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Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by nosa2ekundayo: 7:03am On Nov 27, 2024
goslowgoslow:
The answer is simple! They cover up what they lack in education with good home care same goes to ugly ladies.
Lets stretch our imaginations with this ur talk.


The educated cover up what they lack in marriage with good academic qualifications abi?(Direct reverse of ur statement)

So you mean that the educated fail in marriage because they've succeeded in education abi?

But the educated is expected to know more, how come they can't maintain a marriage that an uneducated woman can maintain....
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Quebec91(m): 7:04am On Nov 27, 2024
cheesy
Softmirror:
🤣 Una narrative don dey change?! The narrative that is popular is how the bad girls a k a ASHAWO, RUNS GIRLS are usually very lucky ending up with good husbands.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by LoveJesus87(m): 7:06am On Nov 27, 2024
Exceed15:
They are actually the educated ones.
GBAM!!!
You killed it. Nailed it on the head.

Since I no dey drink beer, 12 bottles of Malta Guinness for you grin
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by InstanetTV: 7:19am On Nov 27, 2024
1Sharon:
Same thing slave masters did to black people.
Both looks similar and the aim is to control, but the results are different, the black man seeks to maintain and preserve his traditions for years to come while the slave masters wants to retain his property and do with it whatever he pleases without any resistance or opposition.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Tzar(m): 7:26am On Nov 27, 2024
It is simply because most educated ladies are not submissive,respectful, loyal and homely to their man.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by EMIOMOADEOYE: 7:36am On Nov 27, 2024
Gistmedia10:
A thought-provoking question posed by a lady has taken the internet by storm. In her post, she asked, "Why are most of the uneducated ladies so lucky in finding good husbands?" shocked

This query has sparked a heated debate, with netizens sharing varying opinions on what might be a complex societal phenomenon.

Some believe uneducated women are seen as more traditional or submissive, traits some men prefer, while others credit qualities like kindness or family values over luck.

Critics, however, reject the idea, arguing education doesn’t determine marital success, as educated women also find supportive partners.

The debate has sparked thousands of comments on personal experiences and societal expectations. What’s your take—luck, perception, or something else?
I don’t think it’s about luck. The first step is to clearly define what makes a "good husband." Then, we need to understand what a good husband typically values in a wife. Once these two aspects are clarified, the reasons behind this become more apparent.

For instance, some women may develop a sense of ego or superiority tied to their educational achievements, which can sometimes manifest as arrogance or dismissiveness. This might inadvertently create a perception of being less approachable or less willing to compromise—traits many men might shy away from when choosing a partner. Men generally tend to prioritize peace and emotional safety in their relationships, which could influence their choice toward women perceived as more grounded or nurturing, regardless of education level.

Ultimately, it’s not about luck—it’s about the alignment of values, perception, and what individuals seek in a partnership.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Smartjeezy01(m): 7:43am On Nov 27, 2024
She is 100% correct.
Uneducated woman makes good wife.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by kennethesan(m): 7:59am On Nov 27, 2024
Because they are humble maintain their steeze...

They know and move with their husband's flow so, they go far eventually. Unlike those who are claiming equality because of paper certificate.

No ship contains two Masters.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by phineas: 8:03am On Nov 27, 2024
Intresting thread,

Just so you all know, you can assess a man's ambition, and self esteem level from the kind of woman he marries.

What does that tell us about the comments we have seen so far on this thread..
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by NoToPile: 8:19am On Nov 27, 2024
Won tun gbe tuntun de grin

Nairaland I hail.

Today it's about educated and non educated women. Issorite.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by femi4: 8:22am On Nov 27, 2024
Gistmedia10:
A thought-provoking question posed by a lady has taken the internet by storm. In her post, she asked, "Why are most of the uneducated ladies so lucky in finding good husbands?" shocked

This query has sparked a heated debate, with netizens sharing varying opinions on what might be a complex societal phenomenon.

Some believe uneducated women are seen as more traditional or submissive, traits some men prefer, while others credit qualities like kindness or family values over luck.

Critics, however, reject the idea, arguing education doesn’t determine marital success, as educated women also find supportive partners.

The debate has sparked thousands of comments on personal experiences and societal expectations. What’s your take—luck, perception, or something else?
Most of them are submissive. Remember....1 cor 18:1 Knowledge puffeth up
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by tonyshine01: 8:26am On Nov 27, 2024
They are humble, respectful and submissive which could be as a result of various factors.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Exceed15: 8:31am On Nov 27, 2024
LoveJesus87:
GBAM!!!
You killed it. Nailed it on the head.

Since I no dey drink beer, 12 bottles of Malta Guinness for you grin
LOL
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Kingju: 8:43am On Nov 27, 2024
GloriousGbola:
I thought we just read the story of olajumoke on fp a few days ago. Did the uneducated bread seller have a good husband?

Meanwhile the reality is the guys who marry uneducated women set these women aside once they hammer and marry a posh educated baddie. This is a story we have all seen play out right to this day.
Play out in nollywood abi?
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by pocohantas(f): 8:47am On Nov 27, 2024
Rukevwe999:
Because they're believed to be easy to control. It's never about "humility".

Most guys here will never marry an uneducated woman. When they suddenly achieve money and status they'll become ashamed and embarrassed with their illiterate wives and frolic with "intellectually stimulating" women with PhDs and thriving careers. I'm a man and I've seen these things happen a lot.

A woman with bad behavior is even worse when she's uneducated because she can be more violent and uncouth .

