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MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

idahme:
It's not worse, the condition is both parties are already dating but one is willing to get married because basically whether she has something or nothing it doesn't affect her willingness to get married while for men it's usually not so that is why commitment is harder for guys than ladies. If the reverse is the case commitment will be harder for ladies than the guy.

The person who needs little or no finance is more prone to look for commitment because little is at stake while the person who has the money is more prone not to commit because a lot is at stake.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

udeh3:
The narratives of marriage is overrated is all time wrong. I understand the point of personal opinion, but not in this case due to your use of marriage and overated

You spoke about limitations, it's not the marriage that was limited but the players. No human being is created independent. Understand this and have peace

In business, you need the gig, in health, you need the professionals and so his marriage. If you want true independence, then, it's in the grave...

Marriage is an institution... An institution is built and heavily invested on. I strongly doubt your knowledge about marriage before you married. Maybe you thought it was the I love you I love you thing. You never understood marriage from the point of being an institution before venturing into it

Marriage is unique and it comes with it own challenges, but, it's worth the time, it's worth the confirmations, it's worth the investment and for men, do everything to be sure you're with the right partner to building that awesome but challenging institution that will stand the test of time

I come in peace

wonder233:
I agree with you on this. I was also once married, and it turned out to be the greatest delusion humans can subject themselves to. It is torture for two people to be bound for life. It is against human nature. The older people who have done it merely endured. Is that life? Lets have open relationships and coparent if kids are involved.

pocohantas:
Who cares what you wanna do?
Are there no girls that just wanna fck you too or is that not why you lot are crying all over social media? Abeg move! Na the women wey wan get una type I pity.

omooba05:
LegeMiami is a sure plug in this aspect.. Just be ready for curse and swear.. as your head no wan correct.. You dey look for cheap husband and wife.. just holla lege.. you must collect

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Ishilove:
Walking dildos 😁

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Freedom to do what exactly?

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

hotwax:
Madam, I don use promise of marriage fck many girls. Omooor girls are desperate for marriage. Forget about the online debate. Shilloh and holygost convention don see shege

StUriah:
You don't seem to get the drift.

Marriage shouldn't be seen as an achievement or winning laurel. It is more of how you want to live at a later stage of your life [not really about true love perse]. It's all about finding and staying with a partner to achieve a common agenda (true, there may be love, but love alone cannot sustain the rigors of time. What keeps you standing is the bond - the promise - to be there for one another when the world feels heavy.)

In the winter of your years, when vulnerability creeps in and the crowds thin out, your spouse will likely be the one constant, the anchor when all else drifts away.

Even the children you nurture with your blood and sweat may eventually step into their own worlds. Their priorities will shift toward their own families, their own futures. They will love you, yes, but their ability to be present will ebb. In those moments, the one who will sit beside you, no matter how turbulent or tranquil the season, is your life partner - the one you chose, or failed to choose, with wisdom.

Life has a way of humbling us. Youth fades, strength wanes, and wealth’s allure diminishes. Money may grant you access to comforts, but it cannot buy the warmth of a hand that reaches for yours in the darkness. It cannot purchase devotion, loyalty, or the quiet presence of someone who genuinely cares whether you rise or fall.

Your friends, too, will scatter into their own lives, forming circles that may no longer include you. And if you’ve built your life on fleeting pleasures or empty pursuits, you may find yourself standing alone, a lone ranger in the wilderness of loneliness. Yes, your money might buy you on & off love peddlers, gold diggers, maidservants, or paid care givers, but their presence will never fill the void of genuine connection.

So, think deeply, before setting out on paths that lead to emptiness. Don’t let the shine of the present blind you to the shadows of the future. Choose wisely now, so that regret does not become your companion in the years to come.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Honeydenz:
Just imagine!
I know that's what you guys normally use to lure innocent girls into bed, I pity the role God gave to a woman. If not for biological clock and menopause, you guys would have realised by now, that we love and enjoy reckless life more than all d men in the universe put together.

Gistmedia10:
Social media user ThatBlessedGirl stirred online conversations with her post:

"Girls will think men are easy and cheap to get. Until it’s time to get married. You’ll realise that commitment from men might even require you to go to Shiloh."

This statement highlights the challenges women face when seeking long-term commitment from men, particularly in the context of marriage. The mention of Shiloh, a well-known annual Christian prayer retreat, implies the level of spiritual dedication some may feel is necessary to secure a serious commitment.

Netizens flooded the comment section with divided opinions. Some agreed, sharing personal experiences of how men often hesitate to commit, while others felt it unfairly placed blame on women.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

RoyalUc:
Same with the guys.

I think that mindset and illusion is even worse with guys