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Real Talk: You Gotta Balance the Game 💬

One thing is clear—if you want access to a lot of ladies, you can’t just go full-on hard guy. You have to simp/hard in balance. Being completely “alpha” or unemotional isn’t gonna cut it.

You can still chase. You can still double-text. You can call that girl multiple times and still maintain your assertiveness. It doesn’t make you weak—it shows effort.

Here’s the truth:

If you’re forming “alpha male” all the time, you’re gonna miss out.
Looks aren’t everything; it’s personality that does most of the work.
Unless you’ve got some extraordinary vibe or charm, being unnecessarily hard will cost you.
Stop following these online templates or “manuals” that make relationships robotic. Be real, be balanced, and know when to push and when to pull. That’s how you avoid losing girls unnecessarily.

REAL LIFE FACT

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Johnnoah1st:
Real Talk: You Gotta Balance the Game 💬

One thing is clear—if you want access to a lot of ladies, you can’t just go full-on hard guy. You have to simp/hard in balance. Being completely “alpha” or unemotional isn’t gonna cut it.

You can still chase. You can still double-text. You can call that girl multiple times and still maintain your assertiveness. It doesn’t make you weak—it shows effort.

Here’s the truth:

If you’re forming “alpha male” all the time, you’re gonna miss out.
Looks aren’t everything; it’s personality that does most of the work.
Unless you’ve got some extraordinary vibe or charm, being unnecessarily hard will cost you.
Stop following these online templates or “manuals” that make relationships robotic. Be real, be balanced, and know when to push and when to pull. That’s how you avoid losing girls unnecessarily.

REAL LIFE FACT

Try and add Money 💷 to your write up 👆
Poor girl wants money
Rich girl wants to be pampered which requires money
Olosho needs money like mad!! Otherwise she will steal your money!!! 😃 😃

Be masculine/ alpha but go overboard or out of touch with reality

Simp

Simp is talking. Why do female animals go for the dominant male. With your nice or good personality women will not appreciate you... They tend to love guys who don't even give them damn attention.

Ignoring women is attractive. Treating them like u v got no options gives them power over you.

Na konji dey worry this one.....

Make una leave'am abeg..

Nairaland guys eh 🤣🤣

Stupid SIMP

mariobalotelli09:
Try and add Money 💷 to your write up 👆
Poor girl wants money
Rich girl wants to be pampered which requires money
Olosho needs money like mad!! Otherwise she will steal your money!!! 😃 😃

Olosho stole RealityKings charger head.

FriendsAndFans:
Olosho stole RealityKings charger head.

Haa Omo I don cry 2 times yesterday
because of the charger head

These idiots instead of attracting money and the good life na women when U fit get foc U dey write novel on how to attract? Who do Una this thing

See this glorified simp.. wan give advice.. oga have money and women will beg you day and night.. do you know the amount of girls that beg to come to my house or for serious relationship ?? My current gf has spent over 180k on me and I’ve never given her a dime.. Dey play! Anyways not all guys can be an alpha so continue to simp it’s your calling.

Verydarkhearted:
See this glorified simp.. wan give advice.. oga have money and women will beg you day and night.. do you know the amount of girls that beg to come to my house or for serious relationship ?? My current gf has spent over 180k on me and I’ve never given her a dime.. Dey play! Anyways not all guys can be an alpha so continue to simp it’s your calling.

How do you do it ? I want to learn

chidifrank:
How do you do it ? I want to learn

first of all love yourself and focus on the bag… then everything will be added unto you..

Johnnoah1st:
Real Talk: You Gotta Balance the Game 💬

One thing is clear—if you want access to a lot of ladies, you can’t just go full-on hard guy. You have to simp/hard in balance. Being completely “alpha” or unemotional isn’t gonna cut it.

You can still chase. You can still double-text. You can call that girl multiple times and still maintain your assertiveness. It doesn’t make you weak—it shows effort.

Here’s the truth:

If you’re forming “alpha male” all the time, you’re gonna miss out.
Looks aren’t everything; it’s personality that does most of the work.
Unless you’ve got some extraordinary vibe or charm, being unnecessarily hard will cost you.
Stop following these online templates or “manuals” that make relationships robotic. Be real, be balanced, and know when to push and when to pull. That’s how you avoid losing girls unnecessarily.

REAL LIFE FACT

Nice one bro

I noticed most guys on Nairaland always want to claim hard guys when it come to approaching women. When you do your background check, you will find out most of them are the opposite of what they are. Don’t be shocked some of them are SIMPle but come here to act like strong men everything no be gra gra, sometimes you just have to act like mumu to get what you want not only in relationship but also in real life

Some of you just read to comment, you don’t read to understand & digest. I wonder how una take pass for school

Verydarkhearted:
See this glorified simp.. wan give advice.. oga have money and women will beg you day and night.. do you know the amount of girls that beg to come to my house or for serious relationship ?? My current gf has spent over 180k on me and I’ve never given her a dime.. Dey play! Anyways not all guys can be an alpha so continue to simp it’s your calling.

Money is very important but not everything.

If you have money without knowing the game they will just take advantage of you.

Some of them can even align with another guy to scam you.

One of the best way to keep them is by not trying to please them as they wish. Most women are like children, they follows men with the hand you give them.

I agree with you. All the people here shouting simps don't even have game.

First and foremost tho, work on your self worth first. The rest na bread and beans.

I will suggest you focus on making money first, drive good cars, wear expensive and classy clothes, na only women go dey chase u

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I won’t.
I’m not going to give in. I personally don’t care.
I’m not going to step over my own pride and trample on myself.
My sense of self is more important to me than being with some woman.