Ladies don't let the fear of not getting married deny you from achieving some of your career and financial goals. If you don't have an educational or financial foundation to stand by you and you marry one anyhow man, you will enter one chance.
Thank you! I don't think any sensible lady would do this as there is no study to back this post up. Neither does raw observation buttress it.

Knowing the values some of the guys who have agreed to this post hold on marriage and women, I will gladly give my girl child education just so they won't marry her.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Jman06(m): 8:48am On Nov 27, 2024
This reminds of a close relative who was rejected by the so called graduates at the time he just finished NYSC and not doing so well financially. His mother simply found him a girl from the village who never even had her o-level at the time they got married.

Fast forward to today, the girl is a graduate and the couple now live abroad. Bottom line of the story is that if the so called graduates prove too hard to get, there's nothing wrong in marrying from the not-yet-graduates pool of girls, after all, there's no significant benefits of marrying the so called graduates as a man.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Timiskid: 8:53am On Nov 27, 2024
simplemach:
Because they can't loose on both sides, that wouldn't be fair on them. Lol
Is pride
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by lomprico(m): 9:34am On Nov 27, 2024
They respect their spouses.
That's the most important thing a man wants from a woman.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by emmeyen:
Very funny thread. Not surprised though. Different questions to devalue women everyday.

From what does she bring to the table?
How much does she earn?
What tribe is she from?
Today is for the question of whether she is educated or not?

My prayers is that may the likes of you supporting the fact that uneducated women make better wives never happen to any sensible woman.
And please remember not to send your daughters to school so that they can make better wives.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by pansophist(m):
If she is educated and knows how to be good wife, then she is preferable than an uneducated woman.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by nwirinedu(m): 9:56am On Nov 27, 2024
So many correct answers have already been given. Educated women tend to overestimate their worth, this is a known fact.

They forget that even if they settle down ontime they can still achieve the things the want to achieve for themselves.

Apart from beauty men are not really attracted to educated women, because their so-called certificates are worthless to any man who is financially stable. These women stop growing mentally, they re unteachable arrogant and stuck.

Education can get you the job you want, money and material things, but the fulminant that comes from someone committing to you for the Longterm raising a family is missing, as most educated ladies find out late in life: money cannot replace the latter.

Is education bad? No. Education without character evolution is bad.

Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by EllieJune: 10:13am On Nov 27, 2024
Because most Nigerian (African) men prefer a lady who won't be a threat to them success wise and they can lord over her as they please without any argument from her.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Xammie001(m): 10:43am On Nov 27, 2024
KingRex1:
Please learn the difference between 'there' and 'their' before the year runs out
Noted
Thanks
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Mindlog: 10:51am On Nov 27, 2024
nwirinedu:
So many correct answers have already been given. Educated women tend to overestimate their worth, this is a known fact.

They forget that even if they settle down ontime they can still achieve the things the want to achieve for themselves.

Apart from beauty men are not really attracted to educated women, because their so-called certificates are worthless to any man who is financially stable. These women stop growing mentally, they re unteachable arrogant and stuck.

Education can get you the job you want, money and material things, but the fulminant that comes from someone committing to you for the Longterm raising a family is missing, as most educated ladies find out late in life: money cannot replace the latter.

Is education bad? No. Education without character evolution is bad.
Same you, will not marry off your daughter when she finishes secondary school. cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by goslowgoslow(m): 11:56am On Nov 27, 2024
nosa2ekundayo:
Lets stretch our imaginations with this ur talk.


The educated cover up what they lack in marriage with good academic qualifications abi?(Direct reverse of ur statement)

So you mean that the educated fail in marriage because they've succeeded in education abi?

But the educated is expected to know more, how come they can't maintain a marriage that an uneducated woman can maintain....
Because most of them are arrogant and full of themselves because they are educated.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Amwitty(f): 12:20pm On Nov 27, 2024
pocohantas:
Thank you! I don't think any sensible lady would do this as there is no study to back this post up. Neither does raw observation buttress it.

Knowing the values some of the guys who have agreed to this post hold on marriage and women, I will gladly give my girl child education just so they won't marry her.
Poco always making sense. It's so sad how the average Nigerian man thinks its just so sad.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by OBTOREPA(m): 1:03pm On Nov 27, 2024
Samantha125:
Since she'd have failed at school, it then becomes her duty to excel in getting a good educated man that will elevate her.
Samantha my baby, you didn't invite me to wedding?
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Tunagee(m): 1:08pm On Nov 27, 2024
Jokerman:
Men don't like stress.

Educated women too get wahala in almost everything... Sex, Food, lifestyle, management etc...
Exactly. Me I dey find uneducated woman with a very decent and humble character abeg
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by nwirinedu(m): 1:11pm On Nov 27, 2024
Mindlog:
Same you, will not marry off your daughter when she finishes secondary school. cheesy cheesy
Oh ,she will definitely get married and live a fruitful life because she has the right orientation unlike like you that apparently lost and frustrated.
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Mindlog: 1:17pm On Nov 27, 2024
nwirinedu:
Oh ,she will definitely get married and live a fruitful life because she has the right orientation unlike like you that apparently lost and frustrated.
Get married off after secondary school to reduce het chances of being divorced. cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Samantha125(f): 2:34pm On Nov 27, 2024
There was no rice for you to come and chop... grin grin grin
OBTOREPA:
Samantha my baby, you didn't invite me to wedding?
Re: Why Are Uneducated Ladies Often Lucky In Finding Good Husbands? (Photo) by Ikemba007: 5:53pm On Nov 27, 2024
It is not luck jor
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