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Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

Just listen to urself , u graduated two years ago as a petroleum engineer still yet no work in this country, u av opportunity to straighten ur life u are saying u don't want to go, I guess somebody is playing with ur picture in the village

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Alright

Bro. You finished everything

NoahHadNoArk:
If you have any chance to leave this dead country, seize that opportunity as fast as you can and don’t look back.


Your friendssssss and girlfriends whom you reluctant to let go of, you will be of better help to them if you outside the country and sending them hard currency to better their lives.



Unless you earning 500k per month, living in your own house and having no fears for tomorrow then by all means stay back.

But if you buying beans 600naira a cup like I did on Saturday, 200 naira for one egg like I did on Sunday, and 1300 naira for a liter of petrol like I did this morning to fill my gen just to pump water since we’ve not had light since February,

If you worried about getting harassed on transit by clueless police officers standing at checkpoints seeking to fleece you of your hard earned money, if the name TPain is on your lips like every other Nigerian……

Go ahead and ask yourself why you even thinking twice about this once in a lifetime opportunity, if it’s not village people goading you into staying back so they can monitor your activities and have the final say.


I’ve said more than enough


My peace I leave you

"I just can't leave my friends here" so because of your friends you don't want to go abroad?

Aiye e ti bajee mehn..

I talk am na because of one idio.. ts

You can't leave your friends, bit your friends can leave without telling you,while there block your line, then after 6 years sees you miserable give you 100k ,then post it on social media.




To slap you and tinubu just dey hungry me

chai!

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

my brother why una dey talk like this. u may eventually regret when those so called friends leave you. for the sake of your future pls go
for your own life go
for the life of ur unborn baby go

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

An attention seeking post from a renegade attention seeker learning how to write fiction just to bask in the euphoria of seeing comments attached to his attempt on senility.

Pity.

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

No wahala brother. i sincerely agree with your decision.

LET SWITCH PLACES....I can go on your behalf. i dont mind paying you monthly allowance when i start working over that side. Overseas isn't good for you right now, maybe later.
Should i send my contact.

Wahala

That is the more reason why you should take thos opportunity to give your unborn child a better life he or she deserve. If you seize the opportunity, you will be a stable man after like years in the UK then you'll find a way to bring in your family. A lot of people are looking for the opportunity you want to waste

Episode22:
my girlfriend is pregnant, only me know about it for now.. im still in my mother's house..

If you are rejecting the offer because of your girlfriend... You wil regret it. Don't throw a good opportunity because of a woman.

Episode22:
my girlfriend is pregnant, only me know about it for now.. im still in my mother's house..

Just imagine, wait how old are u again becus it seems u are under 10 yrs old, pregnant GF kor GF ni
How are u sure u are the one responsible for the pregnancy self

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

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Bro can I represent you since you are not ready yet

If your girlfriend has the opportunity she will leave you without looking back.

I'm not a fan of everyone must japa, even if you have the means to, however, your reason for not wanting to seems to lack common sense.
You don't want to leave your friends and pregnant girlfriend, so you decline the offer, don't worry, your friends and girlfriend will soon leave you for similar offer, while you create another cycle of friends

If you dont God will p... you. Unless you are spiritual and God spoke to you. But I guess not cos you are ban*ing your GF.
Go first and return if it doesn't align with you.

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

come Mudiaga, so you finally brought this matter online?

Don't Bro. I can go on your behalf. I will be sending you money to take care of your wife

You don’t want to leave because of your pregnant girlfriend and you’re jobless…. Bring more LAMBA make I laugh. Yeye dey smell

Rule number 5. Never fall in love for love will kill you.
Na kpekus tie you down not to get sense.

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

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It's not a must to travel. It's up to you to decide. Besides, that free 'thing' you dey chop don enter your brain, so you can't think straight. We can't decide for you,juts weigh your options and take your decision.
Good luck.

Please of truely you love your girl friend..then do it for her..
I made similar mistake and today I am loving on regret..

Ur life first..then once u are made everitin will be given to her

Fake story.

Story doesn't sound true to me. Sounds made up

Please go!!!, don't make the same mistake some of us made when we were younger, i understand it may not be convenient for you now but please go, if only for the sake of that unborn child.

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

I do not care to read your fvcking writeup
All I wanna ask you is "ARE YOU OKAY"?

Alaye , you better back your bag jeje ..
You never know wetin God don do for you in that family of yours compare to someone like me .. how I wished I was opportune to have someone there or someone to even financed me there and will want me to pay back as soon as I start work over there any amount ..

You see , I may not know your actual or sincere reason behind this , but give it a thought once more , about 85-90% or replies here indicate you to go ..
My brother, go o ..

In the case of your gf pregnant , this mustn't stop you ..
If na me , i go don reach there gan before I go tell the lady and my mama . I go direct the lady go meet my mama . I go tell my mama about it say mama , please I don impregnate this lady , so so so ... Persuade my mama to dey help take care of her and some time dey send money home for the upkeep . In fact my mama no go even need my money to do that .. you better wise up ..even though you dey make $10k in this country, it is still advisable make you leave ... Come back for her later if she's still loyal .( She go gladly hold on because of the promise that you're coming to take her ) ..


Gba be ..

Let's change spot

Huh!
I smell lies hia...

SmartyPants:
Fake topic. A 29 year old still talking about not wanting to leave his friends?

No one can be that much of a mumu

How fake can he be? I felt he was just trolling when he said he "graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering"