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Onegai:
So painful!

I wish she had a support system, even the local mosque she attends or Nigerian community to rely on.

The Nigerians in the UK are not very communal-minded, everyone is in their own enclaves and mind their business. Even when they form groups, it's rarely to help out but how to benefit from taking advantage of one another.

Nigerians are not very helpful in general.

If she was Indian, a family would have taken that toddler in.

We need to do better as a society.

When we tell you government problems small compared to the people we no go hear word... Nigerian are not really good people its hypocrisy

This is just too saddening 😭😭😭

This people are wacko

I want to know how the son is British but the mother is classed as an overstayer?

Poor babygirl. May her soul RIP.

I hope the Carer will be held to account as they should not have agreed to look after the baby if they could not do so properly. This accident could have been avoided.

doggedfighter:
Why's her situation in UK that pathetic to the extent
of sleeping on sofa without a permanent home and asking for placement for a 2 year old?

And she got pregnant with a British son in that condition too.

Was she prohibited from bringing her toddler along while visiting her sick brother ?

It's situations like this that makes one value family and community support one gets back home.

This story elicits lots and lots of questions though.

which question. She chose to be a single mum cos she listened to Beyonce.

jaxxy:
ure implying the 2 kids have different fathers? If an immigrant family births their child in the UK doesn't that child automatically become a UK citizen?

I'm still curious to know where the kids fathers is while she's dealing with all this situation. It shouldn't be her alone. And I won't be surprised if she gets pregnant again in some months.

England and most European countries have scrapped citizenship by birth since as far back as the early 80s. The only way the son can be a British citizen is if he was born to a British father. I hope he's doing better now, it will be crushing to the mum to lose 2 kids and still eventually get deported.

Gemma11:
I want to know how the son is British but the mother is classed as an overstayer?

Poor babygirl. May her soul RIP.

I hope the Carer will be held to account as they should not have agreed to look after the baby if they could not do so properly. This accident could have been avoided.

He was born to a British father though she's an illegal immigrant. Babies like that are called anchor 🔱 babies and he's the one holding her down in the country due to his citizenship status.

dominique:
England and most European countries have scrapped citizenship by birth since as far back as the early 80s. The only way the son can be a British citizen is if he was born to a British father. I hope he's doing better now, it will be crushing to the mum to lose 2 kids and still eventually get deported.

Thanks for the clarification so I guess she has 2 baby daddy's and they are both not with her and no family there. That's crazy and complex.

I hope she finds herself and gets through these challenging period.

You love her so much, you Bleep born another one

May her soul Rest In Peace, holy innocent! Amen!

When a woman is out of control hell breaks loose

First of all, calm down. I was not apportioning any blame on the man, I was curiously asking about the whereabout of the father in all of this. If any thing I was wondering if the lady was deliberately keeping the kids away from their Dad like most women do when a relationship comes to an end. But because she just lost her child I didn't want to make that speculation. Hence I referenced "they" in my commentary.

VULCAN:
It's irritating when you are reminded that most females consistently show an complete inability to deliver balanced judgement on relationship cases.

From the time frame it's obvious that this lady broke up with her husband not long after relocating to the UK and likely did so believing that she would get her papers by herself.

The breakup was successful but the papers didn't come through and she was left to fend for herself.

Instead of you to speculate that like most women who feel that they no longer need their husbands, she probably didn't tell the ex that she needed help with their daughter and tried to go it alone as indeed modern feminism teaches.

You spared no thought for the man who must have scrimped amd saved to get his wife and daughter over only for her to break up with him and leave with the kids or her with the daughter and the pregnancy.

I am assuming the boy is his although I may be proven wrong as who knows whether his paternity led to the break up?

Even if that wasn't the case,do you know how acrimonious their split may have been?

Now you want to blame the man for not being around when she might have even moved away from the city where they lived together.

The UK is very hard for a single mother of two who is an illegal alien.

Of course, she is unlikely to accept responsibility for her bad choices as just like you did, it's easier to blame the man.

Fearurcreeator:
When we tell you government problems small compared to the people we no go hear word... Nigerian are not really good people its hypocrisy

a country is a reflection of majority of the ppl

nwirinedu:
Another irresponsible mother, she has not confessed who she truly went to visit. Do hospitals in the UK bar women from taking children to the hospital to visit a relative. She is using her crocodile tears to cover for her callousness.

be sympathetic

RodgersAkpafu:
a country is a reflection of majority of the ppl

Most Nigerians are gullible, entitled and less productive

ogaemma:
East London is one of the most dangerous places to live in London.
So many wicked, toxic and people filled with hate are there.
Unfortunately is the area in London that have the highest numbers of NIGERIANS residing in London.
We have over 1 million Nigerians in East London.
If you want privacy and peace of mind, stay far from East London.
Rest in Peace to the Beautiful Baby.

There are not up to 500K Nigerians in the UK. So your figure is misleading.