....please take some biology class..

Mr. auto pilot, here are some biology lessons below. Enjoy

asiga:
On behalf of Port Harcourt chapter of the brotherhood, we are proud of you.

advanceDNA:
..these things are on auto pilot...u are making it sound like u have to solve rocket science, brainstorm ideas, borrow money in the bank to have a monthly period...like wtf..a 10 year old does monthly period..
....but somehow this is the point u present why u should live bills free in life....it's pathetic

You keep using those words "auto pilot". When YOU have to stay home from work due to menstrual cramps or heavy bleeding we'd see you call it auto pilot. And nature did not even provide pads or such. Even in the Bible a woman in menses is said to be "unclean"!

DaddyCoool:
Nature could have given men some burdens to bear too. But no, they can just disappear and go impregnate another woman same day, or move to Tahiti, or whatever they wish. You have to admit, the whole scenario is totally unfair.
By the way I added these:
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?

Outrightly denying reality is delusion.
You forgot to say that once a woman accuses you of rape that no one will believe you, not even man's fellow man.
You forgot to add that a broke young lady who marries an old man is smart while a broke young man who marries an old woman is a gold digger.
You forgot to add that women in 99% of the cases reap the biggest rewards from their children for the said child birth.
You forgot to add that a woman can divorce a man and at same time keeps receiving an alimony.

DaddyCoool:
Be honest to YOURSELF sir.

U keep telling me to be honest despite giving u honest counter opinions..see i'm not ur your husband or boyfriend that will indulge your victim hormones even when u are clearly not objective or balanced in ur submissions

DaddyCoool:
Nature could have given men some burdens to bear too. But no, they can just disappear and go impregnate another woman same day, or move to Tahiti, or whatever they wish. You have to admit, the whole scenario is unfair.

Life is generally not fair...
I don't see u saying its not fair to men that women that are nothing can just become rich because of a man..e.g reginal Daniels, Mrs tinubu, etc....u know how hard its is to make.money.. u know how many lives tinubu sacrificed to reach where he is??

DaddyCoool:
By the way I added these:
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?

See the truth is....from the begining of time...
men own up to their dirty behavior so a man's sexual fvck up is not so surprising when it happens but we'll all know it's still a fvck up..

but you gender's sex fvck up is always the news of year because u hide and pretend to be saints when we all know the reverse is the case...this is on u women .... We all like to fvck...sex is not a holy thing...we are all technically slúts at the end of the day..own up to ur slút nature amd no one can use it against you just just like men..... U can't shame the shameless