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And adage says we are the writer of our lives but I don't want to say I miswrote mine in 2018.


I have always been on frying pan with my family and all my efforts to create love between my mom and dad were in vain.


I have always been craving for an happy and joyful family in my life. Seeing my mom and dad laughing and kidding with us and maybe my wish is in my dream.


When I finished my OND program in Nov 2016 I decided to stayed in school with my few course mates because I knew if I come home I will never found joy.


These few of my course mates are indigenes of Ijebu Igbo. And they love roaming about pointlessly and I dislike this useless doings.


We will move from football field to gambling shop to Atéénu party and to where they never invited us. I dislike all these things but since I have no one to cling to or place to stay I have no choice to play along with them. They were even surprised founding me in their midst because I have my midst during program but my midst have gone to meet their own families.


In Jan 2017, I stopped roaming about with them and I applied for casual job in a local bakery in the same Ijebu Igbo. I will resume bakery before 6am and closed at 8pm and I will be paid 300 Naira everyday like that.


I could not able to use the money to do more tangible things but I succeeded using it to finance my project and the printing.


Till 2018 when I joined one private security company. During this time my colleagues at school are already planning for their HNDs while I'm thriving to survive on the street.


I have already been warned at home not to bring anything schoolsl stuff's to their ears. So I carried my cross.


I joined this private security company in Benin City. I traveled down from Ijebu Igbo to Benin City. And since then it was from one abuse to the other; from one insults to another to the extent that one day I looked at myself and I cried. I even doubted my sanity.

There was a time I was attending to a customer and I was speaking in English fluently, the customer looked at me from my toe to my head and hissed before getting away.


Security guards are seeing as unfortunate beings, human dogs, packaged slaves, poverty carrier and so on. I hate this experience


I never planned my life like this. Why? Why? I don't want to commit before making it God. God help me


Some customers will make your day but 85 percent of the customers you are to attend to in a day are coming to molest and embarrassed you whether you render the service to them politely or not.


I could not be able to save up the money to pay for my school results levies due to accomodations and feeding problems over 20,000 Naira they were paying me per month till 2022


In March 2021, I enrolled for a professional photography class at 100, 000 Naira for 1year training. And I catched up quickly in learning. Photography is very expensive but I believe God that I will move mountains through it. I needed another Master class to enroll for but money no dey now.


In June 2022 when I saved up to 120, 000 I traveled to school in Ijebu Igbo and when I got to school I was told by the school admin that levies has been multiplied by 3 for late payment. I almost wept out my blood that day.

I paid the affordable levies I could pay and I have their receipt and I traveled back to Benin City.

Last year was tough that I could not even walk with the kind of illness I went through. Thank God for the savings I have that I was saving up for my school levies it was what I used to give myself a good treatment.


And this 2024 again, '24 is going and I have not make it to bring my family back to the way I want it. Even at my age now I have not make up to get a family. I want to be a responsible man to my wife and children.


I don't want my children to smell POV not to talk of VERTY. Working as security guard since 27yrs old to 33yrs old and still receiving insults and embarrassment from mere customers. Just because of a penny, another person's girlfriend pedicure and manicure...


God when. Pls help me from above. I want a standard Life for my families God help

God will do nothing for you, you are on your own, the sad realities of life.

Ayomide11111:
And adage says we are the writer of our lives but I don't want to say I miswrote mine in 2018.


I have always been on frying pan with my family and all my efforts to create love between my mom and dad were in vain.


I have always been craving for an happy and joyful family in my life. Seeing my mom and dad laughing and kidding with us and maybe my wish is in my dream.


When I finished my OND program in Nov 2016 I decided to stayed in school with my few course mates because I knew if I come home I will never found joy.


These few of my course mates are indigenes of Ijebu Igbo. And they love roaming about pointlessly and I dislike this useless doings.


We will move from football field to gambling shop to Atéénu party and to where they never invited us. I dislike all these things but since I have no one to cling to or place to stay I have no choice to play along with them. They were even surprised founding me in their midst because I have my midst during program but my midst have gone to meet their own families.


In Jan 2017, I stopped roaming about with them and I applied for casual job in a local bakery in the same Ijebu Igbo. I will resume bakery before 6am and closed at 8pm and I will be paid 300 Naira everyday like that.


I could not able to use the money to do more tangible things but I succeeded using it to finance my project and the printing.


Till 2018 when I joined one private security company. During this time my colleagues at school are already planning for their HNDs while I'm thriving to survive on the street.


I have already been warned at home not to bring anything schoolsl stuff's to their ears. So I carried my cross.


I joined this private security company in Benin City. I traveled down from Ijebu Igbo to Benin City. And since then it was from one abuse to the other; from one insults to another to the extent that one day I looked at myself and I cried. I even doubted my sanity.

There was a time I was attending to a customer and I was speaking in English fluently, the customer looked at me from my toe to my head and hissed before getting away.


Security guards are seeing as unfortunate beings, human dogs, packaged slaves, poverty carrier and so on. I hate this experience


I never planned my life like this. Why? Why? I don't want to commit before making it God. God help me


Some customers will make your day but 85 percent of the customers you are to attend to in a day are coming to molest and embarrassed you whether you render the service to them politely or not.


I could not be able to save up the money to pay for my school results levies due to accomodations and feeding problems over 20,000 Naira they were paying me per month till 2022


In March 2021, I enrolled for a professional photography class at 100, 000 Naira for 1year training. And I catched up quickly in learning. Photography is very expensive but I believe God that I will move mountains through it. I needed another Master class to enroll for but money no dey now.


In June 2022 when I saved up to 120, 000 I traveled to school in Ijebu Igbo and when I got to school I was told by the school admin that levies has been multiplied by 3 for late payment. I almost wept out my blood that day.

I paid the affordable levies I could pay and I have their receipt and I traveled back to Benin City.

Last year was tough that I could not even walk with the kind of illness I went through. Thank God for the savings I have that I was saving up for my school levies it was what I used to give myself a good treatment.


And this 2024 again, '24 is going and I have not make it to bring my family back to the way I want it. Even at my age now I have not make up to get a family. I want to be a responsible man to my wife and children.


I don't want my children to smell POV not to talk of VERTY. Working as security guard since 27yrs old to 33yrs old and still receiving insults and embarrassment from mere customers. Just because of a penny, another person's girlfriend pedicure and manicure...


God when. Pls help me from above. I want a standard Life for my families God help

Come to Lagos, buy bicycle and join glovo or chowdeck. Start delivery and start saving. The earlier the better

Fvck life,God no care walai

Continue to perseverance as there is light at the end of tunnel, also there is dignity in labour

Just Continue the Hustle, OP.

But also think outside the box.

Think of other Financial opportunities around you that you can take to BETTER your life.

Everybody get him story to tell las las...But na who lose guard along the line,na him story no go sweet to listen to....

Op, keep on grinding bro......so long you don't give up and don't look down on yourself,na just matter of time.... everywhere go stew las las 🙏

Ups and downs everywhere

Real life hard pass quantum physics my bro...
We are all in this together: surviving the day and hoping for a better tomorrow...
I've got no advice tho, because I can't give you what I'm yet to practicalise....



I sell herbs remember

Ayomide11111:
And adage says we are the writer of our lives but I don't want to say I miswrote mine in 2018.


I have always been on frying pan with my family and all my efforts to create love between my mom and dad were in vain.


I have always been craving for an happy and joyful family in my life. Seeing my mom and dad laughing and kidding with us and maybe my wish is in my dream.


When I finished my OND program in Nov 2016 I decided to stayed in school with my few course mates because I knew if I come home I will never found joy.


These few of my course mates are indigenes of Ijebu Igbo. And they love roaming about pointlessly and I dislike this useless doings.


We will move from football field to gambling shop to Atéénu party and to where they never invited us. I dislike all these things but since I have no one to cling to or place to stay I have no choice to play along with them. They were even surprised founding me in their midst because I have my midst during program but my midst have gone to meet their own families.


In Jan 2017, I stopped roaming about with them and I applied for casual job in a local bakery in the same Ijebu Igbo. I will resume bakery before 6am and closed at 8pm and I will be paid 300 Naira everyday like that.


I could not able to use the money to do more tangible things but I succeeded using it to finance my project and the printing.


Till 2018 when I joined one private security company. During this time my colleagues at school are already planning for their HNDs while I'm thriving to survive on the street.


I have already been warned at home not to bring anything schoolsl stuff's to their ears. So I carried my cross.


I joined this private security company in Benin City. I traveled down from Ijebu Igbo to Benin City. And since then it was from one abuse to the other; from one insults to another to the extent that one day I looked at myself and I cried. I even doubted my sanity.

There was a time I was attending to a customer and I was speaking in English fluently, the customer looked at me from my toe to my head and hissed before getting away.


Security guards are seeing as unfortunate beings, human dogs, packaged slaves, poverty carrier and so on. I hate this experience


I never planned my life like this. Why? Why? I don't want to commit before making it God. God help me


Some customers will make your day but 85 percent of the customers you are to attend to in a day are coming to molest and embarrassed you whether you render the service to them politely or not.


I could not be able to save up the money to pay for my school results levies due to accomodations and feeding problems over 20,000 Naira they were paying me per month till 2022


In March 2021, I enrolled for a professional photography class at 100, 000 Naira for 1year training. And I catched up quickly in learning. Photography is very expensive but I believe God that I will move mountains through it. I needed another Master class to enroll for but money no dey now.


In June 2022 when I saved up to 120, 000 I traveled to school in Ijebu Igbo and when I got to school I was told by the school admin that levies has been multiplied by 3 for late payment. I almost wept out my blood that day.

I paid the affordable levies I could pay and I have their receipt and I traveled back to Benin City.

Last year was tough that I could not even walk with the kind of illness I went through. Thank God for the savings I have that I was saving up for my school levies it was what I used to give myself a good treatment.


And this 2024 again, '24 is going and I have not make it to bring my family back to the way I want it. Even at my age now I have not make up to get a family. I want to be a responsible man to my wife and children.


I don't want my children to smell POV not to talk of VERTY. Working as security guard since 27yrs old to 33yrs old and still receiving insults and embarrassment from mere customers. Just because of a penny, another person's girlfriend pedicure and manicure...


God when. Pls help me from above. I want a standard Life for my families God help

..
Get a egg and use the egg to rub your head and everywhere praying and breaking every curse holding you back.
Before starting.
Ask for forgiveness first and start the prayer.
Early in the morning like 4 or 5.
After praying take the egg to any junction and break.
Go back and don't look back.
Do it 7 days for perfection.
You can also get salt and use it to bath.Dont clean your body after bathing.
You can also make a declaration by stepping out and get a sand.
Take a sand and make a declaration with the sand then throw the sand away.
Then you can also get your early morning urine and use it to bath.
Don't doubt when doing this.
If you doubt it won't work

Sorry bro. I wish i could help but my experience is not great in anyway

The question is- are you willing to do what God asked you to do in order to experience his blessings? We expect a lot from God but we give so little of ourselves back. Can you stay away from lust of the flesh? Can you control your human urges to be angry, lie etc. When Jesus said carry your cross, what do you think he meant?
The cross is heavy and it's not about dancing in church, or church attendance but from within us. Give yourself 2years from now and watch your life change once you are willing to befriend your Bible and practice what it says. Be blessed.

SMGGroup:
Come to Lagos, buy bicycle and join glovo or chowdeck. Start delivery and start saving. The earlier the better

Bicycle or motorcycle..?

Try science 09066781023 WhatsApp

Nnamdipapa:
God will do nothing for you, you are on your own, the sad realities of life.

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