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I've sat down with some of my OG's lately discussing about life and so many other things In general and one of the biggest mistakes these OG's have told me that they truly regret in life was marrying the wrong women.

Telling me how they lost it all after divorce and how their bitter ex wives would go to any length to tarnish their image almost made me cry. In their words ; Mike Marry right or don't bother marrying at all cause if you marry the wrong woman it's 100 percent gonna affect your life negatively for sure.

So men pls ensure you marry right , the wrong woman would send you to your early grave , the right woman would make you live longer. In your spirit , in your guts , in your instincts you know the right woman and the wrong ones.

Life is already tough for a man and marrying the wrong woman would just put you in an early grave , a word is enough for the wise , no too much capping , marry right or dont at all
peace and love.

When I see these types of posts, I just laugh.
Because it is so funny how lots of men these days seem to be focusing on marrying the right woman blah, blah, blah.
How about you the man, are you the right kind of man?

When a man marries the wrong woman, his chances of going over marriage again is much more easier. But when a woman marries the wrong man, her chances of going over marriage gain, are at the slimmest ever. Especially, with babies out of her already.

YouandiAllofus:
When I see these types of posts, I just laugh.
Because it is so funny how lots of men these days seem to be focusing on marrying the right woman blah, blah, blah.
How about you the man, are you the right kind of man?

When a man marries the wrong woman, his chances of going over marriage again is much more easier. But when a woman marries the wrong man, her chances of going over marriage gain, are at the slimmest ever. Especially, with babies out of her already.

Marriage is designed to favour women, u hardly hear of women losing properties cause of divorce , the man has lots and lots to lose , paternity fraud is also anoda one , and that why he has to marry right if not he is bleeped.
If ur fixated on being d right man it's good but dat doesn't guarantee u would marry the right woman , and if u don't then ur bleeped. Cause in d grand scheme of things men lose a lot more than women.

MikeofKd:
I've sat down with some of my OG's lately discussing about life and so many other things In general and one of the biggest mistakes these OG's have told me that they truly regret in life was marrying the wrong women.

Telling me how they lost it all after divorce and how their bitter ex wives would go to any length to tarnish their image almost made me cry. In their words ; Mike Marry right or don't bother marrying at all cause if you marry the wrong woman it's 100 percent gonna affect your life negatively for sure.

So men pls ensure you marry right , the wrong woman would send you to your early grave , the right woman would make you live longer. In your spirit , in your guts , in your instincts you know the right woman and the wrong ones.

Life is already tough for a man and marrying the wrong woman would just put you in an early grave , a word is enough for the wise , no too much capping , marry right or dont at all
peace and love.

the key is to BUILD your life to the point that there is so much VALUE IN YOU..... and you own it to the point that you are seen as the prize, the woman will pay the price to be in your life... and if you keep growing and dont entrust her with too much........ YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE PRIZE, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE HONORED AND VALUED WITHOUT BEING AT LOSS.

REMEMBER......... in heaven there is no MARRIAGE. So no need to frustrate your life on something that doesn't matter beyond this world.

Build a life of impact and legacy and make marriage an OPTION only if it profits you and your vision in the long run. Else, you would be better without it.

This is my creed... I don't live for popular opinion.

God has never betrayed anyone
Money has never betrayed its owners
BUT
women have mostly been the downfall of men and civilizations.


so INVESTIGATE before you invest in any woman.
Stay strong

In what ever you do, only use and dump 9ja girls. They are all the same.

MikeofKd:
Marriage is designed to favour women, u hardly hear of women losing properties cause of divorce , the man has lots and lots to lose , paternity fraud is also anoda one , and that why he has to marry right if not he is bleeped.
If ur fixated on being d right man it's good but dat doesn't guarantee u would marry the right woman , and if u don't then ur bleeped. Cause in d grand scheme of things men lose a lot more than women.

While I agree with you that a man must find the right person to marry, so also it should be for the woman.

No need over swinging the pendulum to one side.

I love my life so much that I hate to stress it. I choose to be a happy man even if I'm the only man in that ship.

blackpanthar:
the key is to BUILD your life to the point that there is so much VALUE IN YOU..... and you own it to the point that you are seen as the prize, the woman will pay the price to be in your life... and if you keep growing and dont entrust her with too much........ YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE PRIZE, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE HONORED AND VALUED WITHOUT BEING AT LOSS.

REMEMBER......... in heaven there is no MARRIAGE. So no need to frustrate your life on something that doesn't matter beyond this world.

Build a life of impact and legacy and make marriage an OPTION only if it profits you and your vision in the long run. Else, you would be better without it.

This is my creed... I don't live for popular opinion.

God has never betrayed anyone
Money has never betrayed its owners
BUT
women have mostly been the downfall of men and civilizations.


so INVESTIGATE before you invest in any woman.
Stay strong

Oh my God ....how can I pay you back ..

May God bless you with that second paragraph....


Marriage doesn't go beyond this world..
So I'm less concerned.....once I marry ....sure I will make sure I marry the right person...but guyy....after that I'm totally unconcerned and won't regret...why?

Ain't taking any woman to Heaven...the marriage ends here on earth

Just be good in words and deeds....na only you and ur creator for this life...the earlier you knw the better

Normal normal Nobody gat your back than God ....so why revolve so much of your life around one woman who is human like you
.

Our lives as men shouldn't just be about the opposite gender....there is more to life than this

Women this women that.....

I will be fine with or without a woman

I came in this world alone...I am facing heaven's gate alone..
.
So no let something wey no pass this World disturb you too much

Set your gaze up beyond just women...A man's life shouldn't be defined by a woman