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Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by NewDea4: 10:27pm On Dec 02, 2024
It's hard only for the ones who lack character/beauty...or money for that matter

So far you're bringing something to the table you'll surely get a mugu to commit to you in no time, it's girls who come empty handed that find it hard to score a hubby
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Natbrowny: 10:29pm On Dec 02, 2024
RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys
Legit point

Its worse with guys o...

Guy A - i chop bukky, amina, Theresa. Omo gals cheap just small money, dem don fall.

Same Guy A - Oya choose to marry, bro will begin to drop red flags on 23 gals on his list. Choosing one to trust n love will now be a dillema
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Fuckyoumod: 10:31pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
The words of a victim and an evening newspaper.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by HellVictorinho9: 10:40pm On Dec 02, 2024
Shey women don dey propose?
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by StUriah(m): 10:41pm On Dec 02, 2024
You don't seem to get the drift.

Marriage shouldn't be seen as an achievement or winning laurel. It is more of how you want to live at a later stage of your life [not really about true love perse]. It's all about finding and staying with a partner to achieve a common agenda (true, there may be love, but love alone cannot sustain the rigors of time. What keeps you standing is the bond - the promise - to be there for one another when the world feels heavy.)

In the winter of your years, when vulnerability creeps in and the crowds thin out, your spouse will likely be the one constant, the anchor when all else drifts away.


Even the children you nurture with your blood and sweat may eventually step into their own worlds. Their priorities will shift toward their own families, their own futures. They will love you, yes, but their ability to be present will ebb. In those moments, the one who will sit beside you, no matter how turbulent or tranquil the season, is your life partner - the one you chose, or failed to choose, with wisdom.

Life has a way of humbling us. Youth fades, strength wanes, and wealth’s allure diminishes. Money may grant you access to comforts, but it cannot buy the warmth of a hand that reaches for yours in the darkness. It cannot purchase devotion, loyalty, or the quiet presence of someone who genuinely cares whether you rise or fall.

Your friends, too, will scatter into their own lives, forming circles that may no longer include you. And if you’ve built your life on fleeting pleasures or empty pursuits, you may find yourself standing alone, a lone ranger in the wilderness of loneliness. Yes, your money might buy you on & off love peddlers, gold diggers, maidservants, or paid care givers, but their presence will never fill the void of genuine connection.

So, think deeply, before setting out on paths that lead to emptiness. Don’t let the shine of the present blind you to the shadows of the future. Choose wisely now, so that regret does not become your companion in the years to come.



MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that seen marriage as an achievement or winning laurel, but for those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by ogascomax: 10:43pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Na lie you dey lie. You aren't happy that you couldn't have a working relationship. Nothing sweet pass good relationship for this life. You are most happier when you have a complete family.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Confirmedzombie: 10:52pm On Dec 02, 2024
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This Account has been hacked. I expected much Bible verses and quote.

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I release God's wrath upon them though His mercies endureth gorever
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Confirmedzombie: 10:57pm On Dec 02, 2024
Righteousness2:
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Pastor Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.

You need to go on your knees and ask God for forgiveness.

What shall it profit you if you gain this world and lose your soul.

You must come back to the Lord. We won't allow you to backside.

Jesus is calling you today, He says come let us reason together, though your sins be as scarlet He will make them be as white as snow.

My wonderful brother return to the Lord for tomorrow may be too late.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by AngelicBeing: 10:58pm On Dec 02, 2024
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Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by cr7lomo: 10:58pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Ur problem is ur bad character and not marriage.... as they say , misery loves companion
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Zooposki(f): 11:01pm On Dec 02, 2024
luminouz:
Divorced late night newspaper has spoken ..
Loneliness dey kill you but you dey form....shiooiir

Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Zooposki(f): 11:04pm On Dec 02, 2024
G0Oodharddick:
Men are easy to get abi? Oya go and get Elon musk, Cristano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi na let's see, abi are they not men?

Dear Women,

The earlier you understand that men have the key to commitment in relationship and marriage, the better for you!

A girl can say she wants to get married before 24, 25, but once a man doesn't show commitment in marrying her, she'll be single till 30! That's to tell you that men are the prize!

Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by djon78(m): 11:05pm On Dec 02, 2024
RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys
Na boys you are talking about

Not Men
Real Men understand that they are the price

Na dem they ask for marriage
So they must calculate there options very well
Vet whomever they are commiting to be the mother of there children

Serious Men that understand the game
Know how important and value there commitment
Marrying a woman.

So they don't mess up with it
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by cr7lomo: 11:05pm On Dec 02, 2024
Hemanwel:
Stop discouraging the younger and upcoming generation from going into marriage. It didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others.
.misery loves companion
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Zooposki(f): 11:06pm On Dec 02, 2024
Bar1941:
Men don show this one shege!

Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Zooposki(f):
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by XAUBulls: 11:12pm On Dec 02, 2024
Gistmedia10:
Social media user ThatBlessedGirl stirred online conversations with her post:

"Girls will think men are easy and cheap to get. Until it’s time to get married. You’ll realise that commitment from men might even require you to go to Shiloh." shocked

This statement highlights the challenges women face when seeking long-term commitment from men, particularly in the context of marriage. The mention of Shiloh, a well-known annual Christian prayer retreat, implies the level of spiritual dedication some may feel is necessary to secure a serious commitment. shocked

Netizens flooded the comment section with divided opinions. Some agreed, sharing personal experiences of how men often hesitate to commit, while others felt it unfairly placed blame on women.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by histemple: 11:12pm On Dec 02, 2024
Getting a person to sleep with you is not the same thing as getting someone to marry you. Most people that will rush to sleep with you, will NEVER want to marry you.

And there is no way to find out until you now want a marriage with them.

Some married women do not even know this. They have men admiring them and willing to "spoil them".

But the moment they leave the marriage to become single mothers and available, those men will withdraw and change automatically. They just simply don't want commitment and the responsibility.

They now discover that it's difficult to get a man for keeps, especially the kind they truly want. And then they begin to move from one married man to another. Yet still spending most nights alone because the married man will be with his family.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Zooposki(f): 11:12pm On Dec 02, 2024
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by djon78(m): 11:14pm On Dec 02, 2024
[quote author=Zooposki post=133137033][/quote]Who is worrying about a woman doing well?

Mtschew....

What does a man that have got his acts together by envying a woman that is successful?

A man that have got his acts together will function more with a woman he molded according to his taste and fashion

Or why is the husband during wedding called a bride groom?

Grooming means to train, to mold

So invariably any man with this understanding will find a partner that best suits him and his personality

But many guys have not come to that understanding

It requires a high level of awareness to get it
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Zooposki(f): 11:30pm On Dec 02, 2024
djon78:
Who is worrying about a woman doing well?

Mtschew....

What does a man that have got his acts together by envying a woman that is successful?

A man that have got his acts together will function more with a woman he molded according to his taste and fashion

Or why is the husband during wedding called a bride groom?

Grooming means to train, to mold

So invariably any man with this understanding will find a partner that best suits him and his personality

But many guys have not come to that understanding

It requires a high level of awareness to get it
Keep molding/training/grooming. Once she wakes up the marriage is done and over with.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by dreamwords: 11:39pm On Dec 02, 2024
RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys
baba na only you
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by membranus:
[quote author=Zooposki post=133137001][/quote]If married men live longer, then why are many houses across Nigeria, and even all over the world have landladies whose husbands (and supposedly builders) have long since died? Therefore being married does not necessarily translate to long life for men, but that the additional responsibility of being married leads to excess burden which may kill the man untimely.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Akpaamunsi: 11:50pm On Dec 02, 2024
RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys
illicit:
Exactly

It's same for every gender

To date no be big problem, but to marry hard o
Both of you should stop deceiving yourselves, kids. That you both find it difficult to get a wife doesn't mean other men have the same issue. A man can choose to get married and find a wife at anytime as long as he is capable. The worst that can happen is that he may get married to the wrong person. So both of you should shut the hell up.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Tzar(m): 11:51pm On Dec 02, 2024
You are so wrong! Only low value men struggle to find a woman to marry.
If you are a high value man who knows your worth and game, women will queue up to marry you. You don’t even need to be very rich, just be able to afford the basics and know your worth…. You will be spoilt for choice.


RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Jovi10: 11:52pm On Dec 02, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Know worry wait till old age starts knocking the. You'll know how valuable a woman is .
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Zooposki(f): 11:55pm On Dec 02, 2024
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by Oshin56(m): 12:02am On Dec 03, 2024
hotwax:
Madam, I don use promise of marriage fck many girls. Omooor girls are desperate for marriage. Forget about the online debate. Shilloh and holygost convention don see shege
I am not madam sir...
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by erico2k2(m): 12:17am On Dec 03, 2024
MadamVanessa:
shocked



That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.
Na so, Nah Dem
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by MadPolitician: 12:19am On Dec 03, 2024
They're at their most vulnerable state when their families start to worry them to get married. All of a sudden, she is ready to travel from Abuja to Asaba by road to see you. Na person wey dey demand for flights before oo
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by pansophist(m):
Any girl in her twenties that don't know this probably lives under a rock.
Re: Girls Think Men Are Easy Until It's Time To Get Married (Photo) by stevups(m): 12:40am On Dec 03, 2024
illicit:
Exactly

It's same for every gender

To date no be big problem, but to marry hard o
It can never be the same. Man can still hussle till 45, then get married but women getting married after 40 is not advisable
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