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DaddyCoool:
You are her man and you tryina bring in another woman. If it were you would you be happy about that?

mmadu4:
are u her only child

Vikto17:
My mother is becoming something else honestly... l don't know if it selfishness or something else...
l will be 30yrs next year ,have a business that is paying me well , my fiancee is also doing well for herself .....
l realize that each time l raise issue regarding marriage. my mother keep on emphasizing on building house first and riding cars...l feel she is either not in touch with reality or she is afraid the help l am giving the family will stop once l get married...
In either way l am gradually smelling danger...my parents may disapproved my marriage because of their selfish reasons...
The thought of it annoys me honestly,, because l intend doing this marriage with or without their concept.. how do l start handling this issue? l intend getting married highest by 2026.please l need ur advice nairalanders..

Nonexisting1:
People with wise parents oftentimes are foolish.

Vikto17:
explain... so l must build a house before l marry? if l don't have enough money to build a mansion l should not marry?

MondayOmoAdugbo:
This is why I'll always be that one off ... I no dey hear word.

Vikto17:
explain... so l must build a house before l marry? if l don't have enough money to build a mansion l should not marry?

Vikto17:
it is annoying bro.. in some family once u start approaching 30 they will be the one gradually pushing u to get married...but this one it is one discouragement and the other...
if they attack my marriage plans l will make sure l send nothing to that house ever

Vikto17:
it still doesn't justify anything.. l will still marry and start my own family bro...how do u think l should handle this,, if l lose this girl l won't be happy with them honestly...

Vikto17:
My mother is becoming something else honestly... l don't know if it selfishness or something else...
l will be 30yrs next year ,have a business that is paying me well , my fiancee is also doing well for herself .....
l realize that each time l raise issue regarding marriage. my mother keep on emphasizing on building house first and riding cars...l feel she is either not in touch with reality or she is afraid the help l am giving the family will stop once l get married...
In either way l am gradually smelling danger...my parents may disapproved my marriage because of their selfish reasons...
The thought of it annoys me honestly,, because l intend doing this marriage with or without their concept.. how do l start handling this issue? l intend getting married highest by 2026.please l need ur advice nairalanders..

Nonexisting1:
I have some time and in a good mood so let me drop this. You are not 30 yet, why the rush? You have a business that is paying well now but you are not sure about tomorrow thanks to our useless government. This is your opportunity to do some things before bigger responsibilities like children school fees start coming your way and stop you from doing them. Before going into marriage, make sure you're a man first and the first step to becoming a man is to have a place of your own whether in the village or in the city where you hustle. If you don't have the means, I can understand. If you have the means which I suspect you do, build a house and get yourself a means of transport before getting married. Not when your wife is in labour now, you'll be running around to buy recharge card to call Okey the keke driver. Women always push unprepared men into marriage and when the responsibilities that come with it are not met, they blame the same men. Your mother may also sense that you're not ready and is deliberately trying to slow you down. Sit down and draw a list of things that are needed to be done first before marriage. If your girlfriend can't wait until they are done, she is not for you. You're welcome for the 'thank you'. Now let me go ahead and make my dick available to this girl, she has been waiting.

Vikto17:
My mother is becoming something else honestly... l don't know if it selfishness or something else...
l will be 30yrs next year ,have a business that is paying me well , my fiancee is also doing well for herself .....
l realize that each time l raise issue regarding marriage. my mother keep on emphasizing on building house first and riding cars...l feel she is either not in touch with reality or she is afraid the help l am giving the family will stop once l get married...
In either way l am gradually smelling danger...my parents may disapproved my marriage because of their selfish reasons...
The thought of it annoys me honestly,, because l intend doing this marriage with or without their concept.. how do l start handling this issue? l intend getting married highest by 2026.please l need ur advice nairalanders..

PapaNnamdi:
There is nothing in marriage, don't let social media and your girlfriend's pre marriage behaviour fool you,

If you enter you go know say e better u de single .

Marriage go drag you down, I kid you not, mentally, financially, socially,
No good thing for a man inside marriage,
Na only woman marriage favour,

And your mama knw this but can't tell you the truth,

U fit marry now make ur wife wey no de do anything first you buy land,

Vikto17:
if l lose this girl l won't be happy with them honestly...

ravensckar:
If truly you meant what you typed above, then, you've just confirmed their worry that you're still immature and not fit for marriage yet.

There's no point explaining anything to someone like you, it's obvious that you're under a Naija lady's spell.

THREE CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE THAT ONE SHOULD NEVER ADVISE.

1- A man who is under a NAIJA LADY's spell.

2- A person who supports Arsenal FC

3- A card carrying member of the APC